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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by harmargedon: 2:51pm On Dec 01, 2022
Billgatessecond:



See why I say we yorubas are the best . If it's an Igbo guy who created this thread I am sure he created it to bash yorubas .. an average man can afford all this things besides it will be given back .. see Igbo man list o boy u go run
illiterate, have you seen an Igbo marriage list before.
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Nobody: 2:52pm On Dec 01, 2022
Ephemmm:


You will understand when it is your turn to celebrate.

In the eyes of the people, na you dey spend, but na everybody go contribute and celebrate. However, if yours portion is 20k, you are good to go with 10-15k in your hand.

That is the spirit.
Okay thanks
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by apple30(f): 2:53pm On Dec 01, 2022
Am not disputing d fact dat d list is reasonable, but Yoruba lavishes more in weddings more than any tribe, from one Owambe and ashabi to anoda..despite d fact dat dere list is cheap 20% out of 100% got married d rest na from belle dem done turn to iya le grin

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by BanyXchi: 2:53pm On Dec 01, 2022
Bluntemperor:


Proudly Yorubas!
Well said and I'm enjoying every bit of the Yoruba Cultural Analysis!
We are proudly Yorubas and we are loving people and accommodate other Tribes,as we accept you,as you are but would not like others taking us for a ride!
We believed in ourselves but can defend ourselves in case of obvious injustices!
We are well cultured, well mannered and our educational dispositions have made us enlightened! We see that in Awolowo legacy and confirm in Nobel Prize Laureate -Wole Soyinka Intellectual prowess-theman with 'The Man Died'.
We would not lowered our Standards no matter what!
We hate cheating and we give respect to our Elders by paying obeyance like the great Japanese people and the Chinese cradle and respect to our Leaders,where necessary!
We quary them where they failed to do the right thing and often refused to follow wrong people to the path of destruction,as we make up our minds on things concerning our Future and our Youths!
We want the Very BEST for Nigerians and Ourselves and we want other Tribes to do likewise to us when we go to their Regions or even outside Nigeria!
Wouldn't you like to come and marry our beautiful Brides,as our Language is easy to learn and cheap for adaptation!
Our food recipes are both Continental and is all over the World!
For instance,Ewedu- and Gbegiri is a masterpiece that,if you take it for three- months,you gained weight and always refreshing!
Adding Ikokore-of -Ijebu origin,will certainly makes you bite your fingers, especially when it's of seven assorted meats and fish( elemi-meje)!
We are the definition of true Nigerians in Blackman, especially African race, as we harbour every tribes than the rest of others!
Yoruba dynasty is forever and enjoyable,as we learn fast and live in peace and co- existence of others!
Like any dynamic Society,we welcome you,your family and looks forward to your own contribution to the growth of our land!
God bless the Yorubas!
God bless Nigeria!
Nigeria shall be Great Again!
I like what you said but I'd love if we focus more on the Yoruba nation and focus less on this Nigeria project. Yoruba first and last!
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by rickyrex(m): 2:54pm On Dec 01, 2022
Nah list be this too oh

Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by BanyXchi: 2:55pm On Dec 01, 2022
Arijude:
grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy you know them very well. They don't even pay what is in the list above. They just give belle and that's all, wife don arrive.
far better than using them as machines in your baby factories

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Greenback: 2:57pm On Dec 01, 2022
Billgatessecond:



See why I say we yorubas are the best . If it's an Igbo guy who created this thread I am sure he created it to bash yorubas .. an average man can afford all this things besides it will be given back .. see Igbo man list o boy u go run
Oh my God!!!! A beautiful thread like this and you already here to rubbish it!!!!
You already here to make it dirty and filthy with your hate and tribalism, can't you people just keep quiet for once in your life!!!!?

Can't you just let sleeping dogs lie in peace?!!!!

We be reading a beautiful story and thread and fellas be learning this beautiful yoruba language and all of a sudden,you appeared with your usual disgusting crap?!!!
Please don't ever be the first to sound foolish,in life,thanks.

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Greenback: 2:59pm On Dec 01, 2022
OloYeOfEgbE:


Slaves....

The best and your strongest Oba was buried like trash because of imported religion... if you don't mention Igbo,nepa no go bring light for your house.

Ndi ala
I don't know why those people are so silly!! Every thread now on nairaland and they must turn it into Igbo this and that!!!! Very disgusting set of people...
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by iJhoe(m): 3:00pm On Dec 01, 2022
iJhoe:


Come'on!! That's stereotype!!

You can't adjudge your pastor's wife's situation with every Yoruba woman out there.

Are you telling me that a whole tribe of women don't know how to cook? How preposterous!




Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Greenback: 3:00pm On Dec 01, 2022
Mercury12:

Yoruba haters will pretends they didn't read this... Hahaha
They are already having high BP on Yoruba matter. All they know how to do is frustrate someone son that wants to marry their daughter, sister,aunty, neighbor. Hahaha

Another one....if only you know how disgusting you are and how you only succeeded in making this beautiful thread dirty
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Bananapill: 3:02pm On Dec 01, 2022
I went somewhere in Enugu some years back for a friend's introduction and I tell you, the list he was given wasn't up to this.
I realised marriage list varies from place to place and family to family.

