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| What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Fmartin(m): 8:55pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby. I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter. The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry. The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well. She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away. I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs. Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her. I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms. I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon. She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her. Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward. No think insult, coz I gaht over dose. Peace..... 15 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Terrorwrist: 9:01pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Men these days are super-weak!! 568 Likes 39 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by TheZeezle(m): 9:02pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
No stress yourself too much. If she's not ready to stay off her ex's then you should know what to do. She's already a baby mama, add yours and clear! 471 Likes 21 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Fmartin(m): 9:04pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
TheZeezle: Thanks a lot � 139 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by yrhuhfy113: 9:05pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Fmartin: Bro, is it before you got her pregnant she has been talking to her EXes? Or after you got her pregnant??... BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT BE THE ONE RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT PREGNANCY. See, you should not feel pressured to marry her... A spouse with BAD ATTITUDE can shorten your life with high blood pressure... pls be wise, don't rush. HACCK her phone and check all her messages o... KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GETTING INTO. She may be with you for your money or because na u mumu pass.... So pls stop being NICE and become wise 363 Likes 27 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Fmartin(m): 9:05pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Terrorwrist:weak as in how?? Do you know how hard I have been on her? 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by ritmek(f): 9:08pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Your sanity should be a priority to you. She should have cut off communications with her ex without you telling her to do so. A lady that has a serious relationship that is leading to marriage should have no business with her any of her ex. Changing SIM card will not solve the problem, she can still link up with them on social media. You even mentioned physical fights, please if you both are not compatible and if she is not willing to cut off communications with those guys then there is no need to tie the knot. 213 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by PerfectStranger(m): 9:08pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Fmartin:You can force an elephant to the river but can’t force it to drink water. You wan marry single mom? Lols marriage never even start you don Dey see shege. I pity your mental health. 253 Likes 22 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Fmartin(m): 9:08pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Ki yrhuhfy113:I She don't have a big phone. The pregnancy is sure mine I have access to her Facebook. She's just acting cool with her exs unlike me that told them am married. She's really hurting me. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Fmartin(m): 9:14pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
PerfectStranger:Bro, if pikin say him mama no go sleep, him too no go sleep. I go show her shege if she mess up. We have spiritual ways to do that 2 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Fmartin(m): 9:16pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
ritmek:Thanks for your advice dear.. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Foodqueen(f): 9:18pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
That child she's carrying isn't yours. 70 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by PerfectStranger(m): 9:24pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Fmartin:You never even marry her yet u don Dey practice WWE. Make I be una referee abeg  Marriage wey suppose be enjoyment, e reach una turn una wan turn am to wrestling  124 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by TMTR: 9:26pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Fmartin: Avoid single mothers like a plague that they are,una no dey hear Enjoy your cup of tea  53 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by fikayormi(m): 9:29pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
You better accept only your baby and move on After confirming the baby is truly yours . But make we dey force those bitches and leaches sometimes down those simps throat so that the street can be free and clean abeg. 33 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Fmartin(m): 9:53pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
PerfectStranger: seriously, i will show her she've messed with the Wrong guy3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Fmartin(m): 9:55pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
TMTR:Bro it's not funny, i kept asking myself what have gotten myself into. I feel like na juju dis gurl take capture me. I have been seen her for over a year, we only greet, things spike up jus In space of months, and boom, she took in. I feel like she planned it. She confessed she's been crushing on me. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by ritmek(f): 9:57pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Fmartin: Rather than doing what you will end up regretting, please just walk away. 52 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Berezuski: 9:58pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Changing her sim means little or nothing She'll still find her way back. That woman is obviously smarter than you. 49 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by rickleye: 10:02pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Fmartin: Walk away dude .. Walk away. Do not pass Go, Do not collect 200$ Tell her to go and marry her exes. If you overlook this , It is going to continue in the marriage. If she is serious. She can block them and delete their numbers 16 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Shalashaska: 10:20pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
