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Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by Henrydata(m): 10:01pm On Jan 03, 2023
after4:
It's either this story if fake or you are the fool they said you are.

That girl does not like you.

So you don't know that her even talking about you opening a shop for your mother is very disrespectful

Abeg give her you ATM pin and BVN number
I wonder bro. How can a girl I am dating ask me about opening a shop for my mum.

She nor dey fear?
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by Henrydata(m): 10:06pm On Jan 03, 2023
udomonday:
If a lady really loves you,sex becomes fun and she makes sure you perform your sexual duty to the satisfaction of both of you.run from a woman that uses sex as a bargaining tool,she is selfish and a user.
Gbam
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by Henrydata(m): 10:08pm On Jan 03, 2023
toujurs:
You say what? grin oga you don't know what you are saying at all.

That girl doesn't like him, she is just using him for benefits, and it's normal thing most girls do to guys they don't like.

Trust me, one other guy, is fucking this single mum, and still borrowing money from her.
Thank you jare for this comment
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by jimcaddy(m): 10:10pm On Jan 03, 2023
No sex for lazy men right? No problem oh. Maybe you forget the part where he mentioned that he pays the bills in the house. I can't be with a single mother because many have serious psychological issues that they have failed to resolve and now transfer it into their new relationship.
Jeweltz:
If you can't cook and clean, what else would you be doing for the woman you claim to love.?
No sex for lazy man. Work for it. I can't marry a man that can't take care of my needs
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by dmgr(m): 10:22pm On Jan 03, 2023
Jeweltz:
I want a real man in my life. Not all these broke men who only want to have sex with me. They lie and they'll still cheat. You wonder what y'all men want. Confused gender angry
And what do you have to offer in return?
Aside sex
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by kals4luv990(m): 10:29pm On Jan 03, 2023
Jeweltz:
If you can't cook and clean, what else would you be doing for the woman you claim to love.?
No sex for lazy man. Work for it. I can't marry a man that can't take care of my needs
the virgin has spoken

Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by litaninja(m): 10:39pm On Jan 03, 2023
Dem dey tell you something....but you sha still no wan get sense shhaaa?

Move on. SIMPle.

Lade18:
She actually like me. She's just not sure of how committed I am yet. Which I have tried to show her. But she's not convinced
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by litaninja(m): 10:40pm On Jan 03, 2023
Person wey no well.

Fahvvy:
The OP is footing her bills and sending her five year old daughter to school, isn't that "work" enough? undecided...

Either ways sha...
With this mindset of yours, I doubt any sane man worth his salt would even spare you a glance undecided....
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by litaninja(m): 10:41pm On Jan 03, 2023
You can't marry. Period.
Jeweltz:
If you can't cook and clean, what else would you be doing for the woman you claim to love.?
No sex for lazy man. Work for it. I can't marry a man that can't take care of my needs
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by obstead200(m):
Lade18:
Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.

Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.

Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.

My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by obstead200(m):
Lade18:
She actually like me. She's just not sure of how committed I am yet. Which I have tried to show her. But she's not convinced
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jan 03, 2023
Dópémú oni jékujé (long throat) why a single mum? What's wrong with a young lady... By the time the shape of your turn to periwinkle your eye go clear shocked
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by Coolgent(m): 11:44pm On Jan 03, 2023
Lade18:
Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.

Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.

Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.

My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?
RED FLAGS!
be extremely careful with that woman otherwise you will regret later.
Leave her alone, stay away from that manipulative woman failure do to so will land u in trouble sooner or later.

Save my comment for future reference
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by Oduduwa707: 12:40am On Jan 04, 2023
Ekeletu confirm! The greatest simp of all time!
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by Tayorshd2(m): 1:09am On Jan 04, 2023
Lade18:
She actually like me. She's just not sure of how committed I am yet. Which I have tried to show her. But she's not convinced
She doesn't have feelings for you stop spending unnecessary for the poor lady and go for who cares for u more
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by KingLion007(m): 4:02am On Jan 04, 2023
Lade18:
She actually like me. She's just not sure of how committed I am yet. Which I have tried to show her. But she's not convinced
You're still defending her claiming she likes you...Bros hu do u dis kind thing...Why u dey fall men hand lyk dis...Na waoooooo
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by FiremanX: 5:59am On Jan 04, 2023
Muffassa:
If this story is real then you SIMPly need deliverance WEAK men everywhere :Dsmh
As in, the guy is very foolish
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by space9880: 11:47am On Jan 04, 2023
Lade18:
She actually like me. She's just not sure of how committed I am yet. Which I have tried to show her. But she's not convinced
wow so your aim in life is to convince her that you love her? After one for that matter….. she’s already complaining about your mother and she’s not even giving you sex. Mr man just use your head and leave that leech alone.
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by space9880: 11:52am On Jan 04, 2023
Jeweltz:
I want a real man in my life. Not all these broke men who only want to have sex with me. They lie and they'll still cheat. You wonder what y'all men want. Confused gender angry
Y’all daughters of poor men
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by dickt(m): 6:49pm On Jan 04, 2023
Lade18:
Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.

Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.

Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.

