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Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by occfx: 4:10pm On May 23, 2023 |
Righteousness2: You don’t negotiate with evil, just like terrorists and janjaweedds... You don't negotiate with them... Just defend yourself either by attacking or by defending with all your power and might. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by dannex4adx(m): 4:15pm On May 23, 2023 |
manee2: If the institution is in Lagos. Let's talk privately! |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by isabi2lof: 4:25pm On May 23, 2023 |
When we have twitter , let her gather enough evidence , everywhere go stew my broda . Him third leg go carry am go where he no no. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Charly68: 4:56pm On May 23, 2023 |
Redoil:She can threaten him with the record if he tries to fail her or play funny.. he knows he won't go free in this age of internet .. set a trap for him I beg. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Ola4lead(m): 4:58pm On May 23, 2023 |
manee2: Make she go hospital to run fake hiv result and she can use it as an excuse why she have been avoiding the man cos she don’t know how to tell him, remember to back date the report with at least one year and she can even pay to get hiv drugs and wait for the man response |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Ola4lead(m): 5:00pm On May 23, 2023 |
Charly68: Those lecturers are smart, the so call man won’t fail her but other lecturers who are friends will… It happens before so it’s a long way job 1 Like |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by achimendy(m): 5:20pm On May 23, 2023 |
manee2: She should set the lecturer up, look for friends that can help out, then deal with the idiot man. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Coolgent(m): 5:37pm On May 23, 2023 |
manee2:If the case is withing North-West Including Abuja quote me |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by manee2(m): 5:41pm On May 23, 2023 |
pansophist: Thank you, sir! |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 23, 2023 |
That was how one warlord lecturer was threatening my kid sis back then. For school when we hold lol... Na him men I use warn am for occasion, some dreaded warlord boys wey be trigger lovers but them believe my way even when we no dey same levels. I just told him after that if my sister should have any problem academically he would be the first message for war. After then stupid man give her chance. My sister no know till date how it happened cos the buffoon was seriously on her case |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by manee2(m): 5:52pm On May 23, 2023 |
Lovelyn451: You are so wrong. She is one of the brightest in the class. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Nobody: 5:52pm On May 23, 2023 |
What the heck do you mean by it seems he's upset about the whole situation? Is it not her who should be upset? 😠. Involve the school authorities or police, will you?! What is this nonsense?! |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by manee2(m): 6:06pm On May 23, 2023 |
Nobleou: I might have to translate it into your native language because you seem to be the only one confused. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by manee2(m): 6:07pm On May 23, 2023 |
achimendy: Thank you 1 Like |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Nobody: 6:08pm On May 23, 2023 |
1Sharon:Yes! |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by manee2(m): 6:09pm On May 23, 2023 |
Ola4lead: True! She mentioned this! |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by pfadom: 8:19pm On May 23, 2023 |
And they will be crying for upgrade of salaries and allowances, and expect the general public whose children they oppress and exploit to sympathize with them. Useless people!!! |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by chiedozie198100: 8:44pm On May 23, 2023 |
a lecture wants to useless ur sister and you are looking for polite way to turn him down? are u okay? |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by athorello(m): 9:11pm On May 23, 2023 |
It's too late. Cos it seems you've been subtly promising to see him instead of giving him emotional excuses that will make him to pity you. You have to rudely refuse and threaten him at this point and get video or audio evidence. Just now if you post lecturer on social media, the school will be running helter skelter. Before now, I would have advised her to be very serous with her studies and wise as a serpent around the so called lecturer. When the advances started, she will place him as a father figure. Tell him you're his daughter and looking up to him. If he's relentless, she should also be relentless in giving him emotional excuses. You're taking care of your mother, someone is sick that she staking care of. Church activities. And don't be playing or laughing too much around him. Miss and don't return his calls. Do all his assignments promptly and attend clases. Never visit him at the office alone or spend too much time there. You can offer him alternatives like buy fruit juice and expensive cookies for him to give to his kids. His heart will begin to mellow. Just find a way to escape... Always escape! It's better you graduate as 'my runaway girlfriend or wife' than for a lecturer to collect his share from you. You won't make good grades still. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by TheGift: 9:28pm On May 23, 2023 |
