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Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Justbehave(m): 2:45pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Supreme145:Shatap. This na Wetin you just talk because you no wan accept the truth. Why you no write am before say her family get money? Na now weh we don tell you the truth you come dey revise. Chill abeg. Your mama get sense. 7 Likes |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Supreme145(m): 2:46pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Justbehave: I even thought I was communicating with someone reasonable, I don't have time to exchange insults...bye 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Justbehave(m): 2:47pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Supreme145:Exactly. It was an after thought after telling you the truth. You no want tell us about her but you no mind telling us say she no dey work and na student.Lol |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Justbehave(m): 2:48pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Supreme145:Bye too. Your mama get sense pass you. She know Wetin dey.lol 7 Likes |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by DAramis: 4:51pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
OP Just do a small official introduction. That is the proper thing to do ,especially this last month of the year. Both of you can travel together to your place for Christmas holiday. That way, your mum, and sisters could interact with her (getting to know her). NB: Only do this if the relationship is serious, and you plan on marrying her if all things are equal. CC Supreme145 |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Cutehector(m): 5:07pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Give her Belle.com |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by folak48: 6:03pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
[quote author=Aareakinwunmi post=119373922] So everyone living a good life is an olosho or yahoo boy. There are a lot of online trading business that can change one's life for good. By the way, Incase you have spare money, this is a good time to buy stocks [/quote How did you come about your signature? It's the same as mine I just discovered that someone changed mine without my knowledge, or are you the one? |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Aareakinwunmi(m): 6:24pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
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Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by ceeceeuwa: 6:54pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Supreme145:Their hatred for women on this forum will not let them think well. I don't know the kind of women they grew up with that has reduced them to being misogynists. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Originalsly: 6:59pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Bro... paybattention to what your mother said .... she cannot accept gifts from someone she doesn't know. I suggest you sit your mother down ... let her know only this girl you find worthy and you would like to introduce her to the family. Bear in mind ... your mother may very well be afraid of losing you to the madame.... so you have to give her the assurance that you will never let a woman make you turn your back or sideline your mother... but then also throw in that you know she will love her as a daughter. After all this softening up... ask if it's OK to bring madam. If yes... then you allow madam to present the gifts herself. You already know women and cloth ... magnet and steel relationship ... but talking about cloth gifts is one thing... your mother can easily reject it... but to have it presented to her... regardless of what her mouth be saying her hands will reach out and grab. I'm out. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Supreme145(m): 7:07pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Originalsly: Words of wisdom...thanks Exactly the same direction I was thinking, I observed she doesn't like me talking about any lady or woman in my life. 9 Likes |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by optm(m): 7:14pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
gasparpisciotta:this is very on point . |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Truvelisback(m): 7:18pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Supreme145:Guy, u are a full grow man now, so maintain ur stance. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Aareakinwunmi(m): 7:34pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Naso I see mine too oo. I tried removing it, but all the same folak48: |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by lionphil(m): 8:22pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Supreme145: Your mum is like some other mums i know. Keep those clothes. Bit by bit, keep sending them to your sisters. Like every 1 month or more till they finish. Your girlfriend doesn't need to know. With time she will get to know. Inform your sisters on the source. 5 Likes |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by rezky(m): 9:36pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Justbehave: You should ask the OP not me. He can't say he's in a relationship with a lady for a while and not know some vital details about her. Moreso, that doesn't give you or the Op's mum to conclude or judge her. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Justbehave(m): 9:47pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
