₦airaland Forum

waice6571:
@op... I read many responses posted on your thread and I observed that many are from inexperienced, young and naive young minds.

Your mums reactions isn't about your girlfriend but you. At age 30, your mum didn't see reasons why you should settle down to a family life.
It should also bothered you that what gives you joy is making your mum to be unhappy and she couldn't hide it. She using spirituality to cover up for her disapproval of you moving to the next stage of your life for some reasons best known to her.
Maybe there's a lady somewhere whom she's grooming secretly for you....

Just press further to know the reason why your mum is so cold to your girlfriend she never met. Maybe it is just a fear of the unknown. Try to work things out with her, she may be wrong about her.

To thise calling your girlfriend olosho... Don't mind them, it is because of their personal financial ineptitude/ poverty mentality. Because they are always broke and find it constantly difficult to make ends meet, they thought everyone leading a good life is into crimes and moral perversion.

Justbehave:
But he told you that she doesn't have a means of livelihood? Why is it that Nigerians always hide the truth from people just so that they appear good?.I ask you again. A student that is a fashion freak without any means of livelihood gets money from?

Justbehave:
Your mum is wiser than you. A student with no means of livelihood that is a fashion freak is nothing but an olosho. Your mum knows but you are blinded by the free pussy she's giving you.

Aareakinwunmi:
So everyone living a good life is an olosho or yahoo boy.
There are a lot of online trading business that can change one's life for good.

By the way, Incase you have spare money, this is a good time to buy stocks

Supreme145:
So I've been dating this lady since early this year and everything has been going on smoothly, in fact I even had to tell my mom about her, the first time I would talk to my mother about a lady, but she sounded not too pleased about the lady. Someone she hasn't even met physically.

I've two younger sisters between aged 17 and 15, I didn't like the way they were dressed the last time I visited home so I always try to send them a token every month end to get new cloths. This Xmas I have a lot on my table and have been brainstorming on how to structure my expenses.

My babe is an only child and a fashion freak so she has loads of cloths in her wardrobe. She offered to give some to my sisters without me even asking. She gave me over 30 different pieces of cloths, and bought an ayaya gown or whatever its called for my mom worth around 15k. This is a student that doesn't even have a reliable means of income and I don't give her much. She opened up that she has been saving to get my mom a gift.

I called my mom this morning to tell her that I would be sending the cloths over with some other stuffs I bought for them and she outrightly rejected the girl's gifts citing spiritual reasons that she cant accept gifts from someone she doesn't know. She even accused the girl of trying to pressure me into marriage by pretending to love my family.

I am 30 years old and have dated countless ladies and none has showed genuine concern towards my family like this particular one. It would be so heart breaking to tell her that my mom rejected her gifts knowing how she enthusiastic she was gathering those items.

Sometimes I get tired of my moms spirituality, she's not considering that my sisters even need those items. Those cloths worth over 50k even as second hand materials. I don't understand why she would dislike someone she hasn't even met before.

How do I handle this situation, I don't know what to do with these items, I can't return it to my girlfriend cos it will really hurt her.

AuroraB:
Did op not state 'how' she got the money abi you have selective amnesia
Did you read she's from a rich family either

Supreme145:
Oga there are students that come from well to do homes...I don't know the kind of ladies that you surround yourself with that makes you think every good looking lady is into prostitution.

Supreme145:
The babe is nice naturally... I cant count how many stuffs she has dashed one single mom and her kids in my compound.

Munzy14:
You cannever understand a woman, more than her fellow woman...Let's keep you aside, as love is blind they say..

Get to know the reason behind this outright rejection..Some mothers are spiritual.

You see mothers, as they age, they fade away from sexual life with fathers to a more spiritual life and closeness to God..They see beyond atimes...In addition to experience.

I remember my mom seeing my big cousin's wife for the first time, her exact words to my Aunt was" I too like this girl" my Aunt was like for real?
She said yes.

And trust me The lady is just perfect if We can say..My cousin is lucky.

Some people frown when they see danger..There spirit rejects such immediately..Though they can succumb under pressure..But will tell you, I told you when issues starts pouring in.

Just get to find out your mom's reason.

My mother will do same if she doesn't know this girl down to her root..In the best interest, suspend the gift and take her home for a proper introduction..So they can interact..Before gifts can come in.

There is a communication gap you need to work on.

Supreme145:
So I've been dating this lady since early this year and everything has been going on smoothly, in fact I even had to tell my mom about her, the first time I would talk to my mother about a lady, but she sounded not too pleased about the lady. Someone she hasn't even met physically.

I've two younger sisters between aged 17 and 15, I didn't like the way they were dressed the last time I visited home so I always try to send them a token every month end to get new cloths. This Xmas I have a lot on my table and have been brainstorming on how to structure my expenses.

