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Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by geezyk(m): 5:35pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:In this Lagos where average rent for room and parlor in a face me I face you environment is around 120-150k, unless they relocate to ogun state or outskirts of ikorodu. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
He is a very smart man. I grew up in Lagos and I absolutely detest the city. If i don't have a good job in a city like Lagos, i will move to the village in an instant with my family. I always crave for the simple and cheaper lives in the village. A lot of individuals have no business in Lagos or the cities for that matter. It is cheaper and easier to start over. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by DeeBaDan: 5:38pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
geezyk: They would get affordable housing around boundary communities. Example. Ikorodu. Arepo. Mowe. Ofada. Sabo after Ikorodu These are communities they'll get decent apartments without breaking the bank. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by malcom1X: 5:39pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Kizzygentle: This is correct. Na pregnancy dey full Villa Which village be this? |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by ictplotter(m): 5:39pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Stupid Nigeria girls, who because of urgent 5k used their future responsible husbands for a nite hookup and married their useless hookup boyfriends. Madam face ur marital woe and stop disturbing us here, if it's Canada now will you complain or tell us here. Marriage is for better or worse till death, kindly follow him to village and stop disturbing us here. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Kobojunkie: 5:40pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
highoctane:1. Let's not descend to lying now abeg! Marist was in fact a Catholic school. I know this for a fact. It was not a matter of enthusiasm but the school being out of the reach of the majority there was the problem. Most kids pined for a place in Marist back when I was there — they thought Marist kids were cool — but cost and status were against them. Stop with the desperate attempt at making this discussion about your ego for crying out loud. We are speaking here of OP's husband finding a good school in the village to send his kids to. Public schools are always there but clearly, Marist isn't a public school and is way out of their budget. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by akube34: 5:42pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Ireportlive:tell me about ur experience in kogi |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by pasuma(m): 5:44pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
God bless you and your entire generations DeeBaDan: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Konjiboii: 5:44pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
CJStarz: I'm glad it worked out eventually, do you still love and acknowledge him as a man, and does he provide now ? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by malcom1X: 5:48pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Victor2707: momsloved listen to this advice |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by lascos912(m): 5:50pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
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Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Menclothing: 5:51pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
What business is he going to village for ? Is he prepared 5k all sizes
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Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by AutoChick4U(f): 5:51pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:The man is quite d lazy irresponsible man so taking a child ain't good at all. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Zealag(m): 5:53pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
He has sense more than you, village is cheaper.You can build from the village,save tangible capital and bounce back to the city.Your only reason of not wanting to follow him to the Villa is peer pressure (shame) but I tell you for free, when hunger comes you won't mind shame at all. You staying in the city with the kids and without ur husband will only turn you to a single parent and also baby mama.Use ur head. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Kobojunkie: 5:54pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
AutoChick4U:Maybe, but OP didn't tell us that he was always that way so the man could have fallen into some kind of rut along the way — mentally that is. It is quite possible he is dealing with something that she is unaware of. Nigerian couples aren't too big on honestly communicating such things as we know. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by AutoChick4U(f): 5:54pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Cloudflare:Apart from that, is it cast in stone that married couples must procreate? Can't they plan and procreate when things are better? |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Kobojunkie: 5:55pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Zealag:So there are lots of jobs waiting in the villages then? 1 Like
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Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by isabi2lof: 5:55pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Your husband is the lazy type , this is what you get , when you end up as the man in a marriage, allow men to do their responsibilities and stop forming madam cash , you can only assist them but never take up their responsibilities. Allow him to go to the village with your first child , while you stay back and hustle, you can as well look for cheaper accommodation. It's not easy anywhere, if your parents are close by , I would've advised you to stay with them , pending the time you'll get back on your feet . |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by malcom1X: 5:56pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Caritas is a popular school na, they are in different states sef just like Montessori |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by AutoChick4U(f): 5:56pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Zealag:baby mama when she's married? Seems u don't know some men are like shackles to some women. Abeggi. Village is bad and simply reeks of failure unless the person wanna retire there 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by AutoChick4U(f): 5:57pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:She did naw. You always the intelligent one not to have spotted it. Go read the post again |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by AutoChick4U(f): 5:58pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Skyview01:That was how my dad passed on just two years of moving to the village. He wasn't sick o just pufff |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by henrimoto(m): 5:59pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
CJStarz:6 kids!! Ha! HIS GRACE alone. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Kobojunkie: 5:59pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
malcom1X:I too attended schools located in villages myself but I know for a fact that the majority of the people who were born and raised in the very same village could not afford to attend the school right in front of where they lived. Many of them had to attend other schools which they instead commuted regularly to. So, let me ask the most obvious question then. How many people born and raised right there in your village attend that school? |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by kernniejay(m): 5:59pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Acidosis:Why asking, did any contractor do a shoddy job in your village and disappear? |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by highoctane: 5:59pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: It will be my pleasure if your village may be within the OP budget. Please shift. You got no village you can be proud of. End of this discussion |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by malcom1X: 6:00pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
CJStarz: He did not abandon the kids, it was you who refused to follow him. Now he's back just showed that he was right in taking that decision. It means he is back. He's no more as broke as the way he was. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by henrimoto(m): 6:01pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
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Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by samuelson06(m): 6:01pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
momsloved: Don't go to the village with him. If he wasn't serious with his life in the city, it's not in the village that he's going to be serious. He's looking for a cheap life of rest. Meanwhile, how do you girls get entangled with these kind of men? It's very clear that you guys have different approach to life. You seem to be the man while the man appears to be the woman. Sh!t. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by malcom1X: 6:02pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You are right. But since they are just coming back from the city. They should be able to make good decisions for themselves |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
AutoChick4U: I get you. I would go to a Neighboring village. I am from Awka but will never move there. I can go to Enugu or other town different from where i am known. I can even move to Owerri but i love village life die . 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Kobojunkie: 6:03pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
highoctane:Are you so tiny-minded that you have to look for a wey to eek something out for your ego in every discussion? The post was about OP getting his kids as good school in the village. You jumped in to respond that your village had a good school only it turns out the very good school was not only out of the reach of the majority right there in your own village but also outside of OP's as well. I obviously don't need to list my village in such things since I know to consider these things before putting it forward as an example given reality. |
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