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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Smokeybrain(m): 1:30pm On May 10, 2023
I don't drink and I don't smoke... living my life

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by alpharoyalty: 1:31pm On May 10, 2023
Don't believe everything you read on the social media

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Angelfrost(m): 1:31pm On May 10, 2023
Trustedpronet:
When a lady starts giving a guy conditions...just remember this always " SHE DOESN'T LOVE YOU"

What about when a guy starts giving a lady conditions?!! Or you think giving conditions is restricted to ladies?! Lol!

Everyone has what works for him or her!

I believe no man or woman should settle for anyone they are not mentally, financially, emotionally and spiritually compatible with!

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by chriskosherbal(m): 1:32pm On May 10, 2023
I have often told my guys that men are the true and real lovers...women really don't have love to give except for their children what they have for men is submissiveness=respect and must be outrightly earned, sustained and improved upon.


Check this out when a guy tells his friend to look for a girl for him for marriage the first thing you will hear is a good girl (good character ) no smoking, drinking, clubbing and other wild life .

But when a woman tells her frnd same the first thing you hear is make sure say e get moni oooh or high social status they relegate character to the bottom. They think a guy with enough money will automatically translate to good character is 1/10...so after marriage they begin to see the man for who he is and they start complaining.

You cant eat your cake and have it..

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Nobody: 1:32pm On May 10, 2023
Draslo:
Simply because society has shown her that if a man does not smoke or drink, he must womanize. Truth is most men will womanize regardless of their vices. You can find a man who neither drinks, smokes or doesn't even womanize but is secretly a serial killer with a white collar job.

LOL... so a man who doesn't philander or takes drugs and alcohol would be a serial killer?

Your mindset is messed up bro.😒

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Postinor: 1:33pm On May 10, 2023
Plain truth is the girl never liked the boy

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Wonderlabius: 1:33pm On May 10, 2023
[qThink outside politics for once....ote author=001Lagos post=123047472]
How can you say that smoking and drinking are way better than drugs when you are a full time supporter of an international drug baron ?[/quote]
Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Kellie069(m): 1:34pm On May 10, 2023
My good friend Alex! He doesn’t smoke or drink. He won’t even sip a drop of alcohol because if e tries it, na straight admission! But guess what? Egbon is a City Boy.. Baba drugs like crazy. He doesn’t hide it, if a girl sees and ask, he go say na supplements way him uncle send from jand.. drugs way that guy de take, I never see 70% of it before. Na google de help me know the names n it effect

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Uten9z(m): 1:36pm On May 10, 2023
Some of the factors that pushed us then, its just like a makeup that they want to see on you but you will regret and look for way out in future if u dare attempt it.

You won't be alone about them naturally if and wen you insist u don't still u may get one pretender to admire you for it.
unless you'll get plenty cash to support the make which they will spend with them girls then they go look for that bad guy.

Never mind just wait...they always com back, be that patient dog. if you will still admire what you last saw.
Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by A4alpha: 1:40pm On May 10, 2023
I believe as a socialist and a vibling G one must use something to whileaway time, either smoke or drink.. this is not 💯 though but truth is most guy who doesn't drink nor smoke and boring. I have a neighbor like that.. f ckin boring.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Winters23: 1:40pm On May 10, 2023
Good move. Never trust a man that don’t smoke, drink, like pussy or drill male assholes

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Tonytonex(m): 1:40pm On May 10, 2023
001Lagos:

How can you say that smoking and drinking are way better than drugs when you are a full time supporter of an international drug baron ?
don't mind the halfwit.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by esosuo: 1:42pm On May 10, 2023
Small sun wen Dey touch my head Dey boil my brain if I go add cigar join no be once my brain go cook 👩‍🍳 . Baba leave the bad girl for the bad boys and move on for your own good . For that girl to talk like that she is a weedian and would rather settle for an equal that won’t complain of her smoking habit

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:43pm On May 10, 2023
i fully understand the babe...so she likes to drink and smoke, maybe want to go get high sometimes too, and then she will be with someone who probably will look down on what she does, and possibly ask her to stop... better go find someone that you are compatible with.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 1:44pm On May 10, 2023
webdevprof:
Most young girls now see smoking cannabis and drinking alcohol as fun, a lot of them even show it off. Most of them were taught by friends and their boyfriends...

I really pity the upcoming generation cos the young ladies out nowadays, they're so wild.

18-21 year old girls especially! They smoke all sorts of junk. I hope we don't have a drug epidemic in the future.
Is because the people that are coming to power and will be in charge of Nigerians affairs for the next 8 years are chronic smokers and drunkards. So therefore as an average guy the chances of getting more opportunities increases 10 folds if one is either a smoker or a drunkard. The ladies know this, the reason for her preference

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Matprinze: 1:45pm On May 10, 2023
VinnyBaba:


See you, It's this One that even Gets Dem Hooked!😏

If you are Dating a Nigerian Girl and She Finds out that you don't have any Side Chic,
Her Feelings will Diminish! embarassed 😕

But Have Plenty Babes or Fcvkmates, Post some on ur WhatsApp or Facebook,
You will see that the Relationship will be Strong like Tiko! smiley cheesy


I totally agree with you, I’ve experienced that before

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by chriskosherbal(m): 1:46pm On May 10, 2023
A4alpha:
I believe as a socialist and a vibling G one must use something to whileaway time, either smoke or drink.. this is not 💯 though but truth is most guy who doesn't drink nor smoke and boring. I have a neighbor like that.. f ckin boring.
I simply don't agree with above A4alpha ...that's is his mode of operation with respect to life and he is having fun you are the one thinking is boring cos he is not vibing to those variables you think brings vibe .

