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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Cheasystickylov: 9:58am On Nov 07, 2022
Comradepreneur:
So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.

One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).

I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!

The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!

I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.

After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was [b]Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face[b].

I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).

He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).

Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.

After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.

After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.

What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.

One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.

All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).

I got angry and just left them there.

The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.

And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.

The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.

Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.

She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.

And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.

How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?

Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.

But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.

My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!
You are the eldest, the male, your parents are messing up your sisters future and all you do is to complain. Make every where un bearable for everyone. Unless you want your sister to be pregnant before you come back

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by BluntCrazeMan: 9:59am On Nov 07, 2022
Comradepreneur:
So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.

One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).

I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!

The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!

I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.

After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was [b]Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face[b].

I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).

He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).

Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.

After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.

After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.

What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.

One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.

All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).

I got angry and just left them there.

The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.

And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.

The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.

Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.

She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.

And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.

How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?

Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.

But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.

My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!




The whole of your family is in a big mess.


Like,, why condone such nonsense?
Why treating him with such a soft-glove?
Even if he is a direct son in the family, why would you all be so soft on him?

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Jozilinn: 10:00am On Nov 07, 2022
JASONjnr:
I got tired of reading your excuses....


You should make the house unbearable for him untill your parents decides who leaves and who stays.....


But, your religion permits cousins getting married to each other.....

Because, if it's a taboo as it is with Christianity....I'm sure your parents would take it serious.


I hope you won't wake up one day and all your sister will be impregnated by your cousin.
Report him to welfare take your siblings along with you, your duty is to protect your siblings leave your father alone he is just being foolish sorry to say please, from the 8 year,to 13,to 15 please take them to welfare the bastard should be put in jail fast... trust me your dad is going to send him away when he defiles your sisters right? Let him go back to his mother,us it now bad to help again...tell your mother about a woman that brought home her cousin who sodomized her 10 year old son.

I am feeling bitter right now,gosh sexual abuse especially by someone close is the worst experience ever... your siblings mentality is going to be ruined for life. Do the needful today and act fast throw him out of the house and get people to do it with you. If your father like he should try rubbish... Or better still let your mom tell her family members to handle the issue fast. If your dad isn't cooperating release his phone number I am sure by the time he is being spoken to by someone he would know it's serious.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by pansophist(m): 10:01am On Nov 07, 2022
You're waiting for others to discipline him, when you could have been the disciplinarian. The only excuse I can tolerate is that you've reported him once, but since the people you respected didn't care, then you take matters into your hands.

Even if I'm against lynching of thieves, the masses resorted to that because the police are corrupt who may collect bribe and free the criminals. So the public take matters into their hands. That was exactly what you should have done to that young Hot goat.

That young boy should even pee in his pant with your mere present in that house. Your voice should be the sound of doom. Like a rat, you should be his cat that he feared with every fiber of his being. You can't even protect your sisters. So shameful.

In fact your other family members will sit up when they see the extent you are willing to escalate things. As in, it should be the scream of his agony during intensive beating that would wake the whole neighbourhood up. Then they should say right there if they support evil.

There and then they will confess if your sisters well-being is not their concern. You're not fit to be an elder brother bro. I don't even have younger sisters but older, but no one (adults and her husband) dare mess with them. Talk more a young boy of seventeen? Mtcheew

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by siofra(f): 10:01am On Nov 07, 2022
Mtchewwwww!!

It's when he destroys your sisters that all of you in that useless house will come to your senses.

Islam hates women, it's no surprise the males in your house are looking away.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Chrisceejay: 10:03am On Nov 07, 2022
Tzar91:
You said that you are about to go for youth service and you are behaving like a kid. Break that sexual predator's head with bottle, if ur father yarn rubbish you give am better chanceing wea go shock am, enter the house park all the boy belongs come outside pour am kerosene burn them, if any of ur siblings talk shit tear am better slap, call the boy mama for phone immediately and talk to her like she is a nobody, behave like a mad man and watch yourself take ur place as the first born, even ur father will start to give u some respect.
Believed.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by VULCAN(m): 10:03am On Nov 07, 2022
Sorry to say this but there is a deep secret btw your father and his sister that explains the nonchalant attitude they are expressing.

