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Toks2008:
When a man loves you, he loves you and as long as you are loyal to him, he remains loyal to you.

Toks2008:
I have dated many ladies, i have lived well above four decades on earth and i can boldly conclude without any fear of contradiction that WOMEN ARE ONLY LOYAL TO THEIR OWN FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO ROMANTIC UNION WITH MEN and only a very minute number of them have true loyalty.

-This is why a young lady will gladly be a mistress of a married man because she is gaining so much from the union without much to lose but will find it hard to marry same man because she does not want to be an official Co-wife.

-This is why a lady who has dated married men when she was single will never want her husband to have mistresses.

-This is why you will see Ladies clamouring to be Co-wives of a very wealthy and powerful man because of the security they will get, and same ladies will never want to be the only wife of a poor man.

-This is why a lady will gladly take the pregnancy of one man and give it to another man just because for one reason or the other, she does not want to be with the man that got her pregnant.

-This is why a lady will profess undying love for you when she still has strong feelings for you and same lady will tell you she is tired the moment she no longer feels the same way towards you.

-This is why a lady will remain with a broke guy with the hope that he will make it latter and if she waits too long, she will not hesitate to leave the guy for a made guy regardless of the number of years she has spent with him.

-This is why a lady will date or marry one man for money and go to another man for good S.x.

-This is why no matter how much you spend on a lady or the sacrifice you make for her, she can still turn around and tell you she did not force you to do the things you did if she no longer wants to be with you.

-Many ladies leave their relationship not because of any bad thing the man did but they leave because their expectation is not met by the man

-Even if you treat a lady like an angel or a queen, and you don't cheat on her, the moment she has feelings for another man, she will look for a reason to leave you.

I can go on and on to state endless reasons why i believe a lady is only loyal to her feelings and no man should start boasting about the love a lady has for him because in most cases, a woman will only remain with a man if she is benefitting in one way or the other and the moment she sees no reason to remain in that relationship, she is done. She may decide to leave, or she may remain with you, but her spirit and soul have left you...This is just the way they are and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

My advice for men is this...Love genuinely, do whatever is within your power to make your woman happy but don't ever get carried away thinking that woman in your life has unconditional love for you.

I hope this makes sense.

Sweetplum:
Wetin come concern the pic of a flooded area you added to this post?
You men aren't serious. Only complain n complain. Seems you are all getting broke daily so I can feel the pain.
Moreover, men are the head in family and this world at large. So be responsible. I dunno why someone ll be made head and be acting like a tail.
The op called tokunbo toks2008 who probably opened his email in year 2008 just wanted to gain attention. That's why he created this post

Sweetplum:
For calling out your father, you must be mad.
If I quote you again what ll you do?
You ll come here and post rubbish and you ll be corrected. The next thing is to cry!
You are indeed a simp.

Softmirror:
YOU ARE VERY CORRECT!

AND SMART GUYS WHO KNOW THIS FACT, THIS REALITY, GIVE WOMEN THE TYPE OF VARIABLES THAT SURELY LEADS THEM TO MISCALCULATE BEATING THEM AT THEIR GAME .

A WOMAN'S CALCULATION IS BASED ON A FORMULAR CALLED SELFISH INTEREST. NOTHING MORE THAN GREED.

JUST AN EXAMPLE IS A LADY WHO HAD BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP LEADING TO MARRIAGE WITH A GUY WHO SPONSORED HER EDUCATION, ALSO FINANCIALLY ASSIST HER FAMILY, SET-UP A FASHION BUSINESS FOR HER AND E.T.C.

ONLY FOR A MAN TO COME FROM NO WHERE IN THE MONTH OF DECEMBER CLAIMING TO BE LIVING IN EUROPE WITH THE AIM OF GOING BACK IN JANUARY WITH A WIFE FROM NIGERIA, TALK TO HER ABOUT HIS PLAN.

HER FISH BRAIN STARTS TO INPUT THIS VARIABLE INTO HER FORMULAR CALLED SELFISHNESS. SHE IMMEDIATELY FORGETS THE MAN THAT HAS BEEN THERE EMOTIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY FOR YEARS. AND WITHIN JUST A MONTH, SHE STARTS DATING THE 'MAN FROM EUROPE,' WITH THE HOPE THAT HE WILL MARRY HER WITHIN A MONTH.

