She does not have time for you, you were frustrated to the point you impregnated another lady, yet youre saying you love her and want to marry her? Be sincere with yourself if you do marry her won't you still continue in your promiscuity?

Are u sure, she is actually busy or doesn't have time for u... Follow person wey get ur time oo

Before u go still de go beg for time and attention for inside marriage

RealSolution001:


But because the one I love does not give me enough time, I can't totally use that to say she doesn't love me. She has a shop which she has to open and stay till 8/9pm before she closes. After then, she needs get to her house and tidy one or two things and before she's done with all of that, it might be late for her to still come see me. Another is she might be tired and needs rest

Oga forget the busy stuff she don like you.
My girl have her own shop and she opens everyday before 7am and closes by 9pm but always come over whenever I want her to come, atimes I will to her shop to pick her up, if I want her to come over after work. Secondly she comes over to my house every Sunday

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Switch to the woman that loves you and then learn to love her....
If you don't love her enough to marry her pls don't even bang her and dump your semen inside her...

RealSolution001

The answer to your present dilemma is simple and most Nairaland will support it:

Tell the lady you're deeply in love with that you've impregnated another and despite that , she's the one you love.

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

If someone loves you that will find away to get in touch... Its better to stay with a woman that loves you than the one you love. Stay with the pregnant babe he's the woman for you.

How are you so sure that the one you love would ever get pregnant sef?

ZIMDRILL:


why

Lots of misspelt words.

Alaye you haven't got married to her... Pick the one you feed with your sperm home let her be your 5 and 6....

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

brother, please Marry the Girl that love you, don't marry the one you love crazily, in most cases, the woman you love is probably in love with someone else, the girl that love you will stay with you inside G wagon and inside small Camry if things changes a little, if the girl you got pregnant love you, Go for her, life is short, time wait for no MAN

fyzaila:
You're a very very very very^100 irresponsible fellow. Untill men start controlling what's dangling between their legs we will still keep having senseless and irresponsible men in the society. Nonsense and ingredient.

Ontop another person matter?

You don't intend to bla bla and you don't support bla bla bla but you couldn't pull out. Nonsense and werey

micxwell:
Lots of misspelt words.

am not in a english lesson and in an exam

Of all what i said you picked misspelt words, than forcising on the story ?

The thread is not about correct english spelling

advanceDNA:


U have entered one chance....marry the girl wey get bele for u or ready for baby mama things ...

.forget the first girl...she no get ur time...women always find time for the one they truly love...na u dey force urself....

Help me Tek the Guy

Don’t make mistakes of your life, collect the child and Marry the love of your life. Marriage is about Happiness, Love and Encouragement, don’t marry the one that will not give you all these because of a pregnant

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Kill the one you don't love. Abi?

You are lucky but you don't know

What do you want me to do... when you were chopping and enjoying the girl did you call.me

Just keep the pregnancy. Love is over-rated.

When you were chopping and enjoying the girl you did not come here and ask for advice

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

No brother you don't love the first lady and she didn't tick all the boxes if she does, you'll have not had a second option, you'll have made sure a compromise was reached between you and your first love so that everyone feels loved.

On how you'll manage the situation, you either keep the child or marry the lady. You both have a decision to make

Solababa91:
She does not have time for you, you were frustrated to the point you impregnated another lady, yet youre saying you love her and want to marry her? Be sincere with yourself if you do marry her won't you still continue in your promiscuity?

The poster is not thinking straight. You are in love with a woman that have time for you once in two months. If he is wise he would that the woman definitely seeing another man.

One thing I know is that no matter busy a woman is, she crates time for that man she likes.

For me as an individual, I would rather settle for a woman whose love for me is certain than go for someone who I care about but don't know my stance in her heart

advanceDNA:


U have entered one chance....marry the girl wey get bele for u or ready for baby mama things ...

.forget the first girl...she no get ur time...women always find time for the one they truly love...na u dey force urself....

He wanted to justify why he cheated on a good hard working woman and also looking for whom will support is f**ked up behaviour and you fell for it, well done Mr "advance" DNA, the relationship expert!!!

Them don condition this one

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dawnomike:
Accept the pregnancy and responsibility and proceed to marry the one you want.... Just be sure of what you're going for

You said it all

miketayo:


You are too wise

Not at all.... He just has a warped mind about women.... Mistaking all women with women from his region.

RealSolution001:


I don't intend to birth children from different women.

...but when you were sleeping with her you did not know it can lead to pregnancy

RealSolution001:


No insult please.

Really....So you're sensitive to insult but you don't RESPECT YOURSELF!!!

RealSolution001:


I don't intend to birth children from different women.

...then why did you use condom.,. that can prevent pregnancy

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

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The only problem is that you factored in only your feelings. How do you know that the one that doesn't have your time loves you or will even agree to marry you?

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This is the most responsible question I have ever read. If true I congratulate you for not knowing what to do. God bless your brilliant brain...or whatever

RealSolution001:
The girl I truly love and want, always form busy busy for me. Although she has a shop that keeps her on duty morning till night, but after closing from the shop, you would have to beg her to come out to see you for once in one or two months before it happens. Even Sundays are no exception.

Meanwhile, this other girl I don't even love was giving me all the vibe including mind-blowing sex but look at it now, she's taken in for me and I am not in support of abortion.

How do I sort this thing out because I still genuinely love the other girl and I want to marry her. She's a good wife material and ticks most of my boxes. I also dont intend to birth children from different women.

No insult please.

Whaaaat?

1. What are your "marital boxes"? How is a woman who barely has time for you a "good wife material"? Our generation has redefined marriage. No wonder we have too many issues.

2. Take care of the baby but you don't necessarily need to marry the mother. That she has your baby doesn't necessarily mean you must get married. It can ruin you both.

3. What do you not love in the pregnant lady? Does she have some attitude that'd make her a bad wife? Or is it just your absence of "chemistry"? Getting married for love is delusional and naive.