₦airaland Forum

Mafo024:
This happens when you are not educated or have low self esteem issue. Or you don't have a good job, don't socialize, read books or a boring person. It's easy to get women in US than in Nigeria cos not all are attracted to you cos of money. The fact that plenty people are liking your comment is actually crazy sha

ibkayee:
It’s not tall o, for a man

Mobolaaji:
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shegzhkn:
Lol, you win.

1Sharon:
One set of standards can't apply to Both.

For Bw to attract and keep a WM, she has to meet specific criteria.

They usually like their Bw very slim and dark skinned and middle-class.

A lot of Bw don't meet the mark.

ednut1:
well he is right, I heard they reject black men due to big dick and not cumming fast. Only a few 9ja guys are getting pussy. I no wan use myself as example cos my babe fit go see am. Women on dating apps want just 10% of men, my friend in this Canada has like 4 black 2 white babes he is nacking steady. Meanwhile i also have friends who came to Canada 2 years ago wey never collect kiss hahahaahahaha

1Sharon:
Right. I thought its mainly the men that complain if their brother is doing chores?

So anyway, you said Nigerian men have the mindset that it's wrong to support a man financially.

If you're a traditional man, why do care about a woman supporting you financially?

Isn't that the mans role? Don't Nigerian men love to claim they are breadwinners?

If you want a woman to support you in your role.

Will you support her in her role? Alot of Nigerian men don't. It goes both ways.

LastProphet:
Even in lekki a prostitute will walk you out if you not properly to her taste. Go and read facts instead of getting emotional

1Sharon:
Absolute BS. If escorts always use condoms, what STDs are these white men worried about?

As for the big dick thing, there is no race of woman that shouts about dick like white women, so why is it now an issue when they encounter an endowed BM?

They say they get sore, but BW have been dealing with BM our entire lives, so do they ask how we cope?
Or should we throw black men away too?

BloomingDale:
Lol.

Ibrahimcoomasie:
Alot of escort and call girls have no need for condom services.

1Sharon:
Why not?

pocohantas:
Nigerian men are lucky many Nigerian women are 5”6 and less. The number of times they have told me they are taller than me and I laugh. You want to be taller with your 5”8 and 5”9 ??

1Sharon:
I'm talking about serious relationships.

It's easy for a BW to attract sex from WM, but it's not easy for us to attract a commitment.

Make the distinction.

tensazangetsu20:
What's wrong with this weight class. I weigh 198kg and I am 5ft 6 inches.

lawnreigh:
Anywhere you are, try to Link up with Asian, East Africa Girls, Philipino, Thai and the rest, from there you can graduate to others. I mean for the guys

Ednut03:
LoL. You have no reason debunking what I'm saying because you ain't in the US. I am. And I've been here for over 10 years to have an idea of the dating market here, including Canada.

Smiling when they see you doesn't mean sexual attraction. Most white chicks will smile when they see a black man, but that is because they're scared of you hurting them

Damilola97:
Not entirely true I’m 5’9 i have been in the US for 5 years now my gf is white and i have a lot of white female friends infact most of my friends are girls and i hv had shit ton of sex here than back when i was in Nigeria

Ednut03:
Yeah. There are Nigerian Men in America who has not had a decent chance at sex for years. The only chance at sex they get is when they visit Naija once in a while. You ain't even getting a white chick to talk to you or give you her number if you ain't ridiculously good looking, dress well and speak really high.

Same apply to a woman and it's even worse. Men are thirsty, unlike Women, and she might get sexed and few attentions until the sex lasts. But she's not going to get any commitment if she doesn't match the beauty standard. So, she will be lonely too. Nigerian Men are still better positioned than her. And her woes even worsen if she's above 30. They rarely get white men. No they don't, because Nigerian women also fall short of the look And beauty standard

And if you're in dating app as an average black man (you're bleeped if you're ugly), you'll, 90% of the time be swept left over.

