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Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Kobojunkie: 6:04pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
malcom1X:They are dead broke... according to OP. What good decisions can be made in that case? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Kobojunkie: 6:05pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
AutoChick4U:I just re-read it, she instead said he lost his job late last year. If he had in fact always been this way then the fault is majorly OP's who knew this yet decided even after to not only take in but also quit her own job. That would amount to the stupidity of the highest order on OP's part. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Subonbon(m): 6:08pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
No follow am go anywhere I just come back From village dem say make we show we show dem begin. Play village politics we no agree last last popsy kick bucket.... Dem no like good things..... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Prenonjebose: 6:08pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Tough one. You have a baby, no money to renew your house rent, he has lost the zeal to keep on. If you have someone who can assist in getting a cheap accomodation, that can help in staying back in the city. From there, you can do some menial jobs to feed yourself and the children. Tell him to go and settle first, that you would join him later. You can not go to the village and start begging them to survive. By God's grace, things will look up for you before the expiration of the rent. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Thebest12(m): 6:09pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
maasoap: Oga the only reason Lagos is Lagos today in terms of population is because of it's money making opportunities. Except that Lagos is stressful and noisy to my likeness. And that same reason i am here today. Everyday i wish i am those in the villages who lives there and makes their money over there . Bro life in the villages is very calm . The cool 😎 smell of the environment, quiet sounds of the birds , quiet sounds of the night crickets , cool natural air . Toppled by natural food ingredients. Not fertilizer process agro products that is literted here in city markets . Na there u go see natural beauty of ladies and good character wife materials . Not all these city ones way go use saclux paint paint their faces come resemble bob risky. Your mental health go day Normal. There is nothing sweeter than living in the village and the fund is in your account and it keeps coming in back to back |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by malcom1X: 6:13pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Pootle: 250k wey the man go carry go village go start farm 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by na2016: 6:14pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
DeeBaDan: Story! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by DeeBaDan: 6:17pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Odidigboigbo(m): 6:20pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Cloudflare:Baba, don't generalise, don't think that your village is like every other villages. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Odidigboigbo(m): 6:20pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Cloudflare:Baba, don't generalise, don't think that your village is like every other villages.[i][/i] |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by emmaitive(m): 6:21pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Madam, village people don remember your husband, don't go that village o 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by mukthar2000(m): 6:21pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Pretty sister pls don't be rude to him, any husband can be in this same conditions that is when most peoples around we be looking him as lazy man, give him courage pls, I understand that things was not easy presently. Seat him down talk to him, then let both quite that bogus house rent to somewhere new site to rant just a room or room and parlour instead of relocate to village, then both of u can start a new life, going to village is not the best solution. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Elidrisy20: 6:25pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
I no know say village they for u.s.a |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by maasoap(m): 6:30pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Thebest12: Why are people telling the Op not to swap city for village? Opportunities 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Loyalty1: 6:30pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
VeryWickedMan:Pls think before you write. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by maasoap(m): 6:39pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Pacesetter2021: Free things make you laid back. She can start poultry and take her livestock to the city to sell and back. She said the village is in the interior part of the state. The language barrier, the kids too, her life. So much to give up. Does it worth it? No! Sometimes everything is not hustle hustle. Sometimes peace everything. Only peace of mind is not enough. No peace of mind without money, most especially when you have responsibilities. Even if it's just planting what can be feeding them, you are at peace and will live longerEveryone should aspire to be much more than just living from hand to mouth. You have kids whose futures need to be taken into consideration. There is need to hustle real hard. We did it too |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by maasoap(m): 6:40pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
