Lizzbett:
You wont understand...

Its not my intention to denial him sex, but the time he's asking for it, is always the wrong time by then am tired because of the work of the day. Am a private school teacher and you know the stress associated with teaching.

How do i tell him to think less of sex and forcus his mind in different activities?

Lizzbett:
You wont understand...

Its not my intention to denial him sex, but the time he's asking for it, is always the wrong time by then am tired because of the work of the day. Am a private school teacher and you know the stress associated with teaching.

How do i tell him to think less of sex and forcus his mind in different activities?

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

jeromestarks:

Please drop his phone number let's advice him on where to get sex.
We will show him how beautiful other girls are.
We will show him how tight other pvssies are
We will show him that your body is out dated. He needs something new.
Please drop his number and he will NEVER disturb you for sex again.

qtguru:


Haba , she's human she's entitled not feel sexually active, but thought it has consequences no lie.

jeromestarks:

I can't believe that a 35 year old woman does not know that she has to sexually please her husband. The girl daft.

qtguru:


She has a good husband is all I will say. Cuz when I hear sexless marriage na one person wey no dey see sex.

Lizzbett:
You wont understand...

Its not my intention to denial him sex, but the time he's asking for it, is always the wrong time by then am tired because of the work of the day. Am a private school teacher and you know the stress associated with teaching.

How do i tell him to think less of sex and forcus his mind in different activities?

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

Lizzbett:



Really?

Is there a drugs that will boost up female homones? Haven't heard of that before!

Sonnobax15:

The advice of the FTC on this thread na werey...How can you advise the OP to advise her husband to get a second wife knowing fully well that no woman on earth would want to do that,not even when she's provided everything by the husband.....

Las las,OP,try sit down with your husband and discuss everything with him.......No go take decision today wey go affect your marriage tomorrow...

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

Lizzbett:



Thank you dear.

Twice or thrice a week, sometimes, because of my refusal, he stop asking and can even stay for weeks without disturbing me.

For the family planning, he's been forcing me to go for it, but i refuse because of what i heard that it makes women to be fat and some even lose shape.

But i heard there is family planning for men, i think i will advice him to go for that, though I've not suggest it yet

Yugoslavia247:


If na me forget it. You go no say I no get shame. All beautiful tomatoes Jos ladies looking for married men will know I am available. I will wait for you to try talk nonsense.

Lawly:


This is the kind of wife I beg God to give me and not the olosho one that will want to kill me with sex like some women do their husbands and when the man tire dem go find another man go outside and make their husbands life a living hell. Sex dey tire biko. I prefer a woman that will always plan progress with me and always push me to more progress even when we progress and not the one that the only thing she thinks about is sex.

Ay04z:
there is very well.. My wife work in one big pharmacy... Will ask her.. D name again... Den will quote u tomorrow

Savedday:
See this one! She don they think how to go f*ck for outside.

Na the SIMP wey dey want cry because of kpekus I blame.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

emmeyen:
Some of you have no human feeling at all. Imagine how the majority of you are blaming the woman as if she did wrong by coming out to say what her problem is. You think it is easy to work, come back to do house chores and not be tired. Did you read where she said she used to like sex and she was not always like that? Na to just carry phone begin dey type rubbish....

Madam talk to your husband and let him know how it is with you. He is your husband not a masquerade. You should be able to let him know how disturbed you are. If you need help with the house chores maybe you both can work things out. You both can also try spicing your sex life up instead of making it a routine thing because it may be you are probably bored of the sex.

Instead of being disturbed about him getting a side schick or whatever, you both should really be bothered about why you no longer like sex as before and try to work around it. Leave all these ones threatening you of how you should let him marry another wife.


Na wetin dem dey tell singles be this. Sex is overrated. When you are not married it looks like if you don't have sex, you are going to die. After marriage, you see sex and dont know what to do with it.

jeromestarks:

I can't believe that a 35 year old woman does not know that she has to sexually please her husband. The girl daft.

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

Looter100:
shey na your marriage were

Lizzbett:



Am still waiting for your response

Lizzbett:



Am still waiting for your response

Soulmender:
Child birth causes a lot of changes in women. What’s happening to you now is common in some women. You can try some diet and supplements that’ll boost your libido. Sex is a very important ingredient in marriage.

Lizzbett:



Thank you dear.

Twice or thrice a week, sometimes, because of my refusal, he stop asking and can even stay for weeks without disturbing me.

For the family planning, he's been forcing me to go for it, but i refuse because of what i heard that it makes women to be fat and some even lose shape.

But i heard there is family planning for men, i think i will advice him to go for that, though I've not suggest it yet

cumoverna:
I can now say I understand why very handsome and married men patronize sex workers, women wahala too much,
As for you, it is like ur hubby now gets it somewhere else now.

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.