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Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Idaytesj29(m): 12:04am On Dec 18, 2022

Kobojunkie:
That this may be his first time makes this even worse. If he is this possessive on his first try, what makes you think it will get any better without him first realigning his mind so he does not make the mistake again?

The first time is majorly like that, you are not a man. By the time you gender serve him hot and fresh breakfast like 2 to 3 times. He will know what's up

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Rocktation(mod): 12:05am On Dec 18, 2022

You say wetin? You called her boss?

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Kobojunkie: 12:05am On Dec 18, 2022

Idaytesj29:
The first time is majorly like that, you are not a man. By the time you gender serve him hot and fresh breakfast like 2 to 3 times. He will know what's up

I don't know anyone whose first time was that way abeg! Stop making these things up. undecided

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Kobojunkie: 12:06am On Dec 18, 2022

Rocktation:
You say wetin? You called her boss?

ROFLMAO!

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by bentenny(m): 12:07am On Dec 18, 2022

jesmond3945:
you are not serious with this write up. God just saved you from heartache. Bury all marriage plans, please.

Nice one...If only OP knew what was happening that night at her end when he was calling endlessly,he would have been the one to block her and move on with plenty thanksgiving grin

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Idaytesj29(m): 12:07am On Dec 18, 2022

Kobojunkie:
I don't know anyone whose first time was that way abeg! Stop making these things up.

Lol Kobojunkie. You can't possibly know or be aware of everything in this world.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Rocktation(mod): 12:09am On Dec 18, 2022

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO!

Abi nauu...I thought I should ask again..perhaps, it was me that was not reading correctly!

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Kobojunkie: 12:09am On Dec 18, 2022

Idaytesj29:
Lol Kobojunkie. You can't possibly know or be aware of everything in this world.

I don't need to know everyone in the world but I can know enough about how the mind works to know that insecurity is not a beginner trait but a mental problem that needs working on. undecided

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Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Godsonkemz(m): 12:11am On Dec 18, 2022

Why cling to a Nigerian lady begging her to stay when there are so many other babes out there. Who told you that your world would end if you don't marry her. Don't be a simp.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by jibrilELsudan: 12:12am On Dec 18, 2022

YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A POSSESIVE INSECURE CUNT

IT IS PERSON'S LIKE YOU THAT WILL BEAT UP THEIR WIFE ALL IN THE NAME OF I LOVE HER TOO MUCH AND CAN'T STAND HER GREETING ANOTHER MAN

SHE WILL BE A FOOL TO LET YOU BACK INTO HER LIFE

IF SHE REALLY HAS SENSE...SHE WILL GO DO THANKSGIVING IN CHURCH TOMORROW CAUSE SHE NO KNOW THE MIGHTY DELIVERANCE THAT GOD HAS DELIVERED HER FROM YOU

IMAGINE SEY YOU DON MARRY HER.....E MEAN SEY NA CHAIN YOU GO TAKE CHAIN HER LIKE DOG FOR YOUR HOUSE

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Germi9: 12:12am On Dec 18, 2022

My brother you called the wrong person HER BOSS whom she didnt want you to call perhaps your instincts led you (correct) but am sorry you called the wrong guy

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by dazzlingd(m): 12:16am On Dec 18, 2022

Mino1000:
I see a lot of people saying I was stalking her well, it might be useful to know that she gets pissed whenever I don’t check her location that she sent or when I sleep before ensuring she has reached home safely.

Also she is very big on security and whenever she is going out for work she gives the the colleague she is going withs number and asks me to call if I can’t get through after sometime if I don’t call and say her phone was not reachable she asks why I didn’t call her colleague.

Normally I don’t have time for all this and she complained that I was always coding instead of checking up so I adjusted.

As for finances we are both doing well in the tech industry so that is not the problem or why I am trying to save the relationship.

She is back but right now I am just observing. Also, I called her boss because that was the last person she was with.

It is obvious she is in control of the relationship, you are doomed. She will cheat on you after marriage, give you a bastard child and divorce you later

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Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by lomprico(m): 12:20am On Dec 18, 2022

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

You are a side nigger! She is also seeing someone else.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by rumenase(m): 12:33am On Dec 18, 2022

Mino1000:
I see a lot of people saying I was stalking her well, it might be useful to know that she gets pissed whenever I don’t check her location that she sent or when I sleep before ensuring she has reached home safely.

Also she is very big on security and whenever she is going out for work she gives the the colleague she is going withs number and asks me to call if I can’t get through after sometime if I don’t call and say her phone was not reachable she asks why I didn’t call her colleague.

Normally I don’t have time for all this and she complained that I was always coding instead of checking up so I adjusted.

As for finances we are both doing well in the tech industry so that is not the problem or why I am trying to save the relationship.

