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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ednut1(m): 8:43pm On Jan 08, 2023
FarmTech:

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Hmm. The way u guys glorify fornication is really disgusting. You guys need Christ else hell fire await all sinners . Fornication will lead u to hell.
there is no hell. Stop deceiving yaself

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by deyplay: 8:44pm On Jan 08, 2023
Acidosis:


All bleep na bleep grin
Lol, choose your bleep

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Softmirror: 8:45pm On Jan 08, 2023
pocohantas:


Do I need to date them? I have been hearing stories of “London boys” since I was a kid. I grew up and observed them. Just to be saying “Yeaaaaa…Mate”. You know I am not lying. The loudest has to be those my Igbo brothers from Asian countries. However, they are more prone to settling down once they hit the wall. They don’t waste time. But you see your brothers in the UK? Olori pelebes!

As a kid I thought NewYork was in London and Arsenal was named after Arsene Wenger. grin


HMMM....AUNTY POCOHANTAS.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by BloomingDale(f): 8:46pm On Jan 08, 2023
1Sharon:


Are you talking about white men or AA men??

Both.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Raalsalghul: 8:47pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


He's lucky to be good looking. That's part of winning the genetic lottery.

Na real lottery, you never know what you'll get. wink
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by olaeffect(m): 8:52pm On Jan 08, 2023
saxywale2:




And the policemen would often create profiles on leolist and other classified ad websites just to catch people trying to patronize prostitute. Oyinbo people dey craze well well.

A criminal record would make it difficult to secure jobs due to background checks. An immigrant won't qualify for citizenship too in alot of cases.

The London mentioned in one of the article below is London, Ontario.

Hmmm, help me tell them ooo.
I know all these our strong-head guys will not listen now, until dem go f*ckup come dey blame village people grin
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by SpyChild: 8:54pm On Jan 08, 2023
GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.

In Brazil if you don't have sense, the small one you get, sex go comot am. You literally have to hold yourself and be focused. Girls too much and too fine and na them go come meet you self lol

I don’t know why people keep saying that people staying abroad are sex starved.
There are stages to the game and hustle if you live abroad. If you are still tryna figure out your papers and work to get money to make it happen, where will you even see the time or energy to pursue sex.
Now, if you have figured yourself out and you are in a place like the US, cities like Houston, Dallas, Atlanta, New Orleans and the like for instance where there are also a good percentage of blacks, who told you you won’t have sex?

Omoh akata love sex plus they are good and sexy too.

The only difference is that unlike Nigeria where most people have a lot of free time to be pursuing sex, people actually work here for at least 8hrs to get your bills paid. So after work, if you have strength go and pursue sex cos there are people out there to that have the time and wanna seek the pleasure too.

It’s pathetic that home based folks actually believe this.
Lol I don’t wanna delve into details when it comes to that kind of lifestyle but most people don’t actually have game and because of the economic hardships in nigeria and they pick low hanging fruit thinking they have game.

It’s game time abroad, if you don’t have the it…sorry Konji will be your first name cos you no fit do anyhow,
Popo go carry you shaperly

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jan 08, 2023
1Sharon:


I thought Nigerian men are the prize, so wetin happen?

No o. They all self-service everyday in the cold

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by deyplay: 9:05pm On Jan 08, 2023
Mafo024:

This happens when you are not educated or have low self esteem issue. Or you don't have a good job, don't socialize, read books or a boring person. It's easy to get women in US than in Nigeria cos not all are attracted to you cos of money. The fact that plenty people are liking your comment is actually crazy sha grin grin
No girl is hard or easy anywhere. Your mindset and game is the difference

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by naijatisumi: 9:07pm On Jan 08, 2023
Stories, An Alpha Male will Bleep anyone anywhere. Your mindset is the golden coin Bro. Stop sounding like a simp. Be hard working, don't depend on any bitch be it white or Black, keep fit physically and be able to communicate. You go Bleep tire. There might be rejection but stop being a simp. There is always a beautiful white Babe waiting for you to approach her. Just approach and have a good rizz to communicate well...Stop spreading lies about our Men. I can't talk for the ladies though. We dey Bleep back to back here.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by shegzhkn: 9:08pm On Jan 08, 2023
jaxxy:


Go and check music and sports pls, even science and tech there are achievements.

