I love LD relationship but sometimes it doesn't work....

Samantha123:
You see? You've started again.

When I respond, you'll say I'm being emotional.

admit it, you were dumped.

Love defies distance

Youngblood007:
I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka. She entered uni before me though am catching up cuz of the strike. I really love her.

The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another. I won't lie and said av had some backyard business in school, but those sex were plainly out of konji and I don't really talk to the girls again.
My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him.
The last time I saw her was around February. She doesn't send her normal pics talk less of nudes, even when konji is squeezing my neck.
Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally.
I need advice on what to do.

All I can tell you is that you should face your studies. When you graduate and start working, you can then comfortably talk about woman.
Don't let her distract you.

I don't want to be tagged emotional.

So please, stop quoting me.. let me enjoy chatting with other nairalanders in peace.

Cutehector:
admit it, you were dumped.

Samantha123:
I don't want to be tagged emotional.

So please, stop quoting me.. let me enjoy chatting with other nairalanders in peace.

beg for mercy.

Samantha123:
If I didn't know better, I'd say you're my biggest fan..

hello dear, are u from South Africa or Nigeria

FORGET THAT YA GIRL.
YOU DEY STRESS YASELF FOR NOTHING.

RUN THINGS WITH THE ONES WEY DEY AROUND.

Samantha123:
Okay, since you can easily read women, tell me what kind of a woman do you think I am..

Lol.......i dont know you cos Ive not personally related with you in person

A few comments here and there on different topics on nairaland is not how u assess a person and tell the kind of person they are....

That sais, I only know a few of your isolated ideology in relation to comments u dropped on different topics here..and i can fallaciously say that u are a bit fair in ur verdicts

But from the last dialogue....u are a bit of a selfish person in ur idea of relationship.....u expect your man to go out of his way to do big nice things for you but u wont do the same because u might break up in the feature so u dont lose..

...i dont know if thats from a bad relationship experience or a conclusion drawn from existing realities that men are cheats and cant be trusted...

Slynation:
Two ignorant fellows deceiving themselves...!!

Last time you misinterpreted me, but it's fine.

I've never had a bad relationship experience.

advanceDNA:


Lol.......i dont know you cos Ive not personally related with you in person

A few comments here and there on different topics on nairaland is not how u assess a person and tell the kind of person they are....

That sais, I only know a few of your isolated ideology in relation to comments u dropped on different topics here..and i can fallaciously say that u are a bit fair in ur verdicts

But from the last dialogue....u are a bit of a selfish person in ur idea of relationship.....u expect your man to go out of his way to do big nice things for you but u wont do the same because u might break up in the feature so u dont lose..

...i dont know if thats from a bad relationship experience or a conclusion drawn from existing realities that men are cheats and cant be trusted...

South Africa.

ccollins:
hello dear, are u from South Africa or Nigeria

No

Youngblood007:
I have a girlfriend that is schooling in ekpoma while I school in Abraka. She entered uni before me though am catching up cuz of the strike. I really love her.

The problem is we don't really talk, we could stay for over 2 weeks without hearing from the other person. When I call her, she doesn't pick but she'll call back with one excuse or another. I won't lie and said av had some backyard business in school, but those sex were plainly out of konji and I don't really talk to the girls again.
My girl recently confessed that she had something to do with a guy, though she claims she didn't have sex with him.
The last time I saw her was around February. She doesn't send her normal pics talk less of nudes, even when konji is squeezing my neck.
Am really confused as we've been together for some time now and I can't bring myself to break up as I am very much attached to her emotionally.
I need advice on what to do.

For now, I will encourage you to study and graduate..Plus focus on little things you can do with your free time to make life cool for yourself..

If you want to die quick before your time, keep getting emotionally attached to a lady who can spend a 24hrs without checking you up to at least know how you are doing...And you said na your girl..Your girl wey no dey hear from you for two weeks, na our girl be that..

Somebody that will be camping for weekend now, cooking sunday rice for one guy around, you dey one corner the cry about.. sorry na her ring tone for bedroom go make you Emoshional soon lmao .

Anyway chase the cash..Very important.

Even ladies here, are telling you that distance thing na scam..Body no be firewood.

As you dey raise some girls leg up, them the raise the one you personalise...In relationship, your partner must be there for you..Distance is dead on arrival.

"Im sorry to break this to you, but there is no such thing as a long distance relationship." - Rational Male

In those days, I would have wasted my precious advice here!

Youngblood007:


Talking.....
We don't really talk that much. She told me to be patient with her but there is a limit to how far my patience goes

As my sister would say "you're in a situationship!"

HolyMan12:
Guy, just don't put your emotions in that relationship. before one day you go come here the give us epistle of how she serve you stale microwaved breakfast with plenty pepper and fresh onions.


Omo! Just take am as your fvck mate for now.

small boy like you taking women seriously, when I was your age I had more 15girlfriends and and like 3 steady fuckmates, your girl friend is fucking others dicks and you are opening thread on nairaland, at your age

In as much as you are an adult and can do whatever you wish to do with your life I will advice you not to carry woman for head most especially one that is not even within your reach. Fvck and catch fun as much as you wish but spend as much time to get good grades as well.

Kobicove:
Do people still engage in long distance relationships?

Oh yes! I'm into one. Communications nd trust is the foundation of every relationship.
If sleeping around it's her thing, my dear even when u are close, she will still sleep around.

Though distance relationship is not really easy, but it shows commitment and discipline even before marriage...
I'm speaking for myself coz it has helped me alot... Finally, the wait is coming to an end soon.

Samantha123:
Last time you misinterpreted me, but it's fine.

I've never had a bad relationship experience.

I misinterpreted you?? Really?? U were pretty clear about how selfish u will be because u dont want to lose in the event of a divorce

Samantha123:
South Africa.

Let's get married already or what do you think
The year is almost over

Samantha123:
South Africa.

U better tell him u own is moderate. because nigerians only think big yansh whenever they hear southafrica

Two Adults deceiving themselves

Every relationship get him unique problems. I don’t see anything wrong in yours if you balance it with schoolwork. Carry on.

Please, show some respect.

I'm sure you wouldn't like it if another man talks to your girlfriend this way.

advanceDNA:


U better tell him u own is moderate. because nigerians only think big yansh whenever they hear southafrica

Unfortunately, I'm not interested in having any kind of a romantic relationship with a Nigerian man.

Don't take it personal, it's just my preference.

Pells:

Let's get married already or what do you think
The year is almost over

Okay, if you say so.

advanceDNA:


I misinterpreted you?? Really?? U were pretty clear about how selfish u will be because u dont want to lose in the event of a divorce

GoooodHardDick:
How a sane guy calls a random Nigeria street girl "my girl" still baffles me till today.

The sooner you understand that you're dating yourself, the better for you. That girl is busy collecting dick from random guys and you're here Hoping and wishing for her? You don't date Nigeria girls you only bang their pussy, dump them and move on. Girls full everywhere Oga, stop behaving like a pussy ass niggar!!!

If u no marry nigerian girl and no money to go abroad then where u wan c girl marry

Samantha123:
Please, show some respect.

I'm sure you wouldn't like it if another man talks to your girlfriend this way.

Since when did having a moderate ass bcome an insult?? Anyway i apologize if it was insulting to you.....i ddnt mean that as an insult.....i was throwing jabs at we nigerian men...... apologies

Forget about long distance...NO RELATIONSHIP is worth it

Samantha123:
Unfortunately, I'm not interested in having any kind of a romantic relationship with a Nigerian man.

Don't take it personal, it's just my preference.

All Nigeria men are the same from your explanation