She is back but right now I am just observing. Also, I called her boss because that was the last person she was with.

simp! Simp!! Simp!!! That’s what you’re OP nothing else, if you know your worth you’ll have value, you don’t know your worth OP, take it or leave it.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by efficiencie(m): 12:46am On Dec 18, 2022

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

Oga snap out of your melancholy and reason. All you did was reach out to someone that can probably confirm that she is okay but she is reacting like you just informed her lover boy the presence of another lover boy. You could easily have been her mother, her father or her siblings calling to find out about how she is doing and I can bet that her reaction will be asymmetric. Dude you just dodged a Brahmos hypersonic missile and here you are rushing to give the missile a hug. Dude snap out of that feeling that is tormenting you and reason. Ditch her fast before you land yourself in a ton of shit. Move on dude.

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Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Honestfrend: 12:49am On Dec 18, 2022

If u want her 2 come back... Stop calling her, let her be bro.. Because if it were 2 be her mother or father that called the boss she won't have done same

Give her between 2-3 weeks.. Without calling or texting her. If she doesn't call u.. Move on bro.

But am 95% sure she will.. I can bank on it bro.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by ezeego231: 12:51am On Dec 18, 2022

Omo! Leave that girl, she dey fxxk the boss..
That is not an excuse..
Maybe she is smarter than you, for you to beg means laxity on your side.. you suppose curse her join, for her to try playing with your brain

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Charx122: 12:59am On Dec 18, 2022

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

Next time buy Pussy Reader is a device used indicate if another man don put big gbola inside her "Honey pot" don't worry she will come back thank me later.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Richy4(m): 1:20am On Dec 18, 2022*

tuzle:
the only person I know that can do this in my life currently is my mom. She can call anyone if it is late and your number isn't going through. But calling the boss wasn't a wrong decision although the op is insecure. If ur wife/fiance who normally comes home by 7/8pm is back home at 11pm and u have tried her line tire but it isn't going and the only number u have on her line is her boss own, won u call him.

OP was wrong buddy...
<<Let's say u as a man is a working class
gentleman
<< Due to the fact that you were affected by love bugs, u gave your girl access to the company's account where all sensitive and confidential information of the company was..
<< You told her that u were going out for a company meeting to meet a client..
<< She waited for you and decided to log on to the company's account, retrieve your boss's number and call at that time..
<< The boss asked her how she got his number and she said that u gave her the number...
<< The next day at work, the boss asked you why u should give his number to your girlfriend without his consent..
<< But due to the fact you were not prepared to answer that line of questions, u said that u did not give her.. U confessed that she took it from the company's account because u gave her(a girlfriend) password to the company's account...
<< The company accused you of unprofessional conduct and endangering the company and all kinds of things which means your job is on the line...
<< When u get back home, Please tell me how happy and excited you will be seeing your girlfriend?.. I just need a straight forward answers buddy...

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Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Richy4(m): 1:26am On Dec 18, 2022

Truthshscrazy:
watery beans candidate got me ROTFL

I have heard so much about the famous watery beans in Nigerian prison

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Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by duncan511: 1:41am On Dec 18, 2022

You don’t know much about women, not every things woman tell you to do, you will do, is just a trap to end the relationship and you fall for it, no one is against her but against you because you foolishly took her advice, are you are her father or mother, a woman can tell you something now and the same time blame you for doing that if it goes wrong, that is women for you, you just have to understand women and let them be.

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Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Munzy14(m): 1:47am On Dec 18, 2022

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

Mr lover boy.. cheesy

Them go use you and dump you soon if you keep losing your Masculine self to become effeminate.

Are you sure you understand whom you are dating? undecided

See you talking about proposal already.. lipsrsealed

smh for you..

You will learn hardway..If you don't retrace your insecure self..Oga leave woman and focus on your tech sef.

At least don't call, chat or text her in the next few weeks..Redirect your mind.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Osanoghodua1: 1:48am On Dec 18, 2022

If you want to live long, don't stalk a woman. If she says she's no more interested, stop calling her and stop writing her. Just get some good books and study your bible, start doing some works for God. Don't go into any relationship. If she's yours, she will come back with apology but why call her boss? Don't run after a woman it makes you foolish and less a man. Behave like a real man even if you're a "woman rapper".

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by litaninja(m): 1:56am On Dec 18, 2022

Everytime I say 2 people in a relationship still have to live their individual lives which includes maintaining confidentiality of certain information, people jump down my throat. Why the fvck are 2 grown adults running around with full access to each other's personal devices and accounts that include work information??

Never mind whether she was cheating or not, una 2 relationship no make any sense. You might think it's cute, but it's actually senseless, leaves you vulnerable with a large attack surface.

mtchew

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by drololaaof: 2:01am On Dec 18, 2022

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

You met somebody in June and you want to put your trust in her, sorry oh ! When she is out reach something is happening at your back sir . You don't need explanation, if she cannot made her journey transparent you are in Waterloo. She is hiding something for you .