If she can't stop talking to her exes then leave her. She belongs to the streets. That kid may not even be yours. Suggest a DNA test. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Peacefulriver: 10:26pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
When did you find out that she already had a child? Is it before or after she got pregnant for you? Well you see, if she doesn't have the boldness to tell her exes that she's already in a serious relationship online, then that means she wouldn't have the boldness to say no when they invite her to a place, and wouldn't also be able to say no when sex is initiated. The thing is, experience has not taught her any lesson(even after becoming a baby mama) and I won't be surprised that she gets pregnant for another guy even while in marriage. If you want to go ahead with the marriage just because you already introduced her to your people, well it's your choice but mind you, na only you go carry your cross and same set of people may be the ones to laugh at your predicament. One last advice: learn to keep your bazooka zipped up till you're married. Who knows whether she don use juju hook you since she's been crushing on you. 36 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Baronthecelebri: 10:50pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
You're a big fool. 39 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Chizzyferd(m): 11:21pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
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| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by JoeRizzla(m): 11:52pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Damn !!! All this ex. of a thing. Leave that girl alone let her focus on her ex's. 3 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by techWriter3: 12:12am On Jan 10, 2023 |
women these hours are super-weak!! Uh, Check my profile if you need help with your thesis, personal statement, statement of purpose, dissertation, or assignment. 1 Like |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by davidadenrele: 3:20am On Jan 10, 2023 |
Brotherly, Don't allow emotions to be cloud your sense of judgement she's obviously still in the game, dirty game of secretly making out with ex's despite her being a baby mama, not considering that most guys would frown at dating a baby mama not to talk of taken responsibility to wife them, dump her ass, she can't eat her cake and have it, what nonsense!! channel your effort on something productive this is a new year forget the fact that your parents like her or because you have done introduction knowing her parents your sanity and peace of mind comes first, nothing compares to peace of mind and genuine love in marriage. A leopard will never change it's skin. Let her be she's not ready don't wife her take responsibility for the child when she put to bed so that you don't later regrets pitying her don't pity to marry a woman, you might later regret it in life. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Smartguyboy(m): 3:28am On Jan 10, 2023 |
Fmartin: I feel your pain bro but don’t you think it’s too early to be having such pains now you are not even married to her now? The odd are still high she might still be sleeping with her ex’s like they used to say “old fire wood no they quench “ just need small fire for it to keep up again. 5 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Smartguyboy(m): 3:34am On Jan 10, 2023 |
Fmartin:Never marry any lady because of pregnancy that a very big mistake you will live to regret . Ask yourself why the first guy no marry her? 25 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Gadafii: 3:47am On Jan 10, 2023 |
Weak man, asking a woman that’s pregnant for you already, the one you intend to marry to choose between you and her ex is a weak move, marriage never start you don Dey cry, yiu see why I said men don’t have to get married in my last thread  If you are man enough with solid balls, you won’t accept her saying she’s not bold enough to caution them, it simply means na you wan marry her she no wan marry you, if not she will silently block these ex without telling them to stop calling her, please when that child is birthed make sure you conduct dna in him or her, chances of you not being the father right now is 80% Once again, dear men you don’t need to marry to feel fulfilled, all the girls that attacked me in my thread, including Mongolia Abi what’s her name that repeatedly mentioned me for response in that thread, ur gender is bags of trouble, a serious man is already facing a lot in life, you wan add woman join am all in the name of “marriage” Also, some other weak men who called me names, this fates awaits you, you can’t escape it 20 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by ednut1(m): 3:53am On Jan 10, 2023 |
Simping epidemic 17 Likes |
| Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by Sucre6: 4:51am On Jan 10, 2023 |
Fmartin: Bro, with the way things are going, there is no assurance that pregnancy is yours am not sure she is ready for marriage yet, you better cut her off now because things would get worse in future, she won't stop talking to her ex, plus any girl that keeps communication open with her exes still Fvcks them, i have one ex, anytime she has a major quarrel with her fiance, she will pick up her phone and call me, in her word she wants to pepper her fiance, and before u say jack she's in my place for dick appointment, so my dear, no full assurance that the pregnancy is yours, you love her more than she loves you, she don't give a crap about you, that why she behaves like that, If a girl truly loves you, she could even deny her family member just to make you happy not to you talk of exes, be guided , make premium tears no go be your second name 37 Likes 5 Shares |
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