₦airaland Forum

blazepascal:
You are just frustrated..you end line expose you ..no girl will prefer to marry a simp..

jubrilELsudan:
I WILL MARRY YOU

MrBroke:
Why do people have this mentality that children are an investment. So is it that people are only taking care of their children hoping for a vice versa when the time comes. That is a very shallow thinking.

360command:
girls love simp who they can control thereby creating new simp generation which is what we are experiencing today. To hell with your nonsense.

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT NONSENSE #1
you should treat EVERYONE well, and everyone should treat you the same... but if a man brings everything to the family, then it is obvious that he will demand for a certain VALUE/RESPECT/RECOGNITION from everyone he is supporting (whether it be his wife or family members).
many rich men treat their wives like slaves because they know that this woman cant do shiit about it (as she will stay married to this rich man, even if he was the reincarnation of lucifer).



ARRANT NONSENSE #2
A) if a man is "polygamous in nature" and let his wife know about it STRAIGHT FROM THE GET GO (and wifey agrees to marry him), then technically, when he goes to look for other women, that is NOT cheating. thats just him being who he said he was. you cant marry a lion and thereafter expect it to act like a sheep.
B) a polygamous men wouldnt care whether his wife abandons him or not as he can easily get another one, two or even three.
C) polygamy is perfectly legal in Nigeria



ARRANT NONSENSE #3
generally, most polygamous men in Nigeria live with all their wives and children under the same roof... so i dont see how this will affect this man from showing love/responsibility to his children.



ARRANT NONSENSE #4
you are entitled to your opinion and decision to marry a simp, just as much as many women out there are entitled to their opinion and/or desire to be in a polygamous marriage.
TO EACH THEIR OWN MISERY IN LIFE!

FINAL ARRANT NONSENSE
cheap women like you (who solely value men for the money they have) are the easiest one to entice into a polygamous marriage... aint you the one who wrote the below:

Adachizzy:
Nice writeup but the line you talked about a wife taking care of a man when old age comes, I disagree with it.

There's no guarantee that a man will always be the one to be carried around in old age. There's also no guarantee that he'll be the one to die first. There are women whose husbands take care of them and their age related sickness.

All in all, men should treat their wives well because it's the right thing to do and also to maintain a healthy and peaceful home. Nothing beats coming back to your peaceful space.

Men o, women o, respect yourselves. Tomorrow is pregnant.

Adachizzy:
Nice writeup but the line you talked about a wife taking care of a man when old age comes, I disagree with it.

There's no guarantee that a man will always be the one to be carried around in old age. There's also no guarantee that he'll be the one to die first. There are women whose husbands take care of them and their age related sickness.

All in all, men should treat their wives well because it's the right thing to do and also to maintain a healthy and peaceful home. Nothing beats coming back to your peaceful space.

Men o, women o, respect yourselves. Tomorrow is pregnant.

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

talk2hb1:
Gender Biased Post, Husband doesn’t deserved to be treated well ahbi

Reminderz:
you're the only one who commented right... you see that OP up there, is just a self proclaimed clown 🤡 we all know here.... she's just heartbroken, frustrated and lonely...

shey na only men dey get sick or na only men dem dey abandon? your last statement where you said a man and a woman should treat themselves well is the ultimate point because a man can still treat a woman well and end up being abandoned as well... most times, due to the fact that women are unpredictable is the reason why some men marry more than one wife to avoid bullshits like this in the future, at least if one leaves, one will stay...

and please, a man marrying more than one wife and taking care of them and the kids is not an act of irresponsibility... it's not the same as sleeping around or having side chics... in fact, it shows he's disciplined... as long as he carries out his responsibilities...

OP, go and heal yourself, men are not the cause of your problems, you're solely responsible for the choices you make in life...

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

Adachizzy:
Nice writeup but the line you talked about a wife taking care of a man when old age comes, I disagree with it.

There's no guarantee that a man will always be the one to be carried around in old age. There's also no guarantee that he'll be the one to die first. There are women whose husbands take care of them and their age related sickness.

All in all, men should treat their wives well because it's the right thing to do and also to maintain a healthy and peaceful home. Nothing beats coming back to your peaceful space.

Men o, women o, respect yourselves. Tomorrow is pregnant.

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

pocohantas:
Naso. Then when they are sick, same wife would be the one to take care of them. By then all the sidechicks are gone.



