JovialJune:



Try not to be daft, I said I meant what i typed, if you cannot comprehend why I said polygamous, stop quoting me.

Mrtaye:

You are the daft one here as you don't know what you are typing.... you can teach that to your children but don't dull people here with your olodoness

Newton2024:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

wonder233:
Yes. I've already started the divorce process. The incident happened just last friday here. Yesterday, I went to the registry where we did marriage to inquire how to nullify. They said I have to go the high court. Went to the high court, they told me how to file proceedings, that the process takes about 3months.
For the traditional, I have informed her mum (her dad is late), so everything is on track.

Newton2024:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

ejitest1:
A married woman has expressed her desire to sleep with other men as she is now bored with her husband.

"Am maried but another preeq don dey hungry me, faithful maried women pis hw una take dy do am abeg, my husbnd no to get my time he no dy too last 4 bed but he's nice."

wonder233:
Yes. I've already started the divorce process. The incident happened just last friday here. Yesterday, I went to the registry where we did marriage to inquire how to nullify. They said I have to go the high court. Went to the high court, they told me how to file proceedings, that the process takes about 3months.
For the traditional, I have informed her mum (her dad is late), so everything is on track.

JovialJune:



You are slow

What a pity.

Newton2024:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

Elmojiid:
Divorce and marry person wey get your time and Dey last for bed

Newton2024:
My wife cheated when we were in courtship. She slept with an elderly man about twenty times. She later confessed but blamed me for not giving her sex whenever she needed it. This is someone we both agreed on no sex before marriage.

Now we are married and I am sure she will cheat again whenever she has the opportunity to do so. But I won't leave her because I'm not sure the next woman would be better than her. Infidelity is a pandemic among nigerian women. It didn't start today. It started during the time of our grandmothers.

efficiencie:


One man paid bride price but the bride is another man's prize. This is what will happen to all the men who prioritize sexual experience above sexual purity in their wives. Your wife will be a public utility but you will pay the price of taking care of her. Another man will get her pregnant and you will foot the bill of raising the child. Another man will give her disease and you will foot the medical bills for her and yourself. You keep saving money but another man will spend it...and while you are at work, struggling and toiling all day to make money another man is on your matrimonial bed working, struggling and toiling all day inside your wife. Olosho wife na the Nemesis of all stupid men.

ejitest1:
A married woman has expressed her desire to sleep with other men as she is now bored with her husband.

"Am maried but another preeq don dey hungry me, faithful maried women pis hw una take dy do am abeg, my husbnd no to get my time he no dy too last 4 bed but he's nice."

wonder233:
She is not catching cruise. Its the fact. Women get bored of having just one sexual partner in marriage. I have seen it first hand. Upon all my knacks, styles, lasting in bed, big gbola, good loving, helping out in chores, all round support. My wife still went to spend night with a guy, and by chance I got to find out. And after initially trying to blame me for "pushing her", she later owned up that she was just bored and needed a new flame. And started trying to bobo me that there was no sex, that the guy (her colleague in the office) was just a friend. That she just needed a space to clear her head. I said all those na story for the gods. Clear your head from what? when we were all happy and laughing all week, knack Saturday, Sunday, Monday, Tuesday back to back cos its ovulation period. Then Friday, you up and comfortably spend the night with another guy, without blinking. You see how DNA problems start? Well, the marriage is done. Its a pity cos she was a nice person. But this crossed the line and I'm no simp.

Delightsome2023:

She's a lady and not bro.
She's treating depression. Check this her post below

victorVIC1:


This is often as a result of severe stress. Imagine what most people that are working in Lagos go through to provide for their family.

You leave home as early as 6am to enable you beat traffic then you get back home at night. Consequently, you're completely worn out. How you wan take perform like German machine?
In conclusion, it's very important that partners engage when having dissatisfactions cos without communications, no marital bliss. Unfortunately, some partners don't do this, they rather express their grievances on social media where their partners may not even be aware

Princedapace:


That is like eating ur cake and having it back. Women should join men and start wooing men, take up their wedding list and bring their peple to marry the man. This way, they lead the home and can have side bf and if the man refuses, they kick the man out and he returns the groom price.

wonder233:
Okay.
Good sex means you as an individual, you're good in bed, you satisfy your partner. But because it is the same you over and over again, your partner becomes bored, the excitement is no longer there.
So, they meet another person, not that they want to leave you for that other person, not that the person is better than you in the sex, but there is this excitement that comes with meeting a new person. That is the variety.

G00DHardDick:


Damn! I'm so proud of you right now. You must be a real niggar! Ensure they don't divide your property or ask you to pay any god-damned monthly payment to her. Let her Carry her oloshoism and go to the streets where she belongs. Ensure to give us steady updates back to back as regards this divorce process. For the meantime, tell the bar man nearest to you there to give you 2 crates of Heineken on my behalf. I'll pay

efficiencie:


One man paid bride price but the bride is another man's prize. This is what will happen to all the men who prioritize sexual experience above sexual purity in their wives. Your wife will be a public utility but you will pay the price of taking care of her. Another man will get her pregnant and you will foot the bill of raising the child. Another man will give her disease and you will foot the medical bills for her and yourself. You keep saving money but another man will spend it...and while you are at work, struggling and toiling all day to make money another man is on your matrimonial bed working, struggling and toiling all day inside your wife. Olosho wife na the Nemesis of all stupid men.

Mrtaye:

Please don't mislead people...a man that marries one wife is into monogamy,a man that marries more than one wives is polygamy.....a woman that marries more than one husband is into polyandry.....it's as simple as that please don't confuse people

JovialJune:



You are slow

What a pity.

Ladyhippolyta88:

You are the one confusing yourself learn to take corrections.
Polygamy is having more than one spouse and it applies to men and women. When you want to be specific for men it is polygyny, for women it is polyandry.
Polygamy is a general term for men and women
who marry more than one spouse, polygamy as a term does not apply to men alone.
Google this up and stop arguing
Learn.

wonder233:
Worse, yes.
But this is WORST.
I didn't take an oath "for better for worst".
And your wife spending the night with another man is the worst... The alter has already been desecrated

i undestand, no problem. Do what you feel is the best the ball is in your court

poshestmina:
A married woman's comment has "set Facebook on fire" but married men promiscuous, reckless and dick-distributing lifestyles hasn't set the world on fire.

Una doh!