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Kobojunkie:
Stop lying to yourself!

Or u r d one lying to urself, this is not a matter of words, when u ve ur own children hate them then! No need to banter words with u.

EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/

If thorough investigation could be made into this matter, their mother would be the cause behind their father's reported insensitivity to their plights while alive. Their mother might have done something so heinous to their father which could have prompted that action, nevertheless, he (their father) should have given due care and attention to his children regardless. Children should not be made to pay for the possible sins of their mother in any way.

There are so many untold stories regarding the union called marriage.

habsydiamond:
The moment of truth....for the child to write this down means he has seen hell in the hands of his father.. helping outsiders, leaving ur children to suffer is an act of wickedness. Its better for one's family to speak well about him or her than for them to be laying curse on him of her. This is a lesson for everyone.. Always treat ur family well cos when the going gets tough...family will remain while outsiders will run ooo.

Bros don’t say what you don’t know. Yoruba use to say that omo ale afi owo osi Juwe ile baba ree. My father was a solder I was born and brought up with iron hand if you no work no food you Bleep nah collect. I was in Jss 2 after school close I will go to farm to work as labourers Nd my father is a millionaire got bakery got houses many. By 5am you should be up if not my father will wake you up with water or kick can you imagine a house when you sleep and your father wake you up with water I think my father is wicked I thought he was an evil father I realize a lot of things after the death of my father I realize he was doing us good and not bad.....

Voiceofthestree:
Bros don’t say what you don’t know. Yoruba use to say that omo ale afi owo osi Juwe ile baba ree. My father was a solder I was born and brought up with iron hand if you no work no food you Bleep nah collect. I was in Jss 2 after school close I will go to farm to work as labourers Nd my father is a millionaire got bakery got houses many. By 5am you should be up if not my father will wake you up with water or kick can you imagine a house when you sleep and your father wake you up with water I think my father is wicked I thought he was an evil father I realize a lot of things after the death of my father I realize he was doing us good and not bad.....

I get your point but for him to have printed it in black and white means a lot. Disciplinary actions is to build us for the future so as to increase our survival chances. But that guy see something else from that man hand..

EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/

Then build your legacies, as.....oles!!!!lazy youths!!!

donpapa:
They should go and face their lives too so that there kids won’t say the same about them

Exactly.

Onedayoneday:
By just the picture?

Jennyclay is one of those typical idiots that think they are wise

These deadbeat parents better buckle up, no more eye service and family coverups. The emotional blackmail from families isn’t working as it used to

These new generation of children are airing it and not only that, there’s social media to help them carry it faster than the speed of light

Is good they told the truth than writing long epistle full of lies that he was a good father, I commended their boldness

Danniedpastor:
A girl once told me that the day she have access to a gun,she will kill her father.

chaii

madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.

Lol... Just be grateful to God that you probably didn't experience that kind of father if not you might say/write worse than they did...

Enemyofpeace:
It is not good to speak hill of the dead.

Does that apply to Hitler? Stop that hypocrisy.

enemachris:
You must be incognitive impaired. So you judge people by their looks? , I pray ur kids don't also say this against you someday. You open ur gutter just to spew trash against the dead.

Men judge women by their looks all the time.

If a child said this about their late mother, none of you men here would question it.

Afterall: "Nigerian women are useless"

Just shut up.

Let the dead rest in peace, look at the man's achievements and pedigree. Those kids are raised by a bitter woman simple. No father will ever be good to outsiders and don't know how to be nice to his kids. Never, even wizards won't, kidnappers and ritualists fathers don't.
Go and read about bitter women weaponizing their kids againstst eir dads. E g 50cents, Arnold swazinigger, Wizkid etc they run online to tell you they are dead beat fathers.

I've seen a man train five 5 children for his unfaithful wife, she simply moved away after the last one was 24yrs. And told the children the man was impotent, only for the man to remarry and had twins (boys) with DNA proving they were his and he was never impotent.

But because her mom choose the man over her lazy boyfriend. She only allowed her pregnancy to be from her boyfriend. Same boyfriend already married with kids just imagine. If you see some mad people on the way, just know they may be reaping what they planted years back.

No father will hate his child, and most fathers never love their kids irrationally. You must earn his blessings by being a good child, respect and hardworking are key to earn dad's love.

Women are worse for it, they can love a child unconditionally and can also hate unconditionally, see the list of abandoned babies, maltreatment of step kids and the all two familiar abortions and infanticide, you will shock your shadow by yourself.

