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[quote author=Fmartin post=119877790]I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....
Maybe you are the ex

It's so clear you are in love with her even with all her baggage, age also matters here, how old was she before she had her first child? If she's relatively young, she may still be in her prime and thinks life is rosy all through, then what's her family Background? Are they okay with their child having multiple out of wedlock kids? If yes, that's a red flag � are you sure she was not double dating both of you? If no, make further investigation before settling down with her. While it's totally okay to want to take responsibility for your actions, you must put your mental health before anything else, she may probably never be faithful to you even after marriage. If you weigh it well and hard and your love overshadowed your reasoning, that's so okay, sometimes love wins. Wishing best of luck

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Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

It's her real baby daddy she always talks to.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

You do enter one chance.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

You are not confuse, you just don't want to do the right thing. She's not a wife material even by 1yard. Accept your responsibility over the child when she put to bed. Don't even think of turning her to a wife except you are ready to start digging your grave

Fmartin:
weak as in how??

Do you know how hard I have been on her?

You dey hard on women.. smh.. save yourself stress,cos no matter how hard ur hard hard,woman go still behave like woman.. enjoy her while it lasts and stop being a simp..if she wants marriage trust me you go know by the ingredients she adds to your vegetables.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

I wanted to start Blaming the lady, until I read she ready for me to change her simcard, then what the F is your problem Na so una take dey give una self unnecessary wahala...

yrhuhfy113:


Bro, is it before you got her pregnant she has been talking to her EXes? Or after you got her pregnant??... BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT BE THE ONE RESPONSIBLE FOR THAT PREGNANCY.

See, you should not feel pressured to marry her... A spouse with BAD ATTITUDE can shorten your life with high blood pressure... pls be wise, don't rush. HACCK her phone and check all her messages o... KNOW WHAT YOU ARE GETTING INTO. She may be with you for your money or because na u mumu pass.... So pls stop being NICE and become wise

Please guide me on how to do this phone hacking especially for WhatsApp messages?

DNA man!

Kai! Y better go and do DNA! She knows without belle she cannot marry u so she hook u! Marriage is for ever oo! U better no use Belle marry wrong woman!

TheZeezle:
No stress yourself too much. If she's not ready to stay off her ex's then you should know what to do. She's already a baby mama, add yours and clear!

I ended 6 months engagement with my ex because of this same attitude. I can't marry whom i do not trust. I believe they were even knacking secretly because the guy was constantly sending her nudes. Now, I've decided to be a single Father. Girls of this 21st century can't be trusted.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

Whatever made you have the conviction that the baby is yours. Someone that already had a baby out of wedlock, still talking to several so called Exes which are obviously all current boyfriends which you are obviously just one of them. That girl don lock you up for bottle

Fmartin:
weak as in how??

Do you know how hard I have been on her?

Hope your definition of hard is not turning her into punching bag, that's weakness personified.

Fmartin:
Ki
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She don't have a big phone.
The pregnancy is sure mine

I have access to her Facebook.
She's just acting cool with her exs unlike me that told them am married.

She's really hurting me.

U dey access woman social media?? One guy above even advised you hack her phone.. guy leave such advice and man up..real men dont monitor women.. in synonyms men are dogs,while women are cats.. dem no dey see cat shit.. you sound obsessed so i will advice you take a step back and bless her with your absence, cos your mental state might lead to fatal mistake during your so called fights..

Nawa for you o.... You think say her baby fada no go dey call her once in a while to talk or even service her

Shior... U never see wife o

Ferdinandu:
Whatever made you have the conviction that the baby is yours. Someone that already had a baby out of wedlock, still talking to several so called Exes which are obviously all current boyfriends which you are obviously just one of them. That girl don lock you up for bottle

I tire for the guy o, even dey think of marriage

This story reminds me of a lady in my neighborhood.

Exact story.

She got married and had a child.

After a year, her and her husband divorced.

Nobody knew what happenned.

This happened over 5 years ago.

It was just last year, someone close to me met the husband in the market and the husband narrated the whole story.

He said....

After marriage, the wife kept entertaining calls from her Ex's. He said he warned her but she went on.

Later she cheated on him.

He couldn't stand the shame becos anytime he passes, those his wife had slept with would be laughing at him.

