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Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by GboyegaD(m): 5:57pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: If you and your wife are matured, been broke isn't the end of the world. Those who complain of disrespect in most cases are those who earned their respect with money. There is more to marriage than responsibilities. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Bruno3000(m): 5:58pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:Don't mind him Jare.. Marriage means taking care of other human beings. Period. 6 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by pocohantas(f): 5:59pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Acidosis: I was shocked to see the 100k but I restrained myself because fingers are not equal. I am not sure I can do 50k in a month _less than $100. Maybe that is why I am a gold-digger. I wouldn’t like my husband to create thread over 50k a month. 😩 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by SimpleGuy001: 5:59pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Marriage you say is of the world of men? And God created Adam and Eve and made them to be together….. At this point, I’ve clearly seen what others have seen In you. E no worth am, run along…… 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by GenSpecifics: 5:59pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: You be Heebo ? Which one be in-law money again ? Even at that , its not an extravagant spend in this FCK up economy. Even if you are single you go still buy gas , pay NEPA bills and all. As a bachelor I had no respect for money or its value but when I got married every cent counts but that doesn't mean I will deny my family good things . Up your game because every one out there is doing same. If you are not investing that money then spend it as you make it because everyday it loses value. |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 6:00pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Gerrard59:Are you saying baby-mamaism is more expensive than marriage? 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by boxypane(m): 6:00pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Please add BILLSESSESSSSSSSS 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Kobojunkiee: 6:01pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
SimpleGuy001:Genesis 3 vs 16 and Luke 20 vs 34 - 36. |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Gerrard59(m): 6:01pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Akalia: His income is not high. That is the issue. However, when the income increases, his expenses will also increase. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by boxypane(m): 6:02pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
JASONjnr:Wetin this one dey talk? 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 6:04pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
You are right about being about responsibilities and may be you also married a liability as a wife. Adexgentle005: |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by JASONjnr(m): 6:04pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
thunderbabs: I wasn't relating real life to tomato.... But I was only putting you through other things involved when you raise a family other than circling your thoughts to the financial aspect of it. Get you a working and industrial lady and you will never regret it ... A friend of mine, a graduate married a graduate. His wife was selling food stuffs at the market, dude resigned and help her at the market... There's enough sell... His wife sponsored her younger brother through university and also built a house for both of them. If you plan your home, you will resp it plentifully... 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 6:04pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
pocohantas:You can never do 50k a month. Never! How much is your salary again? Anyways, I ain’t complaining. Just don’t get married if you are not financially stable. That’s it! 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by oxiide22(m): 6:05pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Wrw1r2:payment after winning? |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 6:05pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Gerrard59:I make 200k a month! 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Danisaint112(m): 6:06pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Treassured: Owing to the fact that I would want to give my kids the best life is one reason not to get married without being financially stable. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Treassured: 6:06pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: I strongly disagree with the bolded. Not all of them. |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 6:08pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
GboyegaD:Tell me what’s more again than responsibilities? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 6:09pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Treassured:majority of them! |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by JASONjnr(m): 6:09pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
LARRYOBRAIN: I swear, I've been trying to clear this notion.... Marrying a woman that's lazy and feels her money is hers while yours is for the home. Had a girl whom I told I wasn't interested in her money but she was very interested in how I spend my money. She would send money to her mother monthly but will always come to my house to get money for upkeep and feeding. Couldn't continue with her... Such a liability.... Who paid tfare for us to the market while I got her a nice dress but babe was very blunt to ask me for the transport money when we got home. 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by pocohantas(f): 6:09pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: Omo, don’t ask me how much is my salary o. If I tell you, you will say I am lying. At the point when my salary couldn’t carry my responsibilities, I looked for more income. It is common sense not to marry without financially stability. You only think you said something new because you are a man. If a woman said this same thing, NL would be burning. I don’t complain over my first level recurring expenses, never. It is my responsibility and I shoulder it with my full chest. This thread can’t be by me. My loved ones are worth every single penny I spend on them. This is why I implore women to have jobs and contribute. Wetin be 50k? Toor! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Gerrard59(m): 6:10pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: Yes. For instance, you will spend extra if the child is taken care by another person instead of the mother (your wife in question). For proper upbringing, the mother is needed to be present. You cannot dictate or have a say where a baby-mama should be in her kid's life. The expense goes beyond money. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by JASONjnr(m): 6:12pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Bruno3000: Never said god commanded everyone to go and get married... I said it's God's command for those who wish to get married... Try deh read more often, your brain is blocked with too much of gambling... |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Steve0979(m): 6:12pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Prometheus666:pple dey discuss serious money issue for marriage u dey talk of beautiful cherry bla....shey after d wife don fine finish money go come out of her beauty abi 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by SimpleGuy001: 6:13pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: When you always try to use human sense and intelligence to look through the things of God you will be interpreting “nonsense”. Don’t read the Bible the way you read history books or novels. |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Acidosis(m): 6:13pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
pocohantas: You like wahala 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 6:13pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
jaxxy:my brother I ain’t complaining about anything. I’m just saying there’s nothing special about marriage. And don’t get married if you are not financially stable. That’s all 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Ted4real: 6:15pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Marriage comes with a responsibility despite been a command in a path of fulfilment. You will not notice the numerous bills you have to pay if the economy is stable but frustrating if it is unstable. As a responsible man who live upto his responsibilities makes it even more fulfilling. The joy of nurturing your kids and leaders of tomorrow makes it a greater fulfilment and enjoyable if you had a good wife o!!! |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by sonnie10: 6:16pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
seanwilliam:My advice to every young man who is lucky to stumble upon this thread. Print this post, make copies and enlarge one. Don’t forget to laminate one too. Keep them where you will see and read them every day. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Westwood2580: 6:16pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Vinnie2000:One of my neighbor work from Monday to Sunday(after church). The man is just working to meet up with family bills and not for saving at all. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 6:16pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
pocohantas:See this gold-digger that depends on man to feed her too is talking. You are only looking for well to do man to milk. Tueh! 7 Likes |
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