Hence, many Nigerian guys are frustrated and won't talk about it

Don't believe the stupid lies we peddle on here about white woman loving black for our dick game. It's a lie. If you ain't 100% attractive to her, your dick game doesn't matter. You need to be tall too, because their men are really tall. You can't be 5"9 and be expecting any reasonable result scoring a white chic, it ain't happening

BigCowHornn:
Well, this is Xmas holiday period, many foreign based folks are back home here. You never know if he is one.
Beside look at his post. Toto dey hungry this guy for a while now. He could just have come home to fix that. It's his kind flashy overseas returnee that book rooms in big hotels in Owerri and just keep fvcking different girls for 3 weeks. They only visit their family mud hut in the village on Mondays and Wednesdays to make noise with second hand cars. Next thing you hear is they have gone back abroad.
You look around and you cant anything they did.

His account of life overseas is fairly correct but not quite. Reading that thing you will think there is no short man in America. That's a damn lie.
You'll also notice he seems to have a thing for white girls and the fact that he can't even get anywhere near their pant is driving him nuts.

I have lived in the US. Was born there. I can tell you right off that this guy is a hustler. The kind of Afrcian that go to the US without good education and so never get a good job besides thing like Taxi driving and menial jobs. They live poor and eat from paper bags.
Further more he doesn't seem to be living in a majority black neighborhood.

Go to Texas. There are place you go everyone is speaking Yoruba or Igbo. They dress in traditionals and even have Chiefs. Tell me you can't find a girl there huh

chudez0147:
Oga that's a big lie , you can't be 198kg . That's like 4bags of rice .

Ibrahimcoomasie:
We can scream racism but who do you report to? The police or some other sex trafficking organization? Remember that is is an ilegal activity. It's like telling the police that a crack dealer wouldn't sell to some particular customer based on race.

I have done some reading on this topic. Some other reasons mentioned already and some not mentioned yet here. Reasons why escorts put up a NO black gents in ad listings, or will decline a black client:

1- Hygiene: there are stereotypes that black, and to some extent Indians are unhygienic. It is a common stereotype in the sex worker industry.

2- Black men haggle on price after initially agreeing on price before meeting up.

3- Some black men are endowed. A prostitute aim is to make as much money as possible without being hurt down there and recuperating.

4- Some black men try to love-vendor the girls

5- Some black men are violent. They will bring out a gun so as not to pay for sex

6- Some white men will not buy sex from girls that sleep with black men or do not have a no black gents note on their ad. (This is common in the pornography movie industry to an extent. The values of the alot of girls drop when they start interracial sex.

7- Outright Racism



Ps: some black escorts and hookup girls also decline blackmen.

Mille:
Let me share my own experience in Europe. Before leaving for Europe, I cohabited for the last two years in school. We continued our cohabitation when I finished school and returned to Lagos until the day I left for Europe. So I had no problem getting sex since I left for Europe.

I enrolled in a Masters program where I get to spend at least 6 months each in different countries. Then, I was a skinny average dude.

1. First Stop: Cluj, ROMANIA;
-Beautiful women all through. Student city. I think this is the country with the most beautiful women in the world. Matched with plenty people on Tinder. Went for some dates mostly with fellow students but I think they were more curious than interested due to the scarcity of black people. One even mentioned if Nigerians don't eat vegetable oil because I'm not as bulky as those black Americans. I think the fact that I wasn't staying long in Romania didn't help either.

Loved a Portuguese exchange student who stayed on the same floor with me and was taking her time returning the favor after dates and group clubbing (I was only clubbing because I liked her). Finally scored a Romanian/Hungarian girl after two months and mehn, she was a screamer. The whole floor knew what was going on throughout the night. Word got to the Portuguese girl and she became distant. The Romanian girl essentially became my girlfriend till I left Romania. Homely and submissive. Honestly, the best relationship I ever had. Took me to her parents, bleeped her there. When it was time to leave, she didn't want distant relationship and asked that I leave school and we can relocate to the UK as a couple. I rejected it (sometimes I regret rejecting that offer)

2. Next Stop; Kassel, GERMANY.

I think Germans are the worst women a man will ever date. Ugly, assertive, domineering and always frowning.

