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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by emmajew(m): 4:26pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
My first daughter is as well almost 3 years. My wife and I almost running BP trying to control her. Except she is asleep, there'll be no moment of rest for anyone except she is asleep and she won't sleep till midnight and sometimes we have to be awake till 2-3 a.m. At other times when she manages to sleep 10 pm, she wakes up as we are prepping to sleep and that is goodbye to sleep for that night. My flat is now looking like the ruins from Ukraine war front. I dont even bother to arrange anything anymore. If the remote control isnt swimming in water, then somebody's phone may be in her cup of tea, then my laptop has had most of its keyboard buttons pulled up. The little freedom we can have is to surrender the phones for her to watch her cartoons on them both or nothing works. If there is light she is busy with Disney Junior with intermittently running at you for a brief cuddle. Then if the light goes of you better be at the generator shed or you get a bite accompanied by scattering the cushions. September where are you abeg, I must transfer this trouble to someone else, at least part of it. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by phemmyfour: 4:32pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
VinnyBaba:After her first degree. That's around 22. Infact, she fit marry sef 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Mrpojj(m): 4:37pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
VinnyBaba:Allow wetin? 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by MartinsD12(m): 4:40pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
VinnyBaba:This question shows we have lost all moral decadence, imagine the question allowing your own daughter to be having a premarital sexxxxxx and you make it a topic like everything is alright, any relationship that can't get to marriage is license to fornication and premarital sexxxxx, I will discourage that , if a daughter wants to have a boyfriend it's better to go get married. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Taigaban: 4:44pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
The issue is not age, but if she is ready for marriage. Because my question is what is she doing with boyfriend while in school? That is a very big distraction. Most in our time who had boyfriend's while in school didn't have anything upstairs. However they gamble their way out of school and went for service. 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Pacesetter2021: 4:47pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
My daughter will not have a boy friend but a fiance when the Lord has appointed and it has been confirmed. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by GoodGovernance: 4:48pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Age at graduation,BSc(Hons) 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Goldmaxx(f): 4:58pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Villa12:You checked your sister's virginity to insure? 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by doneback04: 4:58pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Anything female need prayers alot, for me me you can't control or decide when she is supposed to have boyfriend because even in school where she attend guys are there to disturb her and you might not know what she does after school. Female are very secretive when it comes in hiding secret or things, before the parents would get to know about her boyfriend she would have enjoyed enough penis, that why you see a small girls of 20years and their breast Is already falling before they started very Early to spoil, 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Villa12(m): 5:04pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Goldmaxx:her husband confirmed it through white piece of cloth 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by bigiyaro(m): 5:07pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
I think the focus should be on raising a mentally balanced and socially healthy girl, with a decent character. 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by OBTOREPA(m): 5:08pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
VinnyBaba:Failed parenting spotted. So you can't even advice and encourage your daughter to keep herself till marriage? You are a disappointment to God, may he have mercy on you. |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Myer(m): 5:10pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Pusyiter: What you just said is very instructive. Men are more controlled by the mind as women are more controlled by their emotions. It is important as parents to be able to win the trust of your children. When you create an atmosphere of good and effective communication in your home, by the time they become curious about such things it will be easy to engage them in sex education. Of course with prayers, they will be able to know their right and wrong. By the way, dear OP, why do you think it's ok for your child to have boyfriend? Is the boyfriend for marriage or dating or companionship? You have to properly define these words. Effective communication is the solution to most misunderstandings. Just to be clear she should only be allowed to have friends for companionship and you have to be intentional to know about the family she is getting close to. Dating as a concept has been abused. Dating is usually casual and not with the intention of marriage. So she should only have male friends for companionship not for dating. When she is ready to marry she will recognise her suitors. And she will be able to distinguish her husband. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Anny69: 5:15pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Luckysbab:It's not. I have no explanation. When I like someone and he likes me back, do you expect me to say no to him? Why don't you have a gf? 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by ofuonyebi: 5:15pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
