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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by zedegit: 2:08pm On Jul 02, 2023
VinnyBaba:

There is no Gainsaying that Young Pple (Teens) need Love and Affection from the Opposite Sex as they grow Older. 🙂

For Girls, this is a MUST.
They Need Attention, Flattery and Romantic Disturbances From Guys,
the Lack of it which Makes them Feel InComplete as a FEMALE. sad embarassed

So as a Parent,
WHAT AGE WILL YOU ALLOW UR DAUGHTER TO START DATING?
I.E. HAVING A BOYFRIEND. 🤔 smiley

MINE IS 20years.

Drop ur Comments.

Nplfmod.



Most African parents shy away from such discussions. As a matter of fact, they don't believe in boyfriend girlfriend relationship because most of such relationships are not moral.

They believe that when a girl is of age, she should bring her intending suitor to them. Girls who actually do boyfriend stuff do it on code.

Let me ask you straightforward questions which requires an honest answer.

How many boys want a boyfriend girlfriend relationship without sex? Of all those who slept with her, how many would ask for her hand in marriage?

To be honest. Men who are serious go straight to the point without much drama and meet the girl's parents for consent.

Unserious boys would be sneaking about looking for who to devour and leave. Their appearance are usually flamboyant to portray affluence but don't be deceived.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by odenkirk: 2:08pm On Jul 02, 2023
pray to god to give u male children it comes with peace of mind

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by SLOVFO(m): 2:09pm On Jul 02, 2023
Nebes:
Which boyfriend?

What on earth does she need a "boyfriend" for? She is free to have friends both male and female. But boyfriend ( romantic friend) is a no go area until she is ready for marriage. She doesn't need a boyfriend to make her feel complete. She has her father and God.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by polite2(m): 2:10pm On Jul 02, 2023
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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Killermamba: 2:10pm On Jul 02, 2023
VinnyBaba:

There is no Gainsaying that Young Pple (Teens) need Love and Affection from the Opposite Sex as they grow Older. 🙂

For Girls, this is a MUST.
They Need Attention, Flattery and Romantic Disturbances From Guys,
the Lack of it which Makes them Feel InComplete as a FEMALE. sad embarassed

So as a Parent,
WHAT AGE WILL YOU ALLOW UR DAUGHTER TO START DATING?
I.E. HAVING A BOYFRIEND. 🤔 smiley

MINE IS 20years.

as long as she remain under my roof she cant have a boyfriend. you want a boyfriend get your own place, i cant stand such immorality under my roof

Drop ur Comments.

Nplfmod.
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by kkins25(m): 2:11pm On Jul 02, 2023
My 12-year-old daughter identifies as a 22-year-old adult. Therefore, She is free to do as she pleases. Please, Incase you were to come for my head, Know that, I also identify as cat. grin grin grin meow!

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Villa12(m): 2:11pm On Jul 02, 2023
garriAndsugar:
allowing her have a boyfriend or not wont stop her from having sex.. like the other poster said, sex education is very important.
I disagree. My sister was married a virgin at 24. People still keep themselves till marriage

Don't make it look like it's normal like food and water having sex outside marriage

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by johnoj24(m): 2:11pm On Jul 02, 2023
Boy what?? I won't even allow my daughter to have one. it is against my rules as a father.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by emekajacobogbon(m): 2:11pm On Jul 02, 2023
slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Grab my weed to read comments

Me nor go born female child

So make I just read comments

Fear of karma

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by metformin(m): 2:11pm On Jul 02, 2023
[quote author=slawomir post=124164808]Damnnn niggar

Grab my weed to read comments

Me nor go born female child

So make I just read comments


How you wan take do am? Wen e go be say na only male pikin you wan born.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by thesicilian: 2:12pm On Jul 02, 2023
If I had a daughter, she wouldn't dare introduce a boyfriend to the house until she's 18yrs. I'm not one of those parents who allow their children to get spoilt because of wokeness

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by ChristineC: 2:12pm On Jul 02, 2023
when in college is fine.

more importantly though...
sex education - with a clear instruction that if she get pregnant, count me out of any abortion plans.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by kareemkamil(m): 2:13pm On Jul 02, 2023
17 or 18, is okay

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Villa12(m): 2:13pm On Jul 02, 2023
odenkirk:
pray to god to give u male children it comes with peace of mind
I disagree

Pray to God to give you obedience children. My neighbour has a grown up boy in his 30s but tormenting the community and family

Those prisoners are mostly boys you know?

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by NaijaGoBetter2: 2:14pm On Jul 02, 2023
Allow?


Or when is the right time to have boyfriend

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by lordm(m): 2:14pm On Jul 02, 2023
3 days after I'm dead

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Originalsly: 2:14pm On Jul 02, 2023
At whatever age she is matured enough to control herself with a boyfriend. You may say 15 ... but at 15 your daughter may be immature have the mentality of an 11 year old ..... while the 14 year old may be more matured than her age... may have the mentality if a 17 year old. The idea of setting an age then letting your daughter loose is a recipe for misery. Girls need to be first educated about self respect ... the ways of boys and what to look for in choosing a bf..

