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olaeffect:
These so called sissy men are product of homes without father figures.
Where do you expect these young guys to get manly training from? When most of them are trained solely by their mothers.
Fathers now prefer to spend their time, energy, knowledge, and experience on sidechics that are age mates with their son's and we wonder why these young boys are sissy's.

Can you compare the maturity most 17yr old girls to 25yr old boys nowadays? And where do you think all these girls get their maturity and boldness from?

Not only fatherles men my guy. Lots of effeminate men have fathers. But don't forget, lots of fathers too are effeminate. Eg being taking care of by your wife.

You see those men their wives get liver insult without any fear of repercussions, because even if he dumps her, it's actually a gain for her. So of course such men will raise chicken for a son.

I mean how can you dump someone that pays your rent? The social fabric of the Nigerian family system is near collapse, and accelerating faster to complete collapse.

But it still starts and ends with men. I don give idea for this forum tired. Imagine someone asking if he should dump his job, house and his position of strength and move to a woman's house because they are in love

Then you become a burden to her, and only a matter of time, she becomes disgusted by you, and you can't nack without lubricant because she dry pass dry dish.

emmaodet:
My friend, so you want men to be sucking it up and move on? For God sake, where did we get men like you?
The reason all these things as been happening for so long is because Men are not speaking out, so alot don't know what is happening and falls into the same pit.
Pls, let us encourage people to keep talking because Evil grows, thrieves and expands in Silence.
Evil likes silence
That is why women like silence - that is why they are frustrated that men are coming out to say what they have been doing codedly for so long without interference. They quickly term such guys weaklings, sisy, cry babies, men that are not like their fathers of old.
Bro, in life when there is a cry out, there will be an awareness which will usher in movements and campaigns to stop the rots.
The reason we are in such mess is that the stupid forefathers kept quite why the evil/monster keeps growing.
E.g imagine if HIV/AIDS was kept coded, do you know virtually everybody would have been infected due to no awareness?
It is the crying out from govt using media and all possible means to tackle the deadly diseases.
Contrary to what people believed to be a Real Man, a Real Man is someone who despite the mockery, scorning, abuse, jest etc he is going to face, he still summoned courage to come out and speak about what he is facing.
To me that is a Real Man and not the popular weakling we think they are.
They are the Real Men and needs to be celebrated.
Evil thrives in Silence and wants Silence.
That is why in the olden days, the so called

Women like Silence and that is one good character of Evil plans, they don't even know this. It is a default setting in them.

Cc

Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng

You ready for this debate. You go school my man

The Christian religion is the root cause of many relationship/marriage problems in our society today. You will agree with me that the problem is more dominant among practicing christian religion than moslems despite the latter practicing polygamy. Moslems marry more than one wives and live peacefully but the other marry one wife and lives in hell. The present Christian religion and then modernization(the second & most profound) have so much corrupted women of nowadays. Imagine I visited one church one-day and during their Q&A somebody asked what one should do else when all the so called good Christian virtues have not helped matters in marriage problems and surprisingly the myopic Pastor opened his mouth and said "even if after your wedding you realize that your wife is biological daughter of Satan himself that you must remain with her, No divorce No remarriage. Women do a lot of atrocities these days because of demonic slogans that "no matter what she did a man should not hit a woman" "no matter what your wife did you should not marry another" etc

Mind u I'm deliberately using the phrase 'christian religion' because the original Christianity did not teach all these nonsense they're teaching us today, for instance Paul CLEARLY states that a woman should not even ask question in the church(she should tell her husband at home the question so that the husband who's authorized can then ask in the church) talkless of preaching but today no church practice that. If christians should go back to original bible teachings about women and place women where God placed them from Genesis, all these marriages problems will stop.

Our pagan forefathers married multiple wives and they live peacefully to very old age and healthy, ask yourself why?

