Wodu89:


If people keep getting needlessly suspicious of one another. Who then suffers ?

In the end of the day, cynism destroys and damages human relations along with benefits that could have come out of good relationships.

The fear of betrayal is causing as great harm as betrayal itself. The balance is somewhere in between. Today I've touched atleast a combined sum of 20-30 M in my field of trade. It was a Nairalander I befriended some years back who met me when I was dying and broke that shared tips with me. What if our friendship didn't occur how would I not have died from the hardships I faced.


Humans need one another. The over glorification of these kinds of stories ruins potentially good relationships

chukkystar:
never underestimate Ur gut feeling, if Ur gut is telling You to run from him then that's what You should do

JASONjnr:
Do people still keep friends these days?

Samantha124:
I'm sorry, but your story doesn't make sense..😂😂😂

KaptainAfrika:
Saw his message to the babe he brought to me to get a job, I was shocked, I was helping her because we are distant relative but I didn't want to let my "friend" know until after she got the job - dude was saying she should be careful with me, that I always knack the women I help, that's BS and he knew that, turned out he had the same plans for the babe. Fast forward, me, Judas Iscariot and the babe were at a garden, I bend over and remove a folder containing the babe's employment letter and gave it to the babe before informing Judas that this babe is a distant relative...Judas started choking from drinking water.
Blocked him everywhere.

Villa12:
Too bad. I guess it was the trauma of his dismissal from the Academy. Probably he wasn't such kind of a person. I sincerely feel for him despite i didn't know him. His future was ruined.

Red02:


He didn't want to lose that friendship with you, he kept anything that'll make you see him highly or disrupt your vibes.

Thats what intelligent and subtle people do to protect certain interests

todugo:

Why bring tribe to the Convo?

caandi:
I realized I’ve had very few fake wannabe friends
Reason is cos I cut them off before they could get to me
This is the reason why spirit of discernment is good
With the help of the Holy Spirit you can always tell when someone is fake and would hurt you in the nearest future
I saw these signs, cut them off and then they came back at me by attacking my mom
I was confused cos my mum ain’t their mate so why attacking the woman?!
Then I realized the envy all along

There’s one my ex course mate I reunited with the drug addict
We were chatting well
Then I complemented her that she’s adding too much weight and she needed to work on herself
I told her I understand cos it was Covid-19 period and everyone was locked in and getting fat

Omorr you needed to see the way this werey attacked me o
Saying no wonder my status nowadays focused around weight gain and fat people
That im body shaming her
That do I have a serious boyfriend? Talk more of husband?
No manner of insult this Igbo smoke dint give me

I reminded her that she was hurling insults at me meanwhile she is older than me with almost 5 years and still single asf…
Meanwhile I was to be engaged soon… she was still shocked and processing the info

Then I blocked her sorry ass.

She’s in her late 20’s now and still single asf and struggling…she used to sleep around in school so no one takes her serious….

Her story long, always missing lectures, I was taking notes for her and always defending her while others gossiped bout her in class
She later dropped out of med school…
I really regretted reuniting with her….

ComeToJesus:


Is that reason valid enough?
I think there are other reasons bro

ComeToJesus:


God bless you bro..

Reminderz:
Share your experiences...

Here's mine: I'm always happy for him, even when he opened his own store and rented his own space, in fact, I was one of the first person to get there when he celebrated his winnings... I gave him the needed support and encouragement... I realised that anytime I got my own breakthroughs, he never celebrated me or does as if he noticed them...

I later found out he was even jealous of my own winnings despite how true I was to him... I cut off the relationship before I got stabbed in the back... I didn't really know where the envy or jealousy was coming from...

Oyerinde16:
I rented a house, allowed my friend stay with me cos we still de hustle, got teaching job for him same school, earning 35k each... I no quick realize say na only me de buy food, my friend just de buy cloths, bought bold or curve 5 then, began sleeping with our land lady... They both planned to evict me...

I just travel come back, my guy say land lady has rented the room to him and land lady say she no wan see me for the house... I think say ma joke until my guy lock up de give me attitude asking me when am I leaving cos him babe the land lady say so... Being ask am, guy I housed you o... Where u wan make I go, him tell me Oha... Say him no de, make I sort my self... Las las land lady pounce on am later... E no go better for you Johnson...

professore:
can you teach me the trade?