UNKOWN THAT IT'S FALSE VARIABLES LEADING TO A MISCALCULATION. THAT PUCCY, SHE HAS BEEN DENYING THE GUY SHE HAS BEEN DATING FOR AGES BECOMES READILY AVAILABLE TO THE MAN SHE HAS JUST MET IN A FEW DAYS PROMISING EUROPE. HE BANGS THE HELL OUT OF IT AS HE WISHES INTO A EUROPE THAT NEVER EXIST.

KINDLY WATCH THIS SKIT BELOW FOR MORE ILLUSTRATION.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TwUyUxwS328

Ikennaford:
Maybe for nigerian woman,,,, when I first landed in America, few days, I met my baby mama, she took me in, she pays everything, she is a nurse, she made me what I am today, she never benifitted from me if not my dick.... She bought my first car same year, she's 27 now and am 29....when I told her, I want to start a big project in Nigeria, my (mansion) she gave me $100k with the $200k with me, my project is ongoing still swallowing money, is 8 flats mansion, with basketball ball court inside, lawn tenis court, and small football ball field inside,,, ladies and gentlemen, is that not unconditional love..... Op there are good women out there that needs good men,, here too in America, we have goldiggers, those bitches from poor carrebean countries, dem full here, those one deh do like some Nigerians girls, those one's will pretends, dupe you and run.... As we have bad men, naso we get bad women,,,, I'm a bad boy, but my baby mama submissiveness don make me calm down, imagine me as nwa igbo spending close to $50k just to watch football matches in Qatar, who does that, isjust because of this beautiful Kenyan American,

Sweetplum:
I m not foo ling around. I just taught you a lesson. Take it and waka pass!

franchasng:
Same can be said for some women.


And please not all men, it is for some men and same for some women.


All romantic love or relationship are based on conditions. Even in your response to my comment you said a man will continue to love a woman so long as the woman remained loyal to him, meaning there is a condition attached for the man to continue loving the woman which is "loyalty" according to you

Loverboi2cute:
which lesson bayi... where u two not equally throwing tantrums @ each other..
mumu gender

Looter100:
he said your father ewu

Looter100:
bitter gender

Faber:
To beat women in their game no hard, when their feelings for u is high get whatever you want from them, pussy, money anything at all. when their feelings begin to reduce you cashout ur CAR, and starts seeing her as a stranger, any slightest misyarn from her, you dump here

Ikennaford:
Maybe for nigerian woman,,,, when I first landed in America, few days, I met my baby mama, she took me in, she pays everything, she is a nurse, she made me what I am today, she never benifitted from me if not my dick.... She bought my first car same year, she's 27 now and am 29....when I told her, I want to start a big project in Nigeria, my (mansion) she gave me $100k with the $200k with me, my project is ongoing still swallowing money, is 8 flats mansion, with basketball ball court inside, lawn tenis court, and small football ball field inside,,, ladies and gentlemen, is that not unconditional love..... Op there are good women out there that needs good men,, here too in America, we have goldiggers, those bitches from poor carrebean countries, dem full here, those one deh do like some Nigerians girls, those one's will pretends, dupe you and run.... As we have bad men, naso we get bad women,,,, I'm a bad boy, but my baby mama submissiveness don make me calm down, imagine me as nwa igbo spending close to $50k just to watch football matches in Qatar, who does that, isjust because of this beautiful Kenyan American,

Ikennaford:
Maybe for nigerian woman,,,, when I first landed in America, few days, I met my baby mama, she took me in, she pays everything, she is a nurse, she made me what I am today, she never benifitted from me if not my dick.... She bought my first car same year, she's 27 now and am 29....when I told her, I want to start a big project in Nigeria, my (mansion) she gave me $100k with the $200k with me, my project is ongoing still swallowing money, is 8 flats mansion, with basketball ball court inside, lawn tenis court, and small football ball field inside,,, ladies and gentlemen, is that not unconditional love..... Op there are good women out there that needs good men,, here too in America, we have goldiggers, those bitches from poor carrebean countries, dem full here, those one deh do like some Nigerians girls, those one's will pretends, dupe you and run.... As we have bad men, naso we get bad women,,,, I'm a bad boy, but my baby mama submissiveness don make me calm down, imagine me as nwa igbo spending close to $50k just to watch football matches in Qatar, who does that, isjust because of this beautiful Kenyan American,

alterego17:
Bro u just kip mi hanging...no b so my brother....abi d ransome guy no legit?....why u dey do like dz faber?

