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The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Which advice do you need if you are against abortion

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes.

No insult please.

Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

Bro, marry both of em.

They say "misery needs company"


One sweet,one sour and variety is the spice of life

The question right here is who loves you more among the two?

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes.

No insult please.

U have entered one chance....marry the girl wey get bele for u or ready for baby mama things ...

.forget the first girl...she no get ur time...women always find time for the one they truly love...na u dey force urself....

Congratulations Papa Benji

advanceDNA:
U have entered one chance....marry the girl wey get bele for u or ready for baby mama things ...

.forget the first girl...she no get ur time...women always find time for the one they truly love...na u dey force urself....

don’t mind d op

He would b surprised to know that the one claiming busy always create enough time for another guy

One thing I learnt in life is that nobody is busy, we only create time for what we want

Once I am in a relationship n u tell me u are busy na to lock up on your matter

Godwin4444:
Once I am in a relationship n u tell me u are busy na to lock up on your matter

Baba no time oooo.....that is the principle.....

Offpointng:
The question right here is who loves you more among the two?

That is the question my bro. How am I sure the one I love loves me as much?

Ahmed0336:
Bro, marry both of em.

They say "misery needs company"


One sweet,one sour and variety is the spice of life

I don't intend to birth children from different women.

dawnomike:
Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

I don't intend to run a polygamy or just to birth children from different women.

advanceDNA:
U have entered one chance....marry the girl wey get bele for u or ready for baby mama things ...

.forget the first girl...she no get ur time...women always find time for the one they truly love...na u dey force urself....

You may be right but she's explained and tried to make me understand it's her busy schedule that makes her not have time for me.

RealSolution001:
That is the question my bro. How am I sure the one I love loves me as much?

No like who do you think LOVE YOU more out of the two of them.

Offpointng:
No like who do you think LOVE YOU more out of the two of them.

But because the one I love does not give me enough time, I can't totally use that to say she doesn't love me. She has a shop which she has to open and stay till 8/9pm before she closes. After then, she needs get to her house and tidy one or two things and before she's done with all of that, it might be late for her to still come see me. Another is she might be tired and needs rest

RealSolution001:
But because the one I love does not give me enough time, I can't totally use that to say she doesn't love me. She has a shop which she has to open and stay till 8/9pm before she closes. After then, she needs get to her house and tidy one or two things and before she's done with all of that, it might be late for her to still come see me. Another is she might be tired and needs rest

You're still beating bout the bush. read the Question again and answer accordingly.

You're a very very very very^100 irresponsible fellow. Untill men start controlling what's dangling between their legs we will still keep having senseless and irresponsible men in the society. Nonsense and ingredient.

U don't support abortion.

U don't want children from different women.

What advice are you looking for again.

Only one click the box.

Offpointng:
You're still beating bout the bush. read the Question again and answer accordingly.

I'm trying to also see reasons from her end.

fyzaila:
You're a very very very very^100 irresponsible fellow. Untill men start controlling what's dangling between their legs we will still keep having senseless and irresponsible men in the society. Nonsense and ingredient.

No insult please.

RealSolution001:
I don't intend to run a polygamy or just to birth children from different women.

You have given the answer to your question... So, follow your heart as you have just stated

RealSolution001:
I don't intend to birth children from different women.

Really?

RealSolution001:
You may be right but she's explained and tried to make me understand it's her busy schedule that makes her not have time for me.

I know she explained....baba na u no get the meaning of the explanation....see ...If u dey live for Maiduguri...if woman gbadun u..she no go get excuse for not seeing you...

Woman wey dey jump her papa electric fence for night to be with man....na ordinary shop go come stop am from seeing u in two months...

Dey play

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

u r not in support of abortion but u no fit wear condom or abstinence till u marry

Op don't marry the one you love cos like someone said above she might become a problem to you later by not giving you sex,and you go still dey cheat on her, maybe she's got someone else too... study this girl and try to see if she has a lot of red flag first,test her and if she's not your type let her keep the baby,free the first girl get another girl that will tick all the boxes and marry, your happiness matters but I am already feeling for the innocent baby brought into this condition abeg guy try be careful please we have a lot of single parenting this days and it's affecting the kids not the parents abeg 🙏 God help you to make a choice.

dawnomike:
Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

Exactly, you have given him the advice he has been looking for

Abortion is not an option for you, and you don't want to birth kids by different women.
The only option you have now is to marry her to avoid abortion and baby mama

frozen70:
Exactly, you have given him the advice he has been looking for

And is the advuce a good or bad one?

Let me hear a lady's perspective

Marry her. Or what else do you expect I advice you to do? Please let me know when the wedding aso ebi is out.

Let me tell you, you don't deliberately hurt the one you love and you don't cheat on them either!

So marry the one you impregnated and free the other to go find a man that will genuinely love her.

You don't intend birthing children with different women but sexually active with different women...what a wonderment!😂😂😂

You are polygamous in nature, so get your pregnant girlfriend registered for antenatal and start budgeting for baby things.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

i think you really need time to think and not rush

1 the girl you love, you what you said she is showing actions of not on love with you, you are in love by yourself

2 tell us does she live alone? instead of you asking her to visit you why cant you visittl her by her place?

3 the other girl its up to you, the ones you dont really love or the ones you take for pleasure usaully give that good sex and they end falling pregant, now it depends on many factors on how to deal with her
are yout parents traditionalist ? if there are they will likely want you to marry her

are you also a traditionalist ?

are het parents traditionalist ? in the event you accept the baby and not the child

dawnomike:
And is the advuce a good or bad one?

Let me hear a lady's perspective

Wether good or bad, he is bigger than the problem created by him