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by SonofGod231: 2:15pm On Jul 02, 2023
I for say 18yrs coz my Dad bin say 20yrs but my two elder sisters no even reach 18yrs when men begin jump our fence dey pluck the guava them.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Gajagojo: 2:16pm On Jul 02, 2023
VinnyBaba:
There is no Gainsaying that Young Pple (Teens) need Love and Affection from the Opposite Sex as they grow Older. 🙂

For Girls, this is a MUST.
They Need Attention, Flattery and Romantic Disturbances From Guys,
the Lack of it which Makes them Feel InComplete as a FEMALE. sad embarassed

So as a Parent,
WHAT AGE WILL YOU ALLOW UR DAUGHTER TO START DATING?
I.E. HAVING A BOYFRIEND. 🤔 smiley

MINE IS 20years.

Drop ur Comments.

Were you born as an adult?
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Benwallt(m): 2:17pm On Jul 02, 2023
Rest. It's not yours to decide. Just guide n advise them. Girl child dey try. That some of them made it to university without being pregnant calls for celebration. Boys,guys, and men give them no chance from age 13 upward. If that gender narrates their experience from age 13 till 50, you will buy them gifts. The pressure is real

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by DeLaRue: 2:18pm On Jul 02, 2023
So a secondary school student can have the confidence to come home and say, daddy/mummy, here is my boyfriend sad

Waec she never write.

Jamb still dey there, yet na boyfriend matter she go enter.

A girl should at least be in year 2 of university before thinking of having a boyfriend.

Ideally, she should wait till year 3 when she has a bit more emotional maturity because many boys of that age are just out to exploit and maltreat girls.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Villa12(m): 2:18pm On Jul 02, 2023
Reminderz:
the thing is that you can't even decide if she has a boyfriend or not believe me... unless you restrict her and lock her up inside... men will always come for her especially if she's beautiful... that's nature..

the only thing you can do for her that won't make her go astray and end up as a damaged or frustrated feminist later is to instill good values in her... starting from marrying a virtuous wife and also teaching her what she needs to know about men and relationship as she grows.. don't be too harsh on her and don't be too soft either...

with your guidance, teachings and her mother's love, she will learn to understand what needs to be done... if you marry a bad woman, you'll regret it... because she will be the one to spend most of her time with her and she will definitely transfer her bad energy and personality to her and she will end up miserable and damaged...
teach her how to say NO to any admirers

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Curious345: 2:18pm On Jul 02, 2023
garriAndsugar:
allowing her have a boyfriend or not wont stop her from having sex.. like the other poster said, sex education is very important.
get her a husband like they do in the north

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Villa12(m): 2:21pm On Jul 02, 2023
SLOVFO:


What on earth does she need a "boyfriend" for? She is free to have friends both male and female. But boyfriend ( romantic friend) is a no go area until she is ready for marriage. She doesn't need a boyfriend to make her feel complete. She has her father and God.
even the so called Male friend is somehow grin

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by CountDooku(m): 2:23pm On Jul 02, 2023
At what age can you bear to see your girl child under a man while he is pumping her furiously ?

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by tnerro1(m): 2:23pm On Jul 02, 2023
The age she will finish university

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by twilliamx(m): 2:24pm On Jul 02, 2023
When she graduates university and starts work like a proper well trained lady. She can have in secret but the one I will approve is after she has done all the right things.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Maize247(f): 2:24pm On Jul 02, 2023
Your eyes can't be on playing children always. God cares for them more than we do.
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by OmoOshodi(m): 2:25pm On Jul 02, 2023
Me as early as 12--- to anytime.

In fact I will be the one to ask her to introduce the boy to me.
Step 1. I will get acquainted with the boy

Step 2. Let the boy know that if the get pregnant...he is as good as being dead.

Step 4. I will tell my daughter I don't want to see another boy aside the one I know and teach her how to friend zone the boy. grin

Finally, the boy will be doing my work for me and turn to hunter.

They may finally not marry.

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Michaelspresh(f): 2:25pm On Jul 02, 2023
23 years

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by BigDawsNet: 2:26pm On Jul 02, 2023
16...

I will tell my daughter... you can hav a bf but no sex until 20... if you do and I found out...
Just goan pack you load and move to shelter

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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Villa12(m): 2:26pm On Jul 02, 2023
Benwallt:
Rest. It's not yours to decide. Just guide n advise them. Girl child dey try. That some of them made it to university without being pregnant calls for celebration. Boys,guys, and men give them no chance from age 13 upward. If that gender narrates their experience from age 13 till 50, you will buy them gifts. The pressure is real
I swear down. I was on my way when i heard a secondary school girl shouting at a mantrying to woo her. The man should be in his 40s

Girls are really trying seriously. Yet, some do keep themselves till marriage. They deserve an award seriously

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