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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Unyimekelvin: 11:21pm On Nov 09, 2022
My guy isn't shy, it's seems he is observing his kids around your big/small waist before making a move nd also to be sure if you will be able to bore him dozens of kids grin grin grin
Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by rickleye: 11:32pm On Nov 09, 2022
Perfectskills01:


It is not about being bold . You can be bold yet refuse to express your feelings. This lady knows the implication of asking a man out directly just like the same guy might also know the implication. The game will always rig against the one that first expresses feelings

hmm, then invite indirectly. Ask him to church or a get together. feel him out. Just waiting and wondering is a killer

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by frozen70(f): 11:54pm On Nov 09, 2022
Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department. Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?

You can start by sending him beautiful romantic quotes, that's if you have his contact

If you dont have his contact, get it from your group whatsapp

Go to him for lectures or courses you don't understand to put you through

Dont be surprise he too is finding a way to speak with you

The above suggestions will create a synergy for both of you to start relating more

You are a woman you are meant to be bold and courageous

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by sees1010(m): 1:12am On Nov 10, 2022
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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by BabbanBura(m): 5:47am On Nov 10, 2022
Oh Lord, what can we say!
Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by imagrg(m): 5:55am On Nov 10, 2022
Ask him why he's been staring at you and if he's smart enough, love talks would start from there and your already wet kpekus would later receive the juice from his preek and a baby would jump out of that kpekus and cry in protest! I swear!

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Dunkjames5(m): 9:13am On Nov 10, 2022
grin grin funny thing's are still happening
I remember been a very shy guy I would stare at a Lady letting her know that am staring at her and then expect her to approach me WTF grin
That nigga you're talking about is a fu**ING shy guy.
Sorry cheesy

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Yusufisraelj(m): 9:22am On Nov 10, 2022
JoeRizzla:


Bitc.h I have something meaningful doing but what do have nothing but a wide decayed tunnel in between your legs for lovepeddling. If you are not a Nigerian why seek opinions of Nigerians on this forum. Odeh

You be mumu? You day smoke Igbbo?

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by WholeLottaDrip2(m): 10:16am On Nov 10, 2022
JoeRizzla:
you can't ask him out because you no get money, Broke girls everywhere.

spits on your bald head

Fucc be wrong wit y'all nighas, well articulated sentences will still get misinterpreted just cos y'all wanna throw shades so bad. Bruh relax errthang is not Abt insult and all. y'all needa chill wit the internet bully lifestyle. Ong it's aggravating asl

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Brian47(m): 12:59pm On Nov 10, 2022
Do what you gotta do before it's too late
Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by meobizy(f): 1:00pm On Nov 10, 2022
Na only preek and toto matter full these Nairalanders brains.

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by SouthSouth1914: 1:01pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:


You are crazy grin.
Anyways, when i was sick and couldn't eat. Most people got me juice but he was like he wasn't sure of what i'll like to drink and bought me four kinds of drinks: juice, yoghurt, smoothie and tea.
If he's asking everyone questions directly on a group as a group leader, he will prefer to send me a text and ask me, making me feel respected.

Haha! This guy really has your mumu button. Makes you feel special, yet won’t ask you out. This guy needs free kponmo without asking for it!

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by SmartyPants(m): 1:01pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:


I'm really tired. I wouldn't be concerned because I have others that stare but i don't give attention but I'm cut up with him because I feel he likes me

A shy guy might do this. So also a narcissist. Flirt with him and see if he becomes distant. If he does, he was playing with you.

If not, he will make the next move.

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by AnaCheks(m): 1:01pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?
He only smiles at you, are you sure he's not deaf and dumb?

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Shezzman: 1:03pm On Nov 10, 2022
Professor Zee...
Zee0007:
Lions always stares at their prey before attacking.

First rule of every flirt:

Give them uncontrollable stare to weaken and fill their heart with unanswered questions.

Babe, use your head. Don't fall leaving your brain behind. Ciao!!!

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Romanoff(f): 1:04pm On Nov 10, 2022
Until someone tells you they want a relationship with you and both of you define it, thread carefully and don't build castles in the air or find yourself in a situationship like many people have.

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 1:04pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:
I can't speak of his sexual status cos i don't know but there is a girl in the same group that is seducing him constantly and trying all to get his attention but his attention is fixated on me. There are other things he does like inviting me to marriage ceremony and sorts. But, he never calls or texts. When peradventure i text him, I notice he waits most times 1hr or 2 hrs before responding

Lol, the guy has been reading many articles on red pill.

