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lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

zakkxx:
My Sister, pray every 12 mid night cry to God to rescue your husband! Live a righteous life so that God go answer your prayer! Before u serve your husband food make a powerful declaration “U will love me like never before; I destroy any relationship u are in with any side chick! U will love God soo much! As u eat this food I destroy any juju they have use to tire u in Jesus name! Show love to your husband like never before respect and adore him, be very neat, keep the house sparkling clean. U will see the magic in Christ Jesus.

zakkxx:
■My Sister, pray every 12 mid night cry to God to rescue your husband! Live a righteous life so that God go answer your prayer! Before u serve your husband food make a powerful declaration “U will love me like never before; I destroy any relationship u are in with any side chick! U will love God soo much!
■ As u eat this food I destroy any juju they have use to tire u in Jesus name! Show love to your husband like never before respect and adore him, be very neat, keep the house sparkling clean. U will see the magic in Christ Jesus.

Mindlog:
■ Jesus is not into magic and if the husband dies through the juju of the side chick and her mother, it is his loss as what the wife owes him is to see that he is buried, after which she moves on with her life.

Kobojunkie:
Why she go owe him that? The sidechick or his own family no fit do that instead?

Mindlog:
■As per the "dutiful" wife who stayed on and bore the Mrs title.

Kobojunkie:
OP, please do not take this advice no matter what frame of mind you are in.

Ask these people to be honest with you. Their churches are already filled to the brim with women like you in adulterous marriages. They come year after year in their droves fasting and praying for their husbands who already abandoned them in marriage to leave the side chick and come back home to them, without result. Many of the women watch as their youth and meaning in lives pass them by while they pray in vain believing in lies fed to them by pastors and mogs. If any of these same women had instead invested their minds, their time, and their efforts into building themselves up as individuals during all that time, they would be better off than where they are today, stuck in poverty and delusion over marriage.

Jesus Christ said your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God. Jesus Christ said that you are free to get a divorce and even remarry in the case of adultery. What more are you waiting for? Take back the reigns on your life and pull it as hard as you need to so you can stand up on your own in this.

Kobojunkie:
1. A thought just occurred to me just now. So, after the husband dies during a sex marathon with a side-chick or prostitute, na so dem dutiful Mrs for house go come carry the dead body go bury am?

Kai!

Mindlog:
She go even make sure say na she hold the mortuary receipt.

IyaebeTheGreat:
All of you twisted my post just so you could bash me, it’s all because I’m an Asiwaju supporter

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Heathrow44:
, thunder ⛈ fire that side chick and the mother, If u av videos of her nude videos post it on sm, make people sha get sense ni, enough of being nice oo! This tym around, vawalence is allowed o, no limits! Call ur husband one on one in d presence of ur children and tell him u are aware of his side chick, find a way to know the house of that side chick and arrest her and her mother, make police enter the matter

MightySparrow:
Possibly kobojunkie is a single mother or a spinster that doesn't have any stake. When the chips are down, you will face the reality alone.


Your home is your home. Your children are your children, your husband is your husband.
Myself in a similar profession know what temptations we can face on site while meeting people. Don't crucify your husband yet. Don't make your home inhabitable for him. See your as something worthy of getting back.

Kobojunkie and others telling you to lose your home are either not sincere or wicked.


You have your life to live and personal challenges to face.

Check her posts you will discover the girl is a little crazy.


In summary: do all you can to get your husband back.

cococandy:
what a bunch of disgusting manipulative hogwash

marlow1962:
Hmm, I don’t want to give the impression that I supports he’s sidechick lifestyle, but on a serious note there’s something you’re lacking that the so called side chick has. Check within yourself, married man no dy carry get side chick to the extent em dy buy provisions go see em side chick mama, cun even get pet names ontop.

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO!

Klass99:
I am tempted to say genuine condolences, not because you've lost someone through death or because I want to be funny, but because I can feel your pain OP.

Emotional turmoil and heartache can be a harrowing experience. You can't eat, you can't sleep, you can't focus on anything, you are over thinking everything, feeling sick on the inside and sometimes manifesting that sickness on the outside.

I'm sorry for what you are going through, I hope you find peace of mind again.

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Goodlady:
You mean a wife that's depending on her husband abi?
My advise, dear females, empower yourself.
Don't be a second class citizen in the house of any man. They all v tendencies to cheat. It's just that some are hiding cos of their financial ability. The first thing that enter a hustling man's head after getting rich is how to sleep with all.the girls that do him yanga before. That's the begining of badluck!
Men are scum!

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Goodlady:
You mean a wife that's depending on her husband abi?
My advise, dear females, empower yourself.
Don't be a second class citizen in the house of any man. They all v tendencies to cheat. It's just that some are hiding cos of their financial ability. The first thing that enter a hustling man's head after getting rich is how to sleep with all.the girls that do him yanga before. That's the begining of badluck!
Men are scum!

cococandy:
what a bunch of disgusting manipulative hogwash

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

marlow1962:
Hmm, I don’t want to give the impression that I supports he’s sidechick lifestyle, but on a serious note there’s something you’re lacking that the so called side chick has. Check within yourself, married man no dy carry get side chick to the extent em dy buy provisions go see em side chick mama, cun even get pet names ontop.

Kobojunkie:
1. Well, all you can do is decide for yourself whether you want to be part of the polygamous union that he has already forced on you — he already has at least one concubine, according to you — or whether you would rather divorce him and move on. I'm sorry but there isn't much else you can do.

Abrahamweb:
I tell you, some wife will decide to show the husband pepper after marriage, some will decide not to have sex with the man and men no want headache na,so side chick will enter the picture.
95% of these case na the wife dey cause am.