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How sure are you that the pregnancy is your.
I would advise you place that marriage on hold till she gives birth.
If at this point she still communicate with her ex, then you have a lot to face in that marriage.

Use your head. Marriage is a life time commitment. But if you can deal with it, who am I.

TheZeezle:
No stress yourself too much. If she's not ready to stay off her ex's then you should know what to do. She's already a baby mama, add yours and clear!

Bad motivational speech have ever heard.... Add yours and Clear..

You saw Buffalo at river bank lifeless you took it away, you think he drank to death.give her your term and conditions if she agrees good for her if she didn't let her go.why registered a Sim for her?with your details wake up and be a man

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

If you like, get a new sim every month for her, She may have written their numbers some where

But why can't she obey simple instructions if actually she is ready for marriage

Well I think you should hold on with further marriage rights and inform her to make an open call to all her exsis that she is getting married and may not be communicating with them again

After that ask her to break the sim card chips herself and hand her the new one

You can start observing her from their

If she continues then there are other things she left with them and she is yet to cut them off

I stopped reading op when I saw ' She has a kid'.


I wish you good luck

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

She’s not bold enough to ask her exs not to call her? What will happen if she meets her ex on the street and the guy ask her to go with him to an hotel room? She won’t be bold enough to say no, bro u sure say na u get the bele? Be wise

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

you go change the SIM wey dey her head so? You're a funny man! Just dey play oooo.


Anyway, leave her alone. Let them call her. No even send her. When she born her pikin, opt for a DNA. If na your child she born, congratulations. But she's a single mother? Wetin cause the issue with her baby daddy? Did you ask her? Don't you feel it might be this same issue you're having with her?

God be with you, oko iyawo

TMTR:
Avoid single mothers like a plague that they are,una no dey hear

Enjoy your cup of tea

Please not all single mothers...
Even the single ones give headache and act weird

Terrorwrist:
Men these days are super-weak!!

Asin too many weaklings we have as men today!

yrhuhfy113:
Bro, is it before you got her pregnant she has been talking to her EXes? Or after you got her pregnant??... BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT BE THE ONE RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT PREGNANCY.

See, you should not feel pressured to marry her... A spouse with BAD ATTITUDE can shorten your life with high blood pressure... pls be wise, don't rush. HACCK her phone and check all her messages o... KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GETTING INTO. She may be with you for your money or because na u mumu pass.... So pls stop being NICE and become wise

You just spilled out the hard cold truth boss. That dude is clearly a simp!

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

What kind of a man are you? You're seeing all those things and you still want to marry her?

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

baba u sure say na u give her belle

Fmartin:
Ki
I

She don't have a big phone.
The pregnancy is sure mine

I have access to her Facebook.
She's just acting cool with her exs unlike me that told them am married.

She's really hurting me.

Someone just gave you a good advice but you still choose to swim in your own delusion! You don't know these women at all. Have you heard about the Okafor law ?

Foodqueen:
That child she's carrying isn't yours.

I'm glad this is coming from a lady!

Peacefulriver:
When did you find out that she already had a child? Is it before or after she got pregnant for you?

Well you see, if she doesn't have the boldness to tell her exes that she's already in a serious relationship online, then that means she wouldn't have the boldness to say no when they invite her to a place, and wouldn't also be able to say no when sex is initiated.
The thing is, experience has not taught her any lesson(even after becoming a baby mama) and I won't be surprised that she gets pregnant for another guy even while in marriage.

If you want to go ahead with the marriage just because you already introduced her to your people, well it's your choice but mind you, na only you go carry your cross and same set of people may be the ones to laugh at your predicament.

One last advice: learn to keep your bazooka zipped up till you're married. Who knows whether she don use juju hook you since she's been crushing on you.

Women are known to have fish brains and reason like children!

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

You are a kind and a SIMPle man.
I like your courage

Sucre6:
Bro, with the way things are going, there is no assurance that pregnancy is yours am not sure she is ready for marriage yet, you better cut her off now because things would get worse in future, she won't stop talking to her ex, plus any girl that keeps communication open with her exes still Fvcks them, i have one ex, anytime she has a major quarrel with her fiance, she will pick up her phone and call me, in her word she wants to pepper her fiance, and before u say jack she's in my place for dick appointment, so my dear, no full assurance that the pregnancy is yours, you love her more than she loves you, she don't give a crap about you, that why she behaves like that,

If a girl truly loves you, she could even deny her family member just to make you happy not to you talk of exes, be guided , make premium tears no go be your second name

You are a wise man! To many weak men roaming around these days. The gospel of the Redpill still needs to be preached!

