Wordsfrombimpe:
You are Single Untill You Married - Double Date

There is no such thing as am in relationship playing the loyalty game for long my sister

I have been loyal for long to the men I dated and didn't end up with one

My last relationship taught me deeply, I cried badly and that's to tell you how I love deeply

Long distance relationship with someone on this space and it didn't work on

But I see ladies making the mistakes I made many times and what is that

A guy likes you and he ask he want to get to know you

The next thing you are in a relationship aunty you want to be single for long be that

Inside relationship I learnt some relationship lead you to the right ones

But don't be stupid to be loyal to someone who can't vouch that for you

This men you see can't dish out what you give to them

I went out to sort something and a guy called me on the street and said so you are not married and you are busy forming relationship

And the person I thought you are married to or in a relationship is in a marriage with another woman

And he was like

I have liked you for long but the moment you utter relationship it broke me

I was so angry

Because you are the qualities I need and I observe you for long

I was like shock

I could not cry

So please ladies double date

I have learnt and I hope you learn

Double date and don't do pre marital sex

God bless every loyal people out there

May we find the right ones

Ase!

https://twitter.com/coachbimpe/status/1664758421072105475?s=46

Which kind talk be this one, abi you dey find traffic for your blog?

Even oyibo wey invent courtship cannot stand with a partner that cheats, or have other relationship aside.

Multiple relationships is a no no.

While you are busy thinking you are smart, by keeping multiple guys as a way of "not putting all your eggs in one basket" , virtually all the guys will find out and non will wife you.... That is when you will start running from pillar to post, seeking the face of God, and at the end, the so called pastors will eat the remaining of what is left of you till the window of getting married closes at 40yrs.

I can also tell that Samantha you don’t read to understand

Naw you sound like am a bitter ex without having a proper knowledge

For your information my exes are on this forum and they have never for once see me as a bad lady they are very much aware of my loyalty to them and me being a good lady

Infact one of my ex on this forum gives me job

He also comment as well

And when he see bitter thread he sends screenshot and show me

You think am talking from a place of bitterness

You are busy trying to make yourself look good Samantha and trust me what you just did make yourself look bad

The same person who is acting like you admire what I do you is busy being two face

I don’t even send you neither do I know you

What’s my business with your fiancé or the fact you are engaged

You have been shouting engagement up and down and you are not married

If you don’t like my thread you can go else where

I don’t even need you to like me or like my content

For your information I am a very happy woman

And am cool with all my exes and they themselves are good with me

I have never stated in any of my content all men are scum

I even stated some relationships actually lead you to the right ones

The last time I check my name was even in two of their cvs to acknowledge the fact that am good at what I do and one even commented that am hardworking

But you seem so hard to understand and comprehend

Because there was never any statement of mine saying that women should be hoes

If women double date and do premarital sex then they are the hoes but when women do double dating it keeps their options open without having sex with any one of them

You don’t even comprehend properly because if you read carefully you will understand that double dating is not cheating It is platonic and it means you are free to get to know others guys and whoever want you and chooses to marry you can do the needful rather that just dating only one person and the relationship doesn’t lead to where you want it to lead

Samantha124:
So just because your relationships didn't go well and you're a bitter ex, you want us to join you with your bitterness?

What would we achieve from double dating? Do those men who do it achieve something? And just because you find yourself attracted to players, it doesn't mean all men are players.

Some of us have only been with a man, not men like you did.. I might not know what the future holds, but even if something bad happens in the future, I'd be grateful of the wonderful journey my man would've given me. From high school, until the day we separate, if ever it does happen... So far he has sacrificed a lot for me.

You claim to be celibate, but you're advising us to be hoes... Another guy professed his interest in you in the previous thread and you started acting holy and casting him out like he's a demon, a hypocrite... You can't practice what you preach.

Ma'am just focus on discussing about other life problems or other interesting topics and stop sounding so bitter against men, because it only proves the things Nigerian men have been saying about you Nigerian women on this forum all this while.. . I was even defending you guys, but I guess from now on I'll mind my business.

