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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 3:31pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
Pacyrus:Not at all. I believe in doing things in moderation. You can't be rewarded for bad behavior simple. How can you be skipping classess and going late to classess. . . .forgetting that every class takes attendance and sends to your parents? How can you be failing to turn in assignments when due because your are sleeping on 'the dark web pages' watchching 'GOD-KNOWS-WHAT' . . . .or chating with some low-lives on line all day/night long? To make matters worse, you won't cook, clean, wash your armpits or azzzes and be smelling all over my house? You just wanno sit down and be on the computer or phone 20 hours daily? In whose house? Then all my fine-fine tins. . . dem go TIEF to wrap go do 'birthday presents' for their friends? If I raid their rooms and they book bags. . . . na all my tins full inside o. *****i did that to my mom too sha. . . . Now, I know how it feels******* I have since maintained a private NO-G0 area heavily alarmed with locks and cameras. Problem solved! Make I see dem legs near my side of the house. If they wanno reach me. . . they can page me on the phone intercom system. . . shikena! |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Pacyrus(m): 4:50pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Na wao! How did they become savvy of all these Even DARKWEB Your offsprings spoil sha |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Pacyrus(m): 4:53pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
I prefer these two sites, Nairaland and LIB KanwuliaExtra: |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Pacyrus(m): 4:55pm On Jun 22, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Sad |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Psoul(m): 2:09pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra: Hahahaha😆😆😆 You really have bulk of wisdom on how to handle these kids. Maybe, we can link up if you wouldn't mind. May God strengthen us. E no easy unless you just want to be anyhow or anything goes parent. |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Psoul(m): 2:12pm On Jun 23, 2023 |
descarado: Yeah... You are right. Communication and more communication can make this less problematic for us. May God bless every good parent out there |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Nobody: 11:27am On Jun 24, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Raising kids in the States is something else... Such a huge scar |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 1:06am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Runnerzz: I say but for my GOD! You would have been reading something else. It never healed o. Now, one ikebe big pass one. Serious deformity! |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Nobody: 1:13am On Jun 25, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Hmmm But it's just the scar noticed though 🤔 |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 1:29am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Runnerzz: The scar healed, but turned into a HUGE LUMP! |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 2:00am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Runnerzz: From Worst to Bad to UGLY! I wear the badge with full honors. ! Yes o. Na ikebe be dat!
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Nobody: 2:00am On Jun 25, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra: Wow 😳 I heard that laser lump removal works like magic and it's painless too |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Nobody: 2:02am On Jun 25, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:Lol...@badge with full honors The ikebe still dey okay like that only say creating dey am |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 2:02am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Runnerzz: Nor bothered by it for real. Maybe in the future. Will just keep carrying the lump, abi na TUMOR for now! If na my head I for nack for the stairs nko? 1 Like |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 2:11am On Jun 25, 2023 |
They are BACK! Oh boy! The FILTH they brought back! I have not rested all day on my ONE DAY OFF! 1. The first thing was to empty ALL SUITCASES AND ALL BAGS IN THE HOT SUN!✅ 2. Take ALL ITEMS TO BE SANITIZED IN A HUGE PUBLIC LAINDRY. I was not gonna allow any camp-swamp thing inside my house without proper sanitation o!🚫🚫🚫 3. Straight to the salon for a goooooood shampoo and RE-LOCKING! Do✅✅✅ 4. They brought me GIFTS. . . I saw PAD BUCKETS! And will continue to inspect and COUNT TILL THEY DRY UP COMPLETELY! 5. Straight to the shower, to inspect ALL BODY PSRTS, . , . No exceptions!😎 I did not allow them to open ANY SUITCASE OR BAGS. . . I unpacked all myself. I found email addresses, phone numbers and some loose cash! We will have “discussions” about these tomorrow at “Sunday Brunch”. Make dem relax small.
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 2:19am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Oh. . . .The pad buckets! Now we can have dinner and GO TO BED!✅
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Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by Nobody: 2:20am On Jun 25, 2023 |
KanwuliaExtra:True sha... So long as it's not harmful |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 3:40am On Jun 25, 2023 |
Some will be asking : WHAT HAS ALL THESE REALITY SHOW-OFFS got to do with alternatives to spanking children? I will explain! Do not EVER allow what I say or do on NL fool you. I have been disrespected by many here. . . If only you knew half of I do offline, you will not even look in my direction. How many of you have this kind of PAWA💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿 and still spend time online to argue with both sane and insane?😂 1. You do not use spanking as a form of discipline WHEN YOU ARE AN ABSENTEE PARENT.✅ 2. Look at all the energy, time, resources and self-sacrifices I AM MAKING to ensure I do not have to use violence. We got letters from the “campers” over the last two weeks and it was extremely rewarding to see how appreciative and excited they were to be given such privileges. All the other students were from PRIVATE SCHOOLS. They were the only students that attended public schools🎉🎉🎉🎉 I had to save all that money AND STILL PSYING oooooo to sacrifice my sanity and health working nights on end to provide these treats. Now, tell me why I should spank them? They have mixed and made friends with RICH AND INTELLIGENT children from all corners of this state with VERY FEW BLACK KIDS. . . . I have raised the bars for their academic and socio-economic expectations. My job is half done!🎉🎉🎉🎉 If you don’t behave. . . . No camp! ✅ Now to reward myself for all this harrrrrrrrrd work, TIME TO PLAY!!!🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 5 tickets to see 50 CENTS. . . . You wanno come with moi? Muchechechecheche ! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UDApZhXTpH8 |
Re: Alternatives To Spanking Children And Dealing With Rebellious Tweens And Teens, by KanwuliaExtra: 6:01pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Oh yes o’! Men and women can give children proper guidance if they want to without spanking! Chores! Chores and More CHORES!!!! Dog has bed bathed! All dog beddings washed and switched out. My car is being washed! Dem go drink water taya for this hot Sun. Off to work in 4 hours, then they can know peace! Back to CAMP Monday to Friday!💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿 If you wait for ANY MAN to help you train his children, good luck. You can’t force them. They will NEVER have the time. . . . Only when it suits them.✅ I don kia! The reason I work SUPER HARRRRRRD!😎
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