Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Felaincarnated: 11:25am On Jun 16, 2023 |
Stingy to u but father Christmas to dumebi Skiborobo: He was stingy een. My God!! 1 Like |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Felaincarnated: 11:32am On Jun 16, 2023 |
Na chisom do dis tin advanceDNA: .on her way to come spend the weekend I say make she buy stuff, total of 4k ....during her visit her phone fell and screen broke when she was chatting and laffing hysterically with her friend ...she use style drop the phone under pillow on Monday when she dey go so that na me go fix am....no wahala...I help am fix her screen for 39k ...
.the werey came to my office, collect her phone on Thursday come wait till next day to ask me for the 4k ..... I just laugh send am the money.... close her file immediately..... . Took a while for her to get the memo....she still get mind dey ask me when I go come see her aunt.... Aunt koor... Grandmother niii..
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Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by advanceDNA: 11:43am On Jun 16, 2023 |
Felaincarnated: Na chisom do dis tin Lol...be like igbo girls don show u pepper.. ....this one na Ofure |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by DonroxyII: 11:51am On Jun 16, 2023 |
Lucky5000: She use my power bank to charge her own power bank
Gisos |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by RIDOO: 12:45pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
brain54: I once dated this girl…
Less than 2 weeks into the relationship. (We were still getting to know each other) She called one day…
I was too busy so I couldn’t take her call. My intention was to call back when less busy but somehow I didn’t get to returning her call.
She called many times during the day and somehow I saw the call but it was always at an unsuitable time.
I finally was free later that evening… I can’t remember if she called again or I called but the first thing she said when she/I picked was “ THUNDER FIRE YOU !“ followed by ***##%%%^^* and then more explicives. For close to a minute i calmly listened to her go on. She insulted my full generation… no one left out.
I was shocked. I couldn’t say anything because I expected her to wait for an explanation. She didn’t even allow me say anything.
She dropped the call… I didn’t call back. The next day she called to apologize (I had already seen her real character) but I never called or saw her again and the relationship died a natural death.
I no want hot tempered woman when go Dey knock my head for house Abeg.
She sounded violent too… like if I was present physically she for press my neck.
I no fit shout! That was how a guy l was still observing years back during a kind of interaction/argument said"l will curse you" it just slipped out of his mouth cos that must have been his usual way..Awon bully Aye . .l didn't do as if l heared but l took my decision on him that day .. 2 Likes |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Aladdin1(m): 3:01pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
imoh4king:
Op, you are so, on-point.
I second all your points. Plus...
14. Drinks too much (alcoholic)
15. Doesn't take correction.
16. Hardly forgives.
17. An old two -timing b-i-t-c-h.
on point. 1 Like |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Tonytonex(m): 3:26pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
sync: Na only guys de comment for this thread, na wah o. girls only red flag, na when the guy no get money. So no need saying it 3 Likes |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by princesschloe: 3:40pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
This made me laugh , but the writer is right Reminderz: okay... let's do this.
the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..
some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with..
1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...
2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her
3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..
4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch
5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..
6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers
7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!
8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!
9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...
10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...
11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..
12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself
13) if she bleaches, dump her!
14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her! |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Chinny024(f): 3:57pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...Some comments has kept me laughing...What if you ended up seeing the red flags in marriage ni. |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by prepresh(f): 5:07pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Reminderz: okay... let's do this.
the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..
some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with.. good one
1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...
2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her
3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..
4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch
5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..
6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers
7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!
8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!
9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...
10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...
11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..
12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself
13) if she bleaches, dump her!
14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her! |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Lanmon(m): 5:25pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
We banged first day she came to my house,not romantic, she no fit ride, no bj, doggy was sad, I just knew we wouldn't last |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:02pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
vengertime: Any relationship where you and your partner don't play like kids won't last. It doesn't matter you guys age.
For the ladies stay away from too serious guys. Life shouldn't be about work work work.
Then you fall into anxiety and stress, then it get difficult to have hard erection.
Since it's been proven that stress is the number one cause of weak erection.
I can't deal with guys who are rigid or too principled. Everything na fight to them. They take things too seriously. 3 Likes |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:04pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Lanmon: We banged first day she came to my house,not romantic, she no fit ride, no bj, doggy was sad, I just knew we wouldn't last You sef no get vibe or she no dey into you. So, asides from sex, were there no other positive features or qualities about her that could have made you stick? Was the relationship all about sex? |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:09pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
jaxxy: She asked me for money barely weeks into the relationship, situationship, or whatever. How is this a problem? It's either you could have helped if her needs were genuine and not vain or just have looked away if you couldn't help than making a story off it. Everything isn't a RED FLAG. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Chinny024: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣...Some comments has kept me laughing...What if you ended up seeing the red flags in marriage ni. Theres something called divorce. Life no hard like that. 1 Like |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:36pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Reminderz: okay... let's do this.
the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..
some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with..
1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...
2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her
3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..
4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch
5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..
6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers
7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!
8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!
9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...
10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...
11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..
12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself
13) if she bleaches, dump her!
14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her! You are dense and maybe a boy in his bloom of youth. What are your own red flags? Have you sat down to make an analysis of what your red flags and flaws are? Are you perfect yourself? People who are quick to point out other people's flaws are usually the most flawed people. 4 Likes |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Lemos14: 7:46pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
You are dense and maybe a boy in his bloom of youth. What are your own red flags? Have you sat down to make an analysis of what your red flags and flaws are? Are you perfect yourself? People who point out other people's flaws are usually the most flawed people. Wow...why rain insults on him? Are you guilty of anything on his writeup? Not called for. If something applies to you why not simply change? 2 Likes |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Spain007(m): 7:48pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
flexxyworld:
“Especially when you define standard, let's live by it” is called what sir?? Also maturity? I leave my peace with you. Have a good one bro. SHALOM. |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:49pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Lemos14:
Wow...why rain insults on him? Are you guilty of anything on his writeup? Not called for.
