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Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Paulnoma(m): 8:12pm On Apr 25, 2023
LeeSmart:

No vex oo pegi, make i deviate small abeg. But why u carry hand the press ur shirt like dat 4 ur profile? U no sabi say u de block some persons view abi?
Mind u i am only speaking 4 those who are complaining because i'm their official spokeperson. Thank you.

U na badt guy... because of men like whona china go soon invent see through sunglasses wen go fit n*ked woman.solomonians wink
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Pegi23(f): 8:12pm On Apr 25, 2023
LeeSmart:

Aiit u're a likeable person, was actually xpectin a rude reply 4rm u, even wen i was only tryin 2 catch cruise. U earn ma respect ma'am.

Good evening


Lol good evening to you too. I'm not mental lol im still mentally stable for me to be lashing out unnecessary unless provoked
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Paulnoma(m): 8:22pm On Apr 25, 2023
Persephone1:
You must really think everyone is into "knack and pay as you go " kind of relationship you all do grin grin

You are telling me now that you are different. *just thinking loud*
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by LeeSmart: 8:37pm On Apr 25, 2023
Paulnoma:


U na badt guy... because of men like whona china go soon invent see through sunglasses wen go fit n*ked woman.solomonians wink
Baba no be say i bad oo, i just speak 4 my guys dem no fit talk. But e no go bad say chinko people dem invent daht kind sunglasses oo

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Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Paulnoma(m): 8:44pm On Apr 25, 2023
LeeSmart:

Baba no be say i bad oo, i just speak 4 my guys dem no fit talk. But e no go bad say chinko people dem invent daht kind sunglasses oo


If it possible I go wear am come your wedding cool cool cool grin

Hope am invited grin
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Ibukune(m): 8:51pm On Apr 25, 2023
I saw her and pity her. She was a shadow of herself, how did things change in just 1 year. She looked broke and unkempt, searched for her account details. Couldn't find it again, could have rendered my little help. Just few months she left me, God gave me my big break, I wished she waited a little while, we were together in the rough time, she left just at the eve of our breakthrough as struggling guys. I remained grateful to God, I had to pray for her. So emotional to me. But I wish her well in life.

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Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by teekay213(m): 8:58pm On Apr 25, 2023
Signum:
Mine was totally emotional. We graduated same time buh he served and started working before me.

He had come to Benin to visit me while serving and along the lines, he proposed and which I accepted. It was lovely. The next day we went to hospital to check out genotype once more.. I had always maintained I'm AS and he wasn't sure of his, according to him.

Unfortunately, he's AS too. He said he's not taking it, we had to go to another specialist hospital, after the test, he's AS too. We came home with tears and sorbing, especially him. We made love throughout that night, sorbing and crying together cos we knew we can't be.


Two days later he went back and both of us still was emotional for the rest of the month.

We eventually moved on, but it wasn't easy. He really loved me.
did he use condom?
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by 18wheeler: 9:11pm On Apr 25, 2023
Didn’t marry her because of some little misunderstanding that couldn’t be fixed. I got married 2011. She came begging me later to assist her find a husband sad . 3 years later she got married to a young military officer out of desperation. 2 years after guy was killed in counter insurgency battle in Borno. She went from sweet little babe, to broken ex, to desperate ex/friend to a widow with a little daughter and pregnant. All within 3 years. I felt for her really. She’s doing well now as a single mother and still keeps in touch scantily.

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Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Pegi23(f): 9:13pm On Apr 25, 2023
SyrusdeHansome:

Anty lie small small abeg. I knw say na ur type men de lop like ball wer no get direction. U wer never leave ur state b4 de nyan dust 4 hia
Your jealous im not like your local poor self
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by 18wheeler: 9:30pm On Apr 25, 2023
ALFADOS:
ARE YOU FROM PROFESSOR BALA dy/dx of UNIMAID
cheesy
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:30pm On Apr 25, 2023
Ibukune:
I saw her and pity her. She was a shadow of herself, how did things change in just 1 year. She looked broke and unkempt, searched for her account details. Couldn't find it again, could have rendered my little help. Just few months she left me, God gave me my big break, I wished she waited a little while, we were together in the rough time, she left just at the eve of our breakthrough as struggling guys. I remained grateful to God, I had to pray for her. So emotional to me. But I wish her well in life.

