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You want to die because of a woman PLEASE DIE QUICK I WILL COME TO YOUR BURIAL. I DONT KNOW WHY PEOPLE ALLOW THEIR EMOTION TO CONTROL THEM. BE A MAN AND SHAKE THAT OUT OF YOURSELF. my best guy die because of a woman today the woman is happily married to same guy that cause the WAHALA. SHAKING bumbum, Uvio and Eko for him.

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

Before you forgive her, just think about how the other niggar must have f^cked her so hard that she was crying for more

E fit still be say the guy gbola is bigger and stronger than yours.

There are times she carried the gbola by her hands and slide it into her p_ussy and close her eyes in enjoyment while gripping the bedspread

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

..you should know that nowadays it's difficult for a lady to stick to one guy

Would you like her Mom to be your inlaw for life?

Oga no build your house on sand oo


You'd look back n realised that you were warned

KarinaSlim:
Baby love

Price you pay for deflowering a girl child.

You have unleached her wild side.

Your cup of tea.

But wait o,

All of u that go about deflowering girls, sleeping around, doing boyfriend and girlfriend, dating, doing relationship.

Don't u get scared of contacting sexually transmitted diseases such as the deadly HIV

WOW

concho:
You just offed me I swear

Lol,bro na so ooo

KidDarkness:
You better pick yourself up, dust your shoes and run. Na who live to tell the story dey enjoy pass. You don't need her. You don't need her baggage weighing you down
Her family members are just preying on you
Move on with your life.
Someone better always comes along

You don to preach this topic for church this particular brother no dey carry note pad And even bible come church

You better don't kill yourself, forget about her move on with your life... In all circumstances and situations in this life your safety, health and peace of mind should come first..

Me! Can i ever fall in love again I doubt it my eye Don see pepper...

concho:
...but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

Because of a woman, another human being? God abeg ooo. Let me never get to this level of f00lishness in my life.

You are big big f00lish man for sticking around such a family where the entire household connived against you. You be mumu man.

Bouncin:
Before you forgive her, just think about how the other niggar must have f^cked her so hard that she was crying for more

E fit still be say the guy gbola is bigger and stronger than yours.

There are times she carried the gbola by her hands and slide it into her p_ussy and close her eyes in enjoyment while gripping the bedspread

LOL 😂😂😆😂 badt wicked guy.
Finishing

tellwisdom:
Foolish boi…Na Nigerian gurl matter u carry for head like dandruff?? RIP in advance

Wicked man you are.

You are a clown.

When a man has a low self esteem, this is what happens.

jayAjoku:
Lol 😂 in their head she’s theirs forever 🤣😂🤣 In her head she’s For everybody and nobody

Omo fear catch small o

Lordofalmajiri:
I don knack one guy serious date.. like them dey live together self.. girls these days just want to explore.

Blood of Zachariah!!

Just move on bro... Get high, find any stripper joint near u and let ur mind and soul wander. U will learn a lot from those half naked sexy hoes . They will bend for u if u have what it takes... no so yo's outside still be. Even the good girls wey remain no good finish. Na so the life come be

Come out of depression and start thanking God, because even her family is involved in scamming you. You don’t want to end up in marriage into a family like that.
The earliest you pick race the better

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

You depressed cos of daughter of Eve? Better shake it off and focus on becoming a better version of yourself.

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

Depressed because of olosho why not take the easy way out mumu

lomprico:

You de shine teeth, I know say u follow curse me out

No die oh
Already u don see wetin dey is left for u to take ur stand and don’t use it to hurt ur self much because anything dat happen life goes on

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

You don't want a person you'll be coming to Nairaland to seek advice in your life.
Break up is hard, but not having peace of mind is harder, choose wisely..
Break up takes month and you're okay.

Zonefree:

A girl and her wretched family are using you to play ludo and you're trying everything possible to forgive her

I love that you're losing weight and falling sick day by day. It's a good sign for others to learn not to be like you. You're a disgrace to humanity and a waste of space.

A bandit is valuable than you! Tueh!

-OP, you're actually allowed to use her as your side-chick but always wear protective clothing.

-When you're matured enough to marry, for peace of mind, ensure you marry atleast two women. Thank me later, as boys say on this forum.

When I read of heartbreak threads like this one nairalad,I fear for my fiancee in far away owo,ondo state. Hehheeheh

Some others have it easy some don't.

Dear young man, every human is liable to make mistake of the head sometimes and receive correction and forgiveness. This your partner is still very young in life and with little or no life exposures and experience.

She is bound to make mistake just like you will surely make your own mistakes and seek forgiveness from her.

From your story she sought your forgiveness and understanding and I think you have to forgive her and move on to greater things for the two of you.

Nobody should expect to live a life of no mistakes, what experience will he have to share with humans. When I was young too a male friend of mine had a girl that never new any other man till we left University to NYSC camps. She went to serve in another state and got friendly with other man just because her friends were doing it. We got to know later through her friend, possibly a traitor called friend, and we ask the lady which she initially denied and the relationship deteriorated. But time and circumstances is a good healer and they were reconciled and married with matured people today. She never misbehaved again.

Some women take correction while others through pride never reason well again. As your girl has begged you and she is still available please reconcile fully with your mind and take her in. If everyone is looking for Mrs innocent then who will pick up Mrs gra gra.

Don't abandon her to her fate. You must have learnt one or two lessons from this matter that you need to have so that you will position yourself and prevent her from straying into another man's hand.

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

Her mom is against you.

She is caught between respect for her mom and love/admiration for you.

The person with more influence wins


But I have learnt something in life. Don't let anything or anyone steal your joy.

Plus no one is irreplaceable

One word! Run,usu,gudu,bichi,sare

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

You better take care of yourself and forget about her, see in all circumstances your safety, health and peace of mind should come first...its obvious it was a deliberate decision between her and her family, so don't kill yourself because of woman....


As for me falling in love doesn't exit in my diary..and I no dey do pass myself...

Note this 80% of guys that are dating and planning future with secondary school or university ladies always chop breakfast except if you dey that school with her.. Not to talk of spending my money on her God forbid I don learn teetee

Na hungry Nigerian girls you dey follow play loyal love you need to open your eyes o you deflowered her or not the highest spender is her favourite she fit just dey manage out of pity dey let you knack but don't act like you alone owns her private parts she can open it for whom ever she likes.

concho:
We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then .
There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,

Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .

She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .

She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me

Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe

On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers

The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out

A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad

She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .

I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .

I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again

u like problems ooo. Instead of u yo face ur life abd hussle u are facing woman and an unfaithful girl for that matter. ure not even ready or stable toasty her or anyone for that matter so why not give urself a break and chill.

Or is the girl working or independent?

if a church or innocent looking girl means nothing everything is about character and actions. Imagine lying about prayers to have another guy around?

there's nothing worse than a serial lair.

Obviously the family/mother don't want you,
maybe because that other guy is more loaded.If you really love to settle down with her, you must be able to confront her mother that you are no more interested in the relationship, and if the mum didn't plead with you seriously,it means they don't want her to marry you.In that case move on with your life..If a mother is not in strong support of a union that union can hardly stand

Wish I can tell you something else...quit that relationship. She's just pretending maybe because of what she's benefiting from you.
It's even a huge red flag for her mother to ask her such.
For the sake of your sanity, your general well-being and your progress in life quit that relationship. It might not be easy at the beginning but gradually you'll get peace. You'll regain your respect and the type of love you desire will surely come your way.
Go and google Will Smith and Jada pinkett marriage. It's not the type of life you'll wish for.