"Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" - Solomon Buchi

Nigerian relationship expert, Solomon Buchi, has said that premarital sex is not normal, IGBERETV reports.

In a Twitter post he made on Wednesday, March 22, the self-acclaimed life coach wrote;

“You can date without sex. You should do it. Your head will be clear; your mind won’t be fogged by orgasms. It will be easier to walk away, and most importantly, you honor your body unto the Lord. Sex before marriage is not normal. It’s not fun. It’s human depravity"

https://twitter.com/Solomon_Buchi/status/1638488917958615044?t=9kJ3HyM0XbXhGmLxC1lobg&s=19

"If you do not learn how to experience intimacy without sex before marriage, you’ll struggle in marriage. Marriage comes with some seasons of minimal or no sex. How would you cope? Marriage is wayyyy bigger than sex. If all you do is mate like a dog before marriage, I’m bothered about how you’ll sustain intimacy when sex isn’t available in marriage."

https://twitter.com/Solomon_Buchi/status/1638550303665451009?s=20

He's right , premarital sex has never been good, it'll mess you up as a lady and you won't be able to know the right man for you. Premarital sex is the major reason why most women end up with bad men.

ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
- it may not be normal "to you", but it is to many people out there.
- if you want to date without sex then so be it, other would prefer dating WITH sex
- premarital sex is a great way to prepare you for marriage, just as much as being a virgin until marriage is.
- what works for Jide may not work for Tunde. to each their own life.

so why dont you live YOUR own life, and let others live THEIRS!

Okay

This topic again

Another sexually-frustrated soul on rampage.

Ok

Until you marry kekele, na there you go take realize say it takes only a strong man or woman to fry a whole bunch of ripe plantain without tasting it.

🤐🤐

Different ideas different philosophies.

Sex is human biological response

Rest abeg

Tbh, virginity should be one of the major criteria a man should look at before deciding to marry any woman.. that’s her greatest asset/value.

G

He is spot on👌

Children of iniquity will come for his head.

Buchi is correct on this ....Marriage is more than sex sex sex!
This sex ( fun ) tends to act as a veil that prevents some people from seeing a lot of harmful tendencies in their partners

Hmmmmmm, this is deep,

Only the wise ones know this is true, hard truth!!

We Rise!!!

Too late.

For me He is right one while is wrong on the Other especially when it comes to Nigeria

This simp, rest!

Any sex between two consenting adults is their business.

God will only ask you about your own consensual fornications, and not mine. Neither will he ask me about yours.

So you can't tell me which sex is wrong or right. Na still the same toto and amu, the only difference is the title.

Moreover, the most important thing and end goal of every fornication is to achieve the motive behind it for each of the partner involved - money, promotion, children, love, vacation, relief of stress, fun, iphone, revenge, or whatever is the tangible and abstract motive behind such a biological act between such willing partners.

Stop gaslighting people for committing the same sin as you in a different way.

You do understand marriage does not add any "sugar" to sex?

Try two people who don't love each other, let them get married and have sex and see if there will be any love.

Sex happens because of love. Love doesn't happen because of sex.

So why so much emphasis on sex?

Marriage is a archaic and dying institution. Anyone who is open minded can see it.

Fewer and fewer people are willing to get married and it'll continue to decline as the years go by.

Can't imagine why something as gathering of people and eating food is significant to sex.

olamitan32:
For me He is right one while is wrong on the Other especially when it comes to Nigeria

Can you please type this again?
Thank you sir!

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!!
- it may not be normal "to you", but it is to many people out there.
- if you want to date without sex then so be it, other would prefer dating WITH sex
- premarital sex is a great way to prepare you for marriage, just as much as being a virgin until marriage is.
- what works for Jide may not work for Tunde. to each their own life.

so why dont you live YOUR own life, and let others live THEIRS!

Buchi is saying nothing but the truth. Keeping oneself till marriage is bae. Premarital sex has so much negative impact than positive. It has led so many girls to become single mother, unwanted pregnancy, STD, reckless abortion et al

There is nothing as peaceful as keeping yourself till marriage bro

Annoying thing is dat na men dey always carry dis topic for head after them go dey claim not sexual compactable
Monkey

Jm

jaybenugo:
"Sex Before Marriage Is Not Normal; It’s Not Fun; It’s Human Depravity" - Solomon Buchi

Nigerian relationship expert, Solomon Buchi, has said that premarital sex is not normal, IGBERETV reports.

In a Twitter post he made on Wednesday, March 22, the self-acclaimed life coach wrote;



https://twitter.com/Solomon_Buchi/status/1638488917958615044?t=9kJ3HyM0XbXhGmLxC1lobg&s=19



https://twitter.com/Solomon_Buchi/status/1638550303665451009?s=20

Premarital sex is same as marital sex! No sex is abnormal! Sex is nothing but sex! Sex is nature while abstinence is culture. Once you are sexually active, you are free to have it-girl or boy! No age limit except for human law that gives age limit in different culture! What is abnormal is rape! Forcing sex on another person! Stop demonizing sex pleeeeaaaseee!

Very True.