Toks2008:
Sorry I forgot it's you.

Ikennaford:
Maybe for nigerian woman,,,, when I first landed in America, few days, I met my baby mama, she took me in, she pays everything, she is a nurse, she made me what I am today, she never benifitted from me if not my dick.... She bought my first car same year, she's 27 now and am 29....when I told her, I want to start a big project in Nigeria, my (mansion) she gave me $100k with the $200k with me, my project is ongoing still swallowing money, is 8 flats mansion, with basketball ball court inside, lawn tenis court, and small football ball field inside,,, ladies and gentlemen, is that not unconditional love..... Op there are good women out there that needs good men,, here too in America, we have goldiggers, those bitches from poor carrebean countries, dem full here, those one deh do like some Nigerians girls, those one's will pretends, dupe you and run.... As we have bad men, naso we get bad women,,,, I'm a bad boy, but my baby mama submissiveness don make me calm down, imagine me as nwa igbo spending close to $50k just to watch football matches in Qatar, who does that, isjust because of this beautiful Kenyan American,

Sweetplum:
Your fellow man just testified how God used a woman to bless him. His baby mama o. And you and one JasonScoolari are here ranting about your misfortune with women. If we come here to open threads about men's crime, you all ll say women too dey talk.
Just get a life!

Toks2008:
I have dated many ladies, i have lived well above four decades on earth and i can boldly conclude without any fear of contradiction that WOMEN ARE ONLY LOYAL TO THEIR OWN FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO ROMANTIC UNION WITH MEN and only a very minute number of them have true loyalty.

-This is why a young lady will gladly be a mistress of a married man because she is gaining so much from the union without much to lose but will find it hard to marry same man because she does not want to be an official Co-wife.

-This is why a lady who has dated married men when she was single will never want her husband to have mistresses.

-This is why you will see Ladies clamouring to be Co-wives of a very wealthy and powerful man because of the security they will get, and same ladies will never want to be the only wife of a poor man.

-This is why a lady will gladly take the pregnancy of one man and give it to another man just because for one reason or the other, she does not want to be with the man that got her pregnant.

-This is why a lady will profess undying love for you when she still has strong feelings for you and same lady will tell you she is tired the moment she no longer feels the same way towards you.

-This is why a lady will remain with a broke guy with the hope that he will make it latter and if she waits too long, she will not hesitate to leave the guy for a made guy regardless of the number of years she has spent with him.

-This is why a lady will date or marry one man for money and go to another man for good S.x.

-This is why no matter how much you spend on a lady or the sacrifice you make for her, she can still turn around and tell you she did not force you to do the things you did if she no longer wants to be with you.

-Many ladies leave their relationship not because of any bad thing the man did but they leave because their expectation is not met by the man

-Even if you treat a lady like an angel or a queen, and you don't cheat on her, the moment she has feelings for another man, she will look for a reason to leave you.

I can go on and on to state endless reasons why i believe a lady is only loyal to her feelings and no man should start boasting about the love a lady has for him because in most cases, a woman will only remain with a man if she is benefitting in one way or the other and the moment she sees no reason to remain in that relationship, she is done. She may decide to leave, or she may remain with you, but her spirit and soul have left you...This is just the way they are and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

My advice for men is this...Love genuinely, do whatever is within your power to make your woman happy but don't ever get carried away thinking that woman in your life has unconditional love for you.

I hope this makes sense.

Ikennaford:
Maybe for nigerian woman,,,, when I first landed in America, few days, I met my baby mama, she took me in, she pays everything, she is a nurse, she made me what I am today, she never benifitted from me if not my dick.... She bought my first car same year, she's 27 now and am 29....when I told her, I want to start a big project in Nigeria, my (mansion) she gave me $100k with the $200k with me, my project is ongoing still swallowing money, is 8 flats mansion, with basketball ball court inside, lawn tenis court, and small football ball field inside,,, ladies and gentlemen, is that not unconditional love..... Op there are good women out there that needs good men,, here too in America, we have goldiggers, those bitches from poor carrebean countries, dem full here, those one deh do like some Nigerians girls, those one's will pretends, dupe you and run.... As we have bad men, naso we get bad women,,,, I'm a bad boy, but my baby mama submissiveness don make me calm down, imagine me as nwa igbo spending close to $50k just to watch football matches in Qatar, who does that, isjust because of this beautiful Kenyan American,

Tokskob2008:
It's very difficult getting a girl who is averagely ok this days, na patch patch full street now. So as a guy one must open his brain and leave all that lovey dovey crap one side..