My own Urhobo list was not even up to this. Like I said, it varies from family to family. In fact my father's village gives the govt approved marriage certificate.

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Greenback: 3:03pm On Dec 01, 2022
Nostring:
carry your nzogbu nzogbu way of life Comot the nice thread undecided
Hypocrite,he only responded to the big4nothing stup who started the dirt splash...
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by SURElee(f): 3:06pm On Dec 01, 2022
FreeStuffsNG:
This is an authentic Yoruba marriage rite list given to the groom's family. That dowry will be returned officially to prove that they are not selling their daughter and not in debt in the event the groom's family fail to keep their word to take care of their bride.


And they end up leaving their marriages to go birth babies for other men, so returning it how does it help?

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Nobody: 3:08pm On Dec 01, 2022
Yes, we re free to walk out of an abusive marriage unlike u ppl dat sell ur daughter to a stranger. Despite dat, she has no inheritance in her father’s house nor her husband’s house. Very shameful tradition. In Yoruba, we share properties from eldest to youngest irrespective of the gender. We don’t discriminate genders at all. I will choose Yoruba over n over again. I have seen women inherit their late husband properties in Yoruba land. It cannot happen in Igbo land, always maltreating their widows. U ppl are so WICKED. God forbid bad thing
Latty88:
The bride price will be returned back to the groom in most cases.

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by OfficialAPCNig: 3:10pm On Dec 01, 2022
Buhari4sale:


Life isn't balance.. Those Yoruba women refuse to giveup no matter how tough the challenges are. They still try their best to make it to the limelight, This is the reason why people are able to know them and who they really are especially their love life and what they have experienced in life but I think most igbos that gave birth to three or more men usually end up in village.
Selling agbo and sleeping with other married men is not making it to the limit.

There are more internationally recognized self-made Igbo women than Yorubas.

Finally, an Igbo woman will hardly born for 3 different men

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Jogs1900: 3:11pm On Dec 01, 2022
Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright...


This niggar never see Bini own


Bini own is the cheapest
Urhobo own too is affordable...
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Nobody: 3:13pm On Dec 01, 2022
And wat is the big deal there? Even the whites just go to court and dats all. See, it is far far better than u ppl dat sell ur daughters to the highest bidders like slaves or goods. Despite dat, she has no inheritance in her father’s house nor even her husband’s house. Yoruba culture share properties from eldest to youngest irrespective of the gender. Can dat be said of your tribe? U think ur tribe care about women? Lmao. It’s all for the money. Why on earth will u bill a man millions for a human being? Lmao. No wonder they inherit nothing in their husband’s house. Only the sons inherits, and u think dat’s a good culture? Useless n wicked culture. Or should we talk about how u treat ur widows? Let’s not even start. Wicked set of useless things
Arijude:
grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy you know them very well. They don't even pay what is in the list above. They just give belle and that's all, wife don arrive.

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by OfficialAPCNig: 3:13pm On Dec 01, 2022
BanyXchi:
coming from a Osu miscreant whose women are nothing but machines to your baby factories in your blighted yEast. Leave yoruba women and focus on your women wey full brothel everywhere.
This one you dey rant, it seems your mama gave birth for more than two men
grin

It's a known fact that Yoruba women are more promiscuous than any tribal woman in Nigeria. It's for this reason your culture has magun

grin
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Ephemmm: 3:14pm On Dec 01, 2022
OfficialAPCNig:
Check very well that's the list for a girl that has given birth before

My own list was not even up to that, despite the fact that they know I can afford the expenses. The family took care of the the entire bill during introduction.

Thereafter, I personally donated a cow during the wedding ceremony and a lap was given to my Dad. As for the food and drinks presented on the D-day, I have no idea of where they came from till date.

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Saintmary(f): 3:15pm On Dec 01, 2022
Billgatessecond:



See why I say we yorubas are the best . If it's an Igbo guy who created this thread I am sure he created it to bash yorubas .. an average man can afford all this things besides it will be given back .. see Igbo man list o boy u go run


You are correct, although, only the bride price will be returned.


The box and it's contents are for the bride


The fruits, rice, salt, oil, etc will be split in many ways and sent to different members of the bride's family as a token of honor, not purchase, because no one can repay any parent.


P. S. The implication is that the bride is free to return to her family at any time if she is being maltreated.


Any Yoruba woman who stays in an abusive marriage is only doing it of her own volition.

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by stanbright(m): 3:15pm On Dec 01, 2022
BanyXchi:
you don't need to quote me, after all you also quoted someone that didn't reply you. Like I said we have nothing in common with those ugly masculine hairy ape-like Osu dogs you call women.... Your hatred for Yorubas won't stop Bola Ahmed Tinubu as your next president.
wetting bring marriage to president now,you no get direction oo.lol
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Olumaeme: 3:17pm On Dec 01, 2022
I am happy to be a Yoruba.

Other tribes, you have to procure their daughter.

