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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Bobbiee: 5:41pm On Jan 27, 2023
40 is the best age to get married. 50 is the best age to give birth grin

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by franchasng: 5:44pm On Jan 27, 2023
Angelfrost:


Yes, those methods fail, same way natural conception fails too!... It isn't touch and go for all.

At the end of the day, only God gives kids!

The essence of science is to bridge the fertility divide and bring hope to the hopeless.

IVF has improved since its introduction years ago with enhanced odds for success (this is a clear and verifiable fact)!
I replied your comment to clear some misconception Nigerians have about developed countries and being rich.



Many Nigerians believe that once you have money, you can get kids by IVF or at worst you fly your wife abroad for a quality IVF and she will return with a bouncing baby lol



If it was that easy, many rich couple abroad wouldn't end up childless after several trials.



I have friends living in some of the best countries you can think of, that are already fed up with IVF failures.




Experience have made me to realize that one of the most difficult things to get even with wealth is your own biological children cry

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by myami: 5:46pm On Jan 27, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:

Get lost.
i have a huge crush on you. I cant stop fantasising about you
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Angelfrost(m): 5:49pm On Jan 27, 2023
franchasng:
I replied your comment to clear some misconception Nigerians have about developed countries and being rich.



Many Nigerians believe that once you have money, you can get kids by IVF or at worst you fly your wife abroad for a quality IVF and she will return with a bouncing baby lol



If it was that easy, many rich couple abroad wouldn't end up childless after several trials.



I have friends living in some of the best countries you can think of, that are already fed up with IVF failures.




Experience have made me to realize that one of the most difficult things to get even with wealth is your own biological children cry

This is very true!

I don't disagree with you please.

I simply refuse to accept the nonsense that any woman not conceiving before 30 should panic or become depressed!

Of course those scientific methods are for extreme measures or cases, and they always tell them that it is 50/50.

Still, there remains hope for everyone including the miraculous hand of nature (God)!

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by pocohantas(f): 5:50pm On Jan 27, 2023
franchasng:
Don't take their comments too serious in topics like this because most of the commentors have sisters approaching 30 and still single without a committed boyfriend to talk of fiance' and should that their sister get pregnant out of wedlock, they will single handedly use big wooden plank to beat her to stupor for bringing shame upon their family grin





Lol. I thought the lives of their sisters and mothers are so perfect. Hence the obsession with women on an anonymous forum that they know nothing of. One told me his sisters married between 26-32. I guess he had to shift it to 32 to accommodate his sisters. They should have gotten pregnant at 30 na. Mugus

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Jeffyblaq(m): 5:53pm On Jan 27, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:
Foolish girl. So, all that it takes is to just find a man and get pregnant and birth a child? Ignoramus. Do these people think twice before putting the contents they use for clout in the name of giving advice?

Who even told them every one is bent on having kids? I am almost 26 and I don't even feel enthusiastic about having a child/children. Will these kids eat stones? Little wonder we have a lot of depressed and ill-challenged kids causing atrocities in the city. I mean, these kids weren't planned for. Also, options for fertility have improved such as surrogacy, artificial inseminations, adoption, and IVF. The way these guys yap about "age 30" like it's a plague makes me shudder.

By all means, please ensure you are ready to be a parent in all ramifications before you birth one. It's one thing to be a biological parent, and it's another to be a parent through and true.
Well thoughtful and expressed....

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Gandrova: 5:55pm On Jan 27, 2023
Expert with stupid analysis. So ladies above 30 should give birth, because they haven't found suitors. And to make bastards more in the country. God punish you and your analysis

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by MITCHELL96: 5:55pm On Jan 27, 2023
deavicky:
Nairaland get hookup section?.


Yeah.
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Princessdainty(m): 5:57pm On Jan 27, 2023
Wombwatcher, jobless woman. Patriarchy Princess... Hire their Uterus for yourself .

Not every woman wants kids and that's ok..

There are varieties of options for future occurrence.
The number of destitute kids in Nigeria is alarming enough..

We got more pressing issues dears.
No fuel, government hoarding cash ..

who cares what an adult female does with her uterus?

