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LawyerLomo:
How do you focus on your self to strength the texture of the love as pebbles on the sea?

I have a date with my crush next tomorrow(Tuesday), I don't want to make this mistake...
I want a definite dialogue with an impeccable result.
Thanks

Talk about you both and don't take it beyond that. Focus on things you love that makes you comfortable in conversation. Find out what triggers her and wants her to talk more.

CarlosTheJackal:
GSM came into Nigeria In 2001, you cannot eat fish of 20k in any bar in Kaduna as of 1999.

Stop the Lies.

I don't need to lie to gather likes, Almighty God His my witness. The year May the wrong.

purples25:
You are a very serious person and may God take you to the peak of success for not focusing on outings, women, and constant premarital sex.

Hope you’d marry him when it’s time.

Justbeingreal:
Dude you're not missing anything just face your studies finish up and start getting good bread every other thing will be added onto you..

Developing interpersonal and social skills is also important for all round progress.
You’d be surprised that asides not being able to talk to a lady to ask her out, he won’t be able to do so to seek assistance too when urgently needed.

He might not be able to talk to male strangers as well as expressing himself freely to friends and family.

Being unable to express your desire to a lady isn’t a metric for success.
Humans are social animals by nature. Hence the absence of socialisation could spell doom.

abdulskulboy:
I am 26, I have never been on a date. Infact, I have ask any girl out. I come across many of those whom I admire in my university right now, but can't just out, not even on WhatsApp.

Bro, don’t listen to those hailing you for this.
You need to sharpen up your social and interpersonal skills. Sure, you’d find it hard to express yourself to either gender when you want to.

Develop these skills. You’d need it to thrive in life.
If you can ask a girl out at 26, nobody would do so on your behalf when you want to marry.

KORLAR:
Developing interpersonal and social skills is also important for all round progress.
You’d be surprised that asides not being able to talk to a lady to ask her out, he won’t be able to do so to seek assistance too when urgently needed.

He might not be able to talk to male strangers as well as expressing himself freely to friends and family.

Being unable to express your desire to a lady isn’t a metric for success.
Humans are social animals by nature. Hence the absence of socialisation could spell doom.

Yeah true I get your point but the society rightnow is messed up. Have all the interP/social skills in the world if you ain't successful nobody gives a damn about you infact nobody wants to hear what you got to say that's the reality of today even your family and friends won't regard you much. So let him stay focused finish up with his degree get his bread up he will get every other thing on track in due time..

Justbeingreal:
Yeah true I get your point but the society rightnow is messed up. Have all the interP/social skills in the world if you ain't successful nobody gives a damn about you infact nobody wants to hear what you got to say that's the reality of today even your family and friends won't regard you much. So let him stay focused finish up with his degree get his bread up he will get every other thing on track in due time..

No, he needs to socialise every single stage along the way. That won't stop him from getting his degree. Stop encouraging what needs to be corrected

Lemmy123:
No, he needs to socialise every single stage along the way. That won't stop him from getting his degree. Stop encouraging what needs to be corrected

What are you talking about. Most of the things you enjoy in the world today came from people that don't socialize much they spent their time achieving and inventing the wonders of the world today. Forcing a person to be who they ain't will destroy them because we're all created differently that's why we have the introvert extrovert ambivert etc..

Justbeingreal:
What are you talking about. Most of the things you enjoy in the world today came from people that don't socialize much they spent their time achieving and inventing the wonders of the world today. Forcing a person to be who they ain't will destroy them because we're all created differently that's why we have the introvert extrovert ambivert etc..

I'm introvert but I maintain that he needs to socialise more. Until he makes conscious effort to relate with everyday people, he may become socially anxious.

Forget about wonders of the world and all that. Being an introvert means you're by default, a reserved person which is understandable but are you going to remain meek and no know how to handle everyday life because you do not have any idea?

Daahh! Bro, mixing up is good sometimes. How do you even network?

Don't let me start abeg

Lemmy123:
I'm introvert but I maintain that he needs to socialise more. Until he makes conscious effort to relate with everyday people, he may become socially anxious.

Forget about wonders of the world and all that. Being an introvert means you're by default, a reserved person which is understandable but are you going to remain meek and no know how to handle everyday life because you do not have any idea?

Daahh! Bro, mixing up is good sometimes. How do you even network?

Don't let me start abeg

Hmmm! Your points are valid I'm an introvert as well and when I'm around people I can easily switch that's why I previously state that in due time he will get everything on track and he will master himself and boost his confidence level. I just want him focused no need to pressure oneself on that or make him feel something is wrong with him. He will find his way to get it right.

ledaman:
Because you have never eaten it doesn't mean others can't

I am also a Kaduna guy and I can tell you that there is no where you could eat fish of N20K in Kaduna in 1999.

Also, na where you see GSM in 1999

E don tey wen I dey trouble this lady for knacking so one early morning, she succumbed.
I tried to enter toto but my preek went limp. I tried severally but preek bow and the lady dey laugh at me.

stuffs2002:
I am also a Kaduna guy and I can tell you that there is no where you could eat fish of N20K in Kaduna in 1999.

Also, na where you see GSM in 1999

Because you reside in getto

Sucre6:
chai, I escaped only to come back 5 months later to pay the bill with plenty explanation to the manager, my conscience knowing that they will deduct the money from the waitress salary couldn't allow me rest, las las I explained the situation and dashed her extra 4k, collected her number afterwards we end up dating for 6 months 😂

You be Sucre true true... How is Marie Cruz ... U no Well ...

Na so You shall Lose Good Woman sha !

DonroxyII:
You be Sucre true true... How is Marie Cruz ... U no Well ...

Na so You shall Lose Good Woman sha !

Make I shock u, we back together again, I can't lose that babe, she has got a heart of gold

KORLAR:
Developing interpersonal and social skills is also important for all round progress.
You’d be surprised that asides not being able to talk to a lady to ask her out, he won’t be able to do so to seek assistance too when urgently needed.

He might not be able to talk to male strangers as well as expressing himself freely to friends and family.

Being unable to express your desire to a lady isn’t a metric for success.
Humans are social animals by nature. Hence the absence of socialisation could spell doom.

You Carry Sense ....
Attimes I simply walk to Girls and Ask Her Out just to Clear My Doubt & Test My Toasting Skills ...

It's just not about the Girls Per say ... It's About Social Skills, Marketing Skills, Dusting Shyness, Fatigue, Inferiority Complex & Ability to Represent & Present Yourself as Worthy of Relationships & Possibly Further Businesses!

Some people can't sell Biro Later You go say U no Pass Interview dem just carry First class dey jump Up and Down ...

To Excel in this Dispensation, You need to Break Eyes & Break Voice oo !

Some people na Deep Phobia & Timidity ...

Sucre6:
Make I shock u, we back together again, I can't lose that babe, she has got a heart of gold

Na Your Heartrob from Heaven .. What a Happy Ending ... Takia of Her wellwell Despite Parolzzz Sha