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Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by 77star: 12:47pm On Jan 27, 2023 |
demanuel:Respect to you Mr. Emmanuel |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by pansophist(m): 12:35pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
demanuel: Alright, I will when I have time. I will quote you when I did. |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
Tife270:If she’s snubbing you along with the rest of the crowd just know she sees you the same way she sees the crowd . There’s no woman on this earth that will treat someone she really likes and desires like the crowd know this and know peace so if you are trying to get with her and she doesn’t give you special treatment she’s not feeling you bro don’t bother trying to push for a relationship, No matter how beautiful she may seem if she’s not feeling you don’t try to force it. Respectfully Leave |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by 6ixT8: 8:23pm On Jan 28, 2023 |
pansophist: Pls how is The art of war (Sun Tzu). Best understood as a non-military? Cos it all seems like something for soldiers alone. |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by pansophist(m): 3:00am On Jan 29, 2023 |
6ixT8: No, it's not for soldiers alone. The book is about the psychology of war, and it could be applied in every fight either malice, physical fight, or competition, to know your strength, weakness, resources, aim, and everything about your opponent. To make you understand the book better, I will quote some famous passages from the book and explain them in an everyday context. 1. - The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting - The greatest victory is that which requires no battle The word enemy can also be replaced with a strong competitor, to get a girl. For example, look at what China is doing in Africa. This is their main strategy. Their single aim is to displace Europeans from Africa and be our strongest ally. They didn't do this by fighting the Americans militarily, but they came with soft power. So they give loans, forgive the loans, build massive infrastructures, give scholarships, and avoid internal politics. They made sure that they treat you better than the whites did. This is how they won. In the end, Africans would choose who is good for them, and it would be the Chinese. Another applicable would be romance. You may spend all your best toasting asking a girl out, but a man that has been building himself for a long time, and has accumulated wealth would just come and marry her, or even have sex with her the same week. He didn't win or subdue her with his toasting skills, he already won by enriching himself, and having an awesome lifestyle that she will like to be in. Same reason why the US embassy has more applicants than Burundi for example. The tom and jerry episode titled ''blue cat blues'' proved this dynamic very well. When Mr. Butch came with his wealth and snatched Jerry's lover, leading him to almost committed suicide. I would have pasted the link on youtube but the spam bot will ban it. So search for ''blue cat blues''. That's the darkest and the most painful Tom and Jerry episode you will ever watch. 2. Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win This is related to the above, just from another side of the fence. War is just a confirmation of the result, not the result itself. It's common sense that in a fight with a lion and a goat if you bet 100 times that the lion will win, you are correct. So in any battle you enter, either getting a girl, killing a competitor, or war, preparations done beforehand will give you victory, not wishes and prayers. I suspect this is the strategy MNK (Nnamdi Kanu) used. He was far away from doing podcasts and winning the heart of the people, that it became so difficult for the government to do anything to him. He has more power to control the masses in the whole southeast, than the governors themselves. That's solid proof of winning first, before going to war. If I will apply it to relationships, then it's still the old rules of developing yourself first, then the women will come. Davido doesn't lack women, and won't beg a woman to stay because he is already victorious, He has slain his dragon, and every girl will feel safe with him, even without toasting. In fact, they will remove the burden from him and toast him. 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by pansophist(m): 3:11am On Jan 29, 2023 |
6ixT8: Imagine this scenario. You are walking on the street and a small boy starts insulting you, you feel so angry and chased him off. If you descend on him and he dies in your hand, then his crime doesn't matter anymore, because the dynamics are not favorable to you. In a conflict between the strong and the weak, society will always support the weak even if the weak is the aggressor (e.g men and women, abled and disabled). Your best bet is to ignore him and not fall into that trap, because even if you win the battle of punching out justice for yourself, you lost the war by entering into trouble with the law, which would just wreck you. So you must know the difference between winning a battle and winning a war. So you should only enter a fight that you will win both the battle and the war. What made the story of David and Goliath impressive was that David was presumed small and weak. If Goliath won, it would not be impressive or a worthy story at all. So the psychology there is to ignore unequal battles, because if the weak win, its a big shame to you, and if they lose, it still doesn't honor you. Just like Facebook likes don't mean shit, some victories are useless. An envious neighbor always looks for your trouble and hates you? you move out if you can, and do not fight him bumper to bumper. Because even if you win, it's a useless win. Remember this, only someone lower than you will envy you, so fighting with them is belittling yourself. Also, bear in mind that some people are not capable of being good (it takes strength to be good), but EVERYONE is capable of being evil. Your neighbor can kill you easily due to his hate, but if you lock him up for a month, he may not be able to afford 50k to bail himself out. So trying to hate him back, fight him back and envy him back is a useless win. It's worthless. A good win would be to ignore him and keep glowing like a flower with your success, and that will be his/her torment. The best battle you will ever win is the one you won without ever using violence. 29 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by 6ixT8: 7:24am On Jan 29, 2023 |
pansophist: Thanks for your input. Yes! Some chapters are relatable when dealing with people... Meanwhile. I've being engaging excessive sweat. What your take on my progress?