My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?
She's treating you that way because she has figured out that you are a state mugu. Guy, wise up
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by OrigeenalSeven: 9:36am On Jan 05, 2023
Lade18:
Recently met this single lady of one. Been the one footing her bills and sending her daughter (5yrs old) to school. She told me She wouldn't let us have sex until she sees I'm committed and reality love her. Although, that's not the reason I'm talking care of her daughter, I just naturally love to spend for people I care about. Just recently, she's wanting to know how much I give my mom and why I'm the one sending her money when she has a shop and making her money.

Yesterday, she told me I don't love her enough. That, if I can open a shop for my mom , then I can do more for her. But I wasn't the one that opened the shop for her, I just supported her.

Now, we had sex for the first time last month and has been denying me sex since then. Yesterday, she came around and I initiated sex, she denied. She told me if we're ever gonna be together, I should learn how to be a man. In her world, being a man involve me cooking, laundry, take her out, and clean. I told her that's cool. But I don't know what a woman will be doing in a House if she's not working while I'm the one footing her bills. If I ask her this, she would get angry.

My fellow men, why are the requirements for sex getting on the increase these Days? Is that they way it's supposed to be?
you are a big disgrace to manhood
I pity your weakness
na woman dey control you like puppet
you are a woman in a man body
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by OrigeenalSeven: 9:40am On Jan 05, 2023
Iambro:
Since the day I was born I've never seen a stupid man like you.
I can't believe we still have these kind of men despite all advises we dish online about women.
you deserve whatever your going through
he is the most useless fool and simp have ever seen
gat damn it!
he is too weak
if I been him Broda I for use 2 by 2 hit am for head make him brain correct
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by olamakinde(m): 1:00am On Jan 06, 2023
Jeweltz:
I want a real man in my life. Not all these broke men who only want to have sex with me. They lie and they'll still cheat. You wonder what y'all men want. Confused gender angry
Confused gender, yet you still want one in your life . Who is the confused person here?
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by DonroxyII: 8:08pm On Jan 06, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
You mean sex outside hook up /olosho stuff.


Ask your dick why no pussy is saying hi everyday


You want to have it all

People like me are getting tired of having feelings.......dude, I have not had sex before.

When doctors say I must,I see it as a misfortune... that I must.

I was just born and I will just die.


Never means my parents are not human beings


It's just that a need may never be satisfied or addressed.


Am I to reset my brain in order to get a female partner?


I am not here to kill myself because of anybody

I can only think of formatting my head in order to forget as many verbal threats , accusations, condemnations, physical injuries and material deprivations as possible.


I think of listening to 2Pac or BIG rapping about competition and death

I battle thoughts of addictions.

I know drugs can wipe my memory off.


But I don't want to lose all of my mind.


In fact, the feelings towards a girl or woman also have to be destroyed unless they're valuable.

Still a reason to flash my skull.

Replace my brain storage with a lesser capacity

Enter another realm of the same Earth


Where am I?
You need to Pour out some Odd Fluids in Your Body that's become so Dark !

Even Engines must replaced Darkish Engine Oil that's been used and Re-Used for Fresh Engine Oil in order to Refresh The Engine and Health of the Machine !

Circulation of Same Old and Odd Engine Oil is a Percusor to the Death of the Machine !

You really need to expel some Fluids from Your Body and you need companion for real ..
Nevertheless, Your Companion is Gonna be a human thus Speak Human language and behave like Human not Machine !

You speaking Machine Language right now shocked
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by HellVictorinho6(m): 9:22pm On Jan 06, 2023
DonroxyII:
You need to Pour out some Odd Fluids in Your Body that's become so Dark !

Even Engines must replaced Darkish Engine Oil that's been used and Re-Used for Fresh Engine Oil in order to Refresh The Engine and Health of the Machine !

Circulation of Same Old and Odd Engine Oil is a Percusor to the Death of the Machine !

You really need to expel some Fluids from Your Body and you need companion for real ..
Nevertheless, Your Companion is Gonna be a human thus Speak Human language and behave like Human not Machine !

You speaking Machine Language right now shocked
Can you help me?
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by DonroxyII: 10:09am On Jan 07, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
Can you help me?
I'm not a Professional Psychotherapist But a "local Behavioural Scientist" ... What You need is a Professional Psychotherapist, Find One !
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by HellVictorinho6(m): 10:15am On Jan 07, 2023
DonroxyII:
I'm not a Professional Psychotherapist But a "local Behavioural Scientist" ... What You need is a Professional Psychotherapist, Find One !
How can I find when I don't have the mental capacity to process why you are saying these things?
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by fattprince(m): 10:37am On Jan 07, 2023
Lade18:
She actually like me. She's just not sure of how committed I am yet. Which I have tried to show her. But she's not convinced
She doesn't like you. You are just being played by a master manipulator. I don't believe your story though. Cos if it too good(in your own case bad) then it's probably is.
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by Obaaderemi2: 10:43am On Jan 07, 2023
Muffassa:
If this story is real then you SIMPly need deliverance WEAK men everywhere :Dsmh
He's lying. There are many such threads on nairaland these days.
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by DonroxyII: 10:44am On Jan 07, 2023
HellVictorinho6:
How can I find when I don't have the mental capacity to process why you are saying these things?
Your Problem is You are Processing too many things at Once and You are Basically living in the Future as well as Dream Lands not Here ....Come back to Your Present Reality and Live within Your Environment and Your Means!