If you want to double date, let it be your personal choice and don't try to drag others with you because our life experiences are different.

Accept what you want ke

akube34:
I support you, but make I no catch you. If you have the free will to do anything, I also have the power to accept what I want

Double dating is simple English you are open to seeing other people

And it is platonic without having any intimacy with any one of them

But people like you abuse this definition

Read to comprehend because the English wey I talk is very simple and straight to the point

If those women have double dated trust me they will see husband except they are just selective

Men are everywhere so is women

Dshocker:


Which kind talk be this one, abi you dey find traffic for your blog?

Even oyibo wey invent courtship cannot stand with a partner that cheats, or have other relationship aside.

Multiple relationships is a no no.

While you are busy thinking you are smart, by keeping multiple guys as a way of "not putting all your eggs in one basket" , virtually all the guys will find out and non will wife you.... That is when you will start running from pillar to post, seeking the face of God, and at the end, the so called pastors will eat the remaining of what is left of you till the window of getting married closes at 40yrs.

I thank God for my babe..She’s a 1 in a million..Even when I thought gurls are useless but through her I see there’s still hope outside..Let’s no be blinded by the many cheaters outside today..My babe even deserve person wey better pass me but instead she chose me..God bless you my babe..

As you brag about her do the needful so that another man will not marry her

Love is action

Dzzzz:
I thank God for my babe..She’s a 1 in a million..Even when I thought gurls are useless but through her I see there’s still hope outside..Let’s no be blinded by the many cheaters outside today..My babe even deserve person wey better pass me but instead she chose me..God bless you my babe..

Wordsfrombimpe:
Double dating is simple English you are open to seeing other people

And it is platonic without having any intimacy with any one of them

But people like you abuse this definition

Read to comprehend because the English wey I talk is very simple and straight to the point

If those women have double dated trust me they will see husband except they are just selective

Men are everywhere so is women

Madam even if truly you are a virgin, once i sense are seeing someone else, it is over.

I no dey for that rubbish.

Besides; no guy/man will condole such.

Why are you against a woman seeing other men

If you are truly interested in the woman why not do the needful

We have some people who are time wasters

They don’t want anyone to have you and they don’t want to do the needful

It doesn’t work that way

If you are not ready to do the needful let her go so she can meet someone who will marry her Simple

Dshocker:


Madam even if truly you are a virgin, once i sense are seeing someone else, it is over.

I no dey for that rubbish.

Besides; no guy/man will condole such.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Double Date means platonic and if you read to comprehend

I stated no premarital sex

Which guy will want a platonic relationship with a female friend?
Don’t deceive yourself you will need favor from him one day and the only way you can get that favor is through your 🍑

Wordsfrombimpe:
Why are you against a woman seeing other men

If you are truly interested in the woman why not do the needful

We have some people who are time wasters

They don’t want anyone to have you and they don’t want to do the needful

It doesn’t work that way

If you are not ready to do the needful let her go so she can meet someone who will marry her Simple

All these you are saying shows you are not in a relationship, or probably you are forming ignorance.

As a guy in a relationship, i can allow you hangout with a friend in an open or public place, but visiting a guy in his house you have no business dealings with will make me call off the relationship.

Mind you; not all guys or girls are cheat, even managing just relationship is a herculean task before me, when am busy running about 5 different businesses, the little time i get, i would want to rest.

Bimpe, as a woman, having a multiple partners will slim your chances of getting married, because non of the guys will value you, even if you have no sexual encounter with them

Why would a lady visit a man in his house

Who send her there

Like I said if you read to comprehend double dating is platonic

And no it won’t slim the chances of a woman getting married

Infact it will help her a lot to identify the one for her

This is not about all guys cheat or not

Because I am not the type that cheat but when it comes to double date it is open and he should be aware of the fact that if you don’t know my worth and value someone else will

Rather than being tied down to one man that won’t value but waste your time

Dshocker:


All these you are saying shows you are not in a relationship, or probably you are forming ignorance.

