My name is Solomon from Kogi State. A graduate of Accounting from a government University in Kogi state. Since I graduated from the university 10 years ago,I've been facing different challenges ranging from family,finance,health and so on.Luckily for me i got a good job this year and I've been thinking of settling down. Do you think it is proper for me to marry a woman at 35 or just have a baby mama? This question have been pondering my mind. Please your opinion is really needed

You got a job this year and you are already thinking of settling down or baby mama ?



Have you settled yourself ?

Have you settled your life and issues around you ?

You are less than one year on the job.

I pity you man.

Absolutely not, ideal age for marriage is 45. You still have 10 solid years to play around. As for Baby mama, you have my full support

The day u get a baby mama...mark it,that is the day u have use your hands to bastardised ur old age.

As educated as u are,u think it is easy with those men who are into it.

U see why some men are better left in abject poverty than in riches because if not,why is it that u are thinking backward after a good job. If ur parents did the same,do u think life would have been that easy for u?

See,there is nothing like having the both parents at the formative age of every child,it would engender healthy child development and care.

Lastly,u can do as u like but remember that baby mama is sure to frustrate ur life with bills that may crumble your finance all because of ur child.

Be careful man.

doggedfighter:
You got a job this year and you are already thinking of settling down or baby mama ?



Have you settled yourself ?

Have settled your life and issues around you ?

You are less than one year on the job.

I already own a house of my own and car

Ibechris2:
The day u get a baby mama...Mark it,that is the day u have use your hands to bastardised ur old age.

As educated as u are,u think it is easy with those men who are into.

U see why some men are better left in abject poverty than in riches because if not,why is it that u are thinking backward after a good job. If u ur parents did the same do u think life would have been that easy for u.

See,there is nothing like having the both parents at the formative age of every child,it would engender healthy child development and care.

Lastly,u can do as u like but remember that baby mama is sure to frustrate ur life with bills that may crumble your finance all because of ur child.

Be careful man.

Thank you for your advice

EmptyGarden:
Absolutely not, ideal age for marriage is 45. You still have 10 solid years to play around. As for Baby mama, you have my full support

All my siblings and colleagues are married

I married at 28

Baby mama as in, she give births and you rent accomodation for her and your child(ren), sending money for their upkeep while you live your bachelor life?

By the way 35 is still too young to be married, andropause is still far ahead.

dondodo:

I already own a house of my own and car

In that case, just marry. Leave baby mama.


You don't need baby mama drama.

doggedfighter:
You got a job this year and you are already thinking of settling down or baby mama ?



Have you settled yourself ?

Have settled your life and issues around you ?

You are less than one year on the job.

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dondodo:
My name is Solomon from Kogi State. A graduate of Accounting from a government University in Kogi state. Since I graduated from the university 10 years ago,I've been facing different challenges ranging from family,finance,health and so on.Luckily for me i got a good job this year and I've been thinking of settling down. Do you think it is proper for me to marry a woman at 35 or just have a baby mama? This question have been pondering my mind. Please your opinion is really needed

Can you tell me the difference between the baby mama and a wife

Can you explain the benefits of having a baby mama and a wife

Can you ask yourself why, you even have the thoughts of baby mama when you can find a wife to plan with considering the fact that at age 35yrs, you are supposed to be rounding up having kids assuming you married earlier

Anyway the best for you is to go in search of a wife and have just few kids that you can train 2/3 should be OK so far you are lucky to have mix gender

Its not how far but how well

By now I believe that you already know what you want in a woman

It is never too late bro

Just commit everything to God's hand .

Actually, 35 is a pretty good age to marry for a man. You're young enough and not too set in your ways. You're most likely established in your career, and financially. You're young enough to have enough energy should you have kids.

You're also mature enough to know what you want, have dated enough to know what you like and don't like in a partner, and will most likely make a better match with someone.

You're also at an age where you can stop dating woman in their early 20’s anymore, and who are not looking to settle down or have kids just yet. Chances are, a woman between 26–35 is probably more in line with where you are in life, as you will have shared experiences, stability, and similar goals.