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

This post make sense until the last statement. OP you're stupid for insulting those coming here to seek relationship advise. Who the Bleep are you to call them uneducated and sissymen ? Asking for help don't mean someone is weak and mind you... when it comes to relationship, heartbreak or been cheated on, there's no pain worst than that but to speak to someone or group.. there's no education that can help a wounded heart and no therapy helps it.. so shut the Bleep up. Any man that likes ur post no get sense. No matter how strong you are, how rich you are or how powerful you are... when it comes to relationship iss.. no one is immune to the pain unless you don't really love the person

emmaodet:
My friend, so you want men to be sucking it up and move on? For God sake, where did we get men like you?
The reason all these things as been happening for so long is because Men are not speaking out, so alot don't know what is happening and falls into the same pit.
Pls, let us encourage people to keep talking because Evil grows, thrieves and expands in Silence.
Evil likes silence
That is why women like silence - that is why they are frustrated that men are coming out to say what they have been doing codedly for so long without interference. They quickly term such guys weaklings, sisy, cry babies, men that are not like their fathers of old.
Bro, in life when there is a cry out, there will be an awareness which will usher in movements and campaigns to stop the rots.
The reason we are in such mess is that the stupid forefathers kept quite why the evil/monster keeps growing.
E.g imagine if HIV/AIDS was kept coded, do you know virtually everybody would have been infected due to no awareness?
It is the crying out from govt using media and all possible means to tackle the deadly diseases.
Contrary to what people believed to be a Real Man, a Real Man is someone who despite the mockery, scorning, abuse, jest etc he is going to face, he still summoned courage to come out and speak about what he is facing.
To me that is a Real Man and not the popular weakling we think they are.
They are the Real Men and needs to be celebrated.
Evil thrives in Silence and wants Silence.
That is why in the olden days, the so called

Women like Silence and that is one good character of Evil plans, they don't even know this. It is a default setting in them.

Cc

Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng

You are right. But I believe the OP is not talking about speaking out, but rather talking about knowing you are being cheated, but seeking approval from strangers to allow yourself to be cheated. That’s the man OP is referring to as weakling.

BloomingDale:
Please do. We are tired of the rapes, ritual killings, murders etc. I'm so happy. You guys should find ways to please accelerate the process.

with your retarded and bemused mentality, "ritual killing". You think everyone is Nigerian. I am talkin' global, you talkin' local.

stanliwise:
You’re just young and naive with all this redpill bullshit virgin talk. While it is good to marry someone with self dignity, you too must be a person of dignity too.

You reek of hedonism nothing more which is typical of a youth looking out to do nothing but enjoy personal live without any awareness that life is a combined interest.

I can’t say much

I may be young but I am not naive. When it comes to women matter, I have a top notch experience there so I know what I am saying. Is it single mothers, is it young women?, Older women? Widows? Or even married women?

I have people of dignity around me because I am also someone of dignity! I have decided to keep myself till marriage despite the temptations around me, so definitely I'll marry the best and the cleanest! That's how I'll escape the whoredom of this generation!

I don't reek of hedonism, I reek of confidence. My life is not all about women, I am doing a lot of other things underground, I am not after fame (even though I can easily achieve this if I do one or two). Life is a combined interest and I am king of that, that's how I have many people around me including women.

Richieniit:
This post make sense until the last statement. OP you're stupid for insulting those coming here to seek relationship advise. Who the Bleep are you to call them uneducated and sissymen ? Asking for help don't mean someone is weak and mind you... when it comes to relationship, heartbreak or been cheated on, there's no pain worst than that but to speak to someone or group.. there's no education that can help a wounded heart and no therapy helps it.. so shut the Bleep up. Any man that likes ur post no get sense. No matter how strong you are, how rich you are or how powerful you are... when it comes to relationship iss.. no one is immune to the pain unless you don't really love the person

did OP say they are uneducated?

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

trend since 2019 2022/2023 is even worst! Indomie men everywhere.

Joshmuch:
with your retarded and bemused mentality, "ritual killing". You think everyone is Nigerian. I am talkin' global, you talkin' local.

It's global, especially in the western world. Black women are tired of you all. You guys can't build any decent society no matter where you reside. No wonder the white man always flogging and killing you fools when you attempt to sneak into their countries. You all need to go.

For business loan in Lagos Island, hit me up

DMerciful:
Our forefathers married many wives and coped very well..nowadays men are struggling with 1 or 2 ladies. Men becoming cry babies

Those women were of no ambition and marrying a man was their greatest achievement. Now women have ambition and have the veil removed from their eyes. They know they don’t need to be put in a mans house to be successful.

Westernization leveled the playing field and instead of African men to step up, they’re confused because our fragile ego doesn’t mean shit to the females anymore.

BloomingDale:
It's global, especially in the western world. Black women are tired of you all. You guys can't build any decent society no matter where you reside. No wonder the white man always flogging and killing you fools when you attempt to sneak into their countries. You all need to go.