As a guy in a relationship, i can allow you hangout with a friend in an open or public place, but visiting a guy in his house you have no business dealings with will make me call off the relationship.

Mind you; not all guys or girls are cheat, even managing just relationship is a herculean task before me, when am busy running about 5 different businesses, the little time i get, i would want to rest.

Bimpe, as a woman, having a multiple partners will slim your chances of getting married, because non of the guys will value you, even if you have no sexual encounter with them

So you are the type that gives favor to women and sleep with them

What a shallow mindset

This decent guys I know who have supported my brand didn’t need to sleep with me to support what I do

There are decent guys out there

Smartguyboy:

Which guy will want a platonic relationship with a female friend?
Don’t deceive yourself you will need favor from him one day and the only way you can get that favor is through your 🍑

Hi

Ma'am, I didn't ask what your exes think about you and I don't care.

And I didn't ask for their whereabouts for you to tell me that they're here on nairaland, and what does them being here on nairaland has to do with you?

And I didn't know that nowadays CVs include past relationship experiences..🤣🤣🤣.. Them mentioning you as a good worker just basically means you are good at your job, nothing more.

And I don't understand why you have issues with me talking about my man, but here you are talking about your exes and no one is complaining... What? Do you wish he could end up like your exes and leave me like they left you?

Yes, I'm not yet married, but I am ENGAGED and I will get married, and you will be invited to the wedding..

I don't hate you and I'm not trying to fight you on this forum, all I'm saying is that if you want to double date, make it your personal choice and stop trying to drag nairaland ladies with you.

I'm not even gonna judge you for having multiple boyfriends because it would've been your own personal choice, I've had friends with multiple boyfriends in the past before and the least I could do is advice them when they needed it and then let them be after that because I valued our friendship more than anything.

Don't try to project your ideology on others, you claim to be celibate and grounded, but you want to lead your sisters astray, hypocrite.

Wordsfrombimpe:
I can also tell that Samantha you don’t read to understand

Naw you sound like am a bitter ex without having a proper knowledge

For your information my exes are on this forum and they have never for once see me as a bad lady they are very much aware of my loyalty to them and me being a good lady

Infact one of my ex on this forum gives me job

He also comment as well

And when he see bitter thread he sends screenshot and show me

You think am talking from a place of bitterness

You are busy trying to make yourself look good Samantha and trust me what you just did make yourself look bad

The same person who is acting like you admire what I do you is busy being two face

I don’t even send you neither do I know you

What’s my business with your fiancé or the fact you are engaged

You have been shouting engagement up and down and you are not married

If you don’t like my thread you can go else where

I don’t even need you to like me or like my content

For your information I am a very happy woman

And am cool with all my exes and they themselves are good with me

I have never stated in any of my content all men are scum

I even stated some relationships actually lead you to the right ones

The last time I check my name was even in two of their cvs to acknowledge the fact that am good at what I do and one even commented that am hardworking

But you seem so hard to understand and comprehend

Because there was never any statement of mine saying that women should be hoes

If women double date and do premarital sex then they are the hoes but when women do double dating it keeps their options open without having sex with any one of them

You don’t even comprehend properly because if you read carefully you will understand that double dating is not cheating It is platonic and it means you are free to get to know others guys and whoever want you and chooses to marry you can do the needful rather that just dating only one person and the relationship doesn’t lead to where you want it to lead

Wordsfrombimpe:
Why would a lady visit a man in his house

Who send her there

Like I said if you read to comprehend double dating is platonic

And no it won’t slim the chances of a woman getting married

Infact it will help her a lot to identify the one for her

This is not about all guys cheat or not

Because I am not the type that cheat but when it comes to double date it is open and he should be aware of the fact that if you don’t know my worth and value someone else will

Rather than being tied down to one man that won’t value but waste your time

You are already a cheat once you are in a multiple relationship.

For me; If i like you, i approach you, and if you ready for a relationship with me, i give you my terms and conditions.

I for one will make sure she doesn't lack, but if she feels she is smart by seeing someone else, i will definitely find out, and the relationship will be null and void, of which i will forgive her; after all am not God, but i cannot take her back.