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Niseed(m): 2:33am On Dec 18, 2022

Seen cases like this before in the past and it never ends well. It starts off looking like love and cuteness but rapidly degenerates to over possessiveness and violence all wrapped up in a nice little bundle.

OP you come across as one of those guys that would start a fight if she looks at someone or a stranger mistakenly looks at her or God forbid ask a question when you are together in a public setting.

I will also assume your desperation to keep her might also be for economic reasons. If you really were engaged with something productive daily I doubt you would have the time to be stalking her 24/7.

And why in the world do people assume because you manage to coerce passwords out of a partner or leaving unlocked phones/emails somehow means theres trust or cheating is eliminated. Only insecure people do that. How old are you sef?

My advice, leave that girl (or any girl for that matter) before you kill her and cost her more than her job

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Jeffy1206(m): 2:35am On Dec 18, 2022

Na this kind of nansense niggas love story dey make me break my phone for peson head o undecided

anyway I have nothing else to say me lover boi angry

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by faceLAGOS: 2:47am On Dec 18, 2022

The op’s story stinks

Yuck!

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by Caseless: 3:08am On Dec 18, 2022

Mino1000:
I see a lot of people saying I was stalking her well, it might be useful to know that she gets pissed whenever I don’t check her location that she sent or when I sleep before ensuring she has reached home safely.

Also she is very big on security and whenever she is going out for work she gives the the colleague she is going withs number and asks me to call if I can’t get through after sometime if I don’t call and say her phone was not reachable she asks why I didn’t call her colleague.

Normally I don’t have time for all this and she complained that I was always coding instead of checking up so I adjusted.

As for finances we are both doing well in the tech industry so that is not the problem or why I am trying to save the relationship.

She is back but right now I am just observing. Also, I called her boss because that was the last person she was with.

Bro, never allow your happiness, your ability to focus, your key to survival and the power to live to depend on anyone, let alone a Nigerian girl. You'll die before your time.

You're wondering why she was in love the previous morning and wouldn't even want to hear your voice again because you called her boss to check on her. I don't know if calling her boss embarrassed her or she read some meaning to it, or maybe you went far - you should have called her friend instead.

Women are something else when they're angry - they use your weakness against you. Maybe they know how attached you are to them, and obviously can't do without them talking to you, then they resort to cutting communication and in communicating, partners find a solid foundation to build their relationship.

So if your woman shuts the door of communication at every little twist on your relationship, bro, build yourself to live without her.

Just have options. Make her see she's no more your priority - if she stays, fine and if she doesn't, fine. The thought of wanting to settle down with a girl almost enslaved me for 3 days. Be a man. Don't appear like a sissy. She must see you acting like a man henceforth.

Go and watch Andrew Tate's video on YouTube. Or watch Kevin Samuel.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by emerged01(m): 3:27am On Dec 18, 2022

Your insecurity have ruin your relationship. How can you go that far when you are not even married? A relationship of 3 month and you are losing yourself. Bro,fix yourself first.

Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by galadima77(m): 3:27am On Dec 18, 2022

Franzinni:
Hehe guy I know how you feel but to be honest you messed up big time, you know a woman loves to be chased but e get when she need to rest from all the running, alot of young men don't know and they keep chasing who nor dey run. ... You had her but now you have lost her forever becasue even if she takes you back and forgives you, you would not have the masculine frame and trust me in little or no time she will dump you patapata.

My advice is give her space ... Let her breath small, you can't choke another person and be asking them why they are choking goddammit!

You even went as far as calling her boss ...Omo you dey love puppy love ...wake up ! Wake your self the f up!! If you love her, you would be mature and apologize, then respect her decisions and give her space... Guy nah woman she be, if you play it right she will come back to you but if you think you can beg your way to her heart back you will only become repulsive and simply cheap.

Man up and shift your focus to your hustle even if your mind go her place ... Endure, resist and persist. After some days you will adjust and then you would be able to see clearly .

I have been in your shoes ... When I was in secondary school, I loved a girl so much ( I thought I did ) that I would wake up write a love letter, then walk like 30 miles to her school before she gets to school and wait to give her the letter, in my mind, that was the price to pay for love but in reality I was only being a pest, and a repulsive creature.

Let her breath... Your perception of love might not be her reality.

Candid one. It's good to always learn the hard way...and if you(OP) don't, then life continues to screw you over especially with women.

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Re: How Do I Save My Relationship by dontrulee: 3:28am On Dec 18, 2022

I like this your type of woman!
This is a thinker!
Releasing herself, giving information so that you can loose your guard.

"She's the middle man between her boss and client", something fishy is definitely going on.

You spoilt things by calling her Boss but if she truly loves you, she'll choose you over her Boss.

You've give too much power to your woman, now you're at the recieving end.

Rest, don't disturb her anymore. If she's into you, she'll come back if not, go forward. There's always people to meet!

Never be scared of loosing anyone, why? Because there's always better people out there.

I wish you the best

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