Edoziesmart: No it was a lecturer in ABU faculty of Law , that year. Good to know similar stuff happened elsewhere. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Edoziesmart(m): 10:17pm On May 23, 2023 |
TheGift:It happen in almost all the government tertiary institutions in Nigeria. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by obstead200(m): 10:55pm On May 23, 2023 |
manee2: With due respect, I think your sister is not academically sound. That is why she is worried. She probably gave the lecturer initial green light and gained some academic favours in return. Now she does not know how to vomit what she has swallowed. Simple advice.......most lecturers, no matter how randy they are, will never fail a student who truly deserve to pass. Especially the senior lecturers and the professors. No professor will want to be faulted If an answer script must be re-marked. Such situation can potentially damage their credibility and call their learning to question so they avoid it like a plague. Let her just read her books very very very well.....then read it yet again. Let her do all assignments, buy all the required textbooks and generally leave no stone unturned. If she passes, the lecturer has no choice but to pass her. Advice her to steer clear of anyone she has no intention of dating.... especially lecturers. She shud not act in a way that suggests she wants to be friendly, she shud NEVER ask for favours, she shud just keep away and mind her business in future. By the way, I am a lecturer, so I think I understand my colleagues. 1 Like |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by JustPowerApps(m): 11:14pm On May 23, 2023 |
manee2: She should report to her school Senate without hesitation |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by temitimx19(m): 12:34am On May 24, 2023 |
He should be reported to the authorities |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by cocolacec(m): 2:47am On May 24, 2023 |
manee2: Let her tell the lecturer her parents want to see him as regards to introduction and bride price before anything happens. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by godofuck231: 8:06am On May 24, 2023 |
She should let the elders know and ezemo will escort her to his family house for the proposed sex which must take place immediately while ezemo watches , the gods are wise , the gods will preside |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Mantilla(m): 9:01am On May 24, 2023 |
I am open for setting up. We can set the shameless lecturer up and possibly get some money for egusi soup and semo 😎 |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Mikel99(m): 10:57am On May 24, 2023 |
iHateFraudsters:Share the story comrade. And which university does your sister attend? |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by iHateFraudsters: 11:02am On May 24, 2023 |
Mikel99: Very long story my brother. She went to FUTO |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by R1234(f): 11:33am On May 24, 2023 |
I faced this challenge during my Nd days, lagos poly it can be very mentally draining , do all possible means to deal with dat evil lecturer , after we graduated i was telling a friend who was a cult guy , he said i should had inform him they could had just visit him in his office to back off me but the regrets were still.. with me till date , so use all possible means to scare him away from even him attempting it on any other female student , if na cult way fine , if its to record him and backstab him do that , n if na to set him up at a hotel all join na ni , i cant even imagine a full grown up man with kids at home wanting to sleep with young ladies all because they are just ordinary lecturers or professors , my advice to you as an ex victim , deal with him badly if you go easy on him he is not going to stop on her , dat is d bad eggs , we are here to face in the nigerian system , such lecturers needs to be dealt with mercilessly no mercy my dear |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Temi2468: 12:49pm On May 24, 2023 |
Redoil: So you think. In fact, that's when he will put more pressure on her, on assumption that she's already sexually exposed. The best thing is to be ready to face the consequences of your righteousness and give thanks to God. He will deliver her from the mouth of the lion. She should also be sure she's not in any way causing it too. When they see the kind of friends you move with, how you dress, how different guys hug you incessantly in school etc, they sometimes also bring that nonsense. Though, I still don't exonerate them from making such foolish advance without any sexually provocative lifestyle of ladies. Some are sex addicts! God will expose him one day. Just one day! At present, I have been able to save two girls from their claws here in my school. |
Re: How can my sister politely refuse the sexual advances of a married lecturer. by Redoil: 12:59pm On May 24, 2023 |
Temi2468: you nail it right 1 Like |
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