We can all see this is you being bittered

Laugh out loud

You talk base on assumptions

How are you sure they left me or I choose to call it off

You come here assuming what you don't know

You are engaged and you are not married

And until you are married you are single


And you are here saying am hypocrites laugh out loud

With my full chest I say my truth if you don't like it go and hug transformer

It's not a must you comment on my thread

And yes with my full my chest my exes recommend me and we are on good terms

You deyshoulder shout engage dey here dey play

Lmao

Madam engagement

Have you heard of the Lord's of the rings
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Samantha124:
Ma'am, I didn't ask what your exes think about you and I don't care.

And I didn't ask for their whereabouts for you to tell me that they're here on nairaland, and what does them being here on nairaland has to do with you?

And I didn't know that nowadays CVs include past relationship experiences..🤣🤣🤣.. Them mentioning you as a good worker just basically means you are good at your job, nothing more.

And I don't understand why you have issues with me talking about my man, but here you are talking about your exes and no one is complaining... What? Do you wish he could end up like your exes and leave me like they left you?

Yes, I'm not yet married, but I am ENGAGED and I will get married, and you will be invited to the wedding..

I don't hate you and I'm not trying to fight you on this forum, all I'm saying is that if you want to double date, make it your personal choice and stop trying to drag nairaland ladies with you.

I'm not even gonna judge you for having multiple boyfriends because it would've been your own personal choice, I've had friends with multiple boyfriends in the past before and the least I could do is advice them when they needed it and then let them be after that because I valued our friendship more than anything.

Don't try to project your ideology on others, you claim to be celibate and grounded, but you want to lead your sisters astray, hypocrite.

Is she your wife Sir

Why you dey give am terms and conditions

You no marry somebody daughter pikin and you want to tie her down without doing the needful

Lmao

Dshocker:


You are already a cheat once you are in a multiple relationship.

For me; If i like you, i approach you, and if you ready for a relationship with me, i give you my terms and conditions.

I for one will make sure she doesn't lack, but if she feels she is smart by seeing someone else, i will definitely find out, and the relationship will be null and void, of which i will forgive her; after all am not God, but i cannot take her back.

Hi 👀

Everything you mentioned here is based on your ideology, stick with it, but don't try projecting it on others because it only makes you to look bitter.

And no matter what you say, we will only see you as the bitter ex who cried so hard because she was heartbroken.

Wordsfrombimpe:
We can all see this is you being bittered

Laugh out loud

You talk base on assumptions

How are you sure they left me or I choose to call it off

You come here assuming what you don't know

You are engaged and you are not married

And until you are married you are single


And you are here saying am hypocrites laugh out loud

With my full chest I say my truth if you don't like it go and hug transformer

It's not a must you comment on my thread

And yes with my full my chest my exes recommend me and we are on good terms

You dey dey should engage dey here dey play

Lmao

Madam engagement

Have you heard of the Lord's of the rings
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Lmao bitter ex kwa

Who ask you to agree with my ideology

You can create your thread and talk your own madam engagement

If there is any reason why I should cry it's because I didn't double date and I was busy shouting relationship up and down 🤣🤣🤣🤣

So there is nothing to be bitter about

Because I am happy and in a much better place

Just because relationship don't work does not mean they are in bad terms

So madam engagement your lack of comprehension dey make me laugh 🤣🤣🤣

Samantha124:
Everything you mentioned here is based on your ideology, stick with it, but don't try projecting it on others because it only makes you to look bitter.

And no matter what you say, we will only see you as the bitter ex who cried so hard because she was heartbroken.

Samantha124:
Everything you mentioned here is based on your ideology, stick with it, but don't try projecting it on others because it only makes you to look bitter.

And no matter what you say, we will only see you as the bitter ex who cried so hard because she was heartbroken.

Yes Samantha get them😂😂😂

[b]

Wordsfrombimpe:
As e dey pain una men sey women are now playing the same game you are playing

Double date ladies 💯

You talk illogically most of the time.

