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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Oesophagus99(m): 1:31pm On Nov 20, 2022
Give her a good warning kick outta your life... If she'd decides to mek amends u might think about Taking her back
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by livinbygrace: 1:31pm On Nov 20, 2022
Omoh , just marry for 10weeks ,though I am 44yrs but if what I am going through now is the real definition of marriage ,then marriage is total rubbish .How I wish I remained single and keep having baby mamas Instead.

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Oesophagus99(m): 1:31pm On Nov 20, 2022
Give her a good warning kick outta your life... If she'd decides to mek amends- u might think about Taking her back
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Arizoner: 1:32pm On Nov 20, 2022
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?
are you a born again christian?
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Oesophagus99(m): 1:32pm On Nov 20, 2022
Give her a good 'warning kick' outta your life... If she'd decides to mek amends- u might think about Taking her back
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by obokuntravels: 1:33pm On Nov 20, 2022
As for me, if I have the opportunity to come back to this world as man, I would forever stay single or better still be a baby daddy�

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Senator777: 1:36pm On Nov 20, 2022
You should have noticed all these before the wedding.

All these listed characteristics were in the lady I wanted to marry. We attended the same university together. I dropped her and married another lady that used to be my junior in secondary school. My marriage will clock 20 years by this time next year and I'm still thanking God daily for my marriage and giving God Glory for never allow me to make a mistake.

I'm blessed with three kids with two of them already in private university.

My wife is a polytechnic graduate. She only worked for like 5years in a company before she resigned and enter into business fully when she started making times four of her salary within a week.

Ask Holy Spirit to guide you on what to do in your prayers. There is always a solution if you will allow God to help you.

I hope you are a child of God because the only prayer God is expecting from a sinner is a prayer of repentance.

If you are not yet born again, return to your maker by accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. After that, pray to God, He will help you .

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by buzorcharles(m): 1:36pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.


Separate immediately. She just wanna get married. There is no love in her heart. She ain't ready. Talk to her abt the separation if She wanna work on her herself then give her try but if she don't care, bro move don't kill urself

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Positiveme2020: 1:37pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:
cool


Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

.

I feel you Bro,but the Koko na that picture below.

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Biggers82(m): 1:37pm On Nov 20, 2022
Are you just playing or something ?
Check your wife very well She is Cheating on you with one guy man.
Secondly go do DNA for your Children to know if you are training your Kids of Pastor's kids Check well well ooo

Or better still So you want to tell me that when you are dating her both of you Don't use to fuc-kk ua self ?
My friend stop lamenting and go outside your house and fine one
Sweet Side-Chick and date if you like impregnate her no wahala your wife eyes will soon clear and by that time you have gone far.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Edusouls(m): 1:39pm On Nov 20, 2022
ufotty2001:
I don't just know most ladies are not interested to learn what generates money.. I have forced my girlfriend to learn online skill she refused.. she is so comfortable with this her 30k job that do not take her to anywhere. That is why I want to break up with her
good break up with her and find a lazy chick that would always rely on you for urgent 2k,amateur kids everywhere
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Omootayo123(m): 1:39pm On Nov 20, 2022
But you saw this trait before you choosed to marry her.
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by dondavinchi(m): 1:39pm On Nov 20, 2022
U area foolish man
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 20, 2022
Agbebakun22:
u sure say ur brain process the information after reading? Abi u just jump to comment.

You wey ur brain process am, ur brain no process my one comment??

Onye brain processor
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by porthouse7(f): 1:42pm On Nov 20, 2022
Moh247:
cool


Na wa oo, there is always a way out, don't let her fustrate you...

While you have it at the back of your mind that divorce is inevitable in the nearest future, due to incompatibility

Limit your investment on her, both emotional and financial... Just see her like a room mate, or someone under your care

Try and avoid having kids or more kids, infact deliberately push for a family planning, so that in case of divorce, the billing won't wreck you

Ditch your wedding ring when you are out of the house and start looking for a younger side chick., You'd be amazed at how young girls love married men .

The intresting part is side chick are cheaper than all this lability housewife, and they are always humble and caring, because they hope to get married to you some day and turn monster like your wife.

A low budget small girl side chick with just 10k weekly and some urgent 2k, would knack you, cook for you and practically adore you

Once your wife start noticing you are more lively and less miserable, you are chatting all through the night with your side chick and you are looking good, she would panic and have a change of heart

Ohh!! And remember Polygamy is perfectly normal in Africa, the white man only decieved you with the idea of one man one woman just to turn you to simp and also turn you to Bobrisky

.
hmmm u are a bad O.G

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Wisfem: 1:44pm On Nov 20, 2022
AntiWailer:


Calm down. Sit her down and talk to her.

Let her know how frustrated you are about this, Give instances and what your expectations were.

Hear her out too and try to work things out. As for sex drive, it is normal ladies lose their sex drive because of several factors. Just sit her down and hear her out.

Let divorce be last option, suicide is not an option at all.




Wrong advise... Sit who down, you think she don't have a man some where believe not on your own delusion..
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Arizoner: 1:44pm On Nov 20, 2022
Richy4:

God is not in the business of choosing a life partner for people anymore..U can bring anyone, and he will bless u. smiley

The Bible says he who finds a wife finds good thing and obtained favour from God.. the key word is HE,.

The last time he found a partner for a human being (Adam), he was blamed for it...
"The woman whom you gave to me... Made me do it"... He is no longer in match making business grin

What OP need is couples therapy...no two ways about it... That might help to restore those Sparks he saw before taking her to the altar...As for bedroom matters, that is also teachable... hormone induced pills that boost sex drive might help also.. I guess nurses and doctors in the house can throw some light in that...