My babe is an only child and a fashion freak so she has loads of cloths in her wardrobe. She offered to give some to my sisters without me even asking. She gave me over 30 different pieces of cloths, and bought an ayaya gown or whatever its called for my mom worth around 15k. This is a student that doesn't even have a reliable means of income and I don't give her much. She opened up that she has been saving to get my mom a gift.

I called my mom this morning to tell her that I would be sending the cloths over with some other stuffs I bought for them and she outrightly rejected the girl's gifts citing spiritual reasons that she cant accept gifts from someone she doesn't know. She even accused the girl of trying to pressure me into marriage by pretending to love my family.

I am 30 years old and have dated countless ladies and none has showed genuine concern towards my family like this particular one. It would be so heart breaking to tell her that my mom rejected her gifts knowing how she enthusiastic she was gathering those items.

Sometimes I get tired of my moms spirituality, she's not considering that my sisters even need those items. Those cloths worth over 50k even as second hand materials. I don't understand why she would dislike someone she hasn't even met before.

How do I handle this situation, I don't know what to do with these items, I can't return it to my girlfriend cos it will really hurt her.

Justbehave:
Your mum is wiser than you. A student with no means of livelihood that is a fashion freak is nothing but an olosho. Your mum knows but you are blinded by the free pussy she's giving you.

Justbehave:
Your mum is wiser than you. A student with no means of livelihood that is a fashion freak is nothing but an olosho. Your mum knows but you are blinded by the free pussy she's giving you.

Supreme145:
1. I've been dating this lady since early this year.
2.She gave me over 30 different pieces of cloths,
3.and bought an ayaya gown or whatever its called for my mom worth around 15k.
4. This is a student that doesn't even have a reliable means of income and I don't give her much.

Supreme145:
My brother, I no go lie give you, be sensitive between your Mum and Girlfriend. Me no like people wey too dey attach spiritism for everything all in the name of being Spiritual.
Women wey dey behave like that they ruin relationships even amongst close kins.
They fit tell you, your destiny helper is against you, your beloved brother or spouse wan kill you.

You must also be careful with your Girlfriend... Me no too dey like collect gifts from girl wey be friend... This thing wey you just call girlfriend... I no dey like after all I did for him, even when na boxers e buy for me while me I don buy car for am.

Don't also forget that women are Spirit beings, they see far... So you must get close to God yourself so they don't ruin you.
Na why Bible talk say "test all spirits."

Your Mama na Spirit... Your Girlfriend na Spirit. Test to see who carry better spirit among them. Don't forget that true spirit loves... For God is love.

Finally ladies are rivals... Always engaging in contest.

It is not surprising to see your Mama Chicky... When she accuses you of getting another Mother or replacement for her, just because you didn't call her for a space 2 or 3 days.

DissTroy:
"I am 30 years old and have dated countless ladies..."

A 30-year-old but you've dated COUNTLESS ladies? Red flag! Even men should have a limited body count.

Only a dog would sleep with just about any will bîtch.

Supreme145:
So I've been dating this lady since early this year and everything has been going on smoothly, in fact I even had to tell my mom about her, the first time I would talk to my mother about a lady, but she sounded not too pleased about the lady. Someone she hasn't even met physically.

I've two younger sisters between aged 17 and 15, I didn't like the way they were dressed the last time I visited home so I always try to send them a token every month end to get new cloths. This Xmas I have a lot on my table and have been brainstorming on how to structure my expenses.

My babe is an only child and a fashion freak so she has loads of cloths in her wardrobe. She offered to give some to my sisters without me even asking. She gave me over 30 different pieces of cloths, and bought an ayaya gown or whatever its called for my mom worth around 15k. This is a student that doesn't even have a reliable means of income and I don't give her much. She opened up that she has been saving to get my mom a gift.

I called my mom this morning to tell her that I would be sending the cloths over with some other stuffs I bought for them and she outrightly rejected the girl's gifts citing spiritual reasons that she cant accept gifts from someone she doesn't know. She even accused the girl of trying to pressure me into marriage by pretending to love my family.

I am 30 years old and have dated countless ladies and none has showed genuine concern towards my family like this particular one. It would be so heart breaking to tell her that my mom rejected her gifts knowing how she enthusiastic she was gathering those items.

Sometimes I get tired of my moms spirituality, she's not considering that my sisters even need those items. Those cloths worth over 50k even as second hand materials. I don't understand why she would dislike someone she hasn't even met before.

How do I handle this situation, I don't know what to do with these items, I can't return it to my girlfriend cos it will really hurt her.

zakkxx:
Oga obey your mother, some mothers are retired olosho, when they see their colleague they know! Obey your mother before that girl use fornication to confuse your life! Oga only your father can tell if your mother is a good wife! Your mom will always be a good mother to you! Listen to her. Don’t be stupid they are saving you from calamity! Respect that woman live her alone, your so call girlfriend want to buy your mothers love, e no work! Shine your eyes mr man and obey your mother! Any woman your mother and Sister dislikes live that girl alone except that your girl friend is a genuine born again but if you and that girl friend are committing fornication run ooo! If that girl insists on no sex till wedding night and na strong born again in character and everything, convinced your mom! But if you guys are fornicating, your mother is vindicated! From your statement it seems your mother na strong born again; obey her pls!