He had to divorce her.

They had a baby girl.

Update:

The girl got pregnant again for another man some months back and is still not married.

It is well.

Learn from this story.

PerfectStranger:

You can force an elephant to the river but can’t force it to drink water.

You wan marry single mom? Lols marriage never even start you don Dey see shege. I pity your mental health.

Elephant or horse?

Fmartin:

Bro it's not funny, i kept asking myself what have gotten myself into.
I feel like na juju dis gurl take capture me.

I have been seen her for over a year, we only greet, things spike up jus In space of months, and boom, she took in. I feel like she planned it.
She confessed she's been crushing on me.

bros I swear that girl ll be a better wife my experience my wife is a single mother just cool down with her all her ex go leave her when she gave birth and I promise you

Oga you are weak. have you not heard of walking away leave all this my parent like her talk, cos na you go end up with her. i have

Fmartin:
weak as in how??

Do you know how hard I have been on her?

BIG SIMP like you. Why ask for advice if you not ready to entertain insults for been a SIMP.

You accepting to marry a single mum that sees no problem communicating with her Ex's is the biggest mistake you will ever make in your life.

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

From your write up bro I can tell you that you might not be the father of that child...her frequent communication with a particular ex is an indicator of being the father of the baby...get sense...threatened her a bit and see her spill out secrets...

Elephant or horse?[/quote]

Is better you walk away instead of showing her shege and cater for your child

I don't know why single mothers do go after their exes after seeing a man to marry and care for your child or children as the case may be

Fmartin:
I am dating a lady, and we are about to get married. She's already carrying my baby.
I have taken her to my parents. I have never taken a lady to my parents before. I have seen her parents too, and have communicated my intention to marry their daughter.

The only thing holding me now is to get things in order before paying her dowry.

The main problem now is that we keep having issues, coz, she's always making calls with her exs. i have confronted her on Several occasions, we have had fights, physical fights as well.

She told me she dont have the guts to tell them to stop calling her. She can only keep playing them till they walk away.
I told her i dont have that Luxury of patience. She has to choose between me and her exs.

Now, the issue is that she's pregnant and I have already taken her to my parents, they all like her.

I would have broken up if not because of the pregnancy. Coz, I wouldn't want to leave her with the pregnancy like that. To make matters worse, She have a kid out of wedlock. Though the father of the baby and her are not in good terms.

I hhave told her to stop making calls with her ex, but she seems sturbon.
She's ready for me to Change her sim card but I want her to use her sanity and end things with her ex in a boldly manner rather than hiding under the guise of changing sim. I have registered a new sim, but It's still with me, I have not given her.

Am confused, I need you guys advices for way forward.
No think insult, coz I gaht over dose.
Peace.....

If you had learnt earlier in life, to keep your dick stuck in your briefs.....we won't be here, reading all these tales by moonlight.

If ladies would also learn to say NO to all these pants shifting boys.....we would have less of single baby mamas.

I feel for the lady....one single mother is about to join the already existing ones.
For you to even come here with this bala blu balaba, story.....am sure u have already made up your mind to dump her, but here to seek validation, since using the word EX will make nairaland boys validate your action more quicker.

Wetin concern me?

So long as she is not related to me.......nah Una sabi.

The problem you will put yourself, even your village people will not be able to rescue you. Did you know what she did that made the first person that pregnanted her to run away from her ? You are already struggling with life and still wants to add another frustrated person to yourself. Don't let pregnancy force you to marry someone that will bring frustration to your life. Don't abort the baby, have agreement to take care of her and the baby. You will come back here to talk me

You wan marry baby mama?
you're finished.

Firstly how certain are you the pregnancy is yours?
Secondly do you want to marry her because of the pregnancy?

You have mind dating a single mum that is still in contact with her exes, Mehn the disrespect.

What you need to do as a matter of urgency is find out if the baby is yours, run a DNA after the child is born.
If it's because of the pregnancy you want to settle down with her then if the baby is not yours why bother with marriage with a trifling cheating and lying hoe.
Forget what her people will say or call you, cut off from her, except the pussy is sweeting you and you want to join the queue as one of the exes.

Your family will understand.

Run ooo