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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Crystalom5: 7:07pm On Dec 28, 2022
ukaface:
Na mad men full this thread
thread wey never even full?
Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Medianna(f): 7:08pm On Dec 28, 2022
Crystalom5:
this is still shifting the blame to men.

We all know that men are valuable. Like women have inherent values to men, men also have inherent values to women.

This value is universal and based on the gender that you are. Everyone has values.

So, you cannot say men have no values without implying the same for women. And if we cancel out inherent values, you'll find that women have a lot less to be desired for anything.

They have no greater strength to win in any game when it's all fair and square, they have no greater logical skills and so on.

So cast aside your blame game let's really have an introspective answer.

Medianna
I can't even be playing that game of who has value and who doesn't have value.
My own is in English,invaluable mean something of high value.
Shikena!!!!

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Jeon(f): 7:09pm On Dec 28, 2022
Crystalom5:
this is still shifting the blame to men.

We all know that men are valuable. Like women have inherent values to men, men also have inherent values to women.

This value is universal and based on the gender that you are. Everyone has values.

So, you cannot say men have no values without implying the same for women. And if we cancel out inherent values, you'll find that women have a lot less to be desired for anything.

They have no greater strength to win in any game when it's all fair and square, they have no greater logical skills and so on.

So cast aside your blame game let's really have an introspective answer.

Medianna

Yes ooh.. Men are always Saints.

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Crystalom5: 7:11pm On Dec 28, 2022
Jeon:


Yes ooh.. Men are always Saints.
you can close your nyash. I no dey enter through backdoor grin

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Crystalom5: 7:13pm On Dec 28, 2022
Medianna:

I can't even be playing that game of who has value and who doesn't have value.
My own is in English,invaluable mean something of high value.
Shikena!!!!
lolz.

So sister in the lord y cant you keep one these high-quality, handsome and wondrous men carefully and wonderfully placed on this earth with you grin
Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Jeon(f): 7:18pm On Dec 28, 2022
Crystalom5:
you can close your nyash. I no dey enter through backdoor grin

Eno concerns me.
Na ur option /sarcasm be that.


Even Rapes are blamed on Women.


https://www.nairaland.com/7500200/jean-innocent-florida-man-41.
Thank God this one didn't blame the girl or the regular Lucifer. Rather he put the blames on voodoo.

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 7:20pm On Dec 28, 2022
Persephone1:
The one your mother leads right?
please do find it in your heart to resist that tempting urge of quoting me out of context...
Thanks for understanding

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:
please do find it in your heart to resist that tempting urge of quoting me out of context...
Thanks for understanding
If you have a working brain you will know best not to address strangers as harlots because they sound feminine and you share cyber space with them.

Next time be wise enough to edit my moniker out before you go on to spew nonsense. Have a restless evening .

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 7:23pm On Dec 28, 2022
Crystalom5:
you can close your nyash. I no dey enter through backdoor grin
Crystalom5=7
Jeon=0

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Jeon(f): 7:24pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:

Crystalom5=7
Jeon=0

thunder fire you..
I have told severally to stop quoting me..
Why are so obsessed and can't stay away even with the ignore?.



Resourcesswift:
She almost bit off my tongue.
Jeon come share your experience
Permission to mention u
. Plz
He was even asking for my permission in order to mention me... Man, I don't need it from you.

Please, NL Men come tell him to stay away from my mentions. Please I don't need it.

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Savedday: 7:30pm On Dec 28, 2022
9ja lady can only keep a SIMP, any man that uses his head can never ever be kept by a 9ja girl.

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 7:32pm On Dec 28, 2022
Persephone1:
If you have a working brain you will know best not to address strangers as harlots because they sound feminine and you share cyber space with them.

Next time be wise enough to edit my moniker out before you go on to spew nonsense. Have a restless evening .
I only mentioned hookup cartel...
If u r smart upstairs, u would have ignored
Instead of quoting me and spewing half baked and unintelligent gibberish words,
That undermines your level of mediocrity.

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 7:38pm On Dec 28, 2022
Jeon:


thunder fire you..
I have told severally to stop quoting me..
Why are so obsessed and can't stay away even with the ignore?.
c'mmon fade off!!
If you where smart enough, u would have ignored...
But r just a lame and confused nairalander..
(f) today. (m) tomorrow...

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Nobody: 7:39pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:
I only mentioned hookup cartel...
If u r smart upstairs, u would have ignored
Instead of quoting me and spewing half baked and unintelligent gibberish words,
That undermines your level of mediocrity.
Sweetheart life doesn't work that way, not even in fairy tales do offenders get to determine how their offences are met or punished. You don't get to choose how provocations are reacted to. You insulted my person and still feel entitled to how i should react, are you sure you are okay? cheesy Is this a joke or something?

I repeat, i would only accept your title if your mother is the leader of the cartel. Try your silly gaslighting with another, huh?

So tell me is your mom is leader of this hookup cartel and how lucrative is it. cheesy

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:
c'mmon fade off!!
If you where smart enough, u would have ignored...
But r just a lame and confused nairalander..
(f) today. (m) tomorrow...
You must live in bubbles to believe you can throw insults around and still expect the receiver to ignore or overlook. grin grin I hope this is not how you are offline!

Your entitlement mentality is on another level!

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Crystalom5: 7:44pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:
c'mmon fade off!!
If you where smart enough, u would have ignored...
But r just a lame and confused nairalander..
(f) today. (m) tomorrow...

Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 7:49pm On Dec 28, 2022
Persephone1:
You must live in bubbles to believe you can throw insults around and still expect the receiver to ignore or overlook. grin grin I hope this is not how you are offline!

Your entitlement mentality is on another level!
you need to think outside the box. Else fade into Oblivion

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Nobody: 7:52pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:
you need to think outside the box. Else fade into Oblivion
Okay! You bore me now...


Fade off please. smiley

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Purpletee(f): 8:05pm On Dec 28, 2022
I lose interest too quick

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 8:09pm On Dec 28, 2022
Persephone1:
Okay! You bore me now...


Fade off please. smiley
u bore me more!!

of what use r you to me?
If not to catch Cruise!!

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 8:10pm On Dec 28, 2022
Purpletee:
I lose interest too quick
maybe cos u r into hookup

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Jeon(f): 8:11pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:
c'mmon fade off!!
If you where smart enough, u would have ignored...
But r just a lame and confused nairalander..
(f) today. (m) tomorrow...

confused f m ,but you can't resist to quote it.
You /I who's more stupid and confused?



Yeah, I really tried to ignored....But it seems you are senseless to understand that ur mentions worth nothing and it irritates me anytime I see this fman foolishman's name popping up on my mentions.

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Kobojunkie: 8:15pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:
When they are busy jumping from one gbola to another
Why can't they do that? undecided

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by etrange: 8:18pm On Dec 28, 2022
The fact that you asked ladies, but the men are all over the thread insulting/abusing thier mothers and sisters is enough to explain why keeping men might be difficult. Men can be inhibitions, they don't give space for thier women to be fulfilled in thier own rights. They see ladies as elements to complete thier own picture without caring much about the ladies' picture. In fact, men want to evolve while ladies don't, and that's not practical. This mostly apply to African men. So asking the women to say why they can't keep a man without blaming men invariably implies you've already concluded it is the woman's fault. In other words, you've already blamed the women and you're just forcing them to accept it and 'confess' thier guilt.

Finally, it's not anyone's duty to keep anyone. People either stay or go.

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 8:21pm On Dec 28, 2022
Jeon:


confused f m ,but you can't resist to quote it.
You /I who's more stupid and confused?



Yeah, I really tried to ignored....But it seems you are senseless to understand that ur mentions worth nothing and it irritates me anytime I see this fman foolishman's name popping up on my mentions.
seems i gat this one by the balls:
I can't wait to see you fade into Oblivion!!
Confused nairalander!!

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by opeyy(f): 8:23pm On Dec 28, 2022
Independence. Period!

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Jeon(f): 8:26pm On Dec 28, 2022
fman:
seems i gat this one by the balls:
I can't wait to see you fade into Oblivion!!
Confused nairalander!!

No, you really got urself by shooting ur own balls since I warned to stay away since August,but no your low self esteem won't resist to.


Die Hard Piece of Fade 1st Century Used Tissue Paper that can't accept rejection..


Always trying to press himself down to people's throats no matter the rejections .

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Crystalom5: 8:27pm On Dec 28, 2022
etrange:
The fact that you asked ladies, but the men are all over the thread insulting/abusing thier mothers and sisters is enough to explain why keeping men might be difficult. Men can be inhibitions, they don't give space for thier women to be fulfilled in thier own rights. They see ladies as elements to complete thier own picture without caring much about the ladies' picture. In fact, men want to evolve while ladies don't, and that's not practical. This mostly apply to African men. So asking the women to say why they can't keep a man without blaming men invariably implies you've already concluded it is the woman's fault. In other words, you've already blamed the women and you're just forcing them to accept it and 'confess' thier guilt.

Finally, it's not anyone's duty to keep anyone. People either stay or go.
why a lady cannot keep a man does not equal to blaming men neither does it absorb men of the blame.

Rather we are focusing on the other side of the coin which we don't often talk about: ourselves.

It's easy to point accusing fingers at other people and other things but yourself. The aim of this thread is to point that finger at yourself, dig deep and see if you can cast any blame on yourself.

This is a thread for accountability not accusations. Like you Just did accusing men in everything you did instead of taking stock and trying to be accountable.

If all men are the fault, then what of those marrying and those who have stayed in marriage for 30 or 40 years?

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by fman(m): 8:31pm On Dec 28, 2022
Jeon:


No, you really got urself by shooting ur own balls since I warned to stay away since August,but no your low self esteem won't resist to.


Die Hard Piece of Fade 1st Century Used Tissue Paper that can't accept rejection..


Always trying to press himself down to people's throats no matter the rejections .
and you still can't resist that tempting urge of mentioning me!!
You sound like someone in despair!!
I triumph over u!!
You are now loyal .

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Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Crystalom5: 8:32pm On Dec 28, 2022
Purpletee:
I lose interest too quick
it just happens? How about trying to be innovative in the relationship? You know most times, ladies depend on a man to come up with creative ideas for fun and to keep the relationship going.

Maybe try to take some lead with your next one.
Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Crystalom5: 8:34pm On Dec 28, 2022
Not Jeon and fman bouncing their ego with nairaland mentions on my thread.

Y'all should kiss already or shoot each other. I get gun for una grin
Re: Ladies, Without Blaming Men Why Can't You Keep A Man by Crystalom5: 8:37pm On Dec 28, 2022
opeyy:
Independence. Period!
personally and from experience if ladies talk about independence, all I hear is the space to still fvck around.

I no mean am as insult. Just my personal experience.

But honestly, aside preventing you from other guys, I don't see any other way a relationship takes away your 'independence'

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