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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by bigdammyj: 12:13pm On Feb 24, 2023
Not hard.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by blazepascal(m): 12:14pm On Feb 24, 2023
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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Primusinterpares(m): 12:14pm On Feb 24, 2023
Don't allow big yanch and bobs to affect your reason.


Pray and follow your heart.
Once she ticks 8/10 in the ur box.
Then you are good

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by iLoveYouToo(m): 12:15pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!


If I point you in the right direction now I know you’ll disappoint. Happy Searching

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Kobicove(m): 12:15pm On Feb 24, 2023
Search harder!

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Menclothing: 12:15pm On Feb 24, 2023
Giving out free gift to Lagos mainland ladies only dm
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by gfelo(m): 12:16pm On Feb 24, 2023
better be patient, and take ur time, immediately u pick anyhow, suddenly the right one will come, by then it will be too late, so be patient.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by ozedizik: 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2023
Na spiritual wife.
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Skillsnigeria: 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2023
Hmmm
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Nosa111(m): 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2023
Same situation my brother. Just reading the comments too

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by saphiere(f): 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!
But your brothers say na men dey scare

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by johnfem321: 12:17pm On Feb 24, 2023
To find a wife it is hard work.. the Bible said .. he that findeth a wife finds a good thing.. he never said he that pick, select., you have to work to find a good wife.. it not easy to find.. you can easily find lots of girlfriend but wife it’s not easy.. also pray to God in the process

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by MichaelSokoto(m): 12:18pm On Feb 24, 2023
westlius:
because you dey find godly wife with Ashawo vibes
u Sabi am!
cool

Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by SleekyP(m): 12:19pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!
Have you tried rokiatu? Lala247? grin


Cc: mrcock aka daddyck grin
Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by judedwriter(m): 12:19pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!

Don't be in a hurry, be calm. Love will eventually find you.

God is the perfect matchmaker.

If you are sincere with yourself, you will discover that He keeps giving you options to choose but He will NEVER force anyone on you.

You do the choosing not God or your pastor /prophet.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by DWJOBScom(m): 12:19pm On Feb 24, 2023
The moment you pass a certain age , soul mate shit becomes tough
All you have is what suits both of you

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by sofeo(m): 12:20pm On Feb 24, 2023
Alright


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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!
First of all there’s nothing like a soulmate get that belief out of your head You just have people you are compatible or vibe very well with .

Secondly you sound quite desperate you should tell us why but anyway desperation will not give you what you want it will only give you what you don’t want,.

In order for you to find the women that will be compatible with you , you have to go out and actually meet women it may take a long time to find one you are really compatible with but it’s what you have to do whining and crying will not help matters go out meet women interact with them have fun and surely your supposed soulmate will come don’t beat yourself up about it, your fears and desperation’s are not real .

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by optm(m): 12:22pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:

I don't and will not manage marriage
it's better to remain single than manage marriage.
Op you are not alone on this. There are guys that do not want to manage their marriage and are very careful in seeking for a life partner. We can only but trust God to help us find a partner that's worth sharing a lifetime with. Keep praying and searching

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Isabi4lov: 12:22pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!
You're not alone in this , even as a lady to see a guy that's ready for commitment is hard to find except she's eager to be a baby mama.

One most important thing that hinders people from getting married is money .

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by franchasofficia: 12:23pm On Feb 24, 2023
chccho:
I have been seriously searching for my soul mate and wife but this has been a herculean task so far.

I have met in the past some very suitable and wonderful ladies who we were deeply into each other but I was either too naive at the time or wasn't ready for marriage so they had to move on.

Now that I am ready and able, no show!!!
I don't want to just get married anyhow to anyone, I want someone who's God fearing,my soul mate, someone who I'm attracted, loving, peaceful and so on.

I'm so confused!! Is true love this hard to find??!
Do not ever make the mistake of marrying for romantic love, love is a fallacy, its a tool used to manipulate weak minds.



If you want to marry without regrets, marry based on the qualities and things that will ensure the growth or expansion of your financial wealth, sustainability of your success and lineage. Marry like the Royal families.



Before you pick any lady to marry, consider her:


personality; is she respectful?

Is she reliable ?


Does she enjoy working and earning?

Does she have a career prospect?

Does she have clear plans to grow on her own with little help from you?


If something happens to you and renders you incapacitated, can she sustain your family success without resorting to begging and turning miserable?


Does she have luck on her side? If she is not lucky, its a risk marrying her cos her ill luck will mar your life unless your destiny is too bright to outshine her ill luck.


Who are her immediate family members ? Are they leeches or people you can run to for help if need be?


Watch her utterances about life and money management.


Is she a money maker or a money spender?


What's her belief? Does it align with yours?

Will her profession, career, business, handwork or craft help you grow or mar/distort your own growth?


Don't marry for sex, sex is overrated, you will bet tired of sex in marriage even if your wife fine pass mami iwota, especially as a man, so forget about romantic vibes or sex vibes.




Love is not enough to marry anybody, it will expire when financial lack sets in.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by EriMma1: 12:24pm On Feb 24, 2023
westlius:
because you dey find godly wife with Ashawo vibes

Oil dey your head.
I'm sure, him go Don see SU like us throwway face yet he's looking for a God fearing woman.

Kwatinu

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Nosa111(m): 12:25pm On Feb 24, 2023
Stop giving him bad advice. There are still good women out there. But they are rare. This kind of talk is just like telling him to settle down with anyone. I hate it when people say no perfect woman, just take choose the one you can tolerate. Rubbish talk. Marry first na there you go know say you nor suppose rush.
VinnyBaba:


OP,

If it's Soulmate you are Waiting for, You will wait till you reach 55years of Age! 😒😒

With All the Materialistic, entitled, Lazy, Towtow-merchandising Girls we have Currently in Nigeria, You are looking for Soulmate? undecided..😏

You Better Manage any smallie close to you and Wife her. sad

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by FreeStuffsNG: 12:25pm On Feb 24, 2023
You missed your time. You should not beat yourself too hard just join the queue again and do what you failed to do then; get serious with the one you love and loves you back.
Good luck!

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by MrBroke(m): 12:26pm On Feb 24, 2023
There is no such thing as soul mate oga

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by fyneeagle99: 12:26pm On Feb 24, 2023
YOU ARE DESTINED TO BE SINGLE

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by MichaelSokoto(m): 12:27pm On Feb 24, 2023
SleekyP:

Have you tried rokiatu? Lala247? grin


Cc: mrcock aka daddyck grin
garaway u!
grin

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by riverbird: 12:30pm On Feb 24, 2023
Because 95% women are just materialistic and nothing more.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by faithfull18(f): 12:30pm On Feb 24, 2023
Lol, plenty over-used men looking for decent women.
Why should decent women settle for not so decent men, decent men are scarce too.

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by seanwilliam(m): 12:30pm On Feb 24, 2023
AbdulMagaji:


You are not alone, I jumped out of one some months ago.

My heart is still panting till this moment.
Hmm. Kindly tell us what happened sir.
Is it the one u just married recently ?
What are the signs you saw ?
Someone is learning from you remember that .

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Re: Why Is It So Hard To Find My Wife/soul Mate? by Tony4000: 12:31pm On Feb 24, 2023
Pls let’s focus on this election and leave some irrelevant matters, there is time for everything
Vote OBI/DATTI
LP👨‍👩‍👧

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