rezky:But he told you that she doesn't have a means of livelihood? Why is it that Nigerians always hide the truth from people just so that they appear good?.I ask you again. A student that is a fashion freak without any means of livelihood gets money from? 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by ModCaller: 10:37pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Send the clothes to an orphanage. |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by WhisperedNoise: 11:07pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Mr OP, Didn't want to comment but after seeing some children throw shades, I thought to lend my voice to the discourse. 1) Don't allow ANYONE make you doubt your girl. The folks who are asking that she got money through prostitution, ignore them. They're not too bright. 2) You actually don't owe anyone an explanation as to what you and your babe do. Be careful of over information. You stated the boundaries of your challenge and what advice you need. Don't bother oversharing. 3) Your mom strikes me as a spiritual person...if this is the case, you need wisdom and firmness. Your Bae should not be offended...your babe should ease into meeting your mom. I know that babe is excited, but she should try to step down the energy a bit so it won't seem like she's over enthusiastic. She should follow your lead. Maybe a basket of fruits (as someone earlier suggested) or milo and milk. After the relationship with mum progresses, she can get ankara or lace materials for mom. But she should chill a bit. 4) You, my bro, might have to wisely shield your babe from mom's criticisms. Your mom might be over protective, just wanting the best for her son. Don't take offense, just strike a balance between wisdom and assertiveness. I wish you well bro. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by WhisperedNoise: 11:09pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
Justbehave: Oga, stop this nau. You are being absolutely rude and disrespectful to the op and his girlfriend. It comes off in very bad taste. Your assumptios and judgements are pedestrian and lack any modicum of intelligence. Please 2023 is almost here. Grow up! 11 Likes |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Richy4(m): 11:50pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
OP... This got nothing to do with her gift or the girl... Your mother is naturally scared that you will not help her in training your siblings.. that you might abandon them Once you are serious with any girl at all, That's her fear... That's the '90s format parents used to register their displeasure when a son was hooked.... Introduce her formally or officially, she will now tell u her mind on how you have not done anything. not helped in training your siblings what u remembered to do first was to talk about marriage... 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Karleb(m): 11:54pm On Dec 23, 2022 |
That your babe ehn, her problem is that she has no problem. Only child(ren) are the most problem free in Nigeria. Let me dash her 20 of my 300 siblings and let's see whether she go send ya mama. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by blaquebelle: 3:07am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Poverty has so bastardized some people that they can't even imagine that a student can be living quality life from her wealthy family background. Every young person with money na olosho or yahoo boy to some of you. And that's why some of you can't even make headway out of poverty. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by frozen70(f): 4:30am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Supreme145: You just have to handle this in a matured way You are in between the two women in your life and you don't have to keep a secret that will create more problems Seat her down and tell her what happen and that she should give you time to sort things out Dont forget to tell her that your mum don't hate her but she is the church going type and it's about her religious life Keep those gift and one day it will get to your sister's Meanwhile keep dating her until the day your mum will meet her and believe that her good heart can melt a stubborn mother inlaw 2 Likes |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by emerged01(m): 7:02am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Justbehave:First mistake guys always make. They ignore what can open their eyes to reality. When the result of their mistake manifest in marriage,they will now be saying marriage is not for everybody. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Justbehave(m): 8:44am On Dec 24, 2022 |
WhisperedNoise:Yes Mr intelligence. Tell me her source of income since she doesn't have any so she is saving from her school fees. Mind you. Only cowards are scared of identifying with any gender just like you and I know you are a woman by your mere manipulative comments. Truth hurts. You know? |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Justbehave(m): 8:55am On Dec 24, 2022 |
blaquebelle:Una no dey like hear the truth. No where in his post that he told us the girl came from a wealthy family. If he start saying it now means it was an after thought.Any student who doesn't have a means of livelihood or comes from a wealthy family but lives an extravagant life is into a shady deal. If you like believe it or not na you Sabi.Girls will always support their gender. |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Justbehave(m): 8:57am On Dec 24, 2022 |
emerged01:No mind am. He knows the truth but is trying to change the narration that she is from a wealthy home which he did not say earlier. |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by WhisperedNoise: 8:59am On Dec 24, 2022 |
Justbehave:You know I'm a woman by my manipulative comments...Pele o, Oshodi Sherlock Holmes. Ndi Dr Sigmund Freud. So a lady can't save from her pocket money? Do you think all ladies are hustlers? Lol. Some ladies get 30k weekly as pocket money. Some get 150k monthly. Her source of income isn't really any of your business as long as it's clean and lawful. She didn't steal from you, did she? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by WhisperedNoise: 9:00am On Dec 24, 2022 |
frozen70:Your comment is wise and practicable. 1 Like |
Re: My Mom Just Rejected My Girlfriend's Gifts by Justbehave(m): 9:02am On Dec 24, 2022 |
WhisperedNoise:Savings from where. How many students can safe from mere pocket money? Is her family wealthy? Read what he wrote and see that he never mentioned she came from a rich home. Truth hurts.Olosho work is also clean.Birds of a feather. 2 Likes |
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