Toks2008:
I have dated many ladies, i have lived well above four decades on earth and i can boldly conclude without any fear of contradiction that WOMEN ARE ONLY LOYAL TO THEIR OWN FEELINGS WHEN IT COMES TO ROMANTIC UNION WITH MEN and only a very minute number of them have true loyalty.

-This is why a young lady will gladly be a mistress of a married man because she is gaining so much from the union without much to lose but will find it hard to marry same man because she does not want to be an official Co-wife.

-This is why a lady who has dated married men when she was single will never want her husband to have mistresses.

-This is why you will see Ladies clamouring to be Co-wives of a very wealthy and powerful man because of the security they will get, and same ladies will never want to be the only wife of a poor man.

-This is why a lady will gladly take the pregnancy of one man and give it to another man just because for one reason or the other, she does not want to be with the man that got her pregnant.

-This is why a lady will profess undying love for you when she still has strong feelings for you and same lady will tell you she is tired the moment she no longer feels the same way towards you.

-This is why a lady will remain with a broke guy with the hope that he will make it latter and if she waits too long, she will not hesitate to leave the guy for a made guy regardless of the number of years she has spent with him.

-This is why a lady will date or marry one man for money and go to another man for good S.x.

-This is why no matter how much you spend on a lady or the sacrifice you make for her, she can still turn around and tell you she did not force you to do the things you did if she no longer wants to be with you.

-Many ladies leave their relationship not because of any bad thing the man did but they leave because their expectation is not met by the man

-Even if you treat a lady like an angel or a queen, and you don't cheat on her, the moment she has feelings for another man, she will look for a reason to leave you.

I can go on and on to state endless reasons why i believe a lady is only loyal to her feelings and no man should start boasting about the love a lady has for him because in most cases, a woman will only remain with a man if she is benefitting in one way or the other and the moment she sees no reason to remain in that relationship, she is done. She may decide to leave, or she may remain with you, but her spirit and soul have left you...This is just the way they are and there is nothing anyone can do about it.

My advice for men is this...Love genuinely, do whatever is within your power to make your woman happy but don't ever get carried away thinking that woman in your life has unconditional love for you.

I hope this makes sense.

Persephone1:
When you are done, you will all log out and go back to the women in your lives asking for their December lists and sponsoring them on vacations

Katikati

You all spend to much time evaluating, scrutinizing and discussing women's benefits than your benefits or their struggles. Same long epistles over the years yet no difference. Women keep balling Guys keep crying on Nl kikikikiki

Ikennaford:
Maybe for nigerian woman,,,, when I first landed in America, few days, I met my baby mama, she took me in, she pays everything, she is a nurse, she made me what I am today, she never benifitted from me if not my dick.... She bought my first car same year, she's 27 now and am 29....when I told her, I want to start a big project in Nigeria, my (mansion) she gave me $100k with the $200k with me, my project is ongoing still swallowing money, is 8 flats mansion, with basketball ball court inside, lawn tenis court, and small football ball field inside,,, ladies and gentlemen, is that not unconditional love..... Op there are good women out there that needs good men,, here too in America, we have goldiggers, those bitches from poor carrebean countries, dem full here, those one deh do like some Nigerians girls, those one's will pretends, dupe you and run.... As we have bad men, naso we get bad women,,,, I'm a bad boy, but my baby mama submissiveness don make me calm down, imagine me as nwa igbo spending close to $50k just to watch football matches in Qatar, who does that, isjust because of this beautiful Kenyan American,

Uptheante:
If you believe what that guy said, then you can also believe that pigs can fly.
In that case it'll be clear to all that you have a very low IQ

Chee59:
Isn't it time to leave the street and settle down. Eh Toks?

Toks2008:
You are one of the reasons some men believe Ladies have lesser IQ than men.

You left the subject to start typing crinkum crankum. I could make you a concubine if you don't mind.

Please grow up.