Aladdin1:
Upon all the red flags na men like una go still marry those girls.

Na who marry lose😂

williaam:
Met her on Wednesday, she asked for urgent 2k on Thursday, she always needed money, maybe she thinks i'm emefele son. Called it off after one month, saying 15k every month is too small for her, that she needs someone that would always give her when she asks for money

You mean you been even wan put am for 15k per month she said it's too small?😂

Ilekokonit:


I think the sister was on night duty and I had met the bro in law at a restaurant some weeks earlier.

Now it makes sense

Rayban25:


Theres something called divorce. Life no hard like that.

Divorce is hard dear....Is not an easy thing. The trauma, stigma, segregation, psychological effects on the parties involved including the kids..

I no fit biko

jaxxy:


For me sex is a mutual thing and of equal benefits or atleast it should be.. I don't believe In have sex where there is no love or atleast feelings and just purely money induced or animalistic behaviour.

so if 2 adults decide mutually to have sex freely that's not a problem as long as no1 was forced. However if u have nothing together and trading sex it's not a criminal offence atleast in many places bt call pls it what it is Hookup and not a relationship.

in circular context Adults can ask for sex anytime they have developed enough mutual feelings in a proper relationship. Sex is a mutual enjoyment thing in a relationship.

Now if there are no or not enough mutual feelings and sex is requested for its a red flag in a relationship. Yes

in a hookup no!

You come write thesis on top simple question wey I ask.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You come write thesis on top simple question wey I ask.

my bad

iInjureHerYansh:
You mean you been even wan put am for 15k per month she said it's too small?😂

Yes, according to her, i should always give her money anytime she needs it and not that i would be making excuses

UyaiIncomparabl:


You sef no get vibe or she no dey into you.

So, asides from sex, were they no other positive features or qualities about her that could have made you stick? Was the relationship all about sex?

So it's now the guys fault for the girl being bad in bed?
Men dey suffer abeg

dmgr:


So it's now the guys fault for the girl being bad in bed?
Men dey suffer abeg

Did you not read where I said OR? Did I blame the guy totally? You suppose chop cane.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Did you not read where I said OR? Did I blame the guy totally? You suppose chop cane.

Oya come and flog me, I dey my house 😛😛

williaam:



Yes, according to her, i should always give her money anytime she needs it and not that i would be making excuses

Omo see balls na 😂

UyaiIncomparabl:


I can't deal with guys who are rigid or too principled. Everything na fight to them. They take things too seriously.

Exactly. I can't either.

You all are looking for simps

Anny69:
Exactly. I can't either.

talented321:
You all are looking for simps

And so? Y'all don't look for virgins too?

No, i am looking for a strict woman who know her value and that of her husband, not the one who care only about herself. say u get?

Anny69:
And so? Y'all don't look for virgins too?

talented321:
No, i am looking for a strict woman who know her value and that of her husband, not the one who care only about herself. say u get?

Good luck.

Na wa o, me and u come register d same day

Anny69:
And so? Y'all don't look for virgins too?

talented321:
Na wa o, me u and come register d same day

😂Well, I'm not new here sha.

Lanmon:
We banged first day she came to my house,not romantic, she no fit ride, no bj, doggy was sad, I just knew we wouldn't last

bro, most Naija girls no fit ride... U will only end up stressing yourself when she's on top bro... Telling u from experience..

And they will be complaining of orgasm, they think men are robot, any woman way no fit assist herself i if don pour matter don end, you no lie down like banboon and expect me to kill myself

Ashawoman82:
bro, most Naija girls no fit ride... U will. Ending on stressing yourself when she's on top bro... Telling u from experience..

talented321:
And they will be complaining of orgasm, they think men are robot, any woman way no fit assist herself i if don pour matter don end, you no lie down like banboon and expect me to kill myself

Lol, no mind them.. They can't last 5 minutes on top..seriously they can't Bleep, they just know how to pose for doggy or missionary na u as a man go do all the work...

brain54:
I once dated this girl…

Less than 2 weeks into the relationship. (We were still getting to know each other) She called one day…

I was too busy so I couldn’t take her call. My intention was to call back when less busy but somehow I didn’t get to returning her call.

She called many times during the day and somehow I saw the call but it was always at an unsuitable time.