Slmgirldippussy:
You are a kind and a SIMPle man.
I like your courage

Seriously, i feel guilty walking away and leaving her with the pregnancy, i put my sister in that shoe, I wouldn't want someone to do that to her.
Besides, the kid she has, her father refused to give her out to the guy that got her pregnant, that he dont want him to marry his daughter.

I am running out of patience..

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

My ex was forced by her mom to marry a rich man old enough to be her father, the man changed his phone and sim yet she still called me because she knew all my numbers offhand. l stopped picking her calls when her mom came to my family to warn me to stop picking her calls,the lady didn't spend upto a month before she packed her belongings. If not because of my premonition not to have anything to do with married or engaged women, I'd still be having affairs with her.


The truth of the matter is that, buying another sim won't stop her from reaching out to them but can only stop them from reaching out to her. Who knows you might not be responsible for the pregnancy shef...

Wahala Sha plenty

Wetin dey even prompt some people sef to still dey go back to exes

Anyways you know what's good already.

PerfectStranger:
You can force an elephant to the river but can’t force it to drink water.

You wan marry single mom? Lols marriage never even start you don Dey see shege. I pity your mental health.

abi ooo.
we that married a girl that didn't give us problem during dating is not finding it funny after marriage, talk more of girl them never marry you don dey get BP.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

use your tongue and count your teaths. women only gets worse after marriage. the red flags are glaring to even a blind man, except you want die before your time.

Elzazzi:
You are a wise man! To many weak men roaming around these days. The gospel of the Redpill still needs to be preached!

They say we red pillers are wicked, on the contrary we ain't wicked, we just know all the antics of women and we use it against them. Go hard or go home.

Fmartin:
Bro, if pikin say him mama no go sleep, him too no go sleep.
I go show her shege if she mess up.
We have spiritual ways to do that

You have spiritual ways, so wetin you need advice for

Shege

omojesu202:
abi ooo.
we that married a girl that didn't give us problem during dating is not finding it funny after marriage, talk more of girl them never marry you don dey get BP.

This is a wise counsel and a compass, op if after all we said here u still simp for her, then no mercy for you in what ever comes out of that sh!tty relationship that would eventually ruin u

Fmartin:
Bro, if pikin say him mama no go sleep, him too no go sleep.
I go show her shege if she mess up.
We have spiritual ways to do that

Lols this guy Nah simp true true, no woman worth you going spiritual, that stress no dey necessary, it's either she's with you, 100% or she's out. Know this now else u regret for the rest of your life, no Babalawo can save you in the long run, believe that

She has one pikin for a man and they weren't married

She's carrying a pikin for you b4 marriage

She has "exs"

When she was befriending you she no leave dem Abi


Na you sabi

Fmartin:
Bro it's not funny, i kept asking myself what have gotten myself into.
I feel like na juju dis gurl take capture me.

I have been seen her for over a year, we only greet, things spike up jus In space of months, and boom, she took in. I feel like she planned it.
She confessed she's been crushing on me.

I wonder how happy you would feel after few years knowing that child isn't yours. She saw you will commit and perfectly trapped you. Wao, it worked.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

maybe she is communicating with the owner of the pregnancy, know this and know peace , na one person dey cum inside woman and na another person dey top am as pregnancy but women sabbi the person wey first cum ,maybe you do your own when she lost her period and she doesn't want to lose you

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

No insult? Are you serious?
How can one offer you advice in this situation without insulting you?

YOU'RE A FOOL FOR TRYING TO MARRY A WOMAN YOU DID NOT DISVIRGIN.

The baby she's carrying is not yours and this is how she will keep giving birth to bastards got you to suffer to take care of.


Once again, you're a fool.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Weak man,how are you sure the baby is yours? She might be calling the owners,while using you to pay bills. You say you get over dose of wetin? . You get mind, you no fit put your user in her place, abi? Better go talk sense into her,before water pass Garri for you..

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

does this matter need Nairaland ? It might be extreme but playfully take her to her parents house one weekend, next tell them with all seriousness that their daughter will be staying with them till childbirth and after a DNA test reason being that she still communicates with her ex lovers even in your presence and she has staunchly refused to cut off communication. After that, immediately take your leave. Dem no born her well make she no do the needful except she's really wayward