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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by mechanics(m): 5:08pm On Apr 26, 2023
Tell him what you have seen and cut off the wedding.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by LeyeWrites: 5:08pm On Apr 26, 2023
smile11s:


Wetin you sabi? Cow
Better than a gay
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by blackpanda: 5:09pm On Apr 26, 2023
webdevprof:


Hope you've gone for HIV test? Gay & bisexual people are far more prone to HIV/AIDS because of anal sex...

Make sure you test yourself first... Don't risk your life staying with a bisexual man.

Sexuality and sex are two different things. and no, aids is not spread by only anal sex, even oral and vaginal are just as risky. Whether or not the husband was straight, he can still pass on diseases.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by jessylaurel(f): 5:09pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Run o. Because whenever the guy isn't around he would request Anal sex from you to satisfy the urge. And trust me after marriage and you put to bed 'no more sex' because those people can be jealous o especially when they order one feels like he's getting satisfied from him and from you his wife.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Lilfire(m): 5:09pm On Apr 26, 2023
My sister I don't care what anyone is telling you right now, God show you this big secret for a reason before the marriage, don't say because all is set therefore the wedding can't be call off, you will suffer and trust me, you will get infected with HIV in due time, run for your there life 🧬 just let him know you know he will be quiet about the whole thing Stupid man you know how toto with big nyash sweet so
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by seguno2: 5:10pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Why are you so confused about your gender

Marvellsmart:
E no geh how u wan convince me make I do other wise... If u like, fyn pass Mr. Ibu...If u like get fair beautiful soft skin like Ngolo Kante... Immediately u start asking for urgent 2k or airtime up an down, maama we're done... I go even block u join. If u no fit afford ordinary airtime and data, nah house rent abi school fees u wan afford? Abeg carry ur two left leg de go ya house mbok.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by lexy2014: 5:10pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

what kind of fake fictional write up is this? the write up is so fake and obvious. who finds out that his soon to be wedded is gay and is still asking whether the wedding should be cancelled. what type of lame write up is this one?

to make it worse, you are even a guy

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by HROfficial: 5:11pm On Apr 26, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?

Or maybe YOU don't know the meaning of "husband to be". It means, not yet my husband, but about to be.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 5:12pm On Apr 26, 2023
Thanks for the corrections.. smiley smiley smiley
HROfficial:


Or maybe YOU don't know the meaning of "husband to be". It means, not yet my husband, but about to be.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Tzar(m): 5:13pm On Apr 26, 2023
You should be grateful God exposed him to you before marriage.
Such people cannot change easily and 95% of them return to the shameful act after claiming to change.
RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. You will just be used as decoration and to hide his homosexuality if you marry him.
Don’t waste your time marrying him, unless you want to be the side chic in the marriage!
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Maobichek: 5:13pm On Apr 26, 2023
vincenteger:
A lot seem to be passing through people oo
Confront him about your finding
He should tell you the truth and if at the end he confirmed to be gay
Then you can choose to cancel the marriage for your own piece of mind.

But if you choose otherwise
Just be ready to share him and also be invited for thresom


Hmmm!!! You are mean, imagine telling her to be ready for party.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by sprints1: 5:14pm On Apr 26, 2023
ahnie:
cheesy
May I asked,if he's a Nigerian man?
Pls am asking for a friend.
he is and I know I have so many gay friends and am Nigerian. But I cut them off cuz they made advances at me which I found disrespectful

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Ropostic120(m): 5:15pm On Apr 26, 2023
God has given u grace enough to know this before marriage.Dont marry him.You won't enjoy the home.That demons that make him to always want him to gave sex with a fellow man will push him to greatly hate and kill you.
Beware!!!
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 5:15pm On Apr 26, 2023
blackpanda:


Sexuality and sex are two different things. and no, aids is not spread by only anal sex, even oral and vaginal are just as risky. Whether or not the husband was straight, he can still pass on diseases.

Sorry, but there's a higher prevalence of AIDS amongst homosexuals. Perhaps you're one yourself, I wouldn't be surprised.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Kingstanding: 5:16pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.
. Calm down. Which church did you attend
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by dawnomike(m): 5:16pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.
First cancel the wedding biko... Then, let's know how to proceed from there
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by incogni2o: 5:17pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Why not ask him Is there any secrets in His Life He thinks you should know about or that may affect your relationship

If he tells you about it,

then
ask if if he wants to stop it and steps he has taken
else if he doesn't want you to know
don't even tell him you know the secret, just leave the relationship
if he tries to pester you too much
Threathen Him to tell His Family and the whole world about it
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by ahnie: 5:17pm On Apr 26, 2023
sprints1:
he is and I know I have so many gay friends and am Nigerian. But I cut them off cuz they made advances at me which I found disrespectful
You have done the right thing
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by samuelson06(m): 5:17pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

You that once said you can't date a broke girl? Now your husband-to-be is gay? Do you have a multi-personality disorder?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Brush1: 5:18pm On Apr 26, 2023
Applaud your self with the fake story.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by feelinboyya(m): 5:20pm On Apr 26, 2023
Cut off the relationship….simple!
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by OndoRaph(m): 5:20pm On Apr 26, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?
"Husband to be" means they are'nt married yet but hope to. Na wa o!
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Qoko: 5:21pm On Apr 26, 2023
The story look cooked but if happened to be truth, please run for your life cos you will keep fighting him till you will separate with him.

I will however advice you open up to him and terminate the pregnancy if it’s within 3 months.

Ire ooooooo

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Slurity(m): 5:21pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.
Confront him with the intention to run. He appears addicted already. this is serious. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Chiffy: 5:22pm On Apr 26, 2023
Run ooooo. Cut all ties asap.
And don't fall for that trap of thinking you can change him or you can manage the situation..
Or else you want make man dey follow you drag your matrimonial bed
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by henrimoto(m): 5:22pm On Apr 26, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?
In this part of Africa, After the traditional marriage rites, the man is recognized as HUSBAND, not necessarily after church wedding .
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by RepoMan007: 5:22pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

Don't cancel it o. Wed him and complain every week of the 'union', you hear?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by tunapawizzy: 5:24pm On Apr 26, 2023
which one be help again...must u marry him...what help do u need again......weytin dey really enter your eyez wey u no wan sacrifice.... his money? the idea of u being called Mrs. disappearing for now? abi invite wey u dun share?

PLENTY married women wish they found out their own 1 day before marriage..u still get time, u dey form confusion again
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Cassandraloius: 5:24pm On Apr 26, 2023
My dear sister RUN for your life.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by TemitayoMark: 5:25pm On Apr 26, 2023
[
Another G spotted
quote author=smile11s post=122763862]All these story that touches can be avoid if we support LGBTQ+*

Imagine a life that we all can live the truths, do you think there will be gay men faking it with women?

You don’t have to be gay to support gay, you are only supporting them to live the truth and be happy. This sister wouldn’t be in this situation if we allowed everyone to live in their truth.[/quote]
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by isabi2lof: 5:26pm On Apr 26, 2023
His gay partner just came back from South Africa undecided and you no pick race run .

You better run for your life and if he wants to make trouble out of it , is better you exposed him without wasting much time.

Make dem sha no near me grin cos na all my village people go hear say Buhari na still president of Nigeria.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by eepeepook: 5:27pm On Apr 26, 2023
Fake story. Local forum. Unconstructive minds.

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