Don't ever allow your mom or wife manipulate you against your father or children respectively, they are snakes.

They will report you to your father for disciplinary actions, and comfort you as if your dad is too harsh on you. We keep forgetting the famous scare words, I will tell your Daddy, or your baba go kill you today.

You are not a good father discipline your kids cane them for me, they don't fear me, All these are what they pump fathers within the bedroom and watch him do it. And condemned him in his absence to comfort you and remind you because you don't cooperate with her that's why she allowed dad to kill you. She saved you because she loves you but next time if you fair to listen to her you will face atonement day alone.

EBMedia:
https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/

Says alot, As men we should see how some of us were raised and be better to our spouse and kids. No one is perfect but we all can learn from this. Be responsible

Mindlog:
You are in denial.

The present generation and the future ones, are becoming more daring and less comfortable with "eye service" and cover ups.

The emotional blackmail the society has been using to subsidize deadbeat parents is fast losing its grip on children of neglectful parents.

Publicly treating deadbeat parents mess ups is becoming the new cool.

For those conversant with the bible: Fathers, provoke not your children to anger, lest they be discouraged.....Col. 3:21

PREACH!!!!

kkins25:
John_doe on twitter just blocked me arguing against one of his tweets. A woman was being abused physically by her husband for close to 10 years, and stopped when the children became adults. Do you know what the man that shared the 'testimony' said? that he now respects his father more because as a husband now, he understands the father.
You know why he said so, because, he claimed to have seen his mother with another man in a compromising position.

All i asked on john_does thread was, What do you expect a woman who has been beaten black and blue to do? submit to her abuser then came the block! Fear naija men, give them their way, and they'd wouldn't hesitate in bringing back old customs dare i say female circumcision.

John Doe is a sadist and a misogynist.
He is empty of knowledge, full of pride.
The worst thing about abuse is that the abused becomes the abuser. It's cyclical like that.

1Sharon:
Does that apply to Hitler? Stop that hypocrisy.

It is not good to speak hill of the dead.

Enemyofpeace:
It is not good to speak hill of the dead.

Bs.

Some dad need to be plank.

Yeah typical Ohafia man, so full of themselves, so eager to show off to outsiders that they re making it but never take care of their family.
I feel you bro. Atleast you guys did the honorable thing to bury him.

Atarakpa:
You the children as your dad didn't, you guys should work hard and leave the legacy for your children

The cycle continues

KennethEnyi:
The cycle continues

Wrong! By directly the dead man of hurting them and making his sins against them publicly known they in fact insure themselves against having the cycle repeat itself..

Voiceofthestree:
Bros don’t say what you don’t know. Yoruba use to say that omo ale afi owo osi Juwe ile baba ree. My father was a solder I was born and brought up with iron hand if you no work no food you Bleep nah collect. I was in Jss 2 after school close I will go to farm to work as labourers Nd my father is a millionaire got bakery got houses many. By 5am you should be up if not my father will wake you up with water or kick can you imagine a house when you sleep and your father wake you up with water I think my father is wicked I thought he was an evil father I realize a lot of things after the death of my father I realize he was doing us good and not bad.....

I am sorry, but is that what you call good?

madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.

Rest, cus you have not had the experience.

ChukwukaEze:
I am sorry, but is that what you call good?

Lol we are happy now we appreciate it make us stronger to be a man in this country is not mean oooo Omo to ni iya ohun ko la to ni baba ohun ko ni owo lowo enu ni ohun na wa yeh

Kobojunkie:
How did you reach this conclusion that this is all he owed them?

Usually that is about all a parent owes their children.

Voiceofthestree:
Bros don’t say what you don’t know. Yoruba use to say that omo ale afi owo osi Juwe ile baba ree. My father was a solder I was born and brought up with iron hand if you no work no food you Bleep nah collect. I was in Jss 2 after school close I will go to farm to work as labourers Nd my father is a millionaire got bakery got houses many. By 5am you should be up if not my father will wake you up with water or kick can you imagine a house when you sleep and your father wake you up with water I think my father is wicked I thought he was an evil father I realize a lot of things after the death of my father I realize he was doing us good and not bad.....

Yeah, your dad was not a good father at all. You had to earn your living as his child and were forced from a young age to live as a laborer in his own house. He was running a company in his home, and you were no different from a worker or a slave abeg!

zoedew:
Usually that is about all a parent owes their children.

Who or what law convinced you of that bullsheet?