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Ckonnet: 6:00pm On Jan 27, 2023
The ripple effect of such trend in Nigeria with this good for nothing government in place will be disastrous..
That is how akatas in America almost ruined the black community, they are still dealing with the effect of single mother parenthood with their advanced support system not to talk of 9ja wey your family will first leave you in d cold.
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by benqo01(m): 6:01pm On Jan 27, 2023
Samantha123:
Calm down before you explode..๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก Seriously i no dey vex if I dey vex u go sabi
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Ckonnet: 6:02pm On Jan 27, 2023
franchasng:
I replied your comment to clear some misconception Nigerians have about developed countries and being rich.



Many Nigerians believe that once you have money, you can get kids by IVF or at worst you fly your wife abroad for a quality IVF and she will return with a bouncing baby lol



If it was that easy, many rich couple abroad wouldn't end up childless after several trials.



I have friends living in some of the best countries you can think of, that are already fed up with IVF failures.




Experience have made me to realize that one of the most difficult things to get even with wealth is your own biological children cry

Advice your friends to fly to Nigeria for their ivf section, oyibo too dey follow procedures for that level. Thank me later.

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Solocoin: 6:03pm On Jan 27, 2023
Who will father this child? Because she want to have a child.
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by franchasng: 6:04pm On Jan 27, 2023
pocohantas:


Lol. I thought the lives of their sisters and mothers are so perfect. Hence the obsession with women on an anonymous forum that they know nothing of. One told me his sisters married between 26-32. I guess he had to shift it to 32 to accommodate his sisters. They should have gotten pregnant at 30 na. Mugus
lolz


The truth is, Nigeria as a nation is in total disarray due to successive criminal leaders that introduced and institutionalized corruption and criminality which is now causing havoc in almost every sector of Nigeria, including family life.



Guys now marry late due to increased poverty as a result of underemployment and unemployment, so who will marry the ladies; ghost? Maybe until we as a nation agree to legalize polygamy without minding the religious doctrines, but with a clause that only men with certain level of income or financial status should marry more than one wife, I don't see the trend of late marriage amongst males and females going down anytime soon.
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Mustiboy(m): 6:07pm On Jan 27, 2023
Which men dey โ€œrush woman with 4-5 pikin โ€œ as she said?
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by franchasng: 6:07pm On Jan 27, 2023
Ckonnet:


Advice your friends to fly to Nigeria for their ivf section, oyibo too dey follow procedures for that level. Thank me later.
lol, any Nigerian born and bred in Nigeria that lives permanently abroad for 10 years will never agree to come back to Nigeria to do anything aside spiritual matters that involve Babalawos and Mamalawos grin

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Ckonnet: 6:13pm On Jan 27, 2023
franchasng:
lol, any Nigerian born and bred in Nigeria that lives permanently abroad for 10 years will never agree to come back to Nigeria to do anything aside spiritual matters that involve Babalawos and Mamalawos grin

Unless the ignorant folks that overrates oyibo, my findings are based on facts from practitioners that studied abroad.
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 27, 2023
Even though I didn't get what you said, okay.. grin grin grin
benqo01:


๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก๐Ÿ˜ก Seriously i no dey vex if I dey vex u go sabi
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jan 27, 2023
But I don't want to have more than two kids and I've heard some cases whereby some family plannings failed and the couples ended up having more kids than they expected.

What are those effects that you're talking about?
NNEVERAGAINN:
I urge you to discourage that thought of tying of womb. It has great effect.
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by faceLAGOS: 6:21pm On Jan 27, 2023
Samantha123:
Ge o sena le selo se se kaone se o ka go mpotja sona, ke kgopela gore o homole.

Samantha124 don vex

Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by pocohantas(f): 6:22pm On Jan 27, 2023
franchasng:
lolz


The truth is, Nigeria as a nation is in total disarray due to successive criminal leaders that introduced and institutionalized corruption and criminality which is now causing havoc in almost every sector of Nigeria, including family life.



Guys now marry late due to increased poverty as a result of underemployment and unemployment, so who will marry the ladies; ghost? Maybe until we as a nation agree to legalize polygamy without minding the religious doctrines, but with a clause that only men with certain level of income or financial status should marry more than one wife, I don't see the trend of late marriage amongst males and females going down anytime soon.

Polygamy is very well allowed in Nigeria. I donโ€™t know any many that has been sent to jail for marrying two wives. If men want to marry numerous women, they can. However, many prefer to be married to one with 4 side chicks. And the ladies too would rather be side chicks than second wives. This is changing as I am beginning to see ladies marry rich ancestors. It is only online men act like anyone is stopping them. Out there, nobody cares.