Furthermore he may be an introvert and keep to himself always amongst other reason too numerous to mention.

Living life has no particular definition.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by ipobarecriminals: 1:47pm On May 10, 2023
cool Very good girl. She want a BROKEN BOTTLE .Aka person wey go comot her teeth

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Anne85chowdhury: 1:49pm On May 10, 2023
It's disappointing to hear that someone would lose interest in a potential partner simply because they don't smoke or drink. While everyone has their own preferences and lifestyle choices, it's important to remember that substance use is not a defining factor in a person's character or worth.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by showlove911(m): 1:49pm On May 10, 2023
God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.

Jesus Christ is God’s only provision for our sin. Through Him we can know and experience God’s love and plan for our life.

...amen...



Say...LORD JESUS, I believe in my heart that You died for me and You were raised on the third day for my justification. And so I confess with my mouth that You are my Lord and Savior. From today, I belong to the family of God. Thank You for giving me eternal life.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Tompson88: 1:50pm On May 10, 2023
What is wrong with the dp?=LeoDeKing post=123047431]Smoking and drinking are way better than drugs.

If that is the dp of the guy deserted by the lady, I support her.[/quote]

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by PureFace1(m): 1:53pm On May 10, 2023
deyplay:
Why are they like that, if they say they don't like cheating?

Because women want what other women want.

when you have many women around it prove other women find you attractive and she would also find you attractive because of that too.

If you don't have any other side chicks most of them would interprete it as you not being desireable and attractive to other women which would in turn make them lose interest and attraction for you.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by phemmyfour: 1:53pm On May 10, 2023
Draslo:
Simply because society has shown her that if a man does not smoke or drink, he must womanize. Truth is most men will womanize regardless of their vices. You can find a man who neither drinks, smokes or doesn't even womanize but is secretly a serial killer with a white collar job.
Pure lie
I don't do any of the three
Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Fiscus105(m): 1:54pm On May 10, 2023
khalids:
The guy should just be thanking his stars...he dodged a bullet

Its just typical of women, once they see that you have good characteristics they cannot meet up with the bail.....



Still looking forward when people would learn how to respect people'd opinion and choices, when people would know that we are diverse in nature and not trying to impose their own way of life on others.

I pity the woman that will end up with you sir .......for, she is not marry a husband (a partner and friend) but boss and impostor.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Smartguyboy(m): 1:55pm On May 10, 2023
Such only happens when a 9-5 guy want to date a hookup girl or yahoo boy left over girl 👧.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by kingyakos: 1:56pm On May 10, 2023
LeoDeKing:
Smoking and drinking are way better than drugs.

If that is the dp of the guy deserted by the lady, I support her.


Now i know where u dump your brain

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by deyplay: 1:56pm On May 10, 2023
PureFace1:


Because women want what other women want.

when you have many women around it prove other women find you attractive and she would also find you attractive because of that too.

If you don't have any other side chicks most of them would interprete as you not being desireable and attractive to other women which would in turn make them lose interest and attraction in you.

Na wao. Who swear for them?
Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by PureFace1(m): 2:03pm On May 10, 2023
deyplay:
Na wao. Who swear for them?

Well they are wired that way

Men see women with a lot of guys as slut but it is different with women.

Women see men in relationship with other women as attractive because they want what other women like them desire.

That's why you would see a woman having interest in a guy she is initially not interested in immediately she is seeing him going out with other women or one of her friends.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by hkidola00(m): 2:04pm On May 10, 2023
Ijaya123:


What of us that are involved in the 3 states of matter? Solid, liquid and gas grin grin grin

If you know, you know n
haa guy small small oo

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by qtguru(m): 2:04pm On May 10, 2023
001Lagos:
As a guy, I can't just imagine a life without drinking but in a responsible way ..

I'd raise a beer to that.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by Asswipemod: 2:05pm On May 10, 2023
001Lagos:
A Nigerian man has stirred massive reactions on Twitter after making public his WhatsApp chat with a lady over his not drinking or smoking. @Deevybs shared the chat on Twitter with the caption, "Some girls are weird, just because I don’t smoke or drink?

In the chat, he asked the lady, Blessing, why she had been acting strangely lately, and she replied that she likes him but had some reservations.

According to her, she doesn't like that he doesn't smoke or drink. Blessing said it was weird and abnormal for a man not to have any of the habits.

See the chat and reactions below ;

Women are complex. They are 50% darkness (demonic), 30% human and 20% angelic. It takes the really really wise ones to tap into that angelic side of them. But mostly, they are willing, but in some cases, unwilling but ready and sure tools in the hand of the Devil.

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Re: Lady Loses Interest In A Young Man Because He Doesn't Smoke Or Drink by DSC7: 2:06pm On May 10, 2023
LeoDeKing:
Smoking and drinking are way better than drugs.

If that is the dp of the guy deserted by the lady, I support her.

Ever seen a druggie who doesn't smoke? undecided

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