I won't say more than that on that matter.

Also,I have never heard in my life that a sane man will be told that his relative is fingering his pre-teen daughters and he will let it slide.

Others have advised you to deal decisively with your cousin, so I won't bother to repeat it. Do it but don't hit his head while treating his fuckup to avoid stories that touch.

Do whatever it takes to get him out of that house

Just know that both your sisters will be raped and impregnated by your cousin if he is still there when you leave for NYSC

You will forever hate yourself if you don't handle him.



Comradepreneur:
Good evening everyone.

Even though I had vowed to myself never to bring family issues to this forum, I just have to vent this out.

I am 23, a male from the North. I come from a family of 6, in which I'm the eldest of my siblings (all my younger siblings are girls).

In 2019, my cousin brother, who is way younger than me (he was 14) came to start living with us just a year after his dad died.

Prior to his dad's death, we never spoke to each other whenever I visited his mom (my paternal aunt).

His dad was someone who was quite doing well for himself before death took him away from us (he was working with NNPC).

After his death, his family were divided (he had three wives in which 2 had died earlier. My aunt was the second wife).

His children from his first wife lay claims that my aunt killed Thier mom (who had died way before 2004), and even the third wife (who died in 2018).

Even though his wealth was shared according to Islamic rites, they were still not contented even though they had the lion share.

Well, just months after my uncle's death, my aunt decided to get married! (Just imagine someone being accused of killing her husband and her co-wives fa).

Even though my dad (her elder brother) was against the decision, she even went as far as went to her mom in the village and was crying when her mom rebuked her for her intending action.

At the end, she got her way, and remarried to a police officer.

The worst part is, she is still living in her former husband's house, while she visits her new husband in his house (they are very close to each other. Much like she got married to her neighbor! Since his house is just a stone throw from hers).

Well, to cut the story short, she has 3 kids (all male) for her deceased husband, the eldest being 14. The eldest son was sent to come live with us since their rooms have been given out to their elder brothers as part of their own inheritance (her kids only inherited money and the man had over 4 properties in strategic locations).

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Maforgreats(m): 10:03am On Nov 07, 2022
This is why u should raise ur family with a touch of vawulence, see as ur dad jus dey chop shitt
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Lucrativress(f): 10:04am On Nov 07, 2022
Naijatask:


Thank you for your advice.

I just realized I've been a coward and sissy my whole life.
Please talk to that your 8 year old Sister
Ask her questions
Tell your other sister to check her private parts
Don't make those girls scarred for life
Inflict serious injury on that animal.
Talk to your sisters and tell them to cut him with blade or sharp things when he does funny.
Tell them to scream
Don't take this likely
5 girls ahhh
Abegg ooo, talk to all of them
Ask them if he has not penetrated them
Tell them to all gang up and hurt him soo soo bad
While feigning innocence
Better teach them how to be mean and evil to him, please talk to that innocent 8 year old
Behave like a Big Brother
Big Brother's protects their sister's,not to talk about situations like this, that Animal would have gotten a life mark on his dvck.
Then you call your sisters out in front of him, take better Cain and ask them wassup right in front of him, do like you're raving mad, each time he's molested them attracts 3 strokes, get pepper.
Flog the Bastard, push your Mummy away, scream at your Daddy.
How the hell are you a weakling.
The way I protect my younger Sister, she calls me Mummy

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Firstcitizen: 10:05am On Nov 07, 2022
OgideAgu:
Just find an excuse to beat that boy, if not you will never know peace.
You should have started beating him the first day u saw him but u went to call a witness.. Na the beat go wake the whole family up nah... I just de vex for you I swear...

If u like use ur family problem write novel.... Go beat that idoit... Wound him also...