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Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by Mcslize: 9:14am On Jan 29, 2023 |
By ignoring her. Make yourself unavailable only then she will value you. Any time you eventually message her, she will reply at the speed of light. And always keep your chat short with such a lady. I hardly chat with ladies on WhatsApp and Facebook, except other casual dating sites. And I hardly post on my status. I hardly view their status. Just make yourself a ghost. When I need to communicate, especially to ladies, I prefer placing a call to them than chatting them up on WhatsApp. And if you are the type that always ignore calls too, I always give the grace of 5 times. If it happens 5 times at different times and periods, then that's a pure deliberate act. I will delete such a lady's number without looking back. No regard for me? You're gone. When you act too clingy, your value wears out in their eyes. That's how I operate o. Don't make yourself too available to a lady that doesn't value replying your messages. In fact, cut her off entirely. What's affecting most guys is they like wasting their time on one single girl with bad attitudes when there are millions of other ladies out there that are waiting to be talked to. Have an abundant mindset and you won't have issue with any lady ignoring you. You simply cut her off and start talking to other ladies. With that, you won't even feel she exists. Don't do yourself a great injustice by forcing yourself on one single girl. Talk to many of them and create an abundant mindset in your head. You will just be good. Pls note, what I wrote above is for a lady you've known already. Maybe too much familiarity is now making her to ignore you. But if it is a new lady, you need to desist from the usual boring way of chatting. Be mysterious in your chat. The usual hello, hi or how are you won't work in this scenario. They are too boring to use those as an ice breaker. What is an ice breaker? An ice breaker is your first statement or message that create a ground for further discussion. Let me give you an example: If I were to chat a new girl, I will apply my usual funny way of chatting rather than saying hi. You do know so well that some ladies are not good at communicating. You need to lead them on. So, instead of starting a conversation with the usual Hello, how are you? Or just hi, I will rather invoke her curiosity by making a statement that will provoke her to either laugh or seems curious to want to probe and go on a further conversation with me. That's how you will be able to make the typical Nigeria girl not to ignore your chat. Be different with your chat. Provoke and invoke curiousity, anger and laughter in your chat. 1 Like |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by pansophist(m): 12:55pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
6ixT8: Yes, it's good, but exercise only will not make you lose weight if that's your goal. You must eat for functionality, not for pleasure. There was a time I ran intensely every day for a month, that was 10km per day, and I lost nothing. By default, the human body is an advanced exercise machine. Everything you do from walking to your bedroom to lifting a cup to squatting in the toilet and talking, laughing, and thinking, are all training and use far more energy than training will do. This is known as RMR (resting metabolic rate). So do not give yourself a false illusion that you are losing weight because you are running every day. For example, the smallest pack of Indomie has more calories than what you burned running daily, and I am sure you ate a lot after running because you will be tired. Exercising just gives you a good excuse to eat while thinking you burned so much. So start eating right, for a start, cut off all sugar in the form of carbs from your food. Just eat only animal products and water. In a month, you can easily lose at least 5k, no caps. 5kg, yes, even more, if you are very strict with it. All those fitness plans and green tea and fat burner these so-called weight loss experts sell as nothing but a ''placebo effect''. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by 6ixT8: 1:58pm On Jan 29, 2023 |
pansophist: Thanks boss. By the way I'm not fat. Just doing it to be fit. I won't mind adding weight tho. I notice a boost in mode throughout the day after doing the exercise. |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by pansophist(m): 1:09am On Jan 30, 2023 |
6ixT8: Yes, your last paragraph is just one of the few benefits of exercise. You will feel light, in a good mood, and well-balanced mentally. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by MeNmyfamily: 2:35am On Sep 07, 2023 |
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Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by xenten: 2:49am On Sep 07, 2023 |
Tife270: ask for account number. then bone! |
Re: How Can A Guy Date A Hot Girl That Snubs A Lot? by Tenrack: 2:51am On Sep 07, 2023 |
Sheistoopretty:see emojis everywhere written like a typical imbe.cile. mumu |
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