Still crap, the science and technology part is laughable. The Caucasian beat you in all of human endeavor.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by jaxxy(m): 9:11pm On Jan 08, 2023
shegzhkn:


Still crap, the science and technology part is laughable. The Caucasian beat you in all of human endeavor.

Even u know that's not true bt if it makes u sleep at night pls enjoy.

The black man has achieved more than the white man in many areas and there is no disputing it.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by 1Sharon(f): 9:13pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ibrahimcoomasie:


1. Racism from baked in conservative values inherited from their parents.

2.They feel the girl has become dirty and unclean with disease so they avoid. Escorts lose money when that starts to happen). WM and some White sex workers have the stereotype that black people have HIV and all sorts of STD. Research backs it up to an extent. The below stat applies to the black race generally as well since Africa has the highest rate of HIV infection in the world.

Absolute BS. If escorts always use condoms, what STDs are these white men worried about?

As for the big dick thing, there is no race of woman that shouts about dick like white women, so why is it now an issue when they encounter an endowed BM?

They say they get sore, but BW have been dealing with BM our entire lives, so do they ask how we cope?
Or should we throw black men away too?
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by 1Sharon(f): 9:16pm On Jan 08, 2023
BloomingDale:


Both.


One set of standards can't apply to Both.

For Bw to attract and keep a WM, she has to meet specific criteria.

They usually like their Bw very slim and dark skinned and middle-class.

Alot of Bw don't meet the mark.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Mafo024: 9:17pm On Jan 08, 2023
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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by pocohantas(f): 9:19pm On Jan 08, 2023
Raalsalghul:


Very very true.

Nobody cares about the character beyond the looks.

That's why it's a haven of baby mamas and even at that, they have the government to look after them.

To buttress my point, one of America's most notorious serial killers Ted Bundy got married and had a daughter while on trial.

Tell me, why will a woman go for a man who was on trial for killing about 40 other women if not for looks.

And believe me, Bundy was a handsome man.

So many stories like that of handsome criminals getting love letters in prison.

Another one was Jeffrey Dahmer a serial killer who murdered 17 men and was gay.

Still, that did not stop the barrage of love letters from women pouring in.

It's all about looks looks looks!

I don't even know whether to call it a problem but it's just the way the world works and one has no control. Just thank your stars if you're good looking

Coincidentally I was just watching a TikTok video of prisoners dancing and many women (foreigners) were thrilled. Many of them have had fathers, husbands and brothers in prison. I was about “heading over” to my friends abroad to ask them if these women are normal. grin
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by omeke12(m): 9:20pm On Jan 08, 2023
tensazangetsu20:


Omho this is very scary. shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Fucking damn scary...
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by erospecial: 9:22pm On Jan 08, 2023
What stopped them from coming home to pick a wife or husband
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by starstaz(m): 9:23pm On Jan 08, 2023
Jeweltz:


I'm sorry, you should not be weighing 198kg at 5"6. That's fat, on the high side. If you're 5" 6, then your weight should fall in the 60kg range. Maybe you mean 198lbs? I don't know why the OP say 105kg is high, but weight depend on height. sad sad sad sad sad
Nurse Pelebe
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by maasoap(m): 9:29pm On Jan 08, 2023
skales67:


If Tinubu wins the election, the kind of poverty that will hit you will make you sexually unattractive to even a hórny rat.

Continue praying for rúbbish!

You fear Tinubu that much? Any bases for this fear?
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Obidient4life3: 9:31pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening
5'9" is not tall? Are you normal? Is Europe South Sudan?

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by pocohantas(f): 9:33pm On Jan 08, 2023
Obidient4life3:

5'9" is not tall? Are you normal? Is Europe South Sudan?