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by gbengene1234(m): 3:17pm On Dec 01, 2022
Aseju ni Imo state, Abeokuta ti wa ok
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by OfficialAPCNig: 3:18pm On Dec 01, 2022
Ephemmm:


My own list was not even up to that, despite the fact that they know I can afford the expenses. The family took care of the the entire bill during introduction.

Thereafter, I personally donated a cow during the wedding ceremony and a lap was given to my Dad. As for the food and drinks presented on the D-day, I have no idea of where they came from till date.
You didn't donate

Yoruba culture requires cow for a lady that has not given birth before, unless you can't afford it.

But the list op posted here is for a lady that has born for one man. It will go further down if she gave birth for more than two men.

Some men don't give pay shishi. They just impregnant the girl and wife don dey down be that
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Obagreatdatoye(m): 3:18pm On Dec 01, 2022
TemmyDayo50:
I'm really proud of we yorubas in this aspect... I can remember during my elder sis wedding, we made things just too easy for the groom.. No stress and unnecessary bills on him... Infact, he'd already have the sense of these people not selling their daughter....

Fast forward to 2022, I impregnated an Igbo lady.. I reason am say make I kuku tie knot with her... The bills these people put on me alone mehn, I was shocked... I tot it was just exaggeration that igbos traditional rites is expensive... That shit got me so pissed like are u guys trying to fucking sell your daughter... I realised they don't even care about if you really want to take care of their daughter or not... All they care about is that list and the exorbitant unnecessary things on the list... Las Las, it discouraged me totally...

No love from those people at all... Well, maybe it's just how that particular family is wired!
It's a general igbo thing
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Idaytesj29(m): 3:18pm On Dec 01, 2022
Sucre6:


50 yams no even plenty, try imo state, I am from Enugu state so I know what I am saying

Wetin pain me pass na how Igbo men are sad and kicking against the New Imo State law that now guarantees a girl child inheritance from her parents.
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by AmuRubber(m): 3:18pm On Dec 01, 2022
SmartMen:
Igbos are not the only tribe in Nigeria. You could have just commented on the list and moved the furk on.

I am an Igbo guy but the problem I usually have with many of you is that YOU ARE SO LIMITED to your environment... TRAVEL THE FURK OUT for heaven's sake. Akwa Ibom list will shock you to your marrows....

What are all these we vs them attitudes every time? I hate it to my stomach. If you have traveled wide enough you would have known there are other cultures with a high list...

If YOU have traveled wide, you would have also known, like it was stated in this thread, all these are negotiable in other places..

Lastly, if you cannot afford stuff, please find the one your power carry and let everyone live in peace.

A female friend told me how her Yoruba ex left her by bringing some useless tribalism into their affair just to end the relationship. The only thing I could deduce is that the guys folks saw her as an Igbo person even when she is an Edo lady.


Go and sleep abeg..
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Akanoaaa(m): 3:19pm On Dec 01, 2022
OloYeOfEgbE:
50 yams...?

wow

Some family don't demand up to that. Moreover, the yam is for the extended family, both from Father's and mother's side, they will all receive some portion from the yam.
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by OfficialAPCNig: 3:19pm On Dec 01, 2022
Olumaeme:
I am happy to be a Yoruba.

Other tribes, you have to procure their daughter.
You can even marry free in Yoruba, just give the girl belle, no wonder most of them are promiscuous
Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Saintmary(f): 3:20pm On Dec 01, 2022
OfficialAPCNig:

You didn't donate

Yoruba culture requires cow for a lady that has not given birth before, unless you can't afford it.

But the list op posted here is for a lady that has born for one man. It will go further down if she gave birth for more than two men.

Some men don't give pay shishi. They just impregnant the girl and wife don dey down be that


Yoruba people are not herdsmen.


Besides, how many cows did they pay for your mother?

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by BanyXchi: 3:20pm On Dec 01, 2022
OfficialAPCNig:

This one you dey rant, it seems your mama gave birth for more than two men
grin

It's a known fact that Yoruba women are more promiscuous than any tribal woman in Nigeria. It's for this reason your culture has magun

grin
continue to deceive yourself Osu. There's nothing more ironic than a Osu like you talking about promiscuous, everyone knows those HIV-infested dogs you call women dominate all the brothels across the country. Your region is the only place in the whole of Africa where married and single women including young girls are machines that produce babies in your baby factories. I'm sure your product of one. It's part of your culture, everyone knows. Your obsession with Yorubas won't stop Bola Ahmed Tinubu as your next president.

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Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by Ephemmm: 3:21pm On Dec 01, 2022
Denoh68:
THE WAY MY ONLY BROTHER PICKED A YORUBA GIRL FROM OYO,HE HAS NOT EVEN PAID SHISHI AND THE GIRL HAS 3 CHILDREN ALREADY,TUFIAKWA

You think Yorubas would force you to do anything about marriage as far as you can take care of their daughter? Even if your brother is ready, the wife of your said brother would still be the one to dictate what they could afford as family.

No wise man would miscontrue tolerance, consideration and simplicity as foolishness. Now, it is left to your brother to do what is expected as what goes around comes around.

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