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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by phemmyfour: 7:40pm On Jan 28, 2023

ibilawani:
What is your greatest fear about love? Is it commitment, is it trust, is it infidelity or physical abuse? Or are you confident about relationships?
Please I will like to know.

For me itnis infidelity. I don't want to be cheated on.
What about you?

commitment

I get bored easily ....I might not find you interesting after a week

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by iyababs: 7:40pm On Jan 28, 2023

Issss falling out of love

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Emdebby2: 7:40pm On Jan 28, 2023

Hear break. My heart is so fragile

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by vickydevoka(m): 7:42pm On Jan 28, 2023

Samantha123:
Well, my fiancee is an affectionate and touchy feely type of a guy and at first I didn't understand his love language, I thought he was invading my personal space because of my introvert nature whenever he would get all touchy, but I never did told him.

As time went by, I slowly started liking it and i now love it, and I make sure to reciprocate the feeling.

Now my fear is that one day he may stop being affectionate towards me, especially when we get older and the kids are in the picture.

I love my cuddles and I wouldn't want anyone else to come in between me and my cuddles, especially our future kids.. . I wouldn't even mind getting a night shift nanny to look after the kids..

I’m scared of women in general. People way marry good wife abroad how dem take do am

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Klastivity(m): 7:43pm On Jan 28, 2023

Samantha123:
Well, my fiancee is an affectionate and touchy feely type of a guy and at first I didn't understand his love language, I thought he was invading my personal space because of my introvert nature whenever he would get all touchy, but I never did told him.

As time went by, I slowly started liking it and i now love it, and I make sure to reciprocate the feeling.

Now my fear is that one day he may stop being affectionate towards me, especially when we get older and the kids are in the picture.

I love my cuddles and I wouldn't want anyone else to come in between me and my cuddles, especially our future kids.. . I wouldn't even mind getting a night shift nanny to look after the kids..

Same thing a female friend told me.. She said she can't get stop thinking of that.. but we men don't have issues with it though

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by favour32(m): 7:47pm On Jan 28, 2023

Most great guys got ruined because they fell in love.

Men love realistically.
Women love opportunistically(self interest) for men of value or what the men can provide.

Real men like women but DO NOT FALL IN LOVE.

Real men fear nothing because they are inert to emotional turbulence!

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Starz825(m): 7:52pm On Jan 28, 2023

Toks2008:
I love but I don't fall in love.

I expect everything and I expect nothing. I just go with the flow.

God go bless you...
You are a Redpiller...

You might actually not agree with that but your notion is similar

Redpill says you can love, respect and care for someone without having to fall in love with them cos when you love you don't get to lose your senses and you know for sure your partner can mess u up and you are ready for it... unlike falling in love...that makes you toxic when shit happens

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Godwinmy: 7:57pm On Jan 28, 2023

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by KevinDeBruyne: 8:02pm On Jan 28, 2023

My partner gets to know of all my insecurities... kiss

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 28, 2023

DebbyParkway:
Ex-polish FM Names Two Major Ukrainian Problems

https://www.nairaland.com/7544954/ex-polish-fm-names-two-major

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Iykediallo: 8:07pm On Jan 28, 2023

JOACHINpedro:
"Love"
The most abused word in dictionary

. Sorry is also abused on a daily

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by DREAMHOMES6970(m): 8:30pm On Jan 28, 2023

Hmmm. To me Nothing freaks me about love anymore. I can like you, admire you but it stops there. That doesn't mean I don't care. I care the most but I can never get depressed over relationship issues again 💯. If am dating you and you start misbehaving, I will only be watching and observing you, but to get myself depressed, workedup, or angry over you, nah nah. I will let you do your thing as it pleases you

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Skty: 8:32pm On Jan 28, 2023

Dating myself in the relationship..😆

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by odaniel1(m): 8:51pm On Jan 28, 2023

KevinDeBruyne:
My partner gets to know of all my insecurities...

crazy pass right there Debruyne! you feel as open as a volcano, and all your self-confidence wanes. The fact that she knows makes it look like you switched positions cry

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by mywells: 9:09pm On Jan 28, 2023

Billings.