You're saying women should not have sex with none. As if having sex is a favour to men, as if women themselves don't crave for sex, as if women themselves don't get into relationship just for the sex only. Stop projecting your values to others. Not all women are in relationships with the aim to get married. Some of them know the reason alot of men are even tolerating them is because they give sex and that's all they have. Meanwhile double dating will only make you confuse. A woman that you can give this advise to is a high value woman not all these unintelligent, unambitious, dull girls that have nothing. If lot them even think of withholding sex, they know the consequences. So maybe try to get your head out of your a** and realise that some things are not just practical and feasible[/b]

And why should someone be bittered about a relationship thats a loss

You should count your blessing

What is meant to be will be

Que sera Que Sera

Lmao

I talk fact and that's my view

The people who understand this point can all agree am speaking fact

Double Date Ladies

Akinfemmy:


You talk illogically most of the time.

You're saying women should not have sex with none. As if having sex is a favour to men, as if women themselves don't crave for sex, as if women themselves don't get into relationship just for the sex only. Stop projecting your values to others. Not all women are in relationships with the aim to get married. Some of them know the reason alot of men are even tolerating them is because they give sex and that's all they have. Meanwhile double dating will only make you confuse. A woman that you can give this advise to is a high value woman not all these unintelligent, unambitious, dull girls that have nothing. If lot them even think of withholding sex, they know the consequences. So maybe try to get your head out of your a** and realise that some things are not just practical and feasible

Hi 😊

It's not a must you agree to my view

Go and create your thread and talk that

Because those who comprehend understand this is fact and straight to the point

Double Date and avoid time wasters

There she goes again mentioning my engagement..🤦🤦🤦

If you have issues with my engagement, do yourself a favor and unfollow me... In that way you won't have to see me talking about it up and down because I am still going to talk about it..

No one asked me to agree with your ideology, but you posted it on a public forum for everyone to see and give their own opinions about it.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Lmao bitter ex kwa

Who ask you to agree with my ideology

You can create your thread and talk your own madam engagement

If there is any reason why I should cry it's because I didn't double date and I was busy shouting relationship up and down 🤣🤣🤣🤣

So there is nothing to be bitter about

Because I am happy and in a much better place

Just because relationship don't work does not mean they are in bad terms

So madam engagement your lack of comprehension dey make me laugh 🤣🤣🤣

Lmao

Madam engagement

E reach to dey call you that

Why don't you unfollow me and don't comment on my thread

It's a public opinion and no one ask for your opinion

Because e dey play madam engagement everywhere you go

Lmao

Samantha124:
There she goes again mentioning my engagement..🤦🤦🤦

If you have issues with my engagement, do yourself a favor and unfollow me... In that way you won't have to see me talking about it up and down because I am still going to talk about it..

No one asked me to agree with your ideology, but you posted it on a public forum for everyone to see and give their own opinions about it.

See advice na wa o,why double date,why not leave the relationship if you're not comfortable with it? You're trying to avoid being played and yet you play yourself and still get played,if I'm a guy and I know the lady I'm going out with is double dating I'll leave her she's not serious.

Double dating is platonic

If you don't want to double that's your business

For those ladies who comprehend the point get my view properly

You don't need to agree to it

Rach310:
See advice na wa o,why double date,why not leave the relationship if you're not comfortable with it? You're trying to avoid being played and yet you play yourself and still get played,if I'm a guy and I know the lady I'm going out with is double dating I'll leave her she's not serious.

Double dating isn't define as you being unserious

Double dating is keeping your options open and knowing your worth

A lot of women do this and they are in a much better place

Last time I checked, you're the one of my followers list, not the other way around..

And if you prefer calling me Madam Engagement, then that's fine with me.

Like you said, it's a public opinion, meaning I can also give my own public opinion..💃💃💃

Wordsfrombimpe:
Lmao

Madam engagement

E reach to dey call you that

Why don't you unfollow me and don't comment on my thread

It's a public opinion and no one ask for your opinion

Because e dey play madam engagement everywhere you go

Lmao