siofra:
But I thought Nigerian men are the "price"

Why is the tone changing?

DMerciful:
Haba, e easy to get Caucasian women, how much more laying on her back for you?

They only said Caucasian women are not demanding, once they like you, you'd enjoy the relationship.

Nigerian women do love Nigerian men because they know Nigerian men treat them better than any other set of men but their only shortcomings is that they have this mindset that its wrong to support your man financially. Not all though but its depressing when a man is struggling yet his woman has money hidden away, unwilling to help

saxywale2:

The hookup/escort/call girls you will find on Craiglist, leolist and other classified ads are selective. Before meeting up, they will tell you to text your race and other funny questions. They screen and don't just meet anyone.

However, the junkies on drugs will do anyone for $20 to buy there next fentanyl. But these ones look skinny, rough, dirty, lice and bugs infested and with missing teeth from drug abuse.

Jagabanfromcali:
I wanked so much in my first two years in Chicago that I tot I would go blind, I wanked more than all the wanking i did in boarding house in my secondary school in Nigeria in the 90s , I used to go to Walmart off 47 red line just to see avaerage fat Akata girls who by then looks like royalty and movie stars to me , conji is a bastard but then I realize as u move up it starts trickle towards you, from the nursing school I started banging the RNs and then the emergency room physicians and when I became an RN and subsequently an NP my fork career exploded , my greetings goes to all those girls in lagos and Calabar who will bring the camera down a bit to their mons pubis, you are the MVPs

You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

pocohantas:


So it is you that would tell me what they have been saying?

Nigerian women haven’t even tried other men. They are close-minded.

1Sharon:


I never knew this was going on.

If a man has money and wants a certain service, he should be able to get it, what he looks like should be irrelevant and I think that should be illegal.

1Sharon:


It's goes both ways.

I've read stories here from ladies who say they struggle with housework but they can't ask for help because the men say "its a woman's job"

SPAMBOX7:
Oga be calming. Cos I don't live somewhere you'd come tell me a prostitute is selective with customers.. I thought prostitution is all about the money. So you saying in yankee everything down to prostitution is all about the looks?
Mke una dey calm down na my yankee brothers

Tunagee:

Especially Yoruba men

DMerciful:
Women only complain of house chores when its their husbands. How many mothers in law and sisters in law complain that their son/brother doesn't do house chores for their wives? In fact they protest their sons/brothers doing house chores that probably their wives must have bewitched them

1Sharon:


I never knew this was going on.

If a man has money and wants a certain service, he should be able to get it, what he looks like should be irrelevant and I think that should be illegal.

saxywale2:

Interesting. Most of the Philippinos I met in Alberta in my days of working for an oil company are very educated. I mean engineers and all. To get them will require some extra ordinary parole. You can't buy that food to bed them . I do see a lot of Philippinos working in fast food restaurants though. Maybe those ones would be easy.

The Eritrean and Ethiopians on the other hand - Most of them are cleaners in offices and are not good looking. Some even have tribal marks.

BloomingDale:
If Nigerian girls want to score white men, they should stop bleaching and stop wearing all those fake wigs and excessive makeups.

I don’t wear makeup, don’t wear fake hair and don’t bleach. I had no trouble attracting AA men that are even mostly into white chicks, white men or African men when I was in the US.

Jagabanfromcali:
I wanked so much in my first two years in Chicago that I tot I would go blind, I wanked more than all the wanking i did in boarding house in my secondary school in Nigeria in the 90s , I used to go to Walmart off 47 red line just to see avaerage fat Akata girls who by then looks like royalty and movie stars to me , conji is a bastard but then I realize as u move up it starts trickle towards you, from the nursing school I started banging the RNs and then the emergency room physicians and when I became an RN and subsequently an NP my fork career exploded , my greetings goes to all those girls in lagos and Calabar who will bring the camera down a bit to their mons pubis, you are the MVPs

siofra:


Well if I'm still a virgin at 31, I'm sure I'll do fine. Sex is not important, it doesn't make one whole.

As for relationships, you can join groups with people with the same interests like you like a book club, kayaking, sky diving, hiking, camping. It must not be a romantic relationship, platonic relationships are fine.