Justbehave:
Your mum is wiser than you. A student with no means of livelihood that is a fashion freak is nothing but an olosho. Your mum knows but you are blinded by the free pussy she's giving you.

Supreme145:
So I've been dating this lady since early this year and everything has been going on smoothly, in fact I even had to tell my mom about her, the first time I would talk to my mother about a lady, but she sounded not too pleased about the lady. Someone she hasn't even met physically.

I've two younger sisters between aged 17 and 15, I didn't like the way they were dressed the last time I visited home so I always try to send them a token every month end to get new cloths. This Xmas I have a lot on my table and have been brainstorming on how to structure my expenses.

My babe is an only child and a fashion freak so she has loads of cloths in her wardrobe. She offered to give some to my sisters without me even asking. She gave me over 30 different pieces of cloths, and bought an ayaya gown or whatever its called for my mom worth around 15k. This is a student that doesn't even have a reliable means of income and I don't give her much. She opened up that she has been saving to get my mom a gift.

I called my mom this morning to tell her that I would be sending the cloths over with some other stuffs I bought for them and she outrightly rejected the girl's gifts citing spiritual reasons that she cant accept gifts from someone she doesn't know. She even accused the girl of trying to pressure me into marriage by pretending to love my family.

I am 30 years old and have dated countless ladies and none has showed genuine concern towards my family like this particular one. It would be so heart breaking to tell her that my mom rejected her gifts knowing how she enthusiastic she was gathering those items.

Sometimes I get tired of my moms spirituality, she's not considering that my sisters even need those items. Those cloths worth over 50k even as second hand materials. I don't understand why she would dislike someone she hasn't even met before.

How do I handle this situation, I don't know what to do with these items, I can't return it to my girlfriend cos it will really hurt her.

Supreme145:
I even thought I was communicating with someone reasonable, I don't have time to exchange insults...bye

Justbehave:
No normal person will accept such gifts from a anybody who doesn't have means of livelihood and a student for that matter. You think say op mother no know Wetin the girl dey do?

Justbehave:
Your mum is wiser than you. A student with no means of livelihood that is a fashion freak is nothing but an olosho. Your mum knows but you are blinded by the free pussy she's giving you.

Supreme145:
She said I shouldn't send for the girls either, that the spiritual warfare of her children is her concern. I still plan to send the cloths to my sisters, I doubt they will forgive her if she stops them from wearing them cos I know all ladies loves cloths and these ones are too fine to be rejected.

Supreme145:
Words of wisdom...thanks
Exactly the same direction I was thinking, I observed she doesn't like me talking about any lady or woman in my life.

naturefellow:
don't be daft, especially on Christmas Day

Supreme145:
Words of wisdom...thanks
Exactly the same direction I was thinking, I observed she doesn't like me talking about any lady or woman in my life.

Superwave16320:
Make we hear word or you mean olosho n yahoo ro not exist ?

Aareakinwunmi:
So everyone living a good life is an olosho or yahoo boy.
There are a lot of online trading business that can change one's life for good.

By the way, Incase you have spare money, this is a good time to buy stocks

Supreme145:
So I've been dating this lady since early this year and everything has been going on smoothly, in fact I even had to tell my mom about her, the first time I would talk to my mother about a lady, but she sounded not too pleased about the lady. Someone she hasn't even met physically.

I've two younger sisters between aged 17 and 15, I didn't like the way they were dressed the last time I visited home so I always try to send them a token every month end to get new cloths. This Xmas I have a lot on my table and have been brainstorming on how to structure my expenses.

My babe is an only child and a fashion freak so she has loads of cloths in her wardrobe. She offered to give some to my sisters without me even asking. She gave me over 30 different pieces of cloths, and bought an ayaya gown or whatever its called for my mom worth around 15k. This is a student that doesn't even have a reliable means of income and I don't give her much. She opened up that she has been saving to get my mom a gift.

I called my mom this morning to tell her that I would be sending the cloths over with some other stuffs I bought for them and she outrightly rejected the girl's gifts citing spiritual reasons that she cant accept gifts from someone she doesn't know. She even accused the girl of trying to pressure me into marriage by pretending to love my family.

I am 30 years old and have dated countless ladies and none has showed genuine concern towards my family like this particular one. It would be so heart breaking to tell her that my mom rejected her gifts knowing how she enthusiastic she was gathering those items.

Sometimes I get tired of my moms spirituality, she's not considering that my sisters even need those items. Those cloths worth over 50k even as second hand materials. I don't understand why she would dislike someone she hasn't even met before.

How do I handle this situation, I don't know what to do with these items, I can't return it to my girlfriend cos it will really hurt her.