Most men take their sick wives back to her people. Even their own sick parents, they bring them over with the plan of the wife doing the caregiving. The only time Nigerian men are okay with caregiving is in the UK. Because they get paid for it.

Men are also older, so they get weaker first.



You are comparing Obasanjo, an ex military man and democratic president, to you and your fellow redpillers, that take colos, can't afford old people care and have never done two push-ups in your life.

I wonder how you guys earned the logical tag.

tollyboy5:
Not every relationship is the type of ned nwonko. besides husband that show lesser care to their wife always show more care to their wife's parent to appear as good in-law.

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

Reminderz:
you're the only one who commented right... you see that OP up there, is just a self proclaimed clown 🤡 we all know here.... she's just heartbroken, frustrated and lonely...

shey na only men dey get sick or na only men dem dey abandon? your last statement where you said a man and a woman should treat themselves well is the ultimate point because a man can still treat a woman well and end up being abandoned as well... most times, due to the fact that women are unpredictable is the reason why some men marry more than one wife to avoid bullshits like this in the future, at least if one leaves, one will stay...

and please, a man marrying more than one wife and taking care of them and the kids is not an act of irresponsibility... it's not the same as sleeping around or having side chics... in fact, it shows he's disciplined... as long as he carries out his responsibilities...

OP, go and heal yourself, men are not the cause of your problems, you're solely responsible for the choices you make in life...

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity

TheGift:
I know a Man who says he doesn't let his wife touch His laptop, I asked why. he said She was a bush Woman. I said "so you don't want your wife to advance and have sense, how wil your children have sense.?"

My Nanny's husband abandoned her and grown teenage children to chase after side chicks, for years. Recently he was diagnosed with liver disease and is really sick, no money even for palliative treatment. All those side chicks have abandoned Him. Guess who he called in his greatest time of need, guess who is now sending him small change and travelling from Lagos to Ibadan every weekend to go and care for him.. You guessed right.

The problem with so called alpha male is that they constantly see themselves with reference to other people, thus they can only feel on top, if they are putting others down.

But the most foolish alphas are the ones who put their wives and the mother of their children down. It is themselves that they are doing.

I see myself as a sigma. A lone wolf. I March to the beat of my own drum. I am too unique and secure in who I am to be in competition with anyone , talk less of my life partner.

I treat my Wife and mother of
My child with love and respect and my life is so
Much wiser,richer, beautiful and peaceful for it.

pocohantas:
Most Nigerian men are older than their wives. Ned is the extreme. It shouldn't even come in here, but majority of you go for women you are WAY OLDER than. If you were marrying your age brackets, there would be no "evening newspaper" jabs. No, they don't show more care to their inlaws. Most Nigerian married men do not even call their inlaws - FACT. It is the wife that would be sending imaginary greetings from her husband

tollyboy5:
Yes most husband do not call their in-laws but whenever their wife goes home to see her parents the same husband gives her transport and money to buy other stuff. You hardly see a woman going to see her parent without getting money and consent from her husband.
Besides what lead to the evening news paper tag never came from guys, it came from culture. Don't put the blame on on innocent guys. No normal lady will want to get married to a hustling guy that has not achieved much when there are older guys flashing money and some do consider the financial pressure from their home.
So the family give consent to marrying older guys that seem to be doing well lol. Years later after many failed relationship and the final shipwreck they become evening news papers and their age mate guys will want to go for better offer.

Even the girl i loved then is married with kids.

And now i'm carefully searching for someone younger

Animegirl:
If you believe in the concept of an alpha male or superior man, it is essential to understand that treating your partner with respect and care is vital in maintaining a healthy relationship.

If you don't treat your wife well, how do you expect your wife to take care of you when old age sickness comes? Funny, how most men deceive themselves by saying "my wife is not my family" if you have such mentality you're a fool.

Similarly, subscribing to the notion that all men are naturally polygamous does not justify cheating or engaging in unfaithful behavior. Cheating on your partner can lead to severe consequences in the future, including the possibility of being abandoned when you need support the most.

Furthermore, having multiple partners and not taking responsibility for your children can result in strained relationships with your offspring as they grow older. Neglecting your parental duties may lead to your children not providing the care and attention you might need when you reach old age.

Infact I rather marry a simp, who loves me and take care of my needs than marry self proclaim Alpha and Omega with so much toxicity