Sad.

Can you reach out to her or even look out for her sometime soon? Just saying because I don’t think I can forget people who were there for and with me in my gloomiest days regardless of who they were or their positions in my life at the time. Help her out if you can. Prayers aren’t enough.

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Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by youngZee23: 9:36pm On Apr 25, 2023
LeeSmart:

E be like dem the pay una 4 dis kind cruise wey una the use us catch oo.
No wahala, lai mohammed tenure the finish next month, we go talk to tinubu make him put u there.
it happens..my bro had thesame experience..but her own is wine carrying if u're igbo guy
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by LeeSmart: 9:50pm On Apr 25, 2023
Paulnoma:
If it possible I go wear am come your wedding cool cool cool grin Hope am invited grin
Which wedding again? abi the one wey i do two yrs ago?
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Benteazaa(m): 9:52pm On Apr 25, 2023
LeeSmart:

No be say na beg we the beg u oo, na force we wan force u take the job.


Ok, I go accept if na by force
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Ibukune(m): 9:52pm On Apr 25, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:


Sad.

Can you reach out to her or even look out for her sometime soon? Just saying because I don’t think I can forget people who were there for and with me in my gloomiest days regardless of who they were or their positions in my life. Help her out if you can. Prayers aren’t enough.

Thank you so much. For everytime I look at the turn of events, I feel really sad. I will definitely reach out to her, but I don't want my reaching out to her to weigh her down, so I am just waiting for the best of time. And then, we are miles apart now.
DAO, you could have waited just a little longer, just a little longer 😪😪😪. He still dey pain me. I hate to see people struggle and not enjoy what they struggled for 😪😪😪😪😪😪😪

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Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by LeeSmart: 9:57pm On Apr 25, 2023
youngZee23:
it happens..my bro had thesame experience..but her own is wine carrying if u're igbo guy
E don happen to me self but my own na calabash carrying if u're 4rm calaba.
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by LeeSmart: 10:03pm On Apr 25, 2023
Benteazaa:
Ok, I go accept if na by force
Na now u cum
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Paulnoma(m): 10:03pm On Apr 25, 2023
LeeSmart:

Which wedding again? abi the one wey i do two yrs ago?

U don marry, my niggie....twale for u bro...

How madam and the other counterparts grin
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Benteazaa(m): 10:11pm On Apr 25, 2023
LeeSmart:

Na now u cum


I never cum
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:16pm On Apr 25, 2023
Ibukune:


Thank you so much. For everytime I look at the turn of events, I feel really sad. I will definitely reach out to her, but I don't want my reaching out to her to weigh her down, so I am just waiting for the best of time. And then, we are miles apart now.
DAO, you could have waited just a little longer, just a little longer 😪😪😪. He still dey pain me. I hate to see people struggle and not enjoy what they struggled for 😪😪😪😪😪😪😪

Your reaching out to her could even be a saving grace. There’s no best time either. Although you should take your time, but I feel she needs help. So, the earlier the better. I just feel people who were there for and with us in our ‘not so good days’ deserve to be in our very hearty days (an EX or not). That is a virtue.

I hope that you reach out to her as you have promised.

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Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by LeeSmart: 10:28pm On Apr 25, 2023
Benteazaa:
I never cum
U sure say u neva spoil like dis? what were u thinking
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Nobody: 10:34pm On Apr 25, 2023
ednut1:
My fellow corper i was dating was not giving me nacks, and was blocking other babes who wanted to give me. One night she travelled to a nearby state for church program. So i went to charge my laptop at the village chief house at night. I saw her email on my Facebook . She had told me once she used same password for all her devices. She wrote it down one day i took her phone for repairs. I logged in and it worked. My so called babe was giving 4 other guys toto and she went to meet an oil company worker instead of church program. Fear church girls
Seriously? grin
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by constancefriday(m): 10:58pm On Apr 25, 2023
No special event or memory, my ex just started acting up and I completely forgot every butterflies i had in my belly for her. What I hate most about her is her choice of words.

Honestly, I don't miss my ex.