Chee59:
You have no idea how traumatising it is to watch, as though, through the window, your own father being caring to a fault to every other person, except you and your siblings.
It's almost unbelievable, like, pinch yourself "am I seeing double?"
You'll be a liar when you eventually talk.

God bless u

I have a cousin who I know for sure will do this on his father’s burial,that’s if he goes there sha cos he has vowed to me he will never attend his fathers burial

Let me brief u about it, the father is a well to do man n he has 3 children….2 boys n a girl
The man is averagely rich but will never take care of his children, he only spends money outside where he will b hailed but will never spend 5 naira inside

Imagine been with a father that doesn’t give his children money but will send money to me in school for upkeep, it got so bad that my dad had to tell me that anytime he sends me money I should divide it into 3 n send it equally to his children

He never paid their school fees or did anything on them but this man is a big man outside, they lived in a fine house but u can’t wish what those children face on your worst enemy

The 2 boys are great footballers n I remember a scout wanted to take them to Italy as far back as 2003 but this man refused n he said he will sponsor them abroad to school

Imagine someone that can’t pay Nigeria fee forming big man by telling his children helper he will send them abroad to school

Long story short,their sister got married but it wasn’t that rosy

The 2nd born (a guy) is now working with a mast company in kaduna n earning meagre 50k per month

The 3rd one is now into taxi/Uber weekly delivery in ogun state…. He’s not even d owner of d car

The last born who happens to b my pally among them cos of our age grade told me he will never forgive his father cos he messed them up, he told me he will never attend his burial

Not that the man didn’t have d money ooo, imagine a man that will always donate millions to political campaign despite not being a politician but can’t give his children 5k

D last time the last born came to my place,I realised he’s kinda messed up psychologically n I notice once he’s depressed he’s always playing “ remember me “ by lucky dube n d song can b on repeat for over 5 hours

I really don’t blame nairalander insulting the man. It’s simply cos they don’t know what it takes to b neglected by a rich father

The man didn’t allow anyone help them cos he was forming rich man n he himself didn’t help them

The man ruined them no b small,the 3 of them have vouch not to step a foot into his house n it’s been years they have called him even while he’s alive

I was able to feel their pain cos we are close so to a large extent I saw their pains live n direct

Cc
Typewriter
Oracle009
gaddafe hope if my cousin voice out tomorrow u won’t call him a lazy n hopeless man?

BATified2023:
God bless u

I have a cousin who I know for sure will do this on his father’s burial,that’s if he goes there sha cos he has vowed to me he will never attend his fathers burial

Let me brief u about it, the father is a well to do man n he has 3 children….2 boys n a girl
The man is averagely rich but will never take care of his children, he only spends money outside where he will b hailed but will never spend 5 naira inside

Imagine been with a father that doesn’t give his children money but will send money to me in school for upkeep, it got so bad that my dad had to tell me that anytime he sends me money I should divide it into 3 n send it equally to his children

He never paid their school fees or did anything on them but this man is a big man outside, they lived in a fine house but u can’t wish what those children face on your worst enemy

The 2 boys are great footballers n I remember a scout wanted to take them to Italy as far back as 2003 but this man refused n he said he will sponsor them abroad to school

Imagine someone that can’t pay Nigeria fee forming big man by telling his children helper he will send them abroad to school

Long story short,their sister got married but it wasn’t that rosy

The 2nd born (a guy) is now working with a mast company in kaduna n earning meagre 50k per month

The 3rd one is now into taxi/Uber weekly delivery in ogun state…. He’s not even d owner of d car

The last born who happens to b my pally among them cos of our age grade told me he will never forgive his father cos he messed them up, he told me he will never attend his burial

Not that the man didn’t have d money ooo, imagine a man that will always donate millions to political campaign despite not being a politician but can’t give his children 5k

D last time the last born came to my place,I realised he’s kinda messed up psychologically n I notice once he’s depressed he’s always playing “ remember me “ by lucky dube n d song can b on repeat for over 5 hours

I really don’t blame nairalander insulting the man. It’s simply cos they don’t know what it takes to b neglected by a rich father

The man didn’t allow anyone help them cos he was forming rich man n he himself didn’t help them

The man ruined them no b small,the 3 of them have vouch not to step a foot into his house n it’s been years they have called him even while he’s alive

I was able to feel their pain cos we are close so to a large extent I saw their pains live n direct

Oh, my heart is broken all over again as I read this. What a wicked man.
Not just abandonment and neglect but he blocked their chances at success.
This pain is fresh because it happened in my family.
I have no words, I'm sorry.