I just de vex for u.. ..wish I can use voice note

I support this. Just engineer and start a quarrel then beat the shit out of his dick. Make sure all the blows land on his dick. Make him impotent and las las your family will settle una two

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by siofra(f): 10:08am On Nov 07, 2022
What an idiot OP!! angry

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by oluala881: 10:08am On Nov 07, 2022
Just at the conclusion of the last NCE meeting I think last month, the minister of education ordered that sex education should be removed from school curriculum as I read from the ex ekiti governor's wife open letter.
The point is you guys in the north don't see anything bad in this demonic activities called sexual molestation, under age marriage, and you can notice that from the way your parent handled such a huge and grievous matter.
My advice
1. Control your anger so that you will not commit muderer.
2. If you can beat that useless entity just to let him know you've got the physical strength to deal with him.
3. Man Up to address this with your parent standing them warning of how you will get them implicated if anything happen because they look and sound complacent.
4. Teach your sisters sex education and how people may want to molest them and mention that boy's name to them telling you've caught him advancing at them. Let them know you care about them.
5. If you are not satisfied, I advice you go to the ministry of women affair in your state to report it, so that it can be addressed at the earliest stage.
Thank you
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by alibiz: 10:09am On Nov 07, 2022
Comradepreneur:
So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.

One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).

I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!

The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!

I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.

After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was [b]Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face[b].

I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).

He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).

Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.

After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.

After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.

What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.

One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.

All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).

I got angry and just left them there.

The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.

And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.

The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.

Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.

She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.

And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.

How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?

Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.

But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.

My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!
I will advice you don't take laws into your hands but report the incidents to you father family members or to the imam of your mosque, he will handle it according to your faith.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by ayoncox: 10:10am On Nov 07, 2022
Comradepreneur:
Good evening everyone.

Even though I had vowed to myself never to bring family issues to this forum, I just have to vent this out.

I am 23, a male from the North. I come from a family of 6, in which I'm the eldest of my siblings (all my younger siblings are girls).

In 2019, my cousin brother, who is way younger than me (he was 14) came to start living with us just a year after his dad died.

Prior to his dad's death, we never spoke to each other whenever I visited his mom (my paternal aunt).

His dad was someone who was quite doing well for himself before death took him away from us (he was working with NNPC).

After his death, his family were divided (he had three wives in which 2 had died earlier. My aunt was the second wife).

His children from his first wife lay claims that my aunt killed Thier mom (who had died way before 2004), and even the third wife (who died in 2018).

Even though his wealth was shared according to Islamic rites, they were still not contented even though they had the lion share.

Well, just months after my uncle's death, my aunt decided to get married! (Just imagine someone being accused of killing her husband and her co-wives fa).

Even though my dad (her elder brother) was against the decision, she even went as far as went to her mom in the village and was crying when her mom rebuked her for her intending action.

At the end, she got her way, and remarried to a police officer.

The worst part is, she is still living in her former husband's house, while she visits her new husband in his house (they are very close to each other. Much like she got married to her neighbor! Since his house is just a stone throw from hers).

Well, to cut the story short, she has 3 kids (all male) for her deceased husband, the eldest being 14. The eldest son was sent to come live with us since their rooms have been given out to their elder brothers as part of their own inheritance (her kids only inherited money and the man had over 4 properties in strategic locations).

Don't hate him, just drop his name and details here we will help you in handing him over to the police. But bro, you no get mind oh. You need to overcome your chicken heart

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by lomprico(m): 10:11am On Nov 07, 2022
Why dint you beat the shit outta the pervert the first and second time you caught him? Abi is he bigger than you?

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by bot227(f): 10:12am On Nov 07, 2022
Naijatask:


Thank you for opening my eyes on how serious this situation needs to be taken.