dapadawee:It has to be large scale and mechanised. Other than that, you're just a peasant farmer. And you don't have to relocate to village permanently |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Yankee101: 6:44pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Don’t try it Your husband has NFA (no future ambition) syndrome Scale to a lower priced apartment or ask your landlord for time so you return to work Once your kids go there they won’t release them to you and your children will end up like their dad or worse 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by sholay2011(m): 6:44pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Victor2707:This. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by malaria(f): 6:47pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Poster if u know ur hubby can not make life meaningful in village dont go oo. Stay put in town and find a way to make ends meet . Village life is not the best ooo 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by BigIyanga: 6:49pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
momsloved:Bring us your online inlaws.. 1 carton of Hennessy + 1 carton Glenfidich 18yrs… to judge this matter |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by geezyk(m): 7:11pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:Same thing I meant, after getting the accommodation, isn't it almost same as going back to the village? Cos there are no jobs in those locations, and will still come back to the city center. Na transportation costs and stress go kill them. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by rezky(m): 7:21pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
thesicilian: That your 3rd option is out of it., can you give such a man job?, someone that is not responsible., i would rather help the woman than the so called yeye man.. Madam., don't go with him, get a Job and take care of your kids., Na there type go show face for future to reap where they did not sow.,if possible stay away from that man forever. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Cloudflare: 7:27pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Odidigboigbo: Drop the name of your village and the state it's located let's ascertain the obvious. You go tell me whether successful businessmen we have in Nigeria were in their villages doing businesses. Una go just dey talk anyhow. Why u no relocate to your village since there are opportunities there? |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Cloudflare: 7:31pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
AutoChick4U: As the OP this question bro. Na the OP open legs knack born pekin. No be me u suppose to dey ask |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by DeeBaDan: 7:32pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
geezyk: It's not the same. Have you ever gone to remote villages you need 2-3 hours plus just to get to major roads ? |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Eyanbahose: 7:41pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
DeeBaDan:I love this take. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Eyanbahose: 7:43pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Ireportlive:I don't know about your village but mine is extremely expensive. Petrol is very high and life is very hard. I can't live in my village at all |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Powersurge: 7:43pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
momsloved: Your story looks too straightforward. If it's ends up that it wasn't as you narrated, may God forgive my contribution for not being careful enough in response. Giving the premise you provided, this man will likely misbehave the more in the village. Village also require hard work. Perhaps harder than the city. Person wey no won go work on time here fit stay from morning to night in the farm? Without proper plan, there is probability that he will become a village drunkard or playing game under tree in the village. However, note that husband is the head of the family. Because u know him b4 you married him. And you agreed to live with the consequences. The ball is in your court. But if he goes alone there is high probability that your marriage will be over within 6 months. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by PARADIZEPRIEST: 7:56pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
Every diligent man always has a plan,pray for him to go well and succeed and come back,so that you can return to normal life. Nigeria is tough now,N500per litre is not joke,transport is high.MANY PEOPLE IN COMPUTER VILLAGE HAVE LEFT LAGOS TO VILLAGES SINCE N500PER LITRE STARTED.If you have house in village go and hustle with him,manage and come back to lag. You know ya husband well,but if he is indolent pray for wisdom to get cheaper apartment here and get a job fast. You are having temporary challenge don't let it defeat you.God's Strength. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
KOMBE:Thank you Sir. Please let me send it in inbox. I don't know if it's appropriate here. |
Re: My Husband Wants Us To Relocate To The Village by iamclime(m): 8:01pm On Jun 20, 2023 |
thesicilian: This is the most practical input, as far as my humble self is concerned. I support you with one bottle of mortuarized Origin! Now, to the topic: Relocating to the village is not the end of life. We relocated to the village in the mid eighties. Even at my young age, I could remember vividly. I missed my school in Mushin. But life was better in the village, fresh foods, the opportunity to really be kids and live, learning my native language and its several dialects, bonding with family and friends. Oh, the life we had! Dad and Mom continued plying their trades in the village while we the kids picked up so many skills I can't even recount here. It wasn't all rosy, but with contentment and dedication, we survived. On the academic side, we didn't lose out either. By the time we relocated back to Lagos in the early nineties, we've had a strong foundation in both rural and urban life. The skills we learned are still useful to us till this day. And all of us did well in school. So, relocating to the village when situations demand for it is not the end of life The main question is: What's the plan? What will you be doing in the village? Are you willing to adjust to a lower standard of living for a little while? It starts with the mindset. How do you view rural life and rural dwellers? As inferior, or fellow humans with different circumstances and paths in life? It starts with the mindset. May God guide you right to make the right choice. Love and light. 1 Like |
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