| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by sammyKCC(m): 10:12pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. Your daughter has been abused and i strongly believe she's not lying. As it stands, your focus should be geared towards her psychological healing before thoughts and images of the act will affect her growing up. 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by marsup: 10:14pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Your husband is also a culprit, if he doesn't speak out, and take action. This is pure evil.
Don't keep quiet, so your daughter doesn't think this is normal.
Speak out against molestation,
Speak out against oppression
Speak out against child abuse
Let the world hear you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Greenscientist: 10:14pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113:
wow, this is still going on in Nigeria till date?
Several years ago, that is how they almost turned a relative to gayy.... and it took deliverance and plenty therapy for the small boy to be delivered.
Sadly no one believed the boy but my parents were quick to tell his parents to take him to several therapists and also to prayer mountains or for spiritual cleansing.... chai...
In a twist of events, the prophetess that prayed for him got so enraged by the abuse, she claimed they have tempered with the boy's star and that is why she took the names of the abusive family and the adolescent who perpetrated such act on the boy.... and the prophetess fasted for 2 weeks that judgement should come on them.... guess what IT HAPPENED. they got into an accident, the legs of the adolescent boy were damaged beyond repair and the rich parents spent all their funds for years on his health till they become so poor.
So I suggest you do something similar to eradicate whatever they have done to your daughter psychologically and spiritually.
May God punish such evil people and give you the strength to do the needful. What's the name of the movie? |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by adisabarber(m): 10:17pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. If you want justice go to the police. Going to their church to stop her baptism is blackmail and it is not likely to work. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 10:18pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. Op naaa you mess up big-time. You were highly sentimental&judgmental becos it involved your own daughter. Something you would have either used psychology to find out the truth or discussed with the other family calmly. Instead you just threw the other family under the bus as if it was all of them than sucked your daughter's vagina. Your initial reaction was irrational and condemning. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by FireUpNow(m): 10:18pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Moral values are dead 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by yrhuhfy113: 10:19pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Greenscientist:
What's the name of the movie? When you meet a genuine prophet or prophetess who can change situations by prayer.... PLS ASK THEM. Be there asking for name of movie.... 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Softmirror: 10:19pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Gokoyer0:
I was also sexually molested when i was little. Now, i have 2 beautiful kids but i still remember that sad day after decades.
HONESTLY, I PERSONALLY DON'T HAVE ANY REGRET WHEN I LOOK BACK. WHAT I CAME TO REALISE LATER IN LIFE IS THE REASON WHY THE SOCIETY VERY MUCH UNIVERSALLY TRY SO HARD TO TAME THE SEXUAL IMPULSES OF THE FEMALE GENDER. VERY PRETENTIOUS BEING THAT LOVE SEX SO MUCH TO A FAULT BECAUSE THEIR HORMONES WON'T LET THEM BE. WITH THE PROTRUDING OF THE BREAST, CURVATURE OF THE HIPS, GROWTH OF VAGINA HAIR, AND E.T.C. NATURE PREPARES THE FEMALE GENDER FOR SEX VERY MUCH EARLY IN LIFE. SHE BECOMES VERY SEXUALLY AWARE VERY EARLY IN LIFE. THE WAY OUT IS CODED RUNS WITH LITTLE BOYS BEFORE BECOMING CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO WELCOME OLDER MEN WHO HAVE BEEN LOOKING AT THEM WITH LUSTFUL EYES AND THE KNOW WHAT IT MEANS. 3 Likes |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Whoknow: 10:22pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Please this should serve as an example to all parents trust no one, try and know the mood of your children. You should have acted immediately when you noticed that she was not happy when you called her on video call. The problem with some parents is laxity and over trust. Do not make the mistake of leaving your children unmonitored with an opposite sex even same sex. Trust no one. 2 Likes |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Shalashaska: 10:22pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
This issue happens a lot to kids in Nigeria. Sometimes it's the house help and sometimes a close relative. It's sad really. It has been happening from time though. That 15 ye old girl was likely also molested sexually at a young age and they both need counseling and therapy. 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by michigang: 10:24pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
mariahAngel:
Fight for her.
She's relying on you.
The above part is just heartbreaking. confess your sins and put the devil to shame |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by meetme01: 10:24pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. Time to start psycho educating your daughter. As you are using bibble verses ensure you use true experience. You have to continue this for a very long time. Try as much as possible to allow her relate will her age mates and those ahead with proper monitoring without your presence. The incident is stuck in her brain and if care is not taken, she would be an introvert and might not want to associate with her peers as gets older and be a tomboy. The present generation are clever and smarter than us. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by CartelKenneth: 10:25pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
faceLAGOS:
Please, where is this river located? Anambra 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by kernniejay(m): 10:25pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. Your daughter is coounting on you for an action, she trusts you would do something to fight for her. Now, take her for medical check up first to be sure she has not been infected and her virginity has not been tampered with. Next step, report the little pervert to the police or welfare authorities for appropriate actions, they know what to do about her case. Tell your husband you are advised to do so from the hospital and that you have to take those actions to stop the 15 year old pervert from further decay and to also stop her corrupting other children and to discourage her from going gaga in such act when she becomes adult. Do something so that your daughter's confidence in you will not be shattered. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by nairamaniac: 10:30pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
ibkayee:
Where is a 4 year old going to learn about such a peculiar thing that they’re saying she’s lying.