I swear. Black men are a disgrace to men everywhere. Like you said, we can’t build a decent society. That inability just shows you how we run our homes.

There's nothing the eyes will see that it will bleed!

Miseducation by Ubunja is a guy that used to teach guys in romance section about redpill.
It does not mean they're not educated, its the name of the training. You got it wrong.

Inspite of the pain of heartbreak, they have to move on and take decisive actions rather than lament like sissies

Richieniit:
This post make sense until the last statement. OP you're stupid for insulting those coming here to seek relationship advise. Who the Bleep are you to call them uneducated and sissymen ? Asking for help don't mean someone is weak and mind you... when it comes to relationship, heartbreak or been cheated on, there's no pain worst than that but to speak to someone or group.. there's no education that can help a wounded heart and no therapy helps it.. so shut the Bleep up. Any man that likes ur post no get sense. No matter how strong you are, how rich you are or how powerful you are... when it comes to relationship iss.. no one is immune to the pain unless you don't really love the person

dontrulee:
I may be young but I am not naive. When it comes to women matter, I have a top notch experience there so I know what I am saying. Is it single mothers, is it young women?, Older women? Widows? Or even married women?

I have people of dignity around me because I am also someone of dignity! I have decided to keep myself till marriage despite the temptations around me, so definitely I'll marry the best and the cleanest! That's how I'll escape the whoredom of this generation!

I don't reek of hedonism, I reek of confidence. My life is not all about women, I am doing a lot of other things underground, I am not after fame (even though I can easily achieve this if I do one or two). Life is a combined interest and I am king of that, that's how I have many people around me including women.

Lol. Tell me you’re a keyboard warrior without telling me you’re a keyboard warrior. Clown!

I once dated a lady, that told her friend. She doesn't like me, and just wants to collect all she can get from me before i realize it.

And her friend, came to my house to play me the voice note, i was shocked. If she never showed me a proof, i won't have believed her. There are still good women. But they are very few.

There are alot of hungry and selfish girls out there, that is why they don't progress in life, living a Boring life style, No love, just anger, bitterness and frustration. Flee o! If you encounter them.

What do you expect ....when all this sisi men that are supposed to hustling and grinding hard to make the money are busy doing stupid TikTok videos and dancing on IG....*SMH* The world of ALPHA MEN is gradually sipping away

emmaodet:
My friend, so you want men to be sucking it up and move on? For God sake, where did we get men like you?
The reason all these things as been happening for so long is because Men are not speaking out, so alot don't know what is happening and falls into the same pit.
Pls, let us encourage people to keep talking because Evil grows, thrieves and expands in Silence.
Evil likes silence
That is why women like silence - that is why they are frustrated that men are coming out to say what they have been doing codedly for so long without interference. They quickly term such guys weaklings, sisy, cry babies, men that are not like their fathers of old.
Bro, in life when there is a cry out, there will be an awareness which will usher in movements and campaigns to stop the rots.
The reason we are in such mess is that the stupid forefathers kept quite why the evil/monster keeps growing.
E.g imagine if HIV/AIDS was kept coded, do you know virtually everybody would have been infected due to no awareness?
It is the crying out from govt using media and all possible means to tackle the deadly diseases.
Contrary to what people believed to be a Real Man, a Real Man is someone who despite the mockery, scorning, abuse, jest etc he is going to face, he still summoned courage to come out and speak about what he is facing.
To me that is a Real Man and not the popular weakling we think they are.
They are the Real Men and needs to be celebrated.
Evil thrives in Silence and wants Silence.
That is why in the olden days, the so called

Women like Silence and that is one good character of Evil plans, they don't even know this. It is a default setting in them.

Cc

Ubunja
Martinez39
Pansophist
Franchasng

Your HIV example

HardMirror:
So what were you strong african women doing when africans were being enslaved?
People say in war there are no winners this is a lie. In wars there are winners. Every society cannot be equally strong. Our forefathers and even this generation of african men are failing to keep up talkless of leading in military might, but it does not mean they should embrace weakness.
do you know why the society became one governed by men? Because women are weaker than men. It is biologically impossible for an amazonian society to thrive. They will perish.