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by RichAbujaGuy: 1:04pm On Nov 10, 2022
Time registered: November 09, 2022

I don't entertain brand new monikers. Many post fiction stories for attention. wink

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by abobote: 1:05pm On Nov 10, 2022
Don't go and embrass yourself coz of an ordinary assumption

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by GoooodHardDick: 1:05pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:


Thanks for your response. I really appreciate it. I needed someone to show me another perspective. It's not that i'm blind. If a guy likes a girl, he should talk and everything. I think i made excuses for him and now, i have to reset my brain. Thanks.

How old are you that boys are now your priorities in life? As if that Wasn't even enough you created thread for it?

Na your toto dey scratch you so! It's obvious you're dying from lack of sex. No be only he makes you feel special. You better look for a guy and have sex with to cure your konji

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Emmacy001: 1:06pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Introduce yourself to him na
Ask him out..
Must you girls always wait for guys to talk first

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?
Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by histemple: 1:06pm On Nov 10, 2022
You have been waiting since January. Now you can't wait any longer because Christmas is around the corner. WOMEN!!!

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by GoooodHardDick: 1:06pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:
I can't speak of his sexual status cos i don't know but there is a girl in the same group that is seducing him constantly and trying all to get his attention but his attention is fixated on me. There are other things he does like inviting me to marriage ceremony and sorts. But, he never calls or texts. When peradventure i text him, I notice he waits most times 1hr or 2 hrs before responding

How old are you? I'm very sure you're still a teenager coz you obviously act like one.

Reveal your true moniker. No dey disguise again. Set awon feminist!
Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Emdebby2: 1:08pm On Nov 10, 2022
Why date your colleague if I may ask?
Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Lucrativress(f): 1:09pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?
He's got you already and there's a good chance he is not a serious person.
Whoever goes that way making you like him without putting concrete actions to it just wants to play you and have you at his beckon.

Let me tell you how it'll go
Out of the blues, he'll later walk up to you and still pretend like you mean soo much, you fall, start loving up and he wouldn't even tell you he loves you but you love him already.

Could push for sex, if you agree, you'd love him even more and then he's got your heart all in his hands.

You'd have multiple heart breaks, try winning him over when he's just been an unserious player trying to make you feel special.

So two can play the game.
When next you catch him smiling, exchange a bland smile.
Or flirt, feel free, loosen up and flirt with him openly.
Yup!
It's probably the next thing he'd do.
Do it.
So you start reducing those emotions already building inside you.

Don't wait for him to walk up to you or you might just loose your heart to him.

Guy will play you real good and you'll be crying very soon.

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by olisaEze(m): 1:09pm On Nov 10, 2022
Lucrativress:

He's got you already and there's a good chance he is not a serious person.
Whoever goes that way making you like him without putting concrete actions to it just wants to play you and have you at his beckon.

Let me tell you how it'll go
Out of the blues, he'll later walk up to you and still pretend like you mean soo much, you fall, start loving up and he wouldn't even tell you he loves you but you love him already.

Could push for sex, if you agree, you'd love him even more and then he's got your heart all in his hands.

You'd have multiple heart breaks, try winning him over when he's just been an unserious player trying to make you feel special.

So two can play the game.
When next you catch him smiling, exchange a bland smile.
Or flirt, feel free, loosen up and flirt with him openly.
Yup!
It's probably the next thing he'd do.
Do it.
So you start reducing those emotions already building inside you.

Don't wait for him to walk up to you or you might just loose your heart to him.

Guy will play you real good and you'll be crying very soon.


Chai! You don knock guyman job! grin grin

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Nobody: 1:09pm On Nov 10, 2022
Shybeauty:
Hmmm! I feel like ranting. So, there is this guy who has been giving me attention since the beginning of this year. This attention is so glaring to everyone in my department that most of the girls are beefing me. Whenever he sees me in the department, he moves into close proximity to me without talking to me. He stares at me when I'm standing afar. He makes me feel special in the department.

Sometimes, when i catch his eyes, he smiles discretely at me. Now, it's november and he's still not saying anything. I don't know what to do because earlier in the year, I didn't have much feeling for him. But now, I feel I have something for him. There is another girl in the department that is obviously trying to get him, but he doesn't give her attention but gives me attention. I am tired. I don't know what to do? I can't ask him out, that's out of it. I wouldn't.

If you've been in this situation before, how did you handle it? Please help me as I'm on the brink of asking him so i don't continue wasting my time?
The thing here is the guy is trying to smash you . My question is are you going to give him the kitten or not ?
Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by oluala881: 1:10pm On Nov 10, 2022
Babe, invite the guy and have a good chat, no go loss good man for your life all in the of " I can't ask him out". The guy might turn out good for you. So take that bold step. Your face show, your shoe shine.

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by Kendroid: 1:11pm On Nov 10, 2022
grin

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Re: I Feel Led On And I Don't Know What To Do by AdamuKD: 1:11pm On Nov 10, 2022
Candidlady where at thou?

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