His family’s response is all I’d need to distance myself from that family forever. I doubt the perpetrator is going to face any substantial disciplinary action.
Just disgusting you shouldnt be easily judgmental. The 4year old could have learnt it from anywhere, including her parents. At the age of 4, some things are still very cloudy in the minds&vision of kids of that age. I know how many times I could swear I saw ghost or superman in real life. The op and her husband messed up in a manner of approach&reaction. The husband even turned his back on his dad and the rest. U don't throw an entire family under bus becos you heard an accusation against one of their own. Except if there was as existing enmity between both sides before then. Asif it was the entire family that connived to suck her daughter's Virgina in turns. The op&huaband owes them an apology for her initial condemnation. Except the inlaws have admited the offence. I too like myself shaaa, very patient to find out the truth without burning the entire bridge or innocent persons. |
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| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Oesophagus99(m): 10:31pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
A tale as old as time!
... an old spiteful story. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Mustiboy:
I’m not saying your daughter is lying.
But I’ve seen children of your daughter’s age lie against innocent people in issues such as this and beyond.
Children aren’t always innocent and have the potential to do evil, especially considering they don’t know the consequences of their actions.
You can insult me all you want, but I’m only speaking from experience. Many may not agree with you on this because the victim is a minor and perhaps people blindly don’t believe minors would lie with such a grave accusation, but I vividly see reason in what you said, I have had such experience and it dents reputation of the accused forever Note: I’m not disputing or saying such acts never occurred, but I’m trying to point out similar thing which has happened in the past and has damaged a family relationship/bond beyond repair 2 Likes |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by AFONJAPIG(m): 10:32pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Children can lie , most especially children of nowadays are lying machines, I remember the day I lied against our neighbour's son because I saw her with a girl am like playing with under the staircase , I add salt and pepper so they can discipline the boy for taking my gf... these happen when I was even 6yrs |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by spiritedtete: 10:35pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Escalate it to the human right public defender, they will get the young girl for questioning and she will say the truth. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Hassanmaye(m): 10:36pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. Please address this immediately especially the way her parents and the evil mother is showing nonchalant attitude. This is a very serious something. Mind you kids don't lie because they're innocent, they're not exposed to the environment yet 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by imagrg(m): 10:36pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Evil generation...an offshoot of bad government. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by FHL3: 10:40pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
This is very disheartening but please, consider carefully the different pieces of advice that have been given and act with wisdom and discretion. Please, permit me to add the following as well:
1. Get professional therapist for your daughter to heal and overcome the trauma.
2. You, your husband and your daughter are hurt. Considering how your husband has acted given how painful it is for him too, please, ensure you and your husband act in unison. Don't take decisions single-handedly to avoid avoidable frictions between you and your husband and the matter creating a mess in your marriage.
3. I don't know how long or how soon it will be, but please make a decision to forgive. It may be difficult but it is needed for wholeness. Don't keep yourself and your family in the prison of unforgiveness. The damage it does to us far outweighs the relief we feel from it.
Thank you. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by whitering: 10:40pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Your husband family is evil for trying to cover up .
Even a 2 yrs child can report or give you clue about a bad experience.
That girl need to be thoroughly flog in the presence of everybody . 2 Likes |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Okhuadams(m): 10:41pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. The best solution is working to erase it from ur daughters mind. Forget about the caused family focused or daughters recovery that's the primary issues. But never make any attempt to keep ur daughter near them. And u don't think ur hubby has done enough. 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by ibkayee(f): 10:44pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
nairamaniac:
you shouldnt be easily judgmental. The 4year old could have learnt it from anywhere, including her parents.
At the age of 4, some things are still very cloudy in the minds&vision of kids of that age.
I know how many times I could swear I saw ghost or superman in real life.
The op and her husband messed up in a manner of approach&reaction.
The husband even turned his back on his dad and the rest.
U don't throw an entire family under bus becos you heard an accusation against one of their own. Except if there was as existing enmity between both sides before then.
Asif it was the entire family that connived to suck her daughter's Virgina in turns.
The op&huaband owes them an apology for her initial condemnation. Except the inlaws have admited the offence.
I too like myself shaaa, very patient to find out the truth without burning the entire bridge or innocent persons. A make believe story about seeing unicorns and Batman is very different to cooking up a story about this very peculiar action. I may not be privy to the 100% facts but I’m inclined to believe that something very fishy is going on at the very least and it’s highly unlikely that the minor initiated/orchestrated it. I don’t think my line of thought is unreasonable 3 Likes |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by matm: 10:45pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Same happens to boy kids.
Leave ur kid boy and girls)mature ladies are sucking his tiny dick and mouth.