An experiment on survival was made. Team A were men and Team B women. They were left on 2 different islands at the end the men built shelters started hunting for food and they thrived while the team of women start crying and saying they wanted to go home. NOTE this was a team of tough women some even in the military. At the end they had to be rescued from the island.
It is we men that help loud mouthed women like you to feel safe and provide the environment for you to think you are strong. You are far weaker than men. But it is ok, weak stupid men are the ones making you think you are something.

You are talking rubbish. sex is one of the biggest topics in developed countries. Even tigers and lions value sex a lot. Stop talking bullshit

Go and compare yourselves to other men of other races. Only Black/African men like comparing themselves to their women. That's why other races have no respect for you guys. Like WTF is wrong with you people?

I could remember when the white border guards in America were flogging you guys for attempting to sneak into their country. They kept screaming you guys are shit that can't even take care of your women.

African women, please abeg of you, selective breeding to breed out these fools

BloomingDale:
It's global, especially in the western world. Black women are tired of you all. You guys can't build any decent society no matter where you reside. No wonder the white man always flogging and killing you fools when you attempt to sneak into their countries. You all need to go.

Unfortunately all women don't reason abysmally like you do, if not I would have said, you and your goons travel to Antarctica so that you can build a new society there devoid of men. Kindly consider that because this inhabitable world is developed by MEN.

Joshmuch:
Unfortunately all women don't reason abysmally like you do, if not I would have said, you and your goons travel to Antarctica so that you can build a new society there devoid of men. Kindly consider that because this inhabitable world is developed by MEN.

Which MEN?

BloomingDale:
It's global, especially in the western world. Black women are tired of you all. You guys can't build any decent society no matter where you reside. No wonder the white man always flogging and killing you fools when you attempt to sneak into their countries. You all need to go.

It's white ppl and white ppl that are constantly sneaking into African countries eg France....we can build a nice society....

Men of now adays are being controlled by their dick and not thier brains and morals.
Now u see why God said a man dats being controlled by a woman will not enter his kingdom?
Men are now women. I feel pity wen I here Dem talk of thing they tolerate

2019 thread still of todays reality

BigBashiru:
It's white ppl and white ppl that are constantly sneaking into African countries eg France....we can build a nice society....

You guys are the sneakers, while they exploit your foolishness. Sorry to come off so harsh.

Winnin009:
I swear. Black men are a disgrace to men everywhere. Like you said, we can’t build a decent society. That inability just shows you how we run our homes.

According to CNN and BBC we cannot build a descent society. South Africa was built by blacks....Nigeria was built by blacks- Nigeria is the largest economy in Africa...

What I agree on is blacks are undisciplined and are not law abiding and Nigerians hv the wrong mentality like being a "big boy"

BloomingDale:
You guys are the sneakers, while they exploit your foolishness. Sorry to come off so harsh.

Do you know about the activity of Britain in South Africa who sneaked in and stole South African land? Or the activities of frech who sneaked into the sahel killing native populations??

My own is that from now henceforth, let we men unite and start treating naija women bad. If anyone offend you, break her leg

Nairaland guys dey fall hand.

They go dey form hard men but na them full for romance section

DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

Seeking opinions is not all that bad. Terminating a relationship, marriage is tantamount to one bringing already built house down. Therefore one must seek both the opinion of man and God. Consideration from different quarters is still good. Do not take hasty action!

BigBashiru:
Do you know about the activity of Britain in South Africa who sneaked in and stole South African land? Or the activities of frech who sneaked into the sahel killing native populations??

Well, go chase them out. Are you not man enough?

dontrulee:
Infact, let men continue to lament oooo.

It's a good thing if ladies show them pepper, if they'll not learn by words, they'll learn by experience.

As for me, I show ladies pepper. Show them pepper in a good interesting way!

There is no love anywhere, everyone is in for what he or she will get!

All this I love you, I love you, na Mumu dey do love these days Sha

Wise up, enjoy your Life. Bleep and move on. The ladies are not loyal, the men are also cheaters, however protect your resources, upgrade yourself!

Unfortunately, many men are like Samson (SIMPson) strong physically but weak emotionally and so men will continue to lament.

Addedum: Men are logical, women are illogical and irrational. When I talk with my lady(ies) and it's leading towards an argument or confrontation, I usually don't follow a logical pattern, I follow an irrational pattern that shocks even myself and guess what, I come out fine, unscathed and my lady(ies) love me more. It's a magic that works for me all the time.

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