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Gift96: 6:23pm On Jan 27, 2023
FalseProphet1:
You want a broke, useless, jobless and entitled girl to give birth because she's nearing 30. That's wickedness, cos the child would die of hunger or negligence. We read how a mother gave her child tramadol so she can go clubbing, that's what broke and jobless girls with kids are capable of doing.

This I have seen.
salawa abeni
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by GodHimself: 6:24pm On Jan 27, 2023
White yams, a staple of the diet of the Yoruba people of southwestern Nigeria, may play a role in the societyโ€™s high incidence of fraternal twinning, according to a studentโ€™s research. โ€œYou see families consuming yams three or four times a day,โ€ said Obinwanne Ugwonali, M.D. โ€™99, whose thesis on the link between yams and fertility was one of five to garner awards this year on Student Research Day.


https://medicine.yale.edu/news/yale-medicine-magazine/article/whats-in-a-yam-clues-to-fertility-a/#:~:text=White%20yams%2C%20a%20staple%20of,according%20to%20a%20student's%20research.

Samantha123:
Some of us are still way too selfish to bring crying babies into this world... grin grin grin

I've heard that Yoruba women have high chances of conceiving twins because of the kinds of food that they eat, can you guys tell me the secret ingredient so that when I'm ready I'll prepare it in my food and probably give birth to twins and then have my tubes tied after that?
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by emee701(m): 6:24pm On Jan 27, 2023
Samantha123:
Ohhh! So the secret ingredient is an okra leaf.

Must I prepare the llasa soup in order to increase the chances of having twins? Or it would still work even if I add the okra leaves in some of the South African dishes?
Okra and yam in igboora would give you twins
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by GodHimself: 6:28pm On Jan 27, 2023
https://www.invitra.com/en/female-fertility/female-fertility-rates-by-age-chart/

officialwdhtv:
The Rate Of Infertility In Nigeria Is Alarming! - Why unmarried ladies must have a child before clocking 30years - Relationship Expert

Do you agree with her? Take a listen!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBXgmckJr0w

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by ednut1(m): 6:30pm On Jan 27, 2023
some who cant feed themselves should bring in a baby

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by franchasng: 6:33pm On Jan 27, 2023
pocohantas:


Polygamy is very well allowed in Nigeria. I donโ€™t know any many that has been sent to jail for marrying two wives. If men want to marry numerous women, they can. However, many prefer to be married to one with 4 side chicks. And the ladies too would rather be side chicks than second wives. This is changing as I am beginning to see ladies marry rich ancestors. It is only online men act like anyone is stopping them. Out there, nobody cares.
lol, we need to legalize polygamy with the clause that it must only be for the rich so that our ladies will start to see it as normal and not groan over it since economic hardship has made it almost impossible for a single Nigerian guy to marry before age 30.



The normal age for Nigerian guys to marry is gradually shifting to 40yrs and maybe if the evil leadership trend isn't reversed soonest, it may become 45yrs in 5yrs from now.



Making it a national law with some clauses to curb abuse will help solve this issue and reduce corporate prostitution grin
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Sweetvie: 6:42pm On Jan 27, 2023
undecided
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Nobody: 6:43pm On Jan 27, 2023
Lol..๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.. You better caution this brother of yours before I show him flames..๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
faceLAGOS:


Samantha124 don vex

Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jan 27, 2023
Wow!!! Interesting, thanks.
GodHimself:
White yams, a staple of the diet of the Yoruba people of southwestern Nigeria, may play a role in the societyโ€™s high incidence of fraternal twinning, according to a studentโ€™s research. โ€œYou see families consuming yams three or four times a day,โ€ said Obinwanne Ugwonali, M.D. โ€™99, whose thesis on the link between yams and fertility was one of five to garner awards this year on Student Research Day.


https://medicine.yale.edu/news/yale-medicine-magazine/article/whats-in-a-yam-clues-to-fertility-a/#:~:text=White%20yams%2C%20a%20staple%20of,according%20to%20a%20student's%20research.

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Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Tallesty1(m): 6:48pm On Jan 27, 2023
pocohantas:

Little wonder we keep recycling poverty. When does the average Nigerian youth graduate from university again?
22 angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Why Unmarried Ladies Must Have A Child Before 30 - Relationship Expert (pic/vid) by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jan 27, 2023
I'll need a Nigerian to help me prepare all of these because we don't eat any of them here in South Africa.
emee701:
Okra and yam in igboora would give you twins

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