DTS why u shld always ask ur kid at home where anyone touched him or her esp. those living in same vicinty with u when u are back.
A guy told me how a mature lady home teacher was putting his dick in her stupid diseased vagina when he was small and he didn't even understand what she was doing.
What a terrible child abuse.Robbing kids their innocence.Such people should be dealt with ruthlessly.So disgusting.Parents beware.dont trust any gender. Tell ur kid to inform u if anyone whether male or female touched his/her genital or kissed him/her in ur absence.
Trust kids, they will speak up, if u educate and inform them aright. 3 Likes |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by molybdenum0012: 10:47pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
Mustiboy:
I’m not saying your daughter is lying.
But I’ve seen children of your daughter’s age lie against innocent people in issues such as this and beyond.
Children aren’t always innocent and have the potential to do evil, especially considering they don’t know the consequences of their actions.
You can insult me all you want, but I’m only speaking from experience. Based on my experience, I agreed with you. She could be lying. I would have shared it here, but can’t type tonight. 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Isabi4lov: 10:48pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
ScamHunter:
You ain't seen nothing yet ma. I'm scared for any child now because you can NEVER trust anyone with your child.
One Saturday morning, I noticed that my neighbors' two daughters were close to my window. I opened the curtain and there were these two girls, a 10 year old and an 11 year old having lesbian sex on the floor.
Since the glass was closed, I knew they won't see me. I took my phone and chatted with my friend about what I was witnessing. Told her that I intended to tell the mother of the 10 year old since we are friendly. She told me to video it in case they denied and I did.
One of the girls was even teaching the other, the 10 year old that she could do oral on her. The day I chatted the lady mother of the 10 year old, the woman, a single mother was confused. That's what the world has become.
Not even boy children are safe from predatory girls, especially family. Never leave your child with anyone if possible. Not a man, not a woman. Not even a child without supervision. There are many predators out there and there are many careless parents. With internet enabled phones in the hands of children, we're close to a moral apocalypse.
Be sure to talk to your husband to talk to the girl's parents. She is also a victim that needs treatment not punishment. Someone somewhere abused the 15 year old perhaps when she was a child. Some of us as children were also abused by the so-called house help girls. What you said is true , I witnessed the one of two teenagers they were girls , if you see the way they were romancing each other and trying to kiss each in the public o , I was just shaking my head , these ones have started lesbianism from small. No one is to be trusted again. |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
I'll be brutally honest with you.
Your daughter may never forget that incident.
I was that age when a girl molested me. I have carried that memory till date. It ruined my growing up.
As a mother, do whatever you want and take your daughter for counselling.
Your husband is clueless 1 Like |
| Re: Sexual Molestation Of A Minor. by andy244: 10:53pm On Jan 04, 2023 |
You have one assignment, and that is to work on your daughter to overcome the thoughts. Yes make sure she forgets about it. I can feel ypur pain. So so sorry dear. MsJackson:
Good morning house. I need your opinion on this issue.
Around May last year, my husband and I went with my 4 year old daughter to visit my sister in-law (hubby's elder sister). They insisted they wanted her to stay some days with them, that I should return for her in two or three days time.
After much persuasion from my oga, I left her. But my heart wasn't settled because I've never stayed away from her for that long.
I just noticed that when we called her on video call the very next morning, she looked and sounded depressed, telling us to come take her home. I just thought she was missing me.
I returned the next three days to pick her up. It was even the oldest cousin, a 15 year old girl, who was actually very fond of my daughter that helped me carry her on her back and saw us off to the bustop.
Two or 3 months later, at the end of a Bible study I had with her, my baby said she wanted to tell me something. Hubby was lying on the couch. My baby said the period I took her to that house, the 15 year old girl was always sucking her vagina. My brain shut down immediately. Her dad jumped from the couch and told her to repeat what she just said. She did. She also said that the girl usually holds her mouth close during the act, and that she beats the girl on the head to stop what she was doing, but the girl refused and beat my daughter back.
I broke down. Hubby had never become so mad at his family to the extent of turning his back on them, to the extent of shutting his dad up, but he did all these because his only child was involved.
The family, they all said my daughter was lying. My question is: can a four year old lie about such? The nature of this supposed lie. I don't think so. But all the family members said my daughter lied. And even the girl denied it.
They are totally refusing to address this. They even after some weeks have codedly believe such happened and have called my husband to beg, hubby said so, I don't know if it's true or not. But me the wife, NOBODY, I REPEAT, NOBODY CALLED ME. Like I am nothing in their eyes. Not even the evil mother that insisted my daughter spent some days with them. It's not like if they called me to apologize it would change the past, no, but I might have some tiny relief.
My daughter talks about that experience till date. Even up till yesterday. I am beyond heartbroken. I can't forgive.
The family all turned their face away. Nobody cared to address it, even his parents. I'm thinking of going to their church to expose her because I hear the 15 year old girl is getting baptized next week. Hubby told me to forget about it, his brother told me not to try it. But anytime my daughter remembers this incident and brings it up, I become very disturbed. I don't know what to do.
Please advise me. 1 Like |
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