Friends doesn't favour me....I love bn in the company of my kids.

UnusualEmissary:


So you don't have a man/husband too?

I don't

Keeping friends is an aspect of life you shouldn't force.

It’s a peaceful way of living, I don’t have friends too, my family are my friends…

Who friends help...

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

What are the issues based on?
Value clarification?
Arguments that leads to disagreement ?
Political, religious or idealistic differences?
Find the root cause, manage it as easy as possible and don't forget people can have opposing views and still be friends. It's all about harmony and tolerance. It's okay to lose friends sometimes, what is not okay is if they're lost because of your toxic traits which requires improvement. If they are the toxic ones and they've refused to improve, then that's a bit of a challenge. I guess you've to eventually find balance but do not lower your values and tolerate BS in the process oh.

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

Maybe u really need to master urself. Btw having lots of people around u doesn't make them friends. They probably weren't friends anyway. Me, I prefer to cut my grass very low so that I can see the snakes around me. That way I can kill em all instead of setting foot in places where they can bite me without my knowledge. Love urself the way u are man.

How I wish I could be like you. Too many idiots and animals out there portraying themselves as friends, while they are devils in disguise. More friends more problem.

labake1:

I don't

Na from clap dem dey enter dance.

There is nothing absolutely wrong with you being indoors or being contented with your own company. You’re more or less introverted by nature. Most introvert struggle to maintain friendship with other people. Unfortunately, no man is an island, you’ll need to start learning to build positive relationships and network with the RIGHT people that are mentally healthy for you and your growth as an individual. Also, learn to be a bit accommodating, we introverts are known to have a low tolerance for shenanigans. You’ll be fine, take it each day as it comes. All the best

Know your tribe i.e. your people and kind

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

Talking to an objective third party such as a therapist can help reveal issues that interfere with friendships.

scamming pipu online

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
You Just like me

Especially now that there so many fake people trying to come close as a friend

You probably have gadgets indoors also

I can sit in front of this table for days without knowing

Especially if alcohol and weed is also available

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

You have what I call "TYPE A PERSONALITY"

Some people are looking for a way to unfriend their teeming friends and op is looking for a friend to mingle...

This world no balance

labake1:


I am like that, life of an introvert
The only friends I have, are my parents and siblings
After reading all sort of books and I couldn't change, I accepted myself that way.
Besides its a peaceful life

So peaceful bro

labake1:


I don't

Because you're not open to/interested in it?

Or you are interested but you just haven't had one come Ur way?

Sorry for being so inquisitive. And if u don't mind too, may I know the state you re based in the country?

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

Are you a highly sensitive person(hsp)?

If yes, you might find this thread link below helpful

https://www.nairaland.com/7670195/highly-sensitive-person-hsp-come

OloyeVIII:

Na from clap dem dey enter dance.

E Pele Dancer

First off, you dnt need no one...
i dnt talk to my folks if it's not important.. if i'm not on ESPN watching NFL, WEM.B.A or MLB while enjoying a blunt. I'm prolly reading, sleeping or talking to me while looking at a mirror... Good kush keeps me sedated, too High to Riot!..

UnusualEmissary:


Because you're not open to/interested in it?

Or you are interested but you just haven't had one come Ur way?

Sorry for being so inquisitive. And if u don't mind too, may I know the state you re based in the country?

I am interested but I haven't met the one.
I based in Benin City

labake1:


E Pele Dancer

Did i say anything?

OloyeVIII:


Did i say anything?

I didn't hear anything o

Same here. Sadly

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

You are not alone..
Sometimes I wonder who will attend my wedding ,
Probably people from my wife's family n her friends.
Even best man las las I go rent the guy.
Then again I have peace , I'm not rich
But I'm very far from broke.

Ronaldo723:
I find it so extremely difficult to keep friends before you say Jack we have gotten issues don't know what's wrong with me


I can stay in the house for a week without my neighbors knowing I'm around


Please I need help my social lifestyle is dead

This is me..
I don't have any friends...
Nobody visits me at home.
I have always been like that.
And I see no problems with it
Instead,it has helped me a lot.
I don't depend on people
Nobody can take me for granted.
I can stay indoors all day,just me and my mobile gadgets..and now,my children

UnusualEmissary:


Because you're not open to/interested in it?

Or you are interested but you just haven't had one come Ur way?

Sorry for being so inquisitive. And if u don't mind too, may I know the state you re based in the country?

Is that a knife in yo pants? Sh!t be looking hard!!!

labake1:



I am interested but I haven't met the one.
I based in Benin City

Okay. I'm introvert too and share some similarities with you based on ur details. Like I don't have friends too. I even live alone. And I'm based in Ilorin.

Nice to meet you.

Many Are Like you.. Especially Those that do not want to keep getting into trouble with People, They Mind there Business

It is well

labake1:


I didn't hear anything o

You know wetin you know...

Everyone saying you don’t need friend I heard something from a successful man he said “relationship is the currency of life”, you don’t need many people you only need quality people you also work towards that.

OloyeVIII:


You know wetin you know...

Na amebo dey make you force me talk

This is my situation...I am my own friend now.

9jvirgin:
You're not alone. I have lived in Indianapolis for 7 years, all the people I have as friends are people I encouraged to move to Indiana. As soon as they get their greencard they quickly detach from me. As I speak I do not have ONE friend in the whole city. Some friends just need your help, they don't need you. Stay calm. When you're gloriously blessed, they keep coming back. Thank God.