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Nobody: 9:13pm On Jan 28, 2023

You Nigerian guys just like misunderstanding things and make something so simple to look so difficult...🤦🤦🤦

DollarSigns:

You pray against the spirit of stagnation in your Partner’s life yet you want him to keep doing the same thing ‘cuddle you’ every night

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Goalnaldo(m): 9:15pm On Jan 28, 2023

Samantha123:
You Nigerian guys just like misunderstanding things and make something so simple to look so difficult...🤦🤦🤦

how were you able to put those emojis outside nairaland's or are you using a computer?

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:15pm On Jan 28, 2023

Being vulnerable, I fear it.

I act stupid when I fall in love and I hate to be stupid. But, I guess it's automatic. Also, I am very expressive and I fear that I won't be given the same energy. Someone is giving me in halves while I am going the full nine yards. Sick.

In addition, my insecurities and secrets. I fear that when he knows me deeply and thoroughly, he will detach. People will always say "he's not worth it if he detaches" blah blah, but it's easier to advise than accept it. The fear of starting all over. The emotional investments and sacrifices. Phew.

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jan 28, 2023

Men are scum for what?

And please, don't generalize because I'm not like your women and I don't ever remember going around saying men are scum or trash, because I've only been surrounded by good men my entire life.

It's the first time I see men being so openly disrespectful towards women here on nairaland.

DestinyNigga:

After una will be shouting men are scum. After swallowing one bucket of eba

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Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jan 28, 2023

I'm using a tablet.

I used the keyboard emojis and not those nairaland ones.

Goalnaldo:
how were you able to put those emojis outside nairaland's or are you using a computer?

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Rexnegro(m): 9:52pm On Jan 28, 2023

Uncertainty

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Ferrous(m): 10:09pm On Jan 28, 2023

Just, heartbreak a.k.a breakfast

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by wumi2017(f): 10:12pm On Jan 28, 2023

What other thing than fear of heartbroken 💔💔

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by kelspinall(m): 10:15pm On Jan 28, 2023

truth about me is, I don't believe in love,i hate that word..

you cheat ya probx

i hate physical assault,hate it

lastly i got trust issues,move or act in a hanky panky way,am already observing...

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by DestinyNigga: 10:20pm On Jan 28, 2023

Samantha123:
Men are scum for what?

And please, don't generalize because I'm not like your women and I don't ever remember going around saying men are scum or trash, because I've only been surrounded by good men my entire life.

It's the first time I see men being so openly disrespectful towards women here on nairaland.

Nothing disrespectful my sister. All na cruise. You must be enjoying that your guy very well. You will born twins for him. This I have seen grin

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by DollarSigns(m): 10:24pm On Jan 28, 2023

Samantha123:
You Nigerian guys just like misunderstanding things and make something so simple to look so difficult...🤦🤦🤦

Cuddle forever simple ni lipsrsealed

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Reinamaria(f): 10:40pm On Jan 28, 2023

Samantha123:
Well, my fiancee is an affectionate and touchy feely type of a guy and at first I didn't understand his love language, I thought he was invading my personal space because of my introvert nature whenever he would get all touchy, but I never did told him.

As time went by, I slowly started liking it and i now love it, and I make sure to reciprocate the feeling.

Now my fear is that one day he may stop being affectionate towards me, especially when we get older and the kids are in the picture.

I love my cuddles and I wouldn't want anyone else to come in between me and my cuddles, especially our future kids.. . I wouldn't even mind getting a night shift nanny to look after the kids..

How selfishly possessive! 😄😄

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Chixco95(m): 10:44pm On Jan 28, 2023

folake4u:

Honestly oh.

A whole Hard girl. 😩

You sure say you hard?

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 28, 2023

Yep, I know I can be selfish sometimes..😅😅😅

Reinamaria:

How selfishly possessive! 😄😄

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Adaisback(f): 10:48pm On Jan 28, 2023

Cheating coz men are not to be trusted

Re: What Scares You The Most About Falling In Love? by Chixco95(m): 10:48pm On Jan 28, 2023

Actually, what scare me most about love is memories.
I believe I'm strong whenever my heart is broken, but when I remember the memories we had together, I do break down.

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