NaBanga:
Americans in general are not bartering and trading their body for money. Since there is very little true poverty, people engage with each other because they actually want to. As for white women, you can easily get the obese ones, that are not wanted. It makes no sense for an American woman, whether black or white, to sleep with a Nigerian man just for the sake of it. It is a waste of their time when they can meet someone similar to them, with the same background for socializing and building a family. American women are not forced into submission, because they are working and can take care of themselves. It means they have choices to respect themselves. The best way to avoid disappointment in abroad is to stay on your level and date your own people.

However there is a line where you can cross over. If you come with money like Atiku or Dangote, be sure you will get plenty of beautiful women even in America. Women all over the world like money, but the amount depends on the level the woman has reached in life and who she has access to.

1Sharon:


Can you be more clearer?

jimpix11:


I work at a Hospital and easy to bed those nurses, receptionists and HCAs...

Some Ethiopian gals fine pass our babes o. Not mamas doing cleaners and sorts.

cococandy:
I don’t think it should be illegal. It’s a very personal service and they reserve the right to say no to any clients that don’t fit their preferences.

jaxxy:


It's happens alot in the US bt I think certain states with good mix of blacks, minorities and whites like miami, Houston etc..

In the UK I think its a bit different, u need to have a more going for u for smtn serious.

Blackmen used to be least accomplished and even Africans bt the richest man in the world is/was from South Africa.

Now blackmen have caught up and alot of them are doing well in different areas tho alot are still struggling.

As regards White men being most accomplished it is post slavery stereotypes and racism.

siofra:


Who's this one?

I yansh u 4 times yet u pretend u dont remember?....inside the car..U DONT REMEMBER SAYIN U HATE DOGGĢY??...u can't make heaven when u lie..REPENT!!!(no oofencsse)

Karleb:
In all of this, we need to bring out an example of an ugly black male, an attractive one and an average one too.

Make we know wetin we dey o. Because jokes apart, no be all of us worwor.

Gerrard59:


The average Nigerian man is ugly. That is one hill I will die on. I had a comfortable life in Nigeria. Now, imagine it for people who hustled under sun, rain, inhaled generator fumes, sat in go-slow etc., before they japa'd. It was through pictures of males in that Facebook group that I realised our men are not really handsome. Our women are finer even without make-up.

Thank God you attested to the recent folks in the UK. Their face too strong with lots of railway-like marks on them. Without money, those men won't even have partners in Nigeria. The one who got a girlfriend after downloading 24 apps was literally the most handsome. Even the interviewer was not handsome. A lot of re-fining would be needed for at least five years to change the narrative at least facially.

Inhaling generator fumes for more 25 years has effects on facial looks.

Ednut03:


True. But lemme ask a genuine question. Who desire black women in the abroad? Especially, black Nigerian women. Well, Nigerian men still desire cuz they don't have much options either. But Nigerian women and black women also still fall short of the beauty standard

Ednut03:


LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them

pansophist:
Fitness is not the hobby of the average Nigerian. If you're fit, you'll never have problem having chicks, regardless of colour.

One thing humans generally are powerless against is attraction, and attraction is not a conscious decision. People can't control who they are attracted to.

And a sure way to increase your attractiveness is to be fit to a point you can clearly see your six packs as a man. And for a woman, take responsibility of your life and stop fooling yourself with bbw nonsense.

Being fit is the starter, then have a good life. Graduate college and stay off debt, have your own place, and no baby mamaism. I strongly believe that one can change their circumstances, after all, those living better life are just like you.

But sadly the average Nigerian person I see in the West, especially in Canada were fat, as in not chubby, but fat. And I ask myself, what do people consider a good life?

If you have all the degrees, house and career and a single sickness can kill you, or you cant outrun/fight off a person with a cutlass trying to kill you, then you get it all wrong. Your body is wealth, and every other things follows.

LastProphet:


Which beauty standard? 9 out of 10 white girls are ugly, I said 9/10, so where's the standard? Actually the White girls are delusional which is a known fact. A fat average white girl still believes she can have Michael Jackson so tell me where the imaginary beauty is? I live here and I'm telling you that Nigerian girls are farrrrrr more beautiful than American girls both white and black. This nonsense has to stop

DMerciful:
Tell me where you need clarification? Looks straightforward unless you don't agree with it