whatever may be your take... dont forget that there is different peculiarities for different people and tribes, customs and nations all over the world one mans meat may be anothers poison.... dont also foget that there are dangerous bad guys here and there who pretends 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Westerhoffe(m): 5:18pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Anny69: He ate her in the dream, so she does not exit anymore physically. That's why. He doesn't need to thank me for answering on his behalf… 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Anny69: 5:19pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
correctyourself:Not at all. 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by correctyourself(m): 5:19pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Anny69: Ok, better. 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Anny69: 5:20pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:Clown of the year. 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Anny69: 5:32pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
SonofGod231:😂😂😂 |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by SonofGod231: 5:35pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Anny69:Mahd ohh😁 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Clinton14(m): 5:47pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
VinnyBaba: 18 years,thats what my Dad did,thats what i am going to do. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Anny69: 5:50pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
correctyourself:
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Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Benjamin4388(m): 6:06pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
I think am gonna be a good father...make every of my seeds understand the life we humans live in the plainest and simplest manner possible...no bullshit clowning around..Yeah they gonna know GOD..study go christainity,hindusm,buddahism my favourite to make them understand desire.cravin.discipline,motification..it gonna b so clear...so my daughter could have a bf in secondary school and no problem(hopefully they get only intimidating to people who isnt livin life for a purpose...itz a crazy journey but i do think even mistakes helps to mold out your imperfections...And no matter what even in prison or most horrible experiences..hey you got a dad who always love u regardless 2 Likes |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Luckysbab: 6:12pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Anny69: Of course, nothing wrong in mutual fondness. Though I think it should only be nurtured when it is purposeful. As for me, perhaps, I don’t take things too seriously in that aspect. I seem to observe I often have infatuated admirers, but I don’t push it cos I know it will lead to nowhere. I am the wanderer type and they move on when the attention isn’t there jare. Sometimes, I wish I put in some effort, it doesn’t just happen. |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Luckysbab: 6:15pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Westerhoffe: Iffa knack you plank. |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Luckysbab: 6:18pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Anny69: Good decision, I tell you.. That thing isn’t a sport. Honestly, I still wonder how people over get aroused with who they have no shared affections with. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Akerekoroabijawara(m): 6:32pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
When she is ready to get married. 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by VinnyBaba: 6:40pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
MartinsD12: You can't hide ur Head in the sand and run away from the Truth. Most Teenage Girls, like their Male counterparts have High sexual Hormones.🤔 Also due to Peer Pressure and media, Many of them crave Being in a Relationship with Guys.😕 As a Parent, you should set a Time Frame for them to have Boyfriend. Then give them guidelines on the Relationship. 🤨🙂 No need for Pretense, here! 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Anny69: 6:49pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Luckysbab: You're right. My current relationship isn't just for fun; we plan on telling our parents about us after uni. I just hope they approve our relationship. 🤞 As for me, perhaps, I don’t take things too seriously in that aspect. I seem to observe I often have infatuated admirers, but I don’t push it cos I know it will lead to nowhere. I am the wanderer type and they move on when the attention isn’t there jare.I understand you. 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by VinnyBaba: 6:49pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
OBTOREPA: A Daughter can actually do that. It is Quite Possible for a Girl these days BUT it's very Rare. 😕 Many Girls of 16, 17,18yrs naturally want to involve in Boyfriend and Girlfriend stuffs, Even if there is No sex in the picture. 🤨 They just want the Experience. The Guy's Calls, Quarells, Drama from competitors, etc. 🙂 Any Father that Tells his Daughter 'No Boyfriend or Sex till Marriage' is KILLING that Girl. 1 Like |
Re: As A Parent, At What Age Can You Allow Your Daughter Have A Boyfriend? by Anny69: 6:54pm On Jul 02, 2023 |
Luckysbab:😂😂He vexed.. |
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