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Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Roseey0(f): 4:45am On Jul 01, 2023 |
My problem is not who I married but more of the institution itself. Marriage is a whole whole lot of responsibility . Some days I just wish I held on to my initial conviction that marriage was not for me. I don't know why I listened to this man and eventually agreed to do it. I for just dey my dey. I feel its harder because we live apart and I get to handle everything all alone. Man just thinks all he needs to do is to provide , so he is basically pushing his dreams. Life is more than money o though money is a must. We move still 2 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Goalnaldo(m): 4:59am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Roseey0:where is your location let me come and keep your company? 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by TheCongo2: 5:26am On Jul 01, 2023 |
kingsley103: Are you based in the west ? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by TheCongo2: 5:29am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Xpol: And why would they say YEs if they don't mean it? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by TheCongo2: 5:30am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Noble4life: Exactly my point |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 5:38am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Goalnaldo: Didn't you read where she said she is married? Why don't you keep yourself company? 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nobody: 5:41am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Oracleee: Your head dey there. This was exactly my experience. In-law responsibly come join. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by FromZeroToHero(m): 5:48am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Yes o. I marry her over a million times again. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Capernum: 6:20am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Psoul: Then I guess I have things to learn from you. Meanwhile, I don't argue with grace. I came from a family exactly as yours, but my wife is from a complex family setting. She's a good woman though. But think about this. I introduced her to her mum for the first time. She was never with her. I met her mum before her, I orchestrated their union. It was my first Marital assignment. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by mariahAngel(f): 6:34am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Skyview01: Now that you always want to be alone, leaving the children with your wife, let's hope you will keep up the energy when you're older, and they no longer need your attention. Let's hope you don't complain when they're closer to their mother. Let's just hope you won't later say that it's their mother that has "poisoned their minds against you" to keep them to herself. You want to be a father, but you don't want to be involved, to take part in their nurturing. You think being a father is just about doling out cash for them to travel to different places, just so you can have your space to yourself? What about your wife that is always stuck with them? Have you ever wondered how she feels? If she needs a break? It's all about you you you! |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Myer(m): 6:53am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Nairalander248: Listen to married men and learn wisdom before jumping into conclusion. He regrets marrying early, your line should be to know his reason. Perhaps then you can know how to reason with him. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Myer(m): 6:56am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Skyview01: Kindly share what you miss when you say you did not have enough of your bachelorhood? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Michaelota: 6:59am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Neeeeeeeever , uptil now am still looking for how to get out, if not for the children and family members i would have sort for a divorce. But God forgive so who am I not to but I can never trust a woman again. 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Ishilove: 7:07am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Rebelutionary:People don't create topics celebrating marriages. They rather enjoy it in peace and happiness. It is those who are having marital challenges that create posts highlighting those challenges to either get advice or to clear their heads. 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by sacajawea: 7:21am On Jul 01, 2023 |
bukatyne:Ah AHH... Bukky, nigba wo lo marry? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Btruth: 7:24am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Who says Rahab wasn't a good mother & great, great, great, great, great, .......grandmother to Jesus Christ? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Bimpe29: 7:34am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Reverse is the case for me. I wouldn't have married my wife. Nice2023: 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Karlifate: 7:47am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Irunmole: She seems to be an unevolved female Scorpio ♏🦂 |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Karlifate: 7:51am On Jul 01, 2023 |
djon78: You're neither bewitched nor love her. It's sunk cost fallacy that's making you to think she'll change. It's easier to correct a child, than to change an adult. You've over-invested either one, a combo or all of your M.E.A.T, while she invested little or nothing. Sorry bro, she calls the shot. 1 Like |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by luluosas(m): 8:09am On Jul 01, 2023 |
I will marry her over and over again. Thank you |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Rebelutionary: 9:05am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Ishilove:True word. People need to do more of this cos the "bad rep" marriage gets these days ehn it will make some people believe even those who are in happy marriages are lowkey "suffering" as evidenced by some people's comment on this thread! |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:22am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Skyview01: Abeg, na you sabi jare. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by henrimoto(m): 9:32am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Ishilove: |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Divoc19(f): 9:44am On Jul 01, 2023 |
No. I realized now that marriage is not for everyone no matter how hard you try to fix things. Marriage is not for me. Was once married for 11 years, I almost lost myself, my life, I have promised not to marry again 3 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Oracleee: 10:04am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Skyview01: I'm still single though... That in-law responsibility ehn.... My brother-in-law asked my elder sister when they were dating about us her siblings as she was the first. He was asking what we do for a living etc. It became clear to me when I started dating why he was asking. 2 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:08am On Jul 01, 2023 |
abobote: And they tell women to support and build with their men when they have nothing. They build with the not-so-fine ones and start pursuing the very beautiful and attractive ones when the money comes. Men aren't nice. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by Nairalander248: 10:24am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Myer: Do I look like unmarried person to you? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:27am On Jul 01, 2023 |
pappy4real: She doesn't have to provide to be depressed. |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:28am On Jul 01, 2023 |
pappy4real: Do you know what exactly is wrong with her? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:39am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Why are people so obsessed with bad news and thinking people telling their stories here are lying? Are you guys so used to bad experiences and marriages that anyone who talks about their good marriageable experience is lying? 3 Likes |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly: 10:45am On Jul 01, 2023 |
7arrows:Why? |
Re: If You Knew What You Know Now, Would You Marry Your Spouse? by lavylilly: 10:46am On Jul 01, 2023 |
Morizo:it is well 1 Like |
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