I'm honestly more disappointed in myself more than my parents right now

I understand your plight, presently I reside in the north and I can get your point with your parent being indifferent to your sisters condition.
First you need to fix the knob on ur sisters door before you leave. Since you noticed that, he usually goes after the younger ones ensure the elder ones take care of them, like taking to the toilet, bathing and changing their under wears.
Teach them (all of them) good and bad touching, tell the older ones to be very vigilant and report any suspicious moves coming from this cousins of yours. For those saying report to the police, they aren't living in the north.
I remember vividly a girl was molested by a teacher and the school was ready to jail the teacher but the girl's parent didn't want such, they claimed the need to protect their daughter from society scrutiny.
Always pray for your sisters and warn the mudfu ker, that you can arrange boys to bash his face and disfigure his pee pee.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by kingthreat(m): 10:14am On Nov 07, 2022
If you leave for service, that boy will rape your sisters. E sure die.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by dhtml6(m): 10:14am On Nov 07, 2022
This story is fake, I read everything carefully. All I see is warning, and preaching and talks.
Let me not even say anything, this OP, are you sure you are a MAN sha? Because all this pussycat talks you are doing is sounding strange in my head.
You are pussy-footing around, and you are really sure you care about your sisters sha? this guy is going to be doing treesomes e.t.c the moment you leave the house o.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by eldeens: 10:15am On Nov 07, 2022
Give him one of your sister to marry
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Depressed101: 10:16am On Nov 07, 2022
Comradepreneur:
So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.

One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).

I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!

The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!

I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.

After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was [b]Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face[b].

I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).

He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).

Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.

After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.

After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.

What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.

One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.

All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).

I got angry and just left them there.

The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.

And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.

The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.

Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.

She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.

And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.

How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?

Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.

But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.

My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!
sorry is this not against Islamic laws to rape someone? You should cut off the mfers dxvk... He is a useless rapist and pedophile..he should be hanged
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Depressed101: 10:16am On Nov 07, 2022
Comradepreneur:
So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.

One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).

I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!

The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!

I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.

After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was [b]Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face[b].

I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).

He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).

Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.

After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.

After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.

What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.

One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.

All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).

I got angry and just left them there.

The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.

And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.

The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.

Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.

She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.

And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.

How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?

Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.

But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.

My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!
sorry is this not against Islamic laws to rape someone? You should cut off the mfers dxvk... He is a useless rapist and pedophile..he should be hxnged
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by yerimastyle(m): 10:16am On Nov 07, 2022
I suggest you take the matter to the police because one day you might be push to commit murder
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by dhtml6(m): 10:16am On Nov 07, 2022
ayoncox:

Don't hate him, just drop his name and details here we will help you in handing him over to the police. But bro, you no get mind oh. You need to overcome your chicken heart
Some people are born chicken, some are born lion. Let us help him flush that predator out of the house.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by phemmyfour: 10:16am On Nov 07, 2022
Comradepreneur:
So, in 2019, my dad decided to take him in.

One night, I woke up from sleep and decided to go to the kitchen and get drinking water (my room is just outside the sitting room, and you'll have to pass the sitting room before reaching the kitchen).

I observed that my cousin wasn't on the bed when I woke up. I decided to take a peek into my sister's room and there he was standing, jerking off to my sister's face! She was barely 15!

The lights was on, and his grandmother (my dad's mom) who came visiting was also on the bed together with my sisters! Such audacity!

I couldn't even believe what I saw, and tiptoed back into my room and woke up my maternal uncle who was staying with us in order to be my witness.

After witnessing the act, the only response he gave me was [b]Why is she (my sister) feigning to sleep, while he was touching her and jerking off to her face[b].

I was shocked and couldn't even believe his utterance. Like bro! You was supposed to help me bounce on the stupid slowpoke harassing my sister, (your niece).

He just said that and left. With the little energy left with me, I opened the door, dragged my cousin brother out and warned him never to try such act again (I initially wanted to teach him a lesson he ought to never forget in his lifetime, but I was hugely disappointed with what my uncle did).

Even though I still reported him to my parents, there wasn't any punishment meted out to him.

After that incident, I completely lost the respect I had for my uncle. Agreed he had some issues with my mom (her elder sister) back then, but why extend the hatred to her children?.

After that incident, I still occasionally catch my cousin brother in the night in the sitting room, claiming to iron out his clothes. But I still maintain my anger since it's not as if I caught him going into my sister's room.

What broke the camels back, was an incident which happened last 3 weeks ago.

One of my younger sisters (she's 13) reported to my dad in the middle of the night that he caught my cousin brother in her room, jerking off at her face while trying to remove her underwear.