Lisa001:
Met this lady on the road side by 10:30pm at night with a baby strapped on her back...she called me and said she came to look for a job and couldnt locate the person who.promised her the job....and she has no where to sleep...i was going through depression then cos my baby just died and her daughter is exact age as mine...i took.her in and days grew into month....along the line i came back from work one day to see a guy sleeping on my couch and she introduced as her elder bro...i knew she was lying but i played cool just cos her daughter brings baxk memories of my late child....i even had to dash her all my baby clothes and shoes and im always dropping money for her before i leave to work.
All she does is to stay at home and sleep...i was sleeping that day..when the guy asked her if i know?she immeadiately shushed the guy to keep quiet...she was always vomiting i sha know say she don get belle.....long story short came back one day to see my whole apartment empty the one wey pain me pass na my international passport wey i don dey process Japa


Human are wicked...

MissOpe:


You're obviously suffering from schizophrenia disorder...

Seek therapy.......Get help

Wodu89:


It no longer booms again

professore:
I want to learn it, regardless.

FacilitatorLekk:

He was your friend, you were not his friend.

talented321:
Na so one of manchi park few of my clothes, sha that was back then.
I no dey make friend again, many at times it does not ends Well

Cassandraloius:
Jealousy, envy, hatred, gossip, and every other evil thing you could think is what you'll get when you keep friends, I don't even keep friends, that shit ended in my university days.
We now live in a world of pretence.
My life style but some people think am living my life as if the world revolves around me. Some even said am not normal while some tagged it a spiritual problem.







Y'all should check my signature. ☺️

EMMARNUEL:
Na wa o... I had this friend that was so rich, i asked him to put me along make i de like am even if its in the long run... Nigga would rather send me 50k for upkeep than show me how to fish, i begged him on several occasion but it was futile, then i new he was a frienemy..

achimendy:





You're very correct bro, but some few good friends are ready to go any length for you.

Sirchiboy:
..
You are one of them right?

Cassandraloius:



Yeah but they're rare.

Davidcorny:
Cut off many, even one more recently. The first time I knew people weren't legit was in university, so many fake people, my whole department was fake people. From the roommate that was telling people I was trying to use money to make him a friend(up till today I don't know what that means, probably he has low self esteem) to the course mates that'll lie on things from time of exams and assignments, all I took with good faith, one even threw away the test paper someone wrote and submitted for me. I also can't forget the one that told me exam was postponed and I missed that exam. Many of them were playing smart and seeing everything as a competition. I remember when I didn't study for an exam and I brought in paper to the hall, I wrote that exam and then the next day a lecturer came to me and searched me from head to toe, even spoilt my wallet looking for expo which I didn't bring. A so-called friend was telling my fwb that I have a gf, she told me all the guy was saying and doing and another lodgemate confirmed it. I graduated with third class and ended up making over 10mil from my investment in cryptocurrency. I kept shut about it and increased my knowledge on crypto so I staked and started earning 30k daily, when I wanted to invest into other things was when the exchanges I was using, hoo, ftx and one dex got hacked, lost a lot then decided to start learning tech with the rest saved up, reconnected from a friend from school who's also learning tech, only to discover this nigga was a hater, any certificate I got and showed him he'd ignore it but will try bombard me with what he learnt, I have done over 33 projects(self projects) in tech and he's done 0, mind you I wasn't rubbing it in his face but used my mb to send him ebooks, videos, tutorials etc, I just discreetly cut him off, I know I'll make back what I lost because I'm already on the right path, those course mates who did all that don't even come into memory any more, some people from uni saw me when I made it and were surprised they always assumed I would amount to nothing.

Exodora:

This remind me of when I was in school, I was very sick that I couldn’t study, I had to stay on oral drip to gain strength. I went in with paper, my course mate told me that if I have a higher score more than him that he will report me i though it was a joke.
This was happening in my final year, results was released and I failed all three papers. This was same lecturer I used score A’s and B’s in her courses, the only time I have had C in her course was in first year first semester.
Ever since then I have never been the same. I wanted to confront the lecturer someone advised I stay cool but I will never forgive myself for taking that advice cause I wasn’t the only one that went with paper he also did. I regretted my actions cause on a norms I would still do well even if is just C for not reading cause I don’t miss her classes and assessment and am always punctual.
This incident has change me totally cause I have become so rude to people without feeling remorse and I don’t think I am going to change cause I think they took advantage of my quietness.

ifinger:
A lady I dated at work spent on her and we banged only to find out she was a spy to another guy in same office conveying our office gossip to him ! She even threatened to expose me when I found out then I seized all communication with the Baga ! Bared her on every channel