Killing oneself because he/she felt they made the wrong choice is old school in my opinion.
then why is God interested in fornication?
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by ogunsbanjul(m): 1:45pm On Nov 20, 2022
Please don't commit sucuide because she will marry another man and both will make mockery of you when you die. Instead consult her family, reveal everything to them if the parents are still alive and if not seek for divorce and live you life. More importantly seek for spiritual solution by going for MFM deliverance in prayer city at Mowe Lagos/Ibadan express way which holds on every week starting from 7:00 a.m on Mondays to Fridays (please don't eat or drink while embarking on the programme). You will give thank to God after doing that bro.
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Enifloxy(m): 1:47pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Obviously ur wife just have some psychological and emotional issues.

Is she unsecure? She might not tell you.

Her libido must have gone down over the past years considering child birth and her physical insecurities. You need to help her boost confidence in herself. There are a lot of supplements that can help her regain her serial drive, just Google it.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Skyfornia(m): 1:47pm On Nov 20, 2022
ufotty2001:
I don't just know most ladies are not interested to learn what generates money.. I have forced my girlfriend to learn online skill she refused.. she is so comfortable with this her 30k job that do not take her to anywhere. That is why I want to break up with her

Had a similar experience with a lady....she is not ambitious
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Wisfem: 1:47pm On Nov 20, 2022
Richy4:

God is not in the business of choosing a life partner for people anymore..U can bring anyone, and he will bless u. smiley

The Bible says he who finds a wife finds good thing and obtained favour from God.. the key word is HE,.

The last time he found a partner for a human being (Adam), he was blamed for it...
"The woman whom you gave to me... Made me do it"... He is no longer in match making business grin

What OP need is couples therapy...no two ways about it... That might help to restore those Sparks he saw before taking her to the altar...As for bedroom matters, that is also teachable... hormone induced pills that boost sex drive might help also.. I guess nurses and doctors in the house can throw some light in that...

Killing oneself because he/she felt they made the wrong choice is old school in my opinion.




Good advise, a little jab of dopamine can make her seek for sex all day... Killing him self is an illusion ..

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Re: Regretting My Marriage. by platymus: 1:48pm On Nov 20, 2022
Fatale:
All Those Calling Him Weak. You All Think Gra Gra And Being Tough Is Strength? Think Again!

Oga, Talk To Her, If She Would Not Change Or Hear You, Abeg Walk Away For Your Peace Of Mind.

Nde I Be Strong Man Or Iron Lady, Pray Make Una No Jam Person Wey Go Make Climbing Mount Everest A Joke To Your Relationship.

Never Kill Your Self, Degrade Or Lose An Arm Over Someone Who Does Not And Will Not Appreciate Your Efforts.
You are on point
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by AbujaCitiBlog: 1:50pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
How did you make the choice?
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Positiveme2020: 1:51pm On Nov 20, 2022
Vyzz:



When divorce dey..

I wonder oh.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Toktee(m): 1:53pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
Me commit suicide because of a woman with a single hole in between her legs...rather she will commit suicide because of me.
Man up, ignore her and start bringing women home if she talk tell her you don't like sleeping with out touching a woman in bed...
If she's not happy is either she changed or go.
You have enough options.
Look back you will discover that she don't even love you but only marry you cos she was fast aging, all her friends married or because of money.
But you sef e be like say u are to gentle and simple.
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by riverbird: 1:53pm On Nov 20, 2022
AntiWailer:


Calm down. Sit her down and talk to her.

Let her know how frustrated you are about this, Give instances and what your expectations were.

Hear her out too and try to work things out. As for sex drive, it is normal ladies lose their sex drive because of several factors. Just sit her down and hear her out.

Let divorce be last option, suicide is not an option at all.

This is the most useless post I have seen coming from a simp sad, you are practically telling op to worship her while displaying more signs of a weak man. OP DITCH THAT LAZY WOMAN AND GET YOUR SELF A FINE YOUNG AND BEAUTIFUL CHICK AND REDUCE YOUR WIFE'S IMPORTANCE TO ZERO, WHEN EVER YOU ARE HOME BEHAVE AS IF SHE DOESN'T EXIST AND MAKE SURE YOU ALWAYS LOOK HAPPY . You are a king
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by Denko2721987(m): 1:55pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.

Did they also tie your destiny to your wife?? Must you die becos u made a mistake. If you have persistently talked to her and she has blatantly refused to at least show signs that she's willing to make amends, why don't u simply divorce her?? Abi ur doctrine doesn't support divorce?? File for a divorce, cut your losses, heal and move on.. Dem tie ur umbilical cord to her?? Shuuu.. Another question I would like to ask as a means of learning oh.. All these traits you are seeing in her now, did they simply spring up after marriage, didn't u see them before you married her? Abi u were carried away by fine face, big bress and big behind??
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:56pm On Nov 20, 2022
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?
Shut up there jare!!!!! Even pastors who claimed to be called go through divorce as well. African use your brains
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by LOVEGINO(m): 1:57pm On Nov 20, 2022
nokia1000:
I am fully regretting marrying my wife. She is always right and doesn't take corrections.
She doesn't have sex drive. Prefer sleeping alone that she doesn't want someone body to touch her.
She is not serious in anything that can generate money.
I have made a lifetime mistake. Sometimes I feel like committing suicide to get free from regretting. I am seeing myself going down slowly.
I could have call u a useless man but shame no allow me. Marriage nor be by force. Abi na she dey pay d bills?
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by kolarov93(m): 2:01pm On Nov 20, 2022
Octopusssy:
Did you consult God when you chose your life partner?

Wetin happen to Abraham when he consulted God?
Abraham later blamed God
Re: Regretting My Marriage. by hokafor(m): 2:01pm On Nov 20, 2022
But u can still run to save your life.

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