It is not. smiley

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by omeke12(m): 9:33pm On Jan 08, 2023
olaeffect:


You think your Nigerian mentality is the world standard abi?
There are places in this world that laws exist and people abide by it.

If you think say you get craze, I beg you with God; try come Canada come misbehave grin
Even American citizens they calm down when dey enter Canada.

As in ehhh
See the way he said it wit charisma of someone who is sure of what they are saying..
Lol

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by shegzhkn: 9:39pm On Jan 08, 2023
jaxxy:


Even u know that's not true bt if it makes u sleep at night pls enjoy.

The black man has achieved more than the white man in many areas and there is no disputing it.

Lol, you win.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by 1Sharon(f): 9:40pm On Jan 08, 2023
DMerciful:
The ability of men to embrace house chores depends on their home training from their mothers when they were younger. If mothers train their sons not to do house chores, its expected that they'd dislike it.

But my initial point was that mothers and sisters do not appreciate the sons/brothers doing as chores. Its only the wives that complain their husband don't do house chores but that same wife complain that her husband is not doing house chores will visit his brother and frown at her brother for doing house chores for his wife

Right. I thought its mainly the men that complain if their brother is doing chores?

So anyway, you said Nigerian men have the mindset that it's wrong to support a man financially.

If you're a traditional man, why do care about a woman supporting you financially?

Isn't that the mans role? Don't Nigerian men love to claim they are breadwinners?

If you want a woman to support you in your role.

Will you support her in her role? Alot of Nigerian men don't. It goes both ways.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by NaBanga: 9:40pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:


Thanks to this submission. But no average man in America has Dangote worth of money. So, you need to depend on look, which sadly , Nigerian men and women don't have

It's not about looks. It's about shared background and culture. Most people want what they are familiar with. A Nigerian man is like an alien from outerspace to an American woman. There are so many bad reports all over the world about African men beating and scamming women. I addition, the way Americans thinks are not the way Nigerians think. It really takes a brave soul to date someone who is outside of what they know. American woman are not selling their bodies for money the way Nigerian women do, because they don't have to. So unless you as a Nigerian man come with money or ingratiate yourself into a particular circle, you have to take the ladies that most men do not want.
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by culkid: 9:41pm On Jan 08, 2023
Tnoni:
Dude speak for your self? Where are you? Thats what we need to know, secondly just as a Nigerian lady or guy prefer to mingle with their own people is the same way these other races prefer theirs, there arw just few exceptions, that being said an average nigerian guy is rude, once a girl is smiling u think the next thing is to get into her pant, Africans dont know how to dress, alot of them have a smell, i can go on. So trust me when i say if u only smell good, you dont even need to look good to get you one. Somebody, that hasnt used more than 3 years abroad just came to spew shit, my son has all white friends male and females, the females would go drag their parents to come meet my son, they droll over him, because if that their parents want to be our friends, he is gentle, kind, takes initiative,dresses good and dont look like he did not sleep at home. The probabilty of him ending with a white girl is so high.

White people smell much worse than Africans. An average Nigerian bathes once a day, while some oyinbos go days without bathing.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by Obidient4life3: 9:42pm On Jan 08, 2023
pocohantas:


It is not. smiley


Make wrestling no dey confuse you. Average height for the US is 5'9" for men.

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Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by mediclife1987(m): 9:44pm On Jan 08, 2023
Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening

Nna meen, so 5"9 which is about 175cm is still short for their women?

Me wey come be 167cm nko? E mean sey I no go even exist for their eyes be that oh cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by pocohantas(f): 9:44pm On Jan 08, 2023
Obidient4life3:



Make wrestling no dey confuse you. Average height for the US is 5'9" for men.

I never said US men are tall. I said 5”9 is not tall.
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Nigerian Men And Women Are Sexually Frustrated And Lonely In America And Canada by ibkayee(f): 9:45pm On Jan 08, 2023
Obidient4life3:



Make wrestling no dey confuse you. Average height for the US is 5'9" for men.
pocohantas:


I never said US men are tall. I said 5”9 is not tall.
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
It’s not tall o, for a man

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