This was where I finally understand how hard it is in Europe. For the first months, I didn't even score female friendship with Germans (I think the fact that I don't speak German is a big determinant). I was always able to do so with Nigerian and African women but not with the Germans or other Europeans. On my multiple trips to Frankfurt, I thought about branching many of the multiple sex houses, but man, I'll never enjoy paid sex.

I was finally able to score a 40+ divorced German mom of 3 who stayed in a small City close to Frankfurt. This was the hardest I have done to convince a woman. Her daughter was 18+ and it usually felt somehow when I go there on weekends. But mehn, I was grateful for the avenue to cum.

I think if you're interested in African women, you won't have problems in Germany as long as you're above the same African woman in a social standing. If not, OYO. African Men have been here without having sex for years. African women have been lonely here for years because they want commitment. Both African Men and women are not having sex together because their needs are different.

3. LYON, FRANCE:

I want to forget my experience in France. It was so dry. I wasn't even scoring matches online. And the ones you meet face to face will give you their number and leave you in read. I was left with the opportunity of returning to Germany and continuing the final semester in Lyon, mehn, I ran back to Germany.

4. HAMBURG, GERMANY.

I finally stayed in a big English speaking city. Met many Nigerians here as I also rented a flat with other Nigerians. To get women here, you have to be ready to club. If you can deceive African and Nigerian women about your finances and your commitment to marriage, you'll get a lot of black pussies. Many Africans here have finished their studies and are finally in the big city to earn cash. They have also come to the realization that they are getting older without a partner and that the white men only used them to satisfy a fetish.

My Opinion of German women remain the same. Unless you like the challenge of masculine women. People don't even know Angela Merkel has an Husband. Fortunately, there are plenty of fishes in this city that are not Germans. So if you dress well, have your finance in order and outgoing, you shouldn't have a problem getting laid. To do less work chasing women, just target the plus-sized ones.

Unfortunately, I caught a bacterial infection which was causing a lump under my armpit. Before, during and after the surgery, I was all alone in the hospital. My roommates wey busy racking up shifts, my lays were not there during the time of need, I finally appreciated the communalism of Nigeria and the need for a partner and not random sex objects. I returned home to Nigeria, started working remotely, got married and had a daughter.

I expect to go back to the abroad this year or the next. I'm not in a hurry though as I earn USD from here.

GlobTrotter:
I dont think this is true. Maybe for the UK. But for US I doubt. I have not been there, I live in Brazil, what I know is that it's quite difficult for African ladies to get a guy here.

But I can tell you the women here are on fire and they love black guys.

In Brazil if you don't have sense, the small one you get, sex go comot am. You literally have to hold yourself and be focused. Girls too much and too fine and na them go come meet you self lol

BloomingDale:
Ok. Lol. I’m not attracted to white men though. I just said they are attracted to me.

mediclife1987:
You must be a fucking hippopotamus...

DEMARCO1:
Oga show us your picture..make we check something

kabukabu50:
Nigerian women in the US really only have 2 options in the US.

White or Nigerian men,they don't date black Americans because of many issues like drugs,alcohol,baby mama issues,no job stability.


Same goes for Nigerian men.
Sure you can have your pick if you're a top tier Alpha male type..like in exceptional shape,very good job,athlete type you can pretty much get any ethnicity.

But for most average normal naija guys for settling down and marrying its going to be either a Nigerian or very average white lady.

College educated,good looking white women are not going after regular black men.

Notice all the black athletes regardless of race almost exclusively date white women because their earning potential is high and their in their physical prime.

Damilola97:
Not entirely true I’m 5’9 i have been in the US for 5 years now my gf is white and i have a lot of white female friends infact most of my friends are girls and i hv had shit ton of sex here than back when i was in Nigeria