I finally was free later that evening… I can’t remember if she called again or I called but the first thing she said when she/I picked was “ THUNDER FIRE YOU !“ followed by ***##%%%^^* and then more explicives. For close to a minute i calmly listened to her go on. She insulted my full generation… no one left out.

I was shocked. I couldn’t say anything because I expected her to wait for an explanation. She didn’t even allow me say anything.

She dropped the call… I didn’t call back. The next day she called to apologize (I had already seen her real character) but I never called or saw her again and the relationship died a natural death.

I no want hot tempered woman when go Dey knock my head for house Abeg.

She sounded violent too… like if I was present physically she for press my neck.

I no fit shout!

run oh 🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🏃🏾‍♂️🤣🤣🤣

Madam too fast, she can't stay for one place

UyaiIncomparabl:


Who the hell are you?

How old are you by the way? When I was birthing my kids, I'm sure your parents had never thought of consummating to birth you. We aren't agemates by any standard. You and my second born might be agemates. Look at this boy.

You this Spoilt Brat.

The Way I go Mend you when I eventually get to meet you ehn. You will so Hate yourself.

AnunmPa.

advanceDNA:
.on her way to come spend the weekend I say make she buy stuff, total of 4k ....during her visit her phone fell and screen broke when she was chatting and laffing hysterically with her friend ...she use style drop the phone under pillow on Monday when she dey go so that na me go fix am....no wahala...I help am fix her screen for 39k ...

.the werey came to my office, collect her phone on Thursday come wait till next day to ask me for the 4k ..... I just laugh send am the money.... close her file immediately.....
. Took a while for her to get the memo....she still get mind dey ask me when I go come see her aunt.... Aunt koor... Grandmother niii..

ravensckar:
Trust me that's how they behave. After buying expensive stuff for my wife, she go collect am. Thank me and still remind me sey I dey owe her 10K. I'll be like wtf? You see that gender, no human being can understand them. Just love them for who they are and leave the rest.

But you self no try nah, you for settle the debt fess, then dash her small something ontop for her patience if you still get money then buy her whatever or chill out....lol

Evolutionlove:


You this Spoilt Brat.

The Way I go Mend you when I eventually get to meet you ehn. You will so Hate yourself.

AnunmPa.

I been ask you that day whether make I drop location, you been no reply.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I been ask you that day whether make I drop location, you been no reply.

No worry.

Shebi na me and you.

I'm still contemplating on your Challenge.

I will give you Feedback at the appropriate time.

Reminderz:

ignore the red flags and suffer for it yourself! no one will be there to save you when you eventually starts crying or thinking of suicide just like many ignorant men like you!

Oh so this is where we once met.
And how does your list relate to the topic I had created?
Your mumu Don full indeed!

Therock5555:
Omoh me nah confirm red flag oh. Any girl wey do anyhow go see anyhow.

Na me be the red flag wey you go see from your girl cause na people girlfriends I dey follow, if girl tell me say she single, I'll lose interest, you must have a serious boyfriend to pickle my attention.

Ask around, I don't have shame

Girls don show me shege and me sef don show plenty girls shege promax, so nobody loses.

Anyway read my life story, "hell hath no fury" thread, make you see queen of red flags wey nearly kill me before my time

Hahaha... Bro pls add the volume

UyaiIncomparabl:


How is this a problem? It's either you could have helped if her needs were genuine and not vain or just have looked away if you couldn't help than making a story off it.

Everything isn't a RED FLAG.

Why should he helped? Is he your father?

Madam ask your father to help you. It is his duty to take care of you and not the duty of your boyfriend to do that. Stop this jezbelic manipulations it is known as entitlement mentality.

UyaiIncomparabl:


You are dense and maybe a boy in his bloom of youth. What are your own red flags? Have you sat down to make an analysis of what your red flags and flaws are? Are you perfect yourself? People who are quick to point out other people's flaws are usually the most flawed people.

When a girl has useless herself with numerous body counts, she comes up with the line "are you perfect? Nobody is perfect" just to defend her past Oloshoism lifestyle.

Madam, men are now wiser and will stick to the advice of that guy above. You cannot eat your cake and have it back. E no possible! From your comments and outbursts here, it's so obvious that lots of men don chop your kpekpus tire. Na virgin we dey find now no be expire evening newspaper