All my dad did was to woke me up from sleep (saying that he wants me to be the witness), and he was preaching to the boy on how his mom, is his younger sister and that he should talk if marriage should be done for him since he can't hold his sexual desires (like man, you was supposed to call me and we smack the shit out of him together!!!).

I got angry and just left them there.

The next morning, I told my mom about the incident, and she told me that my baby sister (an 8 year old) do complain to her sometimes about sharp pains in her private part.

And this happens whenever, my cousin brother is sent to take her to the room whenever she's asleep on the sitting room couch. And also, how one of my sisters told her that he once caught him trying to lift up her skirt while she was fast asleep on the couch in the middle of the night.

Right now, I'm Justin mad at myself and angry at the same time! I feel like a loser, a pussy who can't even protect his sisters.

The bastard is still living with us, in my room, and every day, my hatred for him grows stronger.

Even when my mom told his mom, her only reply was that he's still a kid, and she should forgive him. Someone who's 17!!!! For goodness sake!.

She didn't even called him out to kneel down in front of my mom and rebuke him. Nothing was done!!!! She didn't even spoke to him about the incident.

And whenever my mom makes her displeasure known to my dad, he always says that she hates his family, bla bla bla.

How can I reduce my hatred for my cousin? Or is my hatred justified?

Right now, he has been restricted into coming into the sitting room, anything past 8pm.

But still, I'm still sure things might just go back to being the same!.

My fear right now is, I'll be going for my youth service in a few months time, which means this bastard will be with my sisters unsecured!!!!
Embarrass him, your parents are afraid to do that so that he LL not bring shame to the family. It's better you give him a big embarrassment in the public
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Ovieemmanuel: 10:17am On Nov 07, 2022
OP. I like to see you one on one and beat the nonsense out of your head. Nonsense useless boy people like you would grow up and want lead people.what sought of nonsense is that somebody you would use better wire and finish his body. You should be the one they should be preaching for by now.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Allisgud: 10:18am On Nov 07, 2022
Call olopa on him
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by MelesZanawi: 10:19am On Nov 07, 2022
This guy will kill his cousin.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Amasimichael: 10:20am On Nov 07, 2022
Trust me you will never forgive urself if dat idiotic and cursed cousin of urs harm ur sisters sexually. God who made you witness his crimes wants you to do sth about it. Take action now or regret later. After camp u will be backbto ur house b4 u report fully at ur PPA. If u come bak after 3 weeks and hear anytin from ur sisters and still decide to play about it den God will punish you.

Wen my eldest bro caught a young man peeping at my sis bathing, my bro beat him so badly using even stick and stones. D injuries he retained were so serious dat my bro had to be arrested. After a couple of days he was released. The parents of the culprit were not satisfied and d had to venture into fetish n diabolic means to harm my bro. But God been pass dem. However, dat was d last time he tried such nonsense. There are men dat wud kill ur cousin on d spot for trying d nonsense he did.

Oga, protect ur sisters. U are d only person who can ryt now. Don't hate him, deal with him.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Taiwo20(m): 10:20am On Nov 07, 2022
Kindly wait for him to impregnate your three sisters before you take any action.

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Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by Lucrativress(f): 10:20am On Nov 07, 2022
alibiz:

I will advice you don't take laws into your hands but report the incidents to you father family members or to the imam of your mosque, he will handle it according to your faith.
For this type of thing
Immediate rebuff is better
Give the guy wipes with Wire
Like wtf! Immediate kind of thing
Then slap your sisters for not biting him and tearing his skin
He needs to make them understand the velocity of what he is doing
He screams at them and tell them, he is destroying your future, he wants you to kill yourself when you grow up!
That thing can mess up their esteem.
He should be a Lion and secure his damn pride before reporting to any Imam.
Re: How Can I Reduce The Hatred I Have For My Cousin Brother? by miyagi01(m): 10:21am On Nov 07, 2022
Guy! If that boy is not sent out, he'll take turn sleeping with ur sisters and that will affect their lives so bad, coz they'll grow up to be nymphos or to hate men. Do everything possible to send the idiot out of the house

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