All the best to finding the right woman.

dondodo:
My name is Solomon from Kogi State. A graduate of Accounting from a government University in Kogi state. Since I graduated from the university 10 years ago,I've been facing different challenges ranging from family,finance,health and so on.Luckily for me i got a good job this year and I've been thinking of settling down. Do you think it is proper for me to marry a woman at 35 or just have a baby mama? This question have been pondering my mind. Please your opinion is really needed

Oga Solo, my people say 'Oruko eni lon ro eni'. Sugbon, tie o ro e.

At 35, you don't know what you want; imagine deciding between a baby mama and a wife. And no, you have not gotten a lady pregnant unplanned for.

Please continue working for now, you are not ready to marry.

dondodo:
My name is Solomon from Kogi State. A graduate of Accounting from a government University in Kogi state. Since I graduated from the university 10 years ago,I've been facing different challenges ranging from family,finance,health and so on.Luckily for me i got a good job this year and I've been thinking of settling down. Do you think it is proper for me to marry a woman at 35 or just have a baby mama? This question have been pondering my mind. Please your opinion is really needed

at 35 if you can get a woman that suits you and you have the finacial ability i think you has to to settle down. My opinion though

Baby mama all the way

Direct answer: it's not good enough to marry at 35. Wait till you are 55. FYI 35 years is expired bachelor jor.

dondodo:
My name is Solomon from Kogi State. A graduate of Accounting from a government University in Kogi state. Since I graduated from the university 10 years ago,I've been facing different challenges ranging from family,finance,health and so on.Luckily for me i got a good job this year and I've been thinking of settling down. Do you think it is proper for me to marry a woman at 35 or just have a baby mama? This question have been pondering my mind. Please your opinion is really needed

Dis ur question sounds more of a confused man, boy in a man skin. A real man really knows what he wants.
Baba if ur mind no carry to put one daughter of eve for house, better follow d baby mama way, to avoid had I known. Bcs what we hv outta their is nothing to write home about.
Hv u asked ur self why too many single ladies and single mothers out their?
Better know what u want, live ur life, do not live other people's life bcs u are only answerable to ur self, not even d society.

dondodo:
My name is Solomon from Kogi State. A graduate of Accounting from a government University in Kogi state. Since I graduated from the university 10 years ago,I've been facing different challenges ranging from family,finance,health and so on.Luckily for me i got a good job this year and I've been thinking of settling down. Do you think it is proper for me to marry a woman at 35 or just have a baby mama? This question have been pondering my mind. Please your opinion is really needed

Just a year after getting a good job and you want to marry?

Yoruba people call something "edi". Won ti di yin sir.

Save up and build your finances for like three years first before talking about marriage.

A woman needs to be well cared for and you need to be financially stable to be able to do that. So build first.

Man, you just got a good after many years of suffering and the next thing that comes to your mind is marriage? Haba! You never enjoy life na, relax and flex small before one of the daughters of Eve go come with entitlement complex.

Op said he already has a house of his own,and a car too.... My only advice for you is that you should do everything possible to avoid baby mama dramas and focus on how to marry.

No, there's nothing wrong with it. You don't love the person in question if you're asking this. Men age much quicker than women, fyi.

If not that the economy is too harsh.
B/w 32-35 yrs of age should be the latest a man should find himself a wife. By 26-30yrs man suppose don marry, at 40-45 yrs man suppose don round up with child bearing.
I pity guys/Babes of our generation when think say Baby Mama/ Baby Papa be the way out, they don't know the type of children they are bringing into the society, you may think it's cool with you but ask those children when they become adult, you will be surprise to discover that you guys have subjected them to all through the face of growing up into adulthood.
Just like one Baba I kwn, he is living a stupid kind of life now in his late sixty's, not that he don't have money, his life is full of regrets.
Three Baby Mama's, he never married any of them, five full grown up adult with children, nobody stay with him at home. At sixty's he is living like a bachelor (Babachelor), not that he's a widower, is that life ?

Let's ask