Things are Expensive nowadays and Income is still stagnant or not forthcoming .... Find a Job that can give you daily or Weekly income then Use all the Money to Eat Good Food and Buy Good Clothes ... That should increase your Dopamine above Suicide Level that's if you ain't suffering Bacteria/Fungal Infection in the Brain if you do ... Go for treatment!

The Reason for Hyper Depressions is when the Dopamine Source of the Brain is very Limited.

Your source of Happiness is very Low and Few to None ... The Brain can Exterminate Herself ... The brain function well where there is balance between all Hormones, any Excesses is a problem beyond Mental Managements!

Also, Stop Hyper Processing Life or Yourself...
It's the Beginning of Self Extermination ...

You ain't the one that Created Life and You won't be the one to End it ....

If all the People or Humanity decided to End life today, Life would still Resurrect Tomorrow by newest and better specie of Humanities


Thus Simply do Your own and get da fvck out when it's time!


Live like a Human not Machine ..... Live within Your Boundaries and don't pokenose into what's Non of your business ... it is never easy at first but you gonna be OK!

Also, Nobody will fvcking roll with you if you are Aggressive and Hypersensitive ... Simply Live and Find Fun !

Use Money to Buy good Food and Eat, Eat, Eat and Put some good clothes then surround yourself with people that cracks jokes not people as mentally unstable as You!

But if You are doing all this to Scam people with Yahoo-Yahoo ... all this Pity Scamming Mechanisms...

That's another Madness on another level huh

Laslas, Be a Good Heart and No matter what, Universe will send a helper to Lift You Up !

But If you are Evil Hearted trust me ... You are who you Encounters !
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by HellVictorinho6(m): 11:10am On Jan 07, 2023
DonroxyII:
Your Problem is You are Processing too many things at Once and You are Basically living in the Future as well as Dream Lands not Here ....Come back to Your Present Reality and Live within Your Environment and Your Means!

Things are Expensive nowadays and Income is still stagnant or not forthcoming .... Find a Job that can give you daily or Weekly income then Use all the Money to Eat Good Food and Buy Good Clothes ... That should increase your Dopamine above Suicide Level that's if you ain't suffering Bacteria/Fungal Infection in the Brain if you do ... Go for treatment!

The Reason for Hyper Depressions is when the Dopamine Source of the Brain is very Limited.

Your source of Happiness is very Low and Few to None ... The Brain can Exterminate Herself ... The brain function well where there is balance between all Hormones, any Excesses is a problem beyond Mental Managements!

Also, Stop Hyper Processing Life or Yourself...
It's the Beginning of Self Extermination ...

You ain't the one that Created Life and You won't be the one to End it ....

If all the People or Humanity decided to End life today, Life would still Resurrect Tomorrow by newest and better specie of Humanities


Thus Simply do Your own and get da fvck out when it's time!


Live like a Human not Machine ..... Live within Your Boundaries and don't pokenose into what's Non of your business ... it is never easy at first but you gonna be OK!

Also, Nobody will fvcking roll with you if you are Aggressive and Hypersensitive ... Simply Live and Find Fun !

Use Money to Buy good Food and Eat, Eat, Eat and Put some good clothes then surround yourself with people that cracks jokes not people as mentally unstable as You!

But if You are doing all this to Scam people with Yahoo-Yahoo ... all this Pity Scamming Mechanisms...

That's another Madness on another level huh

Laslas, Be a Good Heart and No matter what, Universe will send a helper to Lift You Up !

But If you are Evil Hearted trust me ... You are who you Encounters !
In addition,I will never be happy if anybody thinks he or she is too big or wise to ask me the right questions which require my agreement in a situation like this.


We have to agree as to what the right questions are.



Imagine someone like budaatum saying I have never helped my mother before then saying merry Xmas to me just because it's Xmas day.

What sort of disrespect is thathuh??


What have I done to deserve such addition to my sorrow?


Have I not suffered enough?


Accusations, condemnations, deprivations,battles with depression ,death threats from several people and unnecessary pulling of legs can never help me.



If you think I am using a pity mechanism...., please consider me as not existing.
Re: Sex Is Getting Really Hard To Get These Days. I'm tired by 2buffagain(m):
You are a simp.
And she did not enjoy the sex she had with you.

Always understand that if she is not having sex with you, it's not that she is not having sex, it's that she is not having sex WITH YOU.

You are the one taking care of her daughter, but she is giving yansh to Tunde and Emeka and making up funny excuses as to why you won't get it from her.

A single mother is the lowest of the low to date. She should be worshipping the ground you walk on for you blessing her with your presence and even bothering to pull her hair and spit in her mouth while f*cking her. Instead she is making demands. She clearly has no respect for you, because you have no respect for yourself. I wish Nigerian guys lose this mentality of needing to prove themselves to women that don't even respect them.

You're down bad bro. Make more successful guy friends.
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