If something applies to you why not simply change? Lol. How did I insult him? I just told him his reality. He's truthfully dense. That's a dense and immature write-up. Besides, I can't relate to what he wrote. Let's see who he eventually gets married to. |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Lanmon(m): 7:56pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
You sef no get vibe or she no dey into you.
So, asides from sex, there were no other positive features or qualities about her that could have made you stick? Was the relationship all about sex? I never stated there was no good qualities in her, them say FIRST RED FLAG I'm just going with the flow bro |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:59pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Lanmon:
I never stated there was no good qualities in her, them say FIRST RED FLAG I'm just going with the flow bro Those aren't red flags, you perverted son of Lucifer. |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Reminderz: 8:10pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
You are dense and maybe a boy in his bloom of youth. What are your own red flags? Have you sat down to make an analysis of what your red flags and flaws are? Are you perfect yourself? People who are quick to point out other people's flaws are usually the most flawed people. the internet really gave you guys the opportunity to talk anyhow... I don't blame you, but I would leave you a warning... recheck my moniker, let it be the last time you'll quote me telling me such nonsense... |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by teabully(m): 8:18pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
omooba969:
How do you mean? she was white skinned and u know they ajnt strong emotionally like we blacks, little thing na cry, cry so tey u get bored |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:18pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Reminderz:
the internet really gave you guys the opportunity to talk anyhow... I don't blame you, but I would leave you a warning... recheck my moniker, let it be the last time you'll quote me telling me such nonsense... Who the hell are you? How old are you by the way? When I was birthing my kids, I'm sure your parents had never thought of consummating to birth you. We aren't agemates by any standard. You and my second born might be agemates. Look at this boy. |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Lanmon(m): 9:20pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
Those aren't red flags, you perverted son of Lucifer. Yeah white flags I just can't but notice the hate we have toward ourselves on this forum, we use every opportunity to attach ourselves like WTF!! |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by Ilekokonit: 9:50pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
victorVIC1:
Wasn't she suppose to call her sister instead. I'm wondering why brother in law I think the sister was on night duty and I had met the bro in law at a restaurant some weeks earlier. |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by SIMPonPatrol(m): 10:21pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Reminderz: okay... let's do this.
the red flag I can say I noticed from the person I once had something with that I knew we weren't going to last was having a bad sexual history... some were also displaying slay queen's attitude..
some might find this funny but always check these with the woman you intend having something serious with..
1) check how religious she is... I mean someone that's truly religious and prays well not just the churchy person... they are generally submissive and have preserved values...
2) check her sexual history.. have a background check on her
3) check her family background and how United they are in her family... if they are disunited, it's better to back off..
4) if she has any tattoo and multiple piercings, dump that b!tch
5) check her social media account and see her activities, what she posts, likes, follows and mostly her comments.. she will sooner or later reveal her true self..
6) check her relationship with her family especially with her dad and brothers
7) if she's generally lazy and can't cook, dump her!
8 ) if she doesn't take care of herself or generally dirty with her space, dump her!
9) if she has more male friends and mostly seen around men, a red flag...
10) if she has no problem revealing her body, dump her...
11) if she has the "my body, my choice" attitude, dump her..
12) if she always posts too much of herself on social media, it's a red flag.. unless she's posting for business... it shows she's insecure and not confident, someone always looking for validation from strangers to feel good... that's not who to be with... date someone who's confident with herself
13) if she bleaches, dump her!
14) if she has olosho close friends or friends displaying oloshoic attributes, dump her! Nice points |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by jaxxy(m): 10:26pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
How is this a problem? It's either you could have helped if her needs were genuine and not vain or just have looked away if you couldn't help than making a story off it.
Everything isn't a RED FLAG. I actually gave her after inquiring more bt it was a red flag for me atleast until i see reasons to think otherwise. Too damn Early. |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:34pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
jaxxy:
I actually gave her after inquiring more bt it was a red flag for me atleast until i see reasons to think otherwise. Too damn Early. Let us digress, what do you think about guys who ask girls for sex under a few weeks of meeting them? Don't you think they are stupid? 1 Like |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by jaxxy(m): 10:50pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl:
Let us digress, what do you think about guys who ask girls for sex under a few weeks of meeting them? Don't you think they are stupid? For me sex is a mutual thing and of equal benefits or atleast it should be.. I don't believe In have sex where there is no love or atleast feelings and just purely money induced or animalistic behaviour. so if 2 adults decide mutually to have sex freely that's not a problem as long as no1 was forced. However if u have nothing together and trading sex it's not a criminal offence atleast in many places bt call pls it what it is Hookup and not a relationship. in circular context Adults can ask for sex anytime they have developed enough mutual feelings in a proper relationship. Sex is a mutual enjoyment thing in a relationship. Now if there are no or not enough mutual feelings and sex is requested for its a red flag in a relationship. Yes in a hookup no! |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by iInjureHerYansh: 10:54pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
Runnerzz:
They will swear even if u catch them under penis sweating and being pounded, they will still try to explain to u its not what u saw. And a man who is an imbe.cile will start doubting what he saw like maybe it's his imagination Guy You don make me laff troway phone this night |
Re: The First Red Flag You Saw In Your Relationship And Know It Will Not Last. by iInjureHerYansh: 11:00pm On Jun 16, 2023 |
LordIsaac: It was giving out her phone number to any fellow who as much as said she was beautiful. Eventually, it ended with telling a guy 'I love you too' on the phone while rubbing my head... Omo 😂 😂 😂 😂 |