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Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Benteazaa(m): 11:00pm On Apr 25, 2023
LeeSmart:

U sure say u neva spoil like dis?
what were u thinking


The same thing you were thinking
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by kals4luv990(m): 11:21pm On Apr 25, 2023
Samantha124:
I'm sure that most of you guys posting here have once cried because of an ex, but you won't mention it because you're only online alpha males..😂😂😂
chai I hv cried eeh
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by nnanna69(m): 12:54am On Apr 26, 2023
angry
Sheistoopretty:
Nigerian men are Us*less....all of them, including owner of semen that begot you grin grin
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by placeofallure(f): 3:55am On Apr 26, 2023
chicoMX:
I have 2 experiences with 2 exes..

Ex2 said if I didn't come over to where she stays ASAP, then she would cheat. I couldn't didn't sleep that night; by morning I ended the relationship. The main gist is for Ex1.

Ex1. This one make me mad!! While we were still dating, she was supposed to travel from Owerri to Enugu (to see her uncle). We only spoke while she was on transit, by night her number was no longer reachable. I called her line the following day; still the same thing.

At this point, I thought something bad had happened to her. I tried contacting in every possible way ; via FB, her siblings etc but no response.

4 days later, she called and said she was fine. She said her phone had issues, that her brother had bought her a new one. Omo!
When she said this, my brain reset! It was at that point it dawned on me that my had gone to see a guy!

I brought this matter up, I asked her to tell the truth where she had gone to, she denied the whole thing. My mind was not at rest from that instant, i was just so sure she had gone to collect I could sense it guy! As I could not endure it any longer I ended the relationship.

About a year later, Ex1 and I were back talking. We both have moved on, she has a serious boyfriend now(I was seeing Ex2).. Even though I was trying to be all nice, her actions in the past were still fresh.

In between our discussion, I brought up her trip from Owerri - Enugu, and this girl confirmed it that she had gone to see a guy!! Omo! You need to see the look on my face, I cried in my hearts that day. One thing about this moment's that, sometimes a part of me would say "what if you're wrong?" and "what if she went straight to Enugu?"

To console myself I had to exercise Okafor's law, and then let her be.

What is Okafor's law? Your tale will be meaningless to me if I can't fathom what Okafor's law is.
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by Dybala11(m): 3:58am On Apr 26, 2023
ednut1:
My fellow corper i was dating was not giving me nacks, and was blocking other babes who wanted to give me. One night she travelled to a nearby state for church program. So i went to charge my laptop at the village chief house at night. I saw her email on my Facebook . She had told me once she used same password for all her devices. She wrote it down one day i took her phone for repairs. I logged in and it worked. My so called babe was giving 4 other guys toto and she went to meet an oil company worker instead of church program. Fear church girls
Tunde that is not Ednut, calm down na. 😂😂😂
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by placeofallure(f): 4:34am On Apr 26, 2023
The first time I saw an adult male cry....He was begging me not to leave, and the crying was much, the type that tears and mucus will mix together and your face will look like a bad concoction.

He left and we didn't see again for close to a year, then he returned when he bought his first car. He wanted us to continue. Of course we went to a club to celebrate but I told him no getting back cause it's not about money for me. I have another relationship.

Thinking back now I must have been very wicked cause all the time the crying was going on, I felt nothing, not pity, just bland. Oh my gosh! I broke hearts those days. I'm a shaild of God now.
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:08am On Apr 26, 2023
Ibukune:


Thank you so much. For everytime I look at the turn of events, I feel really sad. I will definitely reach out to her, but I don't want my reaching out to her to weigh her down, so I am just waiting for the best of time. And then, we are miles apart now.
DAO, you could have waited just a little longer, just a little longer 😪😪😪. He still dey pain me. I hate to see people struggle and not enjoy what they struggled for 😪😪😪😪😪😪😪
. Put a smile on her face and convey compassion. Make sure she can build on it. Never, under any circumstances, take advantage of her.
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by LeeSmart: 6:21am On Apr 26, 2023
Paulnoma:

U don marry, my niggie....twale for u bro...
How madam and the other counterparts grin
Madam the alright oo while my lil boy just the give me nd de mama wahala up nd down....
No vex oo when we go come chop ur wedding rice now?
Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by chicoMX(m): 6:45am On Apr 26, 2023
placeofallure:


What is Okafor's law? Your tale